Its sad that you felt the need to comment. The need to try and shame me. But my mom always said “martha be who you are and change for no one. Not everyones going to like you and thats ok, your not everyones cup of tea.” so thats what i do. I dont hide my light under a bushel. And frankly at fifty two having survived stage three cancer, a pandemic, seeing the love of my life gaslit by his therapist into a divorce…… loosing my exotic birds and having a break down……. After all that and im still alive to see this eclipse in the line of totality…….. im super ok with my own swearing and just happy to be alive in this moment. There are a lot of videos i would love to comment on. But i don’t. i let it go because i don’t have to comment on every video i don’t like. And not everyone needs to hear what I have to say especially if I’m being nit picky because it’s something I wouldn’t do. Especially if the person is having fun in a non harmful way. Let them enjoy. The beauty isn’t taken away by vulgarity. You allow the beauty to be taken away when you become incensed by a word and you let that word hold shape and space in your being until it makes you upset , and you take yourself away from the beautiful moment. I hope other words, much much more hurtful and harmful words that can be said as racial slurs upset you just as much if not more than the words said in this video…… because those are the words that should ruin something beautiful. Those are the words that should make you feel incensed, because those are the words that actually do damage to humans.
