This is what called atpanukku pavisu vanthal. So silly, first of all this ceremony itself is a nonsense. Worst thing is they are following this nonsense in western countries, such a shame for the entire community. People make fun of it. It is absolutely personal and private. Old days when girls got married very young, once they attend their age, they just announce the community that there is a girl got eligible for marriage and child birth, even this fuction happens only among the community surrounded. But nowadays in western countries all these people came from remote villages from Srilanka do this even without knowing the reason, just for showing off. These girls also look forward for this nonsense.
