About your observations on privacy, Marci, and the pressure from curious people and how you resist the bullying remarks from trolls, your children are learning from you an extremely important lesson about never knuckling under to aggressive people and about standing up to negative, destructive verbal attacks. Good for you!!
I'm so glad Freya's procedure went well. It's unfortunate that people can't be more kind & respectful. But know many of us appreciate you allowing us to spend time with your sweet family. Take care.❤
Much respect to you Marcy for making it clear to all the nay sayers and people with bad intentions of your stand with all your kids! Enjoy hearing of all your families adventures . All cute and such well behaved kids! Freya’s a true beauty!! Love her
Can’t believe someone would have the audacity to ask that kind of question. That’s the thing about making a plan -you can get on with your life knowing there’s a plan and not having to worry about it again. Good for you!❤
I think thats such a personal and private conversation that you have within your family or people you trust. That is overstepping and its so great that you voiced your boundaries and that you decide what you are wanting/willing to share. Just because you share part of your life and family doesnt entitle people to know everything about your life. ❤❤
You are so right, Marci, it is your choice what you decide to share, ever. Not a follower's who thinks you should share something. ) : No one has the right to know everything about you, Freya, your family, and your life! I agree with you wholeheartedly! You are so smart and handle your boundaries perfectly for your family and you! ❤️❤️❤️ OMGGGG! I love Freya's outfit and hair sooo much! ( : She looks so adorable! ( :
Praying all goes well! 🙏🏻♥🙏🏻 I have never really read other comments but I was taken aback when I watched this video and discovered someone would call you (Marci) names! I love your response and your boundaries with your precious family! You are a wonderful mommy and you just keep being you!
I think you’re a great mom to all your children. I enjoy your videos so much. Thank you for sharing your beautiful family with us. In my experience, people that are critical and judgmental are jealous and insecure. Honestly, because of Freda, I’ve been watching videos of other children with CLDS. Freda is definitely the cutest, and happiest!
She is so cute ! you look great for your age you are a beautiful woman! These days, I don’t think I’d wanna leave my child anywhere by themselves. We can’t trust anyone anymore.😢
Your little girl is positively a ray of sunshine You have a beautiful family and your videos gives us a look into your life with a special needs child Great videos
Hello Marcy. Glad Freya's procedure is over now. She's always a little sweetheart 💗 As far as those asking personal questions, that's going way too far! Absolutely none of their business. Some obviously don't think before they speak. That was super nice of the anesthesiologist to let you hold Freya till she went to sleep. That's pretty rare, but so cool. Can hardly wait until your next video 😊
I love Freya's hair like that. It's so cute! Liam is such a great big brother! I'm so happy everything went well. Especially the anesthia. Hopefully you can enjoy the rest of the week! I love watching your vlogs🧡
I’m glad it all worked out for you. Liam is a great kid - just goes with the flow like his mom. You don’t show your stress so kudos, Marci! I hope you get a good night’s sleep because you probably need it. Interested to hear how the testing went later. ❤️🇨🇦🙏
Thank you for taking time to share your very stressful moments with us. You’re a beautiful caring person. God does knows who can handle the special needs children. That’s why you’ve been given a blessing such as Freya. I hope all is well with Freya.♥️ 0:39 0:39
I am in complete agreement with you regarding your privacy, etc. I could never ask someone something like that. Unless it was my friend that I've known for 40+ years! So glad to hear that all went well and anxiously await what was learned. Love to you all!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Well done, Marci! People like that are not curious, imho, they’re being blooming nosy! I think your blogs are brilliant - they’re informative and show the downsides and also the upsides of being a ‘medical mom’. Please keep on showing us your beautiful Freya and your fab family. Love and hugs from Scotland 🏴 x
My great niece had that surgery and they removed them at one point and she hears fine now. She went to Jack Nicholas childrens hospital. They were amazing. I so glad Freya popped up in my feed again I love seeing her and the family. Marci don’t waste your time on negativity bc you are an amazing human and your family is lovely. Take good care 🤗😘🫶🏼
i totally agree with you on protecting her privacy, just brown nosers. keep up the great work being a great mom. you look great for your age, hope all went well with her procedures. Awesome job using her lucky arm on that toy. love how you did her hair, to cute. OMG that was beautiful scenery. Much love from Oklahoma
I wish I could meet you in person someday. You inspire me so much! I appreciate your strength, your positive outlook, and your decision to set firm boundaries. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. I look forward to your videos so much!!
Thanks for sharing your video 😊❤ I love Freya's hair and her cute outfit she's Adorable 🥰❤ 🥰❤ !!!! And thanks for sharing your family with us 😊❤ HAVE A BLESS DAY TO EVERY ONE ❤🙏🥰♥️🙏🥰🙏♥️!!!!!
You’re amazing mommy to Fraya and I can tell she knows it to!!! Don’t listen to the haters because you don’t have to share everything she deserves privacy!!!
15:20 at various nurseries, I've seen those ring's but never seen the stand😢 it's actually more fun than I thought, with all the parts... I will now keep my eyes peeled for the missing bit.
I’m looking forward to hearing the results. Liam is such a great young man and so kind to keep you and Freya company during such a grueling three days. He looks like a clone of Chris to me. Can you just delete the unkind and/or overly nosy messages you receive and perhaps even block those people? My mother used to say, “It takes all kinds to make a world.” Frankly, I am amazed but grateful that you share as much information about your family, Freya and CDLS as you do. It is super kind of you to let us into your home and family life.
Good for you Marcy for sticking up for yourself and your family and Freya and all of that I wish her the best in this and lots of love to all of yous and prayers❤
Freya is very, very cute. You and all your family are very nice . I admire you and your husband the way you raised your kids. So happy that Freya is good. Sorry for my english , I am from Peru 🇵🇪. Good luck and don’t listen to negative people.
