Q&A | Part 1 

Enjoy your life journey with your husband. Forget the naysayers. Trust in God.

This is awesome! I am a homeschool, homebirthing, homesteading mom of three. I truly appreciate seeing other people living wholesome lives and being willing to share their stories. Disfunction has become so normalized that people feel triggered by a functional situation. Thank you for your content.

As a man, I could watch Estee talk for hours on end. She is so cute and traditional. It is like watching a 50's housewife. Her husband is a very lucky man.

I am glad you're bringing the Trad wife lifestyle to light. I was called a loser when I told a prospective mate that I wanted to be a housewife. It's hard to find a man out there that respects that.

Some people are just filled with hate...your response to them comes from a loving place...good for you!

I’m 59 years old, I’ve seen the struggles woman have went through to be heard. Now we have choices, family? Career? or both but the minute you say that your choice is to be a wife and homemaker you are ridiculed, laughed at, got anger directed at you and more, by other Women!! I’m nearly forty years married and many of the women who ridiculed me are divorced. My choice has worked for me and yes when my husband and I go out for coffee I put the sugar and milk in it for him. It’s a little gesture and a loving one. He touches my hand gently every time I do it and I still get a thrill from head to toe. Stick by your choices and don’t let anyone interfere with them because they think they know what’s good for you because they don’t! You do. ❤❤❤

Estee, I am 55 years and have been walking out my role as a traditional wife but really didn’t “know” it. You have truly inspired someone older like myself. I thank you truly. Bottom line, wisdom is wisdom, it doesn’t matter where it comes from. I appreciate your wisdom, I know it comes from God’s word. 💖💝

“In my family we celebrate everyone’s differences.” I don’t know why but this made me tear up 🥲

You are NOT a blast from the past! You are a great hope and a shining light into the future if your generation has any chance to make this country what it was when there were so many women like you. The greatest one in the world! I won't be here to see it. But I pray that what you represent becomes a sweeping epidemic in this country!❤

Mom of 4 here married for 10 years next February. You are such a light in my life, it’s beautiful to see young ladies (I’ll be 35 in December) wanting the big families and having dreams and goals. I love your channel and on Instagram. Keep shining being yourself sister you are inspiring so many regardless of those who don’t get it. Love your heart! 🩵

Thank you for having courage to publicize your faith in Christ and your support for traditional values. Don't listen to the haters that will scoff at you claiming you are unsophisticated. Being clever or cunning, like many on the left, does not make up for character deficit. "Virtue before knowledge"

I just love how kindly you put everything. Can't get over it. You're probably one of the absolute nicest people on social media right now. You seem so humble and not trying to force things on people. we need more of that in this world. Don't change!

Love this woman... such a beautiful soul and her husband is a lucky man.

YES! That’s the reason I shared my birth on my youtube channel! I had only known ONE other woman in my whole life at that time who had done a homebirth… it was NOT something I was exposed to or really even aware of! I’m excited you’re going for that too:) It was honestly a soul altering moment and I’m so grateful to God I was able to birth my son at home!🥺🙏🏻

I started being a stay-at-home mom in ‘94 and we homeschooled, and we were pretty counter-cultural at the time. I’m glad to see many of you younger gals taking this path and speaking up about it! ❤

Estée, could you possibly post a video of your passions, hobbies, or what you do for fun, personally as a housewife? My Mom used to sew, garden, even build us playhouses and little stages. She was amazing! Love your vids!😊

I LOVE that you are sharing that you do not have to marry wealth to be a homemaker! So true! We are not wealthy by monetary standards, but have a rich life.

I told my wife the other day I wanted a time machine to go back to the 50s. Dead serious. TRAD society. Take care, love what you're doing here.

I love this! I also met my husband at the gym and he’s also 2 years younger than me! We followed the same route as you. We were newlyweds for a year and we bought our first home and now I’m 5 months pregnant with a baby girl and our 2 year wedding anniversary is tomorrow! God is good! I’m very happy for you

Hi from France :) first, I wanted to tell you that I admire you, for standing up for your choices, no matter what. Secondly, I'm definitely not familiar with american trad wives movement and even the "gender" narratives, that some of your commenters brought up. I think that people should live the way they want and never be pressured into fitting a certain role. And finally, I wanted to share my own experience with you : I chose the carreer path until I had my baby and realized I was missing so many things, like her first word, her first steps and stuffs. After a year and a half, I gathered my courage and quit my job to be a full time mom at home. It lasted until she was old enough to go to school and then, I decided to become a part-timer, to still have free time for my loved ones while supporting them a bit financially. Things are perfect right now and I have the most caring husband who agreed with every single one of my choices. Good luck to you, hope you will get your big big family!!

