So relatable :( I used to have friends, but over time our friendship ended. Now I'm 24 and I realized that I don't even have a one friend and I have no idea where to find them
Думаю, дело в Лос-Анджелесе🤔 бывают города, приспособленные под определенный вид деятельности (учеба, работа, развлечения, тусовки) и получается так, что скапливается определенный пласт людей, нацеленный на это. В итоге в ЛА элементарно может быть так, что большинство людей не нацелены на что-то серьезное в плане отношений, а хотят больше развлечься и провести время в свое удовольствие, не беря на себя обязательства о отношении кого-либо. Ну, это просто моё предположение, так что просьба относиться скептически 😅 Очень рада новому разговорному влогу 🥰
Sending you so much love because I’m also in the same boat, I sometimes wish I had friends who I can 100% relate to and share common interests, so I understand how that feels. I’m glad to know I’m not alone, I think finding good friends takes time. In the meantime, doing things we enjoy will hopefully lead us to those people who we connect with on a deeper level 💕
It takes a lot of courage to open up and to be honest. The end was emotional🥺. Love your personality a lot! Ruslana.. 🤍 I truly know you're an amazing person.
i relate to u so much, honestly as i’ve gotten older & have become more aligned w myself, i have realized that it is so important to be very intentional w ur time & energy and who u choose to give it to, bc at the end of the day, it will ultimately lead to how u live ur life. u r a beautifully unique & special presence on this earth, and not everyone deserves to have access to u & ur time n attention. so just rmb to honor ur worth & value, and only do things / make friends w those who truly bring genuine love & peace to ur soul, uplift u, and see u for who u rly are.
Im so agree with you. If u tired to be friends with someone who means to you. Maybe stay alone is better. But i never alone i have books, my dogs and series. 😂😂
Эх, Русланочка... Помню как смотрела тебя году в 2016... Сейчас увидела в рекомендациях твой канал❤ Почему-то и раньше был какой-то вайб lonely и лёгкой грусти💔 Очень тебя понимаю. Может это наше испытание - научиться быть наполненной и полностью довольной в своей собственной компании ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
When we were kids all our focus was play and fun. This is so vulnerable of you to share this. I moved New York 6 years ago and during those years my friends group changed every 2 years. As much as we change people around us changes as well. Needing people is totally normal, as humans we are hard wired to be connected. Every group is part of our soul. I have fun friends that I go out with them, another group to go to spa and brunches, another group that they deeply know me, people who listens my all dark secrets. Sounds like you know what type of connection you are looking for hopefully you will find or those people will find you❤ wish you the best.
Love this video, some of what you said is pretty much exactly what I've thought about myself too! And we're about the same age and same place in our lives so you're not alone! I'm sure there are some great friends waiting out there for you that are genuine ❤
Girlyyyy, trust me there's nothing wrong with you! Don't settle yourself for less than you deserve. I believe there's more to you than just what people perceived you to be. Continue to be your most genuine self. I can relate to you when you said you used to be the type of person where you can be friends with everybody, and that's okay! the more we grow older though, the more we wanted to preserve our energies to the people that are important to us. Trust me, you are beautiful the way you are inside and out
Loved the vlog, the energy is so calming, you should do it more often😌 and thank you for sharing how you feel about friendships, this is really relatable for me right now. I am an open person and like meeting new people but almost no one stays for long and it feels like something is wrong with me. I would love to have real close friends to have deep conversations and do fun things with. You are such a nice sweet person, Ruslana, I wish eventually you will find someone who truly appreciates you, sending lots of love❤️
Красота в каждом кадре ❤ Спасибо большое за такой прекрасный и душевный влог 💫 А настоящих друзей по правде говоря не может быть слишком много, лучше иметь несколько но действительно преданных и дело не в тебе это люди просто такие попадаются разные, так что по этому поводу даже не стоит заморачиваться 😉
Thank you for sharing your realistic experience with making friends in your life, I thought I was the only one but I guess many of us goes through this processes, in the end it always makes us more insightful of our own self and it makes it easier to let go. Love your vlogs it honestly feels so real as if I’m reading your spiritual journal🫶🏼I’m sure you’ve heard a lot about your beautiful appearance and so true you’re really beautiful but you’re so pretty from the inside too🩷💗
I love you Ruslana! I have been watching you since your vlogs in Turkey and I never stopped running to watch a new video when you posted. It feels like you’re my best friend at this point even though you don’t know me! All of your followers appreciate you and we see how beautiful you are inside and out and dying to meet you in person!! Лю 🤍
Your productive days in LA unveil a vibrant tapestry of self-care, artistic pursuits, and the joy of socializing. It's like diving into a canvas where each day is a brushstroke of varied experiences. This lively journey resonates with the rich moments of self-discovery I encountered during a transformative retreat in the Philippines with my lifecoach, Lisa Haisha. Your commitment to balance and creativity, much like her teachings, fuels my inspiration on a dynamic path of growth, authenticity, and personal greatness!
