Hello, if your new here welcome and if you've been with us since the beginning welcome back!!!!! You asked for it, and we are delivering!! Aji and I sit down and answer questions that you always ask!
I admire that you guys were courageous enough to choose each other. I am currently in a similar situation, hope it works out. Love you guys, cute baby!
Lol it’s nothing wrong with your love language being Acts of Service y’all were both saying the same thing. Love y’all, the baby has gotten so big she’s so pretty.
Let me ask. Has your mother-in-law accepted the baby? And has she maybe warmed up to the idea of accepting you as her daughter-in-law since Zoey was born?
Teach her Malayalam now. Aji has to speak to her only in Malayalam, no English. and mum has to speak to her in English only. Waiting till four will make it harder for her…. There are Malayalam schools for children in the US that are online. I’m learning Hindi and Malayalam as an adult.
Aji you married a black woman, getting hair and nails done is apart of the culture. I hope mum also shows interest in Malayalee culture and hope that she learns the language too.
He’s married to a Jamaican 🇯🇲 woman it’s not part of our culture it’s a woman thing for some women not all I don’t know for AA culture but not all Or most Jamaican women love the nails
You and hubby were on the same page with your love language. You like him to do nice things for you whether it be something big or small. (Acts of service)
I myself am learning Punjabi (I know a good amount of hindi so I can understand but there's still a ton of differences onviously) but I'm so excited to have a kiddo one day, bc I'm also Caribbean so they'll be all up in the biryani and then some callaloo or sancocho 🤭😂 🥰🥰🤩
You are Gorgeous lady. Got a serious question. Are there alot of negative stereotypes that prevents alot of Black women to be interested in Brown South-Asian Men? What your opinion based on your friends input.
@@talharahman1980 thank you 🤗😇 ok, so... many brown South Asian men say outright that they prefer to date white women or brown women (similar caste, etc). Similarly, Brown South Asian women say the same thing as well, that they prefer white men. Also, there are many stories of brown families that do not want a black woman in their family. So, many black women would prefer to not be in a stressful relationship if it means that they have to deal with not being accepted because of their skin color. I know that all Brown South Asian men are NOT the same, and in some instances an interracial relationship is possible, but it really depends on the couple, the families, the personalities, and the strength of both partners to make it work and be in a peaceful loving relationship. ❤️ 💕. I think it's good to date who you genuinely like, the rest will follow.
@@livingdulce Great. Personally I love the look of beautiful educated Black women and Mixed White-Black, Latina-Black, Asian-Black women. Just like Black women have stereotypes of us only wanting a White or Brown Woman. Even we too have stereotypes that attractive Black women are more into Black Men(since it is their own kind) who are tall & buff/ripped/athletic, or White-Men(since they dominate western society in terms of banking/hollywood etc.), hence we can be intimidated to approach attractive Black women. Also, rumors from some Black men complaining Black women having atttide, makes some of us think if she shows here own kind attitude, imagine how much attitude she might show us Non-Black Men who are Brown/Asian etc. I think the biggest problem is stereotypes we all have about each other that prevents us finding love. Hence I still try my best to approach Black Women mostly indirectly like asking directions or complementing their style, who I find attractive. I have noticed Spanish-Speaking Black-Latinas or Dark-Latinas tend me to open to me especially ones from Dominican Republic or Brazil or Colombia. I am pretty sure there are Black-American English-Speaking women who find me attractive, it is just faith & time will tell if I find one.
@@livingdulce I think Hindu or Sikh men might marry more within their race/caste/creed. I think a Indian-Muslim man is diaspora like Fiji, Mauritius, Guyana, might be more open to a Black Women as long as she is Muslim or converts to Islam.
@@talharahman1980 so, to make a quick summary of what I said above, the thing that prevents Black women to be interested in Brown South Asian men is possibly having to deal with not being accepted into the brown guy's family. You can imagine this is stressful,and wastes her time. Another possible negative stereotype is that a Brown South-Asian man could just have a fetish with a Black woman...they do not want something serious, so in that case also, Black women may avoid them.
