Huge chip on the shoulder. Hope she can soften her heart and let love in. Defense mechanisms are a strong survival technique. Hope she stays safe. We will pray for her to stay ok.❤
That sounds just like me, honestly. That was who was making money and seemed to have the “local fame” in my neighborhood and I knew it, already. I could relate to her saying that. All that glamorous stuff is not what it’s about though! If all little girls knew that, we would never think it’s an “out” from the problems of poverty. Real life, it’s just another problem of poverty that you have to live out, most of the time. There are people who really do save some money and get out. The only way out of that struggle is through a whole lot more of it if you go that route. But so many people just get caught up in the drugs or the wrong people, or meet the wrong one. She really told it like it is. P.S. I know there working girls who use it to better themselves, but I’m talking about just going into the life as a young person without backup or a clue.
@@brittaolson6550 Britta, thanks for that perspective and honest post. It makes so more sense to me now. I did not have a wonderful upbringing at all but these things were not as out in the open. I’m sure it was happening around me but I just never caught on. I feel lucky I was to be a kid in that sense. We had plenty of other disfunctions.
@@brittaolson6550 my mom was also a prostitute, a street hooker. She was very evil against me. At 12 I was raped by her boyfriend, well....I kind off went into it and dig him. it felt good to have some attention and hear some sweet words for once. But that batch of my mom found out and she was so close in murdering me. Because of that. I was rescued by my oldest bro coming home, he is a Marine, so he toke away to a friend of his, a very beautiful ginger girl from Naperville IL she gave a safe house. But she treated me as a slave, I had to do everything at home and everything she ask me for. Nothing nasty, just clean up, wash clothes even wash her car...stuff like that.
@@michellejewell9859 I’m so sorry to hear you had to go through all that abuse by people you should have been able to trust. I feel you on that, so much. As a kid, I left home at 14 because of sexual abuse by a boyfriend of my mom’s. I stayed with people who took advantage of my easy labor, too. My mother and I have both been trafficked, and I missed a lot of schooling in the process. I was talking about how we got the idea of that but, besides what we see, it’s often our day-to-day experience to be sexually abused or taken to make money that way. Then there are the people who are just tired of being poor who end up working streets. I don’t know your mother but I know what I went through. The tricks can be really abusive and violent. Seeing how badly they treat you and other women can make you go insane, especially if you’re underage when you turn out, or get turned out. I was worried that I would become a psychopath. So I got help and support and there were some very supportive women & services out there. They didn’t used to have all those resources. If she didn’t get help, there are things that people cannot withstand. Maybe it was the streets she couldn’t cope with, or maybe it was something else. I’m not making excuses. It just doesn’t surprise me. My mom was not the same after what happened to her, ever. Some people just never got the right parenting to be able to do it themselves. I hope a beautiful life today, and a good support system, because you deserve one!
Omg omg omg this my cousin that I grew up with omg that lived with me in Compton! Please please please omg tell her cousin Kandace needs to get a hold of her! Every one please pray for my cousin Andrea! We love and miss her! 😭😢😢🙏🏾🙏🏾
💯. One of the best comments on here. I’ve been in the life a long time and I don’t know anyone who loves the sex work all the time. She’s got a role to play, thought, and she’s on her Ps & Q’s. It’s the game, but, like she said, it’s not A game. I’m a loyal worker but I don’t love trick sex for its own sake. I will sure admit to a pimp sex fetish, tho! Other men don’t know what to do to me...Being in the life is like being a gynecologist. Just looking at somebody’s parts is not gonna do it for you when you see them every day. Im not saying she’s lying, tho. Some people have hypersexuality because of bipolar manic episodes. Who knows? I just see it this way... other people have jobs Where they are enthralled to be doing the work all day. I can accept and be glad I have my job without being crazy about every aspect.
@@xanlysphynx8839 - and you know this because you are something really special? But you can’t use English grammar, it should be ‘She’s lying’ not ‘She lying’ but nevertheless you have amazing insight into other people’s minds, you just can’t use the English language properly.
@@smassey6848 fail the children over and over and over. Hell, they even place them with foster families that perpetrate the same horror on these vulnerable kids
Reminds me of my early childhood. I very clearly remember being overly sexual as a child and making my Barbies do it together. Looking back I definitely think I was abused.
