@@r.9874this comment is why lil black girls go through so much her father had her put a shirt on that said I’m a hoe you don’t treat your baby girls that way
The question "were you a fast girl" was so insensitive. Kids don't become fast. It's usually sexual abuse that makes them want to try more sexual things.
Cap. Some feelings just bops , never been touched or none …. Just want bop all around from their role model figures such as moms, aunt, sisters, cousins whatever
@@duncanblade Oprah isn’t even on anymore so that joke is flat. What she’s saying is that he learned this vernacular from interviewing black ppl bc that is an inherently black saying. It perpetuates the idea to her and the ppl watching that black girls can be sexual. Instead of addressing to her and the audience that what she experienced was hyper sexuality due to abuse I want you to rethink your response now.
As a classmate who went to the same continuation school as her, she was always well reserved. She only hung out with this girl named Maya. We'd talk to each other everyday and everything was always fine. But i noticed whenever id compliment her as a person or how pretty she is, she'd get shy or act like she wouldnt know what to do with herself. She also used to confide in me about the things her mom brought her through and how they had a very SOUR relationship. I used to hug her and tell her everything would be okay. I genuinely wish she gets herself together 🥺. Shes always been beautiful and ive always known some of her story but to get the full version through this video is so heart wrenching. I pray on healing and peace for you B❤️. Love, the girl who was ALWAYS nice to you in school 🥺
She is only 19... I can't believe it. She seems so grown for her age. Her dad giving her a shirt like that is truly disgusting, her parents really just failed her. I'm so sorry. She is beautiful, well-spoke, and intelligent... I truly pray and hope she gets out of this situation as soon as possible :(
There is absolutely no way in hell that she is 19 years old. She says that because tricks like young girls. What 19-year-old female has boobs like that??? Come on does she think we’re stupid!
Ok so with her I believe if people know better they do better… at her core she knows better! She is way too smart and gorgeous for this lifestyle…I truly hope she gets the chance to change… god is good!
Her mom knew her cousin was “s3xual with children” and still allowed her to be around him?! Then he felt comfortable enough to assault her with her sister asleep right next to them? This is so sad 😣 Bianca I’m sorry no one protected you. You were not “fast” you were a child who was not protected 💔
I’m trying to figure out who is this male cousin. Because I can’t think of anyone. I’m highly upset and bothered by this interview. She doesn’t have that many male cousins. Must have been a play cousin her mom told her was her real cousin
This interview was AWFUlL. This girl needed the respect of time and listening. The interruptions and the tone, good grief. I just want to give her abig hug. I hope she is okay.
@@nwinsto602 I see. He was probably just trying to make an appeal to her story narrative. Sometimes, the girls think they were fast or promiscuous. So if you appeal to what they already think, then you could get them to reveal more information without them feeling embarrassed. It’s just a social technique. I don’t think he’d sincerely believe a kid is fast.
@mstartv7752 I'm sick?! How? Lmao how basically saying these perverts will never be held accountable? They won't and to add fuel to your fire lol legislation will be passed to create a VERY thin line on what consent is 🤷🏾♂️
They rarely are. Also, a lot of the power players at the top are into kids. More life force. More vitality. A rejuvenation at the expense of the child.
She's fast. Fucked a dude as soon as she met him at 17, and then when asked if she wanted to be his hoe, she said yes. When Mark asked why she said the dick was good. This is a 17 year old girl with this mindset. Her momma was fast as well. Her dad tried to be a disciplinarian, but when she went to her mom's place it was a party. She was partying, dancing, drinking , going to the beach at 2am at 12 years old, etc. There was no structure. That's what the mom showed her daughters growing up. Like mother like daughter. Stop trying to make it a race thing. She is/was fast as hell. That's why she chose this fast life.
she's a beautiful woman...but looks older. Her body is gorgeous but older. So she's gone through some shit. When I was 19, I was told in basic training that I looked 28......child abuse.
Hunny you were not “Fast” you were introduced to grown like behavior as a kid and a predator did wrong by you, which then changed your future. Don’t ever accept any negative feeling about yourself because of those experiences that you should have been protected from.
thank you. that comment pissed me clean off. the hyper sexualization of young black girls is ridiculous. and if he continues to do profiles on these black women (and monetizing their trauma) he needs to fix his language and his approach.
