I've heard guys who think they are pimps talk to my first boyfriend... how they see women - it is unreal. They treat them like an entirely different entity, like they are dogs, absolutely everything they do and say to the women is calculated and meant to get a response. The women are trained into it. The men know who to target. She said she knows she is a keeper, and so she acts like one. To the wrong man. That man is never going to change but she did for him. The trick is, pimps see women as product not as people. The men really do talk to the girls unlike they would anyone else. The men really heavily manipulate these women.
She is so delusional it’s sad. Her over the top personality is a coping mechanism for the chaos she’s going through. Hopefully she sees the light and change before it’s too late
Gaslighting yourself into thinking things are better then they actually are is a skill used to cope like you said . Did it myself for a while with my depression and loneliness. Never been in her situation so can’t talk. But I did have a crash once I got sober / started being more realistic with myself. It hits you hard once the delusions leave
She might. I know some that do. And some do it for free, just for them. And I think that is not the problem here. She's getting milked and convinces herself she's elevating..
The delusional part is right. I guarantee she is a blm supporter and claims to be oppressed by white people, while she is literally working as a slave for a blk man.
@@ayeale4 not enough to the point u trusting a nigga with all your money? Like u out there selling yourself n can be killed, kidnapped, or raped while this nigga gettin paid for it. I can understand if he was putting u in a position to make something of yourself but he’s just tryna elevate himself n can give a fuck about you fr.
@@ayeale4 that’s why these pimps go after women who don’t know how to think for themselves or are weak minded in general, or been thru so much that it’s easy for them to be manipulated into thinkin this nigga actually cares about their wellbeing.
and over the last few decades culture has fed into this......"sex work is work", "the submissive is actually the one who holds the power"...and other slogans.......
@@ReeTM It becomes normal , otherwise they won’t be in this type of “work”. And also way before they become ladies of the night they have had most definitely dysfunctional home environment growing up, otherwise they don’t just end up on the streets if they came from a good home.
That's 192,000 a year of she's making minimum 650 a night 7 days a week that's over 4,000 dollars a week most ppl make 4000 in a month not a week and with that amount that's middle class money u definitely could elevate ur life with that money if you know what to do with it
Fr she should own a condo and go to the motel to work. She should be vacationing when she wants to from her own home. But she can't vacation that's all intentional from the pimp. He "managed" keeping her in this lifestyle, barely making it
I do think she is stretching the truth on how much she makes a night! Lol. She gives it all to her money manager to manage it! That's certinally one way to elevate yourself.
@@masamordior Yep silly woman she will get nothing and who else is he pimping out? i bet she;s not the only woman he is living off she has nothing no home no money off her own and a user and taker pimp who the backs of women.
She said she doesn’t work a 9-5 because she wants to “elevate herself” but gives all her money to some pimp lol. Make it make sense. I usually don’t care if people want o do sex work for a living, to each their own. But when you talk down to real hard working people with real jobs who aren’t willing to sell their dignity for $600, not a fan of that.
I have watched so many of these girls talk about doing something else like own a business or become a nurse. My nurse friends and I during an ICU night shift talk about getting in the game. “Ain’t nobody happy.”😂
Yes use imagination and problem solve to many limitation they say kids are lazy these days it's the parents who are lazy and wore out trying to keep up with the Jones
Everyone in the comments wants her to work for herself and keep all her own money. She tells the role of her man like it's so unique to her, but the plot is the same as all others, no funds will be returned back to her.
You can tell after he asked her if she ever dreamt if being a nurse/dr whatever, she paused and right then i saw all her childhood trauma flash in her head. Heartbreaking 💔💔
I think people lose site that this is posted for her to tell “her” story and “her perspective” of “her life”. It’s not to be liked , or agreed with it’s simply her story. No need to get personal in the comments over her views and perspectives.
The fact that she doesn’t have her hair done but he walking around with a $30,000 watch speaks volumes girl you bought that damn watch for him he taxing your 🐱
I think she said the boyfriend before who she's with now was flaunting his watch. but either way she still delulu thinking the man she with gonna get her anywhere.
Alot of these women get turned out and dont even realize their manager isnt their man. He just wants her to keep bringing her moneyto him. He may think she's cool but she is essentially an employee
Mark, you are such a great interviewer and communicator. And your laugh lightens the issues and make it an intense situation seem like it’s very common in so many of these people’s lives.
What?? I am celibate and bought my own house. I have no mortgage. And it's all on my own shoulders. No man could do for me what I have done for myself.
@@CheekyChels I'm sure you have no one ever says any misinformation on the Internet I would guarantee you though if I met you in person you'd be living with your parents and have a maybe a hair up above a minimum paid job no one comes on here and brags about how much they make sorry the Internet if you make money, you don't say it on the Internet just that simple.
I'm sure you have no one ever says any misinformation on the Internet I would guarantee you though if I met you in person you'd be living with your parents and have a maybe a hair up above a minimum paid job no one comes on here and brags about how much they make sorry the Internet if you make money, you don't say it on the Internet just that simple.
❤Congratulations on your home 🏡 purchase….that’s a great feeling for sure especially to us hardworking women out here. Would love to have a good man but I know I don’t need him,I want him. Bc I can provide for myself most things but the love and support of a man is always appreciated!!
That pimps name on her face for the rest of her life is sad and tragic. When she ages out of the sex trade and possibly has incurable STD's and PTSD from the trauma the pimp will be long gone.