I watched this last night on patreon and appreciate how honest and real this is. Every day I always end up learning something new. Having an addiction or living this type of lifestyle never makes you any less of a human being. We all struggle to a certain extent, but some struggle more than others. Everyone deserves to be treated with love and respect. I hope others can put their judgements aside and truly understand the message that's being conveyed. Mark, thank you for all your hard work and for everything you do.
What's your idea as judgement? Some of us just have a different opinion! And, some of us have been awake long enough to not be new to paying attention to the people on the street. I've watched the children of men and women that focus on themselves! And, I walk a thin line between feeling sad for the parent (that refuses help) as opposed to the children left behind.
@@KimbradleyMasterGardener Hi Kim, thank you for your response. I'm talking about "judging a book by its cover". It's important to look within a person and understand rather than exhibit hate. I dont know if that makes sense, but yes, everyone has their own opinion. This is about showing love and respect to all people. At the end of the day, we are all equal. Much love to you!
Weird thing I’ve noticed in every interview when mark asks “ have you ever been in love?” They always ask him to repeat the question and say “what? Sorry?” That question seems to always take all the interviewees completely off guard
@@TheMorganVEVO True she seemed like a rough one, at first! I’m sure she is, though, if you try to mess with her. I wish her all my best to keep surviving and thriving in whatever way she can.
But look how her face lights up when she talks about her children! At the end of the day, at the end of it all, the only thing that matters a damn is LOVE.
She has no sparkle in her eye. She has almost given up. She's living the life she think she deserves. Watching these series makes me hug my daughter more and speak life into her. It is unfathomable that parents and family would fail their children so miserably. 💔
She is loved by her extended family despite the narrative depicted; Yes; she came from a troublesome childhood but she has resources as well! There are those of us that love her very much!
@@KandeeKane85 Its good to know that she is very loved because she deserves it. When I refer to the family I meant those who knew something wasn't right and turned a blind eye instead of fighting for an innocent child. Praying for her healing 🙏
I knew this woman personally. She was extremely beautiful before the streets destroyed her. It's hard to see it now because how bad she went but she is really intelligent. I seriously hope she gets help asap. I'm honestly shocked she still standing
I was a Military wife. One of the most disturbing things I’ve ever argued with a man is that many Sincerely BELIEVE working girls just can not wait to do them. They argue I was not a fly on the wall and the girl was Really Into it. I’ll be 60 this year and have had that convo with all walks of life. On the immense list of things needing to be fixed is teaching men that no infant girl is born to be in this position. Ginger is the very first woman I’ve ever encountered who says what guys say: “She does it cause she loves it And can’t get enough.” 4,000 🤯 God help this lost child.
Have you also noticed this weird “savior” complex men have towards working girls?? They think they’re “saving” or “helping” these girls, which is completely delusional. Delusion of grandeur.
Very true! No woman or girl wants to truly do this. Which was proven in Portugal when they legalized drugs. The working girls immediately stopped walking the streets!! Because the truth is - no one wants to truly do that. Most likely, her brain has done this in order to cope. Because facing the truth and reality, would be too hard for her to face and cope with. And the brain is amazing in what it will do to protect u and survive! She is delusional and/or lying obviously. But most likely, this is not something she's done on purpose. But an unconscious thing her brain has done in order to cope. Because facing the cold hard truth could absolutely destroy her, and she could have a horrible breakdown that would be very hard to emerge from. So tragic!
And those men are disgusting to say that. And yes, as already pointed out, they are just justifying their very nasty behavior and callousness towards these poor women who've been horribly abused. Makes me sick!
She just takes things As they are. Nothing shocks her anymore. Even death. Interesting though what She saysvabout pimping Keep IT szimpla!! What Dean does She sell ??exqctjy? Service? I see qn original hooker here :. A lusty one . Thumbs up!!!
4,000 tricks that's beyond sad. Gingerbread you are worth so much more and you are capable of great things. I wish you could see what I see. Sending love from the UK xo
Wow. Saying that she gets a thrill from being with different men is so tragic. Any grain of 'value' she perceives by being with these men.. it just magnifies the pain she's in.
