We cannot rely on just a moment rather on what would work better, more often times than not we are deceived by attraction, and do not look into practicality.
Yeah, when they both said that it was really down to two, I thought they both were thinking Naz and London. I was so surprised when she kept Jasmine and got rid of Naz.
Everytime he looked at Naz, it was so evident he was attracted to her and their conversation was great. I would have picked Naz. I think the matchmaker was just stuck on banter - maybe she should have picked up on non verbal cues
It's as if you're all forgetting the point of a matchmaker, to look past just physical attraction. Once you have experience dating you realize the best choices are not the people you had a crush on/ were initially attracted to solely from looks. That relationship would be based on lust. The matchmaker chose the right person based more on chemistry and substance
@@oftheHowlWas it based on substance and chemistry though? She said herself that although they had a lot in common, the “banter” and lack of push and pull was the reason she was eliminated. 🤔
felt like they could be best buddies but not romantic for me with London. obv with Naz the communication was held back a bit, they got too excited during that or shy or whatever you call that little awkwart thing, when you really like someone, and you dont know if they like you back or what is going on exactly, so you just go weird. :D
ngl i could tell Dylans type was not London the whole time, the best option was so clearly Naz. I also wouldve swapped Madisen into top top5 with Melissa.
@@genovasquez8361 probably but doctors definitely do. med students are always married in their final years. and anyway shes a nurse and hes a doctor so they arent the exact same.
@@candysweet434 I think it's overall attraction. She is going for two things Physically attraction Mental attraction For us men your mental is 25% It's important but we will go for a woman who is prettier 75% of the time. Because looks matter She has a face that he would want kids with
London was great, easily the second best girl in the video, but no one came close to the matchmaker - she's stunningly beautiful, so engaged in what she does and so cute. I'm not sure she's a great matchmaker though, as I assume everyone would just pick her ;).
I like this style of video more than the usual! Having the matchmaker there really seems to make people more comfortable somehow, and it creates a better storyline than the person awkwardly doing it all themselves. Definitely do more like this one please!
I actually support the matchmakers choice. He and Naz are so alike. London would bring him outta his comfort zone and they still have enough things in common
I think he and London would definitely have fun together but I don’t know about something long term between the two. He and Naz are similar yes but that can be a good thing, it doesn’t always have to be opposites attract lol, plus you could just tell there was a spark just how they were looking at each other. 🤷🏿♂️
I agree. The conversation felt much better with London, she would definitely push him into more adventurous and funny things. While with Naz... take away the fact that they're in the same field, didn't feel like there was much
@@bc9085 I agree completely with this comment. I'm surprised so many people in these comments say he and Naz had chemistry, because I thought they had 0. London was the much better choice, they actually has banter and clear compatibility...
I mean she is a matchmaker, so she’s probably pretty good at identifying and matching the person’s energy that she is working with. So you’d probably think she’s compatible with a lot of people she sets up lol.
He had chemistry with London so much and I feel like that really helps! He seemed happy to have her as a pick! Maybe he should go on dates with both London and Naz!
i think both london and naz were so lovely, we need to remember what simone said in the beginning that her pick might not necessarily be what dylan ends up expecting but to keep an open mind
Wow she eleminated Naz before Jasmine? I thought they were vibing a lot. I'm okay with London, for me it was between her and Naz, but I don't know... The look between him and her in the first round. Edit: so yeah he definitely saw what I was seeing, and he felt that he vibed more with Naz. I feel like it's a great idea to keep analyzing it at the brunch, maybe it will help him decide!
It’s evident that Naz was Dylan’s choice, but London seemed more interested in Dylan than Naz as London was leaning forward and really animated during their discussions. Of course, Naz could just be more reserved and nervous but I feel like that’s why she picked London.
I immediately knew Naz was the one for him! It seemed so natural and there seemed to be a real attraction between them. She seemed more his type physically according to how he described it to the matchmaker! I think he should have another date with each one and see how he feels. But if Naz was his top pick, maybe just go with his gut feeling
The way he looked at Naz said all we needed to know. She has that bright personality he was talking about. As soon as she started talking she exuded sweet, outgoing, and contagious energy. Their conversation might’ve been “off and on” like the matchmaker stated BUT I believe that was due to nerves based on their attraction to one another. All in all the matchmaker did an awesome job. My final two picks were the FINAL-final two. I think I’m just a very analytical person. Anywho I see a future with him and Naz!
