I like this a lot. Being married should be fun. I had a huge problem with laundry on the floor etc, yes I was told to pick my battles but it still gets to me from time to time. I think we have a responsibility to teach our husbands some domestic chores. Some things will benefit one especially when there are children around. We have been raised in different backgrounds etc, however we can still learn and unlearn things. I love you too very much and keep it up. God should be the foundation of every married couple. Be open, be honest, love unconditionally, forgive without measure and these are keeping us going. Lastly my husband always says, hurting you does not mean I love you less, it just confirms that i am human and I make mistakes.
My husband and I really enjoyed this video. It is something that the world lacks, which is the idea of marriage among youth. I am also a married young lady and I am so much like Mpoomy and my husband is so much like Brenden. He keeps the peace. Like you guys are so much alike to us. Wooow guys. God bless all of us. And may we continue to flourish.
❤️I'm learning a lot from you guys thank you so much it's like you were sent for a purpose in my life specifically 😭I'm so greatful of your advises they so full of wisdom God bless you in abundance 😍
Before I watched I was like " 23 minutes!!!😱😱" But when it ended I was like " Soo soon!?😞😟" Keep this up guys, it's really helpful and needed! ♥️♥️♥️♥️
I believe in trusting your intuition n gut. If a guy is asking to wait for him, it can b maybe he is sorting his life or wants to know more about himself or both ways. Focus on yourself n goals and do not loose yourself in the process. Stop trying to hook him up to b his mistress n give him wifey priviledges. Fill your own cup because marriages need emotional maturity n connection. Never try to change him. Ask good questions but do not drill or interrogate the guy. Just chill...u're never late. There is nothing worse than marrying the wrong guy/ or woman.
Honestly I love you guys.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I mean wow!! I think you guys should do another video now and tell us how you manage things like conflict, and the likes the things you were struggling with in 2018 and now you have improved.... Please
they answered my question yay!! the one about dealing with conflict, but unfortunately it's what you guys are also dealing with so you couldn't really help me. but i mean we live and we grow...I'm also very strong willed and believe i am always right, and i want my parter to believe it when he really doesn't. hopefully we will all learn to deal with this and conquer it. much love
"You not taking me out of my parents' to put me in your parents house". Haha 😂. It's true no sane girl would feel comfortable waking up to the in-laws and having everyone intrude into your privacy all the damn time. No matter how rich the parent in laws are, in fact that's the worst situation. Yes Mpoomy so is right.
I agree with making it the other person’s responsibility to guard the marriage, guard their heart against all threats, and I think having access is reasonable: passwords, codes the lot. However, actually actively going in there I feel leans more towards the invasion of privacy and lack of trust. Just my opinion. I want to be able to feel fully transparent and give every access to my partner but for us to be so trusting that there is no need to actually go a step further by reading personal messages. If I start feeling the need to open his WhatsApp/DMs and whatever else then I would know it’s time for us to reassess. It wouldn’t be a healthy space for me personally. Been there- Done that- Got the scars to show.
Loved this video! You guys are too sweet together. I have a question (Lol I know I'm late with questions) You guys once mentioned in one of your previous videos that you had broken up a few times, what were the reasons and how did you reconcile to the point of marriage?
God where have your videos been all along 😍😍😍I'm so inlove with you guys, I'm inspired 😊... Im learning 😉by the way. "I don't make time for her, she has my time" 😊😊😊😊🙏🙏🙏
I was smiling silly when I was watching it and then he said "I don't think she can twerk tho!" Haaaa the soul left the body ... This amount of shade is illegal
I don't know what does this mean i was watching something else before i decided to watch your videos & i was ready to sleep then i opened one of your videos n now I'm wide awake , you guys are meant for each other may the good Lord bless your marriage ❤💝
Next time you have a Q&A.. I've got a question. So I've been in a customary marriage for just over 2 years. My husband and I have fought soo much, so badly over a couple of stuff. Infidelity included and my response to all that was SOO EXTREME! I however kept on going back. Okay so now we're apart again. He's my uni sweet heart.. we've got 2 gorgeous girls. I sort of wanna leave for good, but coming from an African family, it's taboo. Also I'm such a Christ girl that I believe I just need to keep on praying and things will fall back into place. I don't want my kids to be without thier dad. Also I'm afraid no one will ever be interested in being with someone with 2 kids... «« these are all the reasons why I'm still putting my relationship status on hold. So guys.. I'm conflicted. I moved back home, I even found a new job here, a nice comfy and fulfilling job, Rustenburg. My hubs is in Limpopo. I feel that God is giving me a new life away from him, what do I do hleng guys.. I'm 26 going on 27... He's 29 going on 30. Sa yah guys... Your take..??
Hello gal, hope you held on to your happiness and realized it's 10x important than your kids or hubby, without you your mind and soul in place nothing else will, not even them!