This is something my mother still tries to throw in my face to cover up what happen between her husband and me from my kid to teen years. I’m 33 years old and pregnant and she doesn’t want to be a grandmother or accept me and my child to come but god will deal with these people……it’s out of my hands and not stressing about it
How bird brained can yall be. It is not an interruption😂it's called an interview simple minded fucks. And if u don't like it or dont think Mark has good intentions then don't watch! Cap it, simple
Mark, since you seem to interview a lot of people who have been sexually and physically abused, maybe you should consider taking some training to better understand the considerations as you ask these questions and respond to their answers. I know you intend to do good work, but you often mishandle both the questions and responses. I understand you interview 1000s and that is remarkable, but the possibility that you have become desensitized to this subject matter is interfering with your delivery. These people have not been interviewed by 1000s and they can feel violated and caught off guard by the direct line of questioning. You paying them does not absolve you of having a more sensitive approach. For example, you could start by asking them whether they are okay with you asking these specific lines of questions. This will allow/enable the victims to feel more in control of this information. Thank you for considering this and best wishes to you.
Debatable because times change unfortunately and a question has always been just that, a question. As you can see she had sexual abuse which is probably what led to diff things…..thus she did not have to answer if she felt it was disrespectful and let the person know how they feel but at the end of the day a person can ask what they want these days. Ppl be real nosy fr fr …….
I like this girl. A lot of these younger girls just talk a lot of nonsense, but Bianca is clearly smart and speaks so well. Just an overall likeable vibe. All the best to you Bianca, I hope you can get out of this life and make something of your music career!
What she went through turned her into a sociopath or a psychopath she lacks normal emotions that we as human beings experience, that's why she lacks shame.
Hopefully she gets the counseling she needs while she is young. She can turn her life around, she is more than a pretty face. Very articulate & aware she needs help.
What is she describing when she was at school isn’t ADHD, it’s CPTSD. She was (probably still is) stuck in fight or flight. You can’t sit and learn when your body thinks it’s about to be attacked.
Exactly. It’s not uncommon and it is contributing to a lot of educational issues in schools. It needs to be talked about more. Thank you for bringing this up. 👏🏽
@@ericamunchbach it often is. Trauma can make it impossible to focus because a person who is always on high alert, can’t focus on anything else but survival.
Sadly nothing will come of it. It's not like everyone in the family doesn't know. We sweep stuff under the rug. It's going to take real Men and Fathers to stop this. We need to teach our Sons that this behavior is unacceptable. We also need to control access to our children by anyone and stop being Soo comfortable. I had a great uncle cousin that ran through all his nieces when I was very young. No one did anything he ruined their lives. If her father knew dude should have come up missing. The fact that Mom was aware and did nothing is ridiculous.
I can't imagine a Dad buying his daughter a shirt that says "I'm a ho"... that is absolutely sickening. 🤢😡Terrible! Some people should never be parents. 🤦🏻♀️🙄😕 Thank you for sharing this video with us. 👍🇨🇦😊 I wish her all the best.
She probably was being a “hi” she met her high school sweetheart on instagram at 17 . His dick was so big she wanted to go for him . He father might have wanted to shame her like when parents realized their child is a bully . Some parents have had their child wear a shirt saying “ I’m a bully “ . Never know the real story.
But you can imagine a mother that brings up an uncle to rape her right? Tell me you are a feminist without telling me . Pointing out all the bad things only by men.
No condolences when she mentioned her grandmother died who was also her best friend??? It’s the behavior of the so called interviewer for me. I wished she had walked tf out he didn’t deserve to hear her story…
That was my aunt who we lost last october. Who dropped dead in the livingroom right in front of Bianca randomly. And lay on the floor for hours until coroners came, as Bianca sat beside her body & held her hand the whole time. So yes, Bianca, my little cousin has been through a lot and ran away from the family shortly after that.
Right? You can tell that that was a very serious topic for her and he passed over it at first like it was nothing. It was so nice seeing how her face lit up and demeanor changed whenever her grandma was brought up. Seems like she could go on and on about how much she loved her and enjoyed her company. I’m happy she’s experienced such a great relationship that she’ll always hold dear. I hope that whenever she’s going through dark times, she can think of her grandma to help her mind escape to a better place and bring a little light back to her mood.
Abortion at the age of 18 Suicidal Prostitute at the age of 17 Does drugs Bro her family has failed her 😢 I just pray she gets out of this, damn this was very hurtful to watch 😢😢
Rape is NEVER a normal thing. Building a toughness for rape is not good at all. I hope she gets the proper support because she's a very intelligent young lady that can gain the life she doesn't believe she deserves.