It was so obvious that Naz was his first pick. When they were talking about their work/school, you can just tell he felt so at peace and happy talking to her. London was a close second just based off of what we saw but I feel like it’s more of a friend thing for long term
Even tho London and the guy had chemistry, hi and Naz had it more.. He was clearly not that attracted too London, but u could see he knew that his pick would be Naz from the stsrt
I don't know why the matchmaker didn't think not wanting kids was a big enough reason to not add Cassidy to the first mix 🤔 it's not bad if you do or don't want them but I think that's one thing couples have to agree on 😅
I don't like how the professional matchmaker got the love language concept wrong. It's not about how you express affection to others, it's how you'd like affection to be expressed to you.
she's tripping how you pick the girl talking bout not wanting kids cause of global warming but not the girl who says she wants about 10 and works with kids
I disagreed with her picking London just because i think that a conversation with a lot of laughter and good chemistry doesn't mean that it has a romantic attraction. I saw that romantic attraction between him and Naz even if it wasn't as fun as with London.
I respect the matchmaker's choices cause everyone will pick up on something different, but I think they overlooked something MAJOR... because at 8:58 the matchmaker acknowlegdes that this is a conflict but chooses to send the contestant through anyway AFTER LITERALLY USING IT AS AN EXAMPLE OF A SERIOUS DEALBREAKER IN 2:40. not wanting kids is a HUGE dealbreaker even for married couples. if someone isn't ready / just doesnt want kids VS someone who REALLY wants kids, that's not something they should ignore. it's not fair to either one.
I think there were probably snippets of the conversations that were edited out and could explain why Naz was removed. Naz definitely made sense but London gave the vibe she would make him grow and valued her relationship with her sister in away that may have parodied the bachelor’s affection towards his own. I would’ve chosen Naz tho just because they were so similiar and studies show it’s more likely that like attracts like.
He so obviously wanted it to be Naz!! On the other hand, I feel like London would be a great fit for him as a friend 💗 I'm so curious as to who he ends up with! Simone is soo sweet btw I want her to by my matchmaker💗💗
I see what the matchmaker was thinking. She was thinking long-term. I definitely think Dylan was more attracted to Naz but sometimes it's just an initial attraction thing. They shared similar goals and life pursuits but sometimes similar isn't good and Naz didn't really converse with him they just shared their similarities. I saw more potential in London. Someone fun and willing to put in the same effort energy wise as him , someone he could have more laughs and connections with
Naz was my #1 pick. Glad he chise her. Weird she got eliminated. Naz and london was my top 2 for chemistry with him. The matchmaker definitely clarified so many things and made it easier for him.
He def altered his answer like oh naz you hate pda ? I hate pda 😂 he wanted to match her. London was just the biggest personality and the match maker stuck to that lol
i could tell he liked Naz more and had many things in common, but I see why the matchmaker picked London. With London they had a lot of interests in common and her outgoingness could potentially make him explore his interests more. Their relationship would be more fun, while with Naz they would be more conventional in a way.
I did love one particular question Simone asked the girls: "What is the best compliment you ever received?" I think that is such a great question to ask people, because it tells a lot about a person (obviously depending on their day/mood, but still). Also, for people who say things like, how did she not pick Naz: we have different information as viewers, so while I also picked Naz myself, I think you can't really tell how it was there unless you were there (if that makes sense). She still did an amazing job :)
Totally agree. We have the viewpoint of an edited video where we can see everyone's face at once, Simone did not have that. She did a great job, I really enjoyed it.
I don’t even think he liked London at all tbh. He said he didn’t like alternative girls and she came across that way imo and they just didn’t vibe that well.
BRO HE WAS SOO NEROUS WHEN NAZ WAS IN THE ROOM i noticed like the less eye contact when she was there and he gets so nervous like it was so obvious UFRGHFHD he looked so disappointed too Naz was def his first pick