Contrary to what modern fourth wave feminism wants us to think, women do enjoy sex. Our monkey brains have evolved to incentivize sex since that is what drives the continuation of our species, not advancement in gender studies or woke culture. You're trying to virtue signal from your soapbox without even considering her point of view. You can enjoy your anonymous keyboard crusades though while this lady had the guts to discuss her life to the whole world.
@@bushy9780 I'm glad you chimed in about this. She blatantly states and explains that she enjoys the sexuality aspect of her work. There's absolutely nothing wrong with enjoying the work you do even if others think you shouldn't. I immediately wondered if she had been fortunate to have the kind of opportunities someone like Frenchie had as far as financial success and independence if she would not been even more happy. She even referenced "Pretty Woman" like Frenchie did. She's so beautiful when she smiles and laughs, I hope she is able to unite her family one day.
FAMILY DYSFUNCTION ROLLS DOWN FROM GENERATION TO GENERATION, LIKE A FIRE IN THE WOODS, TAKING DOWN EVERYTHING IN ITS PATH UNTIL ONE PERSON IN ONE GENERATION HAS THE COURAGE TO TURN AND FACE THE FLAMES. THAT PERSON BRINGS PEACE TO THEIR ANCESTORS AND SPARES THE CHILDREN THAT FOLLOW. - *T* REAL It requires a conscious choice to be a fire fighter. It's never too late. 🔥
@ELEVA8 ThySELF oh, thanks. I guess it's my turn to play it forward now? Now I'm going to call my daughter my favorite goat! I don't think she will take it the same way I do.
Right!... Goats produce 'Kids'... Humans produce ' Children '... So very clear.... I have never referred to my ' offspring ' my ' Children '.as 'Kids' ! Anyway it was an honest observation and I'm not kidding about that!
@@taharamuhammad3771 have you ever called a woman you know a chick? I grew up in the mountains of Colorado, can't say I've ever been around when goat's were having little baby kids so I hadn't heard that. But I think my daughter will forgive me from calling her a young goat. She calls me worse, and she'll be the first person to tell you she's daddy's girl! Or daddy's goat. I'll take it either way!
What about her damn children, the only people that will love you unconditionally and want to be in her life. Yes she worded that well, because she walked away from her children and by her logic she walked away because she just didn’t love them! I’m not having this woman making a victim out of herself! She’s not addicted to drugs or anything so there’s no good enough reason why she can’t return to and look after her kids, she’s choosing to have sex with over 4000 men who don’t give a shit about her instead of being with her babies the only ones who will ever truly love her! Now that’s what makes me sad, her poor children are the victims in all of this!
I think she underestimated. 365 days a year, give or take, over 20 years and multiple dates a day. More than 4000. I pulled out my calculator for that one.
No! There is a reason she said at least 4,000. This woman has been thru the gutter for YEARS!! It’s more than that. She just stopped counting at that point and 4,000 probably has some significance to her. SAD!!
Started at 18, now 43 that’s 23 years in the business She says 4000 So 4000 men divided by 23 years is 173 173 divided by 12 months is 14 men a month for 23 years to get 4000 men. That’s a lot of men
I watched a video that you made a week or two ago, he was a white crack addict that had a really good job and was very smart. He said he liked to give prostitutes large amounts of money and have them hang out and smoke crack all day (amongst other things) when she said some one gave her $1300.00 to smoke crack with him all day. It just reminds me of the other interview.
Honey, I send you strength and light. I send you hope. Open your heart to receive your moment of clarity. When you have it, shut this machine of self-loathing, self-destruction and addiction down. Your children need you. Your grandchildren will need you. It's not too late to start protecting you. You deserve so much better than this. You're worth more than this. You're someone's mommy. Get clean and go be that mommy they need. Sending love and hope. ❤️❤️❤️🇨🇦
Early childhood trauma appears over and over in these stories. It saddens me deeply that the people who are supposed to love you, protect you, and give you the tools to thrive are the ones most commonly responsible for damaging their inner life light and self worth. 🙏❤️
Ginger, Don’t give up on yourself. If you put your intelligence in going back to school. Get your GED and learn a trade that you are interested in, you can go a long way. You have so much to offer the World. Don’t ever sell yourself short. You deserve to have a beautiful life!💘
In Democrat controlled state with a supper majority Democrat controlled federal government with the borders opening up to any and all Yes there's gonna be a hella lot of murdering going on I'm from NYC and murder is up 100% from last year and yes its mostly people of color killing there own I'm ready for the coming war, are you ?