That part literally broke me. I felt so much anger in the fact that she has gotten so accustomed to that. Like it’s not okay and It’s not normal. And the fact that they don’t receive consequences for what they do to her infuriates me. I hope she’s able to get out of this lifestyle really soon because she deserves so much better. NO ONE deserves this lifestyle.
This message is for the host: I encourage you to stop using the label “fast.” It is demeaning and is inaccurate. This beautiful young woman responded to her environment, which is totally human. Going forward, find another word that speaks to where the person was in their development based upon environmental factors.
4 minutes into the interview and I can just see how much pain n trauma this beautiful girl is hiding. She has so much light n love in her soul but most of it is covered in pain. Its so sad. I wish I could just hug her man.
@@treshawnd.weatherspoon2153he said it and she agreed. He still shouldn’t have said it whether she called herself it or not. This girl was SA as a child and with a father and family that she has she never had a chance.
Exactly! I just commented on that below somewhere. She barely finishes wtf she has to say and questions and slick comments are off. I'm struggling to get through the damn video. Lack of empathy is 🎯
I was looking for a comment along these lines. The interviewer not fully allowing this young lady to finish her thoughts/responses before interjecting with another comment/question especially insensitive ones really frustrated me!!! Praying she can make her way out of this situation🙏🏾😔
He’s interviewed thousands of people with thousands of horrific stories. Second hand trauma is real and it can be desensitizing. He is also a human. The suffering of others can have profound effects on others.
The interviewer put words into this young girl's mouth. A proper interview is a conversation and the interviewer listens and asks follow-up questions. The journalism demonstrated is not quite right
@@JasJasPouncythat's insulting...they're absolutely articulate enough to speak for themselves. They're not mentally delayed at all. He's simply extremely desensitized to these situations and doesn't really care anymore. He's ready to move along to the next 'subject'...
So now I can’t use slang? You’d prefer if I asked her “Were you sexually active as a young girl?” Clearly there’s a cause for her behavior and we covered some of that, but you’re not going to help the situation by getting upset at my terminology instead of what happened to her as a child. Let’s work on the cause of these problems, not my terminology.
@@SoftWhiteUnderbelly words have meaning and yes “Were you sexually active as a young girl?” would be more empathetic to her trauma. Using "fast" actually disregards the cause of her trauma as if she wasn't exposed to a horrible environment as a kid. She was a baby, a kid. She was failed.
Being fast isn't a direct correlation of failed parents. I was fast, I started sexual activities before my teens and in my early teens i lost my virginity. Not because of abuse or bad parenting, just like girls and was flirtatious
Are you the owner of the channel? Do you know how hard it is to make hundreds of videos a month , like mark does what do you expect lets see you what questions would you ask? Your here watching and hating instead of hate watching go take care of your kids.
@@ReeceCameron3I’m not sure who this is directed to but I’m not hating. I love his videos and I’m simply commenting with a kind suggestion. . Why so angry? Every comment isn’t full of hate dear. And thank you for the concern about my non-existent children. One last thing, the correct word is YOU’RE. See, just another helpful suggestion. 😊
Hate that she was asked if she was “fast.” Sounds like her mom might’ve been dabbling in a very fast life which exposed her to predators + her dad was bitter and resentful at the mother because she was irresponsible and her daughter was following in her footsteps very early. Being curious about sex/love/romance/the opposite sex is a normal in adolescence. Having parents who degrade you, abuse you, knowingly expose you to sexual predators and drinking etc. when you are quite literally a child… is not normal and left her open to a lot of trauma. Normalize not calling young girls fast, especially when they are ALWAYS usually called fast in relation to the older men who prey on, groom and manipulate them.
Her mother was jealous of her because she grew into a beautiful young lady and she should of been proud and protecting her but instead she started hating on her own flesh and blood just despicable; and her father should of been protecting her instead of labeling her and treating her like discarded refuse; and you the interviewer aren’t treating these beautiful young ladies no better just because they’re living unsafe and terrible lives in the horrible profession they are in doesn’t mean you too should be as heartless so may you please stop saying “fast”, and ask why do you think you became “promiscuous” at an early age instead. And maybe you could fake a little empathy for these poor people because it’s not showing as much when you interview them! But I will say that we appreciate your efforts in awareness of how much of these people get into this unsafe, unclean profession! I will pray for them all
"maybe ADHD"... or maybe it was depression and rage from insecurity, from being assaulted at such a young age 😔. Hope she gets professional help. Very smart, pretty woman.