The same situation in England with frends unfortunetly( You actually met someone really good, kind or the same point of wiew for lots of stuff but to spend time together or to try to know deeply each other...no.
This whole problem of highly sensitive people who perceive the world in a completely different way. This is the ability to see more and analyze more deeply. I think many people here understand Ruslana (I'm also in this topic)
Dear Ruslana, I been watching you grow since before you started your youtube channel, and i want to tell you that i never saw you changed in a bad way, you remained the same kind and simple girl. Finding new friends is always a struggle, but i am sure that a pure soul will attract people it needs and protect from others. I wish you all the best and do not be sad about, a bit of cliché, but it all happens for a reason to protect you
I feel the same. Some friends having kids/ family and others kinda filtered out. Now I don’t have close friends at all. And I am getting very comfortable with myself and my own company. Im kinda scared ..what if I will never have close group of friends with who I can travel,share my thoughts and just have fun. I also agree finding a new friend is so much harder in adulthood:(
It is harder to make friends as you get older, but one of the main ways people build bonds is by having shared experiences, or going through something together. It doesn’t mean something hard or bad, just going through an experience together. Maybe try volunteer work in something that interests you, all the people you meet will have genuine intentions in being there, and you all get a shared experience together. That builds strong bonds over time.
Hi :) I 100% understand what u r saying, I‘ve always blamed my loneliness on my shyness and started to try to be more extroverted to meet people and at first I was surprised by the fact that people would spend time with me me. But: I ended feeling the loneliest I‘ve ever felt in my life bc there was no one there who actually cared about me, or understood me. I felt so strange and bad about myself, a feeling I didn’t have spending me time doing things I enjoy. What help is watching videos like ours, it gives me hope that there are people out there like me even if it’s on the other end of the world. Even though we will never meet, the fact that I‘m not alone cheers me up (: ❤
U seem like a genuine person and sadly people will always try to take advantage of that, and you will never get why bc you just to pure to mistreat someone like that but let it happen to yourself. Trust your guts, don’t let people hurt you because you wish for a true friendship. True friends are so so rare. I’m lucky enough to call a girl my true friend and she has a good heart to but also this let her to immense pain bc people treated her badly. Most people are struggling and sadly a lot are unwilling to face their problems and take it out on someone else bc it’s seem easy at first. A Tragedy of Humanity.
Just wanted to tell you, that just because it feels a lil bit treaky to make new friends, doesn't mean there's something wrong with you. I feel the same way and I think it's just it now, it's hard to find somewhat meaningful friendship as an adult. But you know what? Let's just not give up and stay positive about ourselves and ppl around 💓
I can't agree anymore. I used to have so many friends, but unfortunately not anymore .just because you've good intentions doesn't mean everyone has and they use you and when they no longer need you leave you behind and use your secrets to hurt you more.
I like the atmosphere of your video🥰 I’m a Russian girl and I’m learning English, I didn’t understand most of it, but I look for English to sit in my head😂 To learn English, I’m even looking for a friend or girlfriend of an English speaker to communicate with him in English 🥰
I also always thought like you, maybe something is wrong with me. But this is so wrong, always stay true to who you really are, everyone who wants to be next to you will be worth you.
I think it isn't you or La because I feel the same.. I live in Poland in smaller town and I think in an adult life it's just hard to make a new friendships.. :( I'm 25 and a lot of my friends have kids now and they don't have so much time for me like in the past.
I ve loved your videos as always but I could really feel you are feeling lonely since the beginning of the video even before you talked about that:( I really think we would have a so similar vibe, sadly I dont live in US, but I'm sure sooner or later you will find people matching to you, just a matter of time and in the meanwhile you can always spend good quality time with yourself:))
i think it’s the wrong place to be. there is nothing wrong with you, it’s the place, people and the energy that is suppressing your true self. I went through the same time of my life recently, until I traveled to a new country and realized many things. love you girl, i have been watching you since your russian channel. все будет хорошо 💙🧿