Do people not know that HPV can be transmitted with a condom. Do people not know that STDs ruin your reproductive organs. Wtf get your lazy ass up and work
You can't rent if you don't have clean money unless you pay cash and the landlord doesn't care these days it's a lot harder to rent because it's done through property managers and companies that require bank accounts and how you make money to pay rent in this case dirty money untraceable really unless caught
I’m about to go get some head from her tonight and there are better looking ones than her, there are some girls out there that would make you rethink your whole life😂
says she hates pimps and then describes how she gives all her money to this dude and has his name tattooed on her face....seriously sad. "girls need managers" what having no positive female role models does to someone. damn.
Get a bank account and deposit half of your earnings daily and dont tell anyone....in 2 years you can invest or have security behind you.....pimps will steal..you wont ever see a secure future financially
I’d rather be broke with one pair of shoes than have to live like that. Edit: I explain more in the comments. My main issue is that she does all of this, and doesn’t even have a safe place to go home to at night. She said she stays in motels. My main problem is the man taking advantage of her. The so-called manager. Creep.
Yeah that's why I'm broke now. Tbh Id rather. Die slowly wait for my time then have sex for needed money especially when it's being done purposely to a person. At least shes able to get a job and all that ... There's people that didn't have luck getting a job and turn to that but I don't think I would do that. I'll just wait for my time.
she's getting ran through every day only to turn around and hand her money to a bum who probably smokes it away. he's not managing her money. she will never see that money again and its not like he's spending It on her for a house or getting her nails done or hair done or outfits or school. he's probably buying weed video games and sneakers. im from vegas and there's a lot of pimps around. they all tell their heauxs the same thing, "that theyre putting their money away for them and saving it for them." the women never ever see that money again obviously the pimp spends it on cars and jewelry and usually beats the heaux up and breaks her down over time. the chick is so naive .
@@justaustin673 *It is Love...the pimp's LOVE of getting money the free and easy way -- off of his girl's back (excuse the pun) then turning around and spending it how he sees fit. And, like Lollipop said, sometimes pimps spend their money to buy the kitty cat from other prostitut3s!*
@@lisaheltonhudson it's never "too late" she has a fun personality and it's really hurting and sad to watch her talking like that and being so delusional..
Right. Like how you doing all of that work, and still living in nasty motels. Not even have an apartment. That’s messed up. Also clothes. She’d get better clientele if she looked classier. That’s how it goes.
I’m in my 70’s and it just amazes me how so many young people are so delusional about “getting rich” and show a complete lack of concern about long term planning, planning for retirement and acknowledging that youth is fleeting. We were raised to prepare for the future and we raised our sons this way. We didn’t have reality TV, the internet or social media….we didn’t believe in magic. Sex work is not a good long-term career choice. It’s almost totally dependent on your looks and your age…and your health. She has absolutely no back-up plan…just a delusional dream…and then to boot, she’s risking her life for it.
Delusion is a hell of a thing. She trying to hard to convince herself she’s happy and is smarter and better than all the other ladies of the night. Mark using common sense in an attempt to help her realize her contradictory statements was futile, she always had a comeback and half of them didn’t make sense
Stockholm Syndrome for reals......she has so much freedom in some ways....being able to strut around...and be paid to do so...but, anti will take some time for her, she has indoctrinated herself into a cult mentality..
This is FAR from Stock Holme syndrome. She was not kidnapped SHE made the choice to be out in the streets because she didn't want to be "square" in her own words. I am as aware as can be but I actually think pimps are unfairly demonized. Unless someone is literally kidnapping people or messing up underage people all adults (including women) have two things called personal responsibility and choices. If a woman chooses a pimp (and from everything I have seen on this channel that is what happens not vice versa) then that is on her. What is unfair from my perspective is that if a woman had a head on her shoulders she can make a lot of fast food money out of "the game" BUT everything shady men have to do make quick cash comes with mandatory minimums: minimum 10 years, minimum 20-25, etc. I am no way feel sorry for any of these adult women.
I wonder whether she knows how much money she has made along the years and whether she knows she will never see the money. Here is how you can test it: Ask your pimp to give you what you have made until now. He will tell you hey babe they are invested I cannot give them to you now. That will be the story of your life.
@@elleash3040 Wrong. Didn't you watch the interview? She had a regular job before in the food industry and had an apartment of her own, then she met this pimp and started working for him as a prostitute, giving him her money, giving up the apartment and moving into a motel. She started doing it to get this man and because she likes sex. She keeps saying how much fun this is for her and how she loves giving her money from sex to this guy.
I hate when people slap their hands 50x during the video .. take that hand , slap your face and wake up : “your” money is GONE. Ask your manager for some of “your” money to get something to help yourself and see the answer I know she thinks it’s fun now but the future looks sad for her .. it’s unfortunate to see people so manipulated
thank you for this its so annoying the slapping on the legs the whole video... a lot of girls do it its very hard to focus on the story when all i can hear is * slap slap *
This is makes My Heart Ache! I remember the Prostitutes in My City that were My Friends from Good Families get Mezmorized by Pimps! I was Cool with all the Pimps too, it was just wild and Dum to give the money to a Manipulatin' Man.
I don’t think it has anything to do with race. As a black woman, I have never been loyal to the wrong guy. I always knew my worth. She thinks her pimp is her man, while he probably is fucking around other with women. She is delusional, but it has nothing to do with race.
She has a fun personality and is pretty well spoken. You can tell she’s not dumb, just delusional about the reality of her situation. I watch this and all I see is a lot of potential being wasted.
It's like she's trying to convince herself that she's not getting ran through for nothing..but she is 😢 and by the time she realizes it she will be aged out the game and homeless with PTSD and mental health and physical health issues 💔
Im not sure i believe they actually make 1k a night. Maybe thats happened once or twice, but that cant be typical. My husband takes home 7k a month. We own a house in a nice area, have 2 kids, all our needs are met, and shes saying she makes more than that in a week. How is it possible for someone who earns that much to be living in a motel?