Well said. Not even one person i knew in the primary school had "ADHD symptoms" that couldn't be explained by family background or other similar factors.
Yep. I thought I was ADHD. However, the C-PTSD caused me to have the normal human reaction to abuse and trauma. Your brain will literally rewire itself and emotionally protect or react the only way it knows how. It wasn't ADHD after all. See- Dr Pate youtube interviews on trauma and ADHD causes.
Right. She could have ADHD, but it seems more like PTSD, anxieties, and probably depression. Maybe even disassociate disorder and anger issues. But I'm not a doctor so I could be wrong.
She seems like such a nice girl she never stood a chance. Poor kid didn’t have anyone to protect her or help form her view of the world or more importantly, of herself.
0:01: ⚖️ Childhood trauma and struggles with education impacting Bianca's life choices and mental health. 4:26: 💔 Teenage girl turns to prostitution after traumatic events, seeking love and validation, despite lack of parental guidance. 08:08: 💔 Insights into struggles with substance abuse and emotional turmoil while working as a prostitute. 12:14: 💰 Insights into a prostitute's life, relationships, and aspirations in the music industry. 18:37: 💔 Challenges and resilience in the life of a young sex worker, including past trauma and struggles with therapy. 21:49: 💔 A young woman discusses her troubled relationship with her family, regrets, and desire for a better life. 26:59: 💔 Lack of father-daughter relationship impact on self-reliance and importance of being selfish for self-preservation.
I know Bianca . Not on a deep level but I went to school with her and she’s a beautiful person inside and out . I hope she gets everything she wants out of life cuz life is short . You have the drive to do whatever you want Bianca please remember that.
Shes so beautiful, well spoken, and intelligent. I hate this for her. Imagine selling your body and not even getting the money from it. Her boyfriend totally love bombed her and is using her. Not judging her for it- I dated someone like this. I didnt sell myself for him but he was very controlling. Its so easy to fall into
The fact tha he kept calling her “fast” or saying she was and asking her tha ..was making me mad cuz a lot of black girls get called this on a regular basis and it’s disgusting and sad.
Do you tell them to wear what they would wear if they were working or do they just come like that? Or do you just see them working and ask them for an interview right then and there?
She says she wasn’t sexually active until age 14 as if to say that was late in life. She did say she was first sexually abused at age 12 with someone on her Mother’s side of the Family but all the variables can get complex as to why either a person becomes sexually uninhibited where others who had similar experiences would never consider being loose as it were. She also said she never got the help she needed regarding her difficulties in school, panic attacks, etc. so again, many variables to why people do what they do but we are creatures of our environment as that’s what the upbringing presented & seems to dictate both consciously & subconsciously. But it was interesting for her to say she was in therapy since elementary school but quit because she needed help & not cops showing up at her door because of what she said to the therapist as all she wanted was help but they can’t help if the minor is still in a toxic dysfunctional setting but removing to foster homes is not always good either. She also said her Sisters did not have the same personality doing what she does. Again, it can get complex. Sounds like the Grandmother would have been better for her to live with but she didn’t discuss if the Grandmother had moral beliefs
You can become sexually active when you want to it’s your body having said that 12 is certainly not mature enough to make that decision ! It is sad. She’s still a child 😢 she should be at school not walking the streets. Life is becoming increasingly challenging especially for the underprivileged. We’re headed for a very turbulent future I just wish she could see the downfall she’s headed towards but with little to no parental guidance and higher education it is difficult to have a foresight.
3:23 shes talking about getting medicated for adhd or having help with her anxiety at school & in classes , she says later on she had someone to talk to like a Councillor but she needed more help for what was going on in her life 😢
@@odugummaduabuchi7839 she needs prayer!!!!!! with prayer all things are possible to those that believes, so after prayer the universe will set everything in place for her.
I been feeling some type of way about the interviewer for a min…watching his videos and listening to how he question certain people.. this video was definitely added to the list.. and I’m glad to see some ppl in the comments agree
@Kappieburger tehe! As a communications master I think he get his rocks off by listening to young girls be touched. I wouldn't be surprised if he diddles
Complex post traumatic stress disorder - saying this because I've lived similar. Really hoping Bianca gets some proper support so she can see her worth & heal from that heavy history. Bless you, girl. You Deserve so much more. ❤
She is so pretty. Reminds me of my friend I grew up with.. I wish and hope the best for her..I wish she knew that r*pe wasnt normal..thats the saddest part to me.. My grandma was my best friebd too. When she passed. My life went downhill. 8 years later and im still struggling..so i get it.. never know where grief leads you... Rooting for her... she definitely deserves better.