Just reading some comments people make and questions they ask on RU-vid and social media makes you wonder how some people were raised, and also makes one concerned that many of those ignorant "adults" are role models teaching their own children how to behave that way sadly. I've had 3 of my children have surgeries, and they always let me hold them as they laid on the bed when they put them under. It traumatizes me, but helps them. Glad it went well and it's over now for you and Freya.
I watch another channel every now and then of a little boy who has the same disease at Freya has and she is like 99% better as far as being able to sit up play with toys I mean it’s like two totally different kids. His is a lot more more serious than hers because, he also has a brain disease, but he’s such a beautiful young child. He has a great mom just like you.😮❤🎉
Who knew that an electric toothbrush could be so entertaining. 😁 Some things are nobody else's business and people should respect your boundaries when it comes to your family.
Time to take a deep breath Marci.😊 I understand the stress of the leadup to procedures and then the stress of the anesthetic. Freya had no infection - thanks to your vigilance - and her procedure went well thank God. Time to get back to the summer bucket list. God bless.
Marcy I dnt comment for people to like what I say every time,I comment because it's for you and you beautiful family &I just think Freya is the cutest little girl ,strong ,smart ,learns new things all the time and has so much love from you guys .it's heartwarming .your amazing parents and your Fiona ,Jesse and Liam are the best kids ❤ take care you guys til next time Freya goes threw so much she's a tough little girl .
Big Hugs Mama, Frayer Liam Dad and the Girls , were marvelous. And yes your so right it takes days to come down from the stress , from before , during and after you must be shattered. Keeping 🤞 that everything turned out well For Frayer. Oh and hope that Jessie is feeling better too, since know you have been having that too to deal with as a family. As far as individuals asking personal questions about the future, your right the way you handle that and then, found things like that with individuals myself where certain individuals just do not respect boundaries like that and boy do you have to learn to be firm with them and sometimes have to cut things off with them, so funny since many individuals who do that wouldn't like anyone doing it with them , oh well enough on that. Sending lots of healing prayers to Frayer , Jessie and You all🎉 ❤😊 Keeping fingers🤞
Liam is my guy! He’s an awesome big brother and son! So wonderful with all of his sisters! Marci, my sister is medically complex and disabled, and my momma has been enduring terse and inappropriate questions like this for many years. She will not allow a trespass as to what will happen after the passes away as she is my sister’s primary caregiver and a retired nurse. There is a plan and it’s no one’s business except the immediate family. She doesn’t like to think about dying and leaving her children. One other thing I wanted to share is that as a mom, I too, draw boundaries as to what I will share. A relative was badgering me at a family party one day about my daughter (who is now 15) and her potty training etc. I turned to my little one and asked her if it was OK for me to share a story with auntie about a recent event, told her which one, and she said yes it’s OK. My aunt turned to me and said why are you asking her for permission? You’re her mother you can say whatever and I disagreed. I said NO it is NOT my right to share my daughter’s private moments to someone that might cause her embarrassment while she was there. Same as why I didn’t have her ears pierced as a baby. That is her body and her decision and when she was 6 she asked for earrings and understood she had to care for them. My aunt is slightly out of touch and tone deaf, but her continually needling me was just not acceptable. I drew my line in the sand and asked her to please just be respectful, and I’d be happy to share at another time. I don’t ever mind sharing so I can learn a new perspective, but not to be berated. I stand with you 100% much love! I’m thrilled the procedures went well for your little darling!
I'm glad she did good with the surgery❤ I'm glad you're handsome son was helping you that day he is a great big brother ❤😊❤ see y'all😢 in the next video
I can't believe somebody would ask such a question that's very personal😢 I will be praying for Freya❤😊❤ you are a great Mama Marcy and you have such a wonderful family❤ now I'm going to finish the video❤😊❤
Hi sweetie I hope everything goes well with the surgery frays having no matter what kind of surgery she's having best of luck and your in my thoughts and prayers ❤❤❤
You have lovely skin looks great and you have freckles. Wonder if Freya will have freckles .how even more cute would she look .but she's gorgeous anyway .❤
Marci, asking anyone their what if plans is taboo. As you said, strictly limited to close family, close friends, and close CDLS friends. Need to know basis. Not complete strangers. I missed your short. But, went back and watched. I was stunned that anyone would have the unmitigated tumerity to venture into such a private subject. It’s also macabre. Stand your ground.
Hello, Marci. I understand that as a mother, there's things that you can say but there's things that can't say (privacy only) you have your point of view and I respect that? You are looking after your children health and are really important to you. I have been following your videos and your family, but most of all, Freya is such a qute and beautiful little girl. I love to give her a big hug, I feel sad about her health issues it really touches my heart. My 🙏 to little princess Freya and to all of you ❤.
Ignore the trolls. They are not worth it. Freya was so cute in her outfit, and I love her hair braided. I'm so glad you're home and rest. We are going through a heatwave, and our A/C took a dump.so, needless to say, it's 10:30 mst on Wednesday and I'm thinking about sleeping on the floor in the family room. We have a winsow unit we put in.
If I ever see anyone being mean in the comments I report them, if they get several such reports they will put their channel on hold and investigate, if they find they have been abusive they will shut down their channel…..at least until they start another one using vpn to block their IP address. Still, if it keeps happening it will frustrate them. Glad to hear it all went well through surgery, thank you for sharing with us .🥰🙋🏼♀️
I appreciate you sharing about your child, but totally agree that you don’t share everything. As a teacher of students with profound and complex needs, it helps seeing what services she receives . I find your vlogs helpful. Freya is such a cute 🥰