Hubert Selby Jr. would be so proud of you Mark. you are telling stories of people who are hurting and treated badly by people who are relatively well off. With so much compassion and without judgment
Too many rapists and Serial Killers. If her intuition said No, it saved her. Not even Calabasas wealthy normally have $60,000 cash in their sock drawer. Even if, he would not give it to her. Bait.
Do you ever think about the men who troll the streets and the internet looking for bodies to abuse? Far more of them, and they do the most damage. Everyone pointing at the pimp...he didn't set her up. Family usually does that.
Gingerbread is right in a sense about everyone prostituting their body for work. I am a veteran residential mover and I have done over 400 moving jobs. most of these were in the last 5 years. By the grace of god I have no current back pain, no ACL tears, and no broken bones in my career but not everyone in my industry is so lucky.
This interview was very interesting. Can’t quite figure out why but I think Ginger is intriguing and has a lot of taboo wisdom that sparks ppls interest. Update please
Her honesty is heartbreaking 💔 she's in so much pain like so many of us....sending love from London ON Canada 🇨🇦 I had a fucked up childhood too girl. Currently in recovery and trying so hard every day.
Her pain is palpable, wanting to be a hook3r since the age of 7 is a reflection of how everyone in her life failed her. I pray that she is able to turn her life around. It may seem impossible but with God, anything is possible.
I'd love to hear more of the interviewee's thoughts on legalizing prostitution. It seems like a really important issue for their safety that should be a more widespread talking point in the US.
I think this is the realest individual interview of a female I’ve seen on here. She’s finally telling it like it is. The streets are alive and well, and only grind harder, the more they legislate against it, because people have to eat. Period. Please don’t go it on your own out there. Like she said, unless you have some business with someone out there, it’s too much of a risk, because someone will have business with you. It’s not all bad people in the life; I’m always the first to say that. There’s good, supportive people who take care of theirs, but there are those in survival mode, who can’t afford to gaf about you, themselves, or anyone. The streets ARE survival mode, full stop. If that’s not your struggle, why look for it? There’s nothing glamorous about it.
Damn i relate to her when she said not to plan things, they dont go as planned. Ugh 😔 I have planned so many things in my life and they have all basically failed me.
me too... every time I try to plan something it falls apart I mean look at what's happening now with the world and covid-19 I had two jobs and was planning on building my business and I lost everything... now I'm dependent on food stamps and unemployment... but I had plans on buying this house that I'm renting... I had plans on literally working out of my home with my business I had it all mapped out girl 😭
@Kurdish Girl when I heard that I was in shock. She was just talking about it like it was something normal. Can’t imagine what all these ppl have gone through,seen or escaped. They have to watch their back everyday. 😞
I think she found out later the man was a killer. And he had bags he was throwing away while she was with him. Later she found out that those were body parts in those bags. I'm guessing.
Or she was too high. Not saying I don't believe her but as she's telling her story, I have to remind myself to take it with 'a grain of salt'. She's found a way to survive until she doesn't.
I don't be believing all these bitches and the ones who experience that probably don't expose it on RU-vid....can't trust a u ok ne on drugs they have crazy stories but Hella exaggeration
She's a survivor, I wish she could see that.....😞 too many of us see our traumas as things that make us "bad people" but in reality, they make us strong and resilient
A cycle just like she said. I always ask myself ....why do parents bring these kids into this world just to hurt them and cause all this trauma. It’s so crazy how she says things she lived like it’s something normal. Really hoping she gets out of the streets but She needs to wanted.
There is a really bright, self-aware, beautiful woman behind those broken wings and dysfunction. I see it clearly. Break the cycle mama and set yourself free.
The life you live...the pain you feel....the drugs you take after so long take a toll on your body and looks. I would have guessed she was much older than forty. She has so much pain its visible on her face.