From one Gemini to another, I’m sorry for your loss and I hope you get the help you need to get through this tough period of your life. My mom encouraged me to see a counselor and it helped.
She kept saying “when I was young” like she’s not only 19 years old, uggh watching this broke my heart. I hope she knows she’s still young and can still turn it around it’s not too late. Wishing her nothing but the best!!
Bianca!!! I hardly comment on mark’s videos, but I can see your light. You are beautiful inside and out and so strong. No doubt have you gone through so much shit, but you deserve so much more queen. You just need enough self love to be comfortable being alone and figure out life until you find people who really love you.
This interview makes me so uncomfortable. The apathy that you show this young woman is so disappointing and really not on par for this channel. Who refers to a young girl as “fast” in any context, let alone one of assault? This is deeply disturbing and disappointing.
Sounds like a lot of generational sexual sin got passed down. Need deliverance to get rid of those curses & get freedom. I pray she finds her worth & choose better for herself sooner rather than later. May God be with her.
She is so beautiful-externally, for sure-but you can see her internal beauty shining out. Watching her body language, mannerisms, and etiquette, I can't help feeling a profound sense of sadness behind the mask. As a father, I am left contemplating how Bianca might have turned out if her own father had decided to treat her with all the love and humanity she deserved growing up. I truly hope this young lady does not become a statistic and goes on to live a happy and fulfilling life ♥
She’s so beautiful & well spoken. Her story is heartbreaking hopefully she’s able to turn her life around with the help of therapy & a solid support system wishing her love 💗
People who do arts often have this kind of softness, she has some songs on her "bianca.t" youtube profile.. I feel her age, grandmother's love, insight and some other factors make her a good candidate to change the job soon.
i used to live in jamaica and there was a girl in my neighbourhood who went missing for three weeks. when she came back unharmed nobody knew where she had gone until she started posting advertisements on her social media selling her body for $3000 jmd ($23 usd at the time) i knew her since i was a little kid and she was even younger than i was when she started doing this. her family started getting harrassed so they all left the neighborhood and left her behind alone in that house at the end of the road. she survived on her own that way. it was really sad to see her walking home and have my family tell me not to look at her. we weren't allowed to play outside for an hour each time she walked by. i have no idea if she ever made it out of that life. personally i blame the parents in situations like these.... and it is heartbreaking to see a story like this and know it happens all the time.
This interviewer has zero empathy but she is accustomed to it so it went over her head. It was cringy to see the slow breakdown from head to toe. It was mockery with the possible intent to tie the story. The final shocker: “Thank you for your story”, “be safe out there!”😮 This man is pimping her on RU-vid for money and does not close his channel with resources of donations??????
When I heard her talking about her dad & their relationship, it brought tears to my eyes, I felt so sad for her bc every girl DOES absolutely need her dad! To be there for her, to love her, care about her and show her what being a good man is all about. I'm SO blessed to have had an amazing dad(rip) who was loving, caring, supportive and generous. I wish every girl could have the same dad as I did.
It's a defense mechanism... if you smile when talking about really horrible things it helps keep you from crying.. hiding behind the pain... I tend to smile to hide the pain too
This is done with everyone he interviews. I believe it's to show what this life has the potential to do to your body. This life ages you and can make you look older than you are. I think you can definitely look like what you're going through. She's still young and seems like she might be able to lift herself out of this lifestyle if she wants to. I wish her well and hopes she's able to accomplish her true passion for music. She has to be careful there too. Nothing is safe anymore.
This is a tough one Mark. She’s so young. She could end up dead. I wish she would fall into her music. That could be her ticket out of this awful environment. I wish her all the best.
Tried to find her RU-vid channel, but couldn't. Let's support her music. That's probably all we can do. She said her YT is "Bianca T" no match till now.
Bianca, you genuinely have a great head on your shoulders. By your answers, you have good intuition. There’s no shame in being in a ‘bad’ place and I am praying for you that you can make your way out of it. A lot of things from our past can condition us to believe we are not worth better or we cannot do better but please don’t believe that. I believe you can make your life whatever you can make it.