It's kind of interesting how our experiences with our spouses are almost the same. Met my wife on Dec. 31 2019 and got engaged about a year and a half later. Got married on Jan. 7 2023. She is currently staying at home and we are currently trying to get pregnant. Way to keep the traditional families going. Stay blessed!

Thanks for the little peak into your life, Estee. An electrician is a great job. You husband will always have work, and on bigger jobs he may get to work with family. As a topic for a future video, I think that many people would like suggestions on finding a good partner. Finding the right person can seem like an impossible task at times. Don't listen to any of the haters. Lots of unhappy people on the Internet, and the best way to help them is to just be yourself. You can only live your life. I look forward to future topics on your channel. Cheers.

Married for almost 10 years here. The way you do marriage is spot on Estee👏🏼 People scoff because you’re a 25 yr old newly wed, but time will prove that you were on the money. Don’t worry about them ❤

Yay for more RU-vid! I don’t have any other social media so this is the only place I see your videos 😁 I love that you shared about the influence from the Indian culture. Many Americans feel like traditional wives are a novel or an outdated concept, when in reality, most of the world has continued operating in this way because they have learned over hundreds, if not thousands of years that it *works*! I’ve been married over 13 years and we have 3 children now. Keep doing what you’re doing! You are on the right track!

I know you probably won’t see this, but I just wanted to say you’re so inspiring and such an incredible woman! I started watching your videos a couple months ago. I’m 15 years old and trying to figure some things out. Ever since I was a little girl I’ve always wanted to be a traditional wife, but so many horrible people around me brought me down to this level of thinking that I was less than a man and being a wife was all I was good for. It hurt me, and I went through this deep manipulation for years. I recently became free from all of these negative voices in my life. But, certain parts of traditional marriages scare me. My fear is that I will be thought less of, become oppressed, or be mistreated. Traditional marriages are beautiful and a dream of mine. It’s just hard to have a dream like this when you have a messed up mindset. I keep praying and asking for God to help me, and to heal my unhealthy mindsets. Watching your videos has helped a lot, I realize that a good man would not think of you as less but his equal in marriage 😊. Praying blessings over you and your husband! ❤️ Thank you for posting these amazing videos.

You are such a beautiful woman, inside and out. Keep doing what you're doing - you are an inspiration!

I would love to see vlogs! Or like more of this sit down chats.

My wife is a tradwife and she loves it and I like it too. Keep doing what you're doing and don't let anyone say otherwise.

You and your messages are validating to women like me who have no other choice but to stay home. I struggle with Lyme disease which isolates me, and due to the severity of it keeps me from working. That being said, it brings me such joy every day that I can in the least provide a good home cooked meal for my hard working husband who is a house painter by trade, and to focus on making our home a welcoming sanctuary. Unlike so many, I do not have the choice of going to work. But God gives me the strength every day to attend to whatever needs doing around our home, and I am forever thankful for that!🙂💕

I'm really happy you are focusing more on RU-vid. This is where I spend most of my time. Its nice to get to know you better. I can already get a feeling of your journey through answering these questions. Have a blessed day.

I was so excited to land on your channel. You have inspired me to embrace being a stay at home mom. And I love how much joy you have in your videos.

I was so excited to see this come out! I love to hear about your life. You are such a light. The world needs more inspiration for loving happy homes, so thank you❤

I'm really happy that I've found you. Your content is realy warm and nice to watch, and seeing you standing up for traditional values is really great. Love your videos and can't wait for more. Blessing from Brazil!

I'm glad you are doing what makes you happy, Estee. I hope everything works out for you x

I love your positivity and willingness to share and help others . God bless you. 😊

Thank you Estee for normalizing what to me has been normal for 24 years now. Being a wife of nearly 26 years and a mother of two almost 24 years now. I wouldn’t have it any other way. This to me is the most IMPORTANT job there is. Take care of your hubby ( it comes back ten fold) and put great kids out into society. Thank you for your content.❤ Watching from Michigan…Kim

You are so wonderful in so many ways. Thank you for bringing traditional families to the forefront.

I loved watching this. It's so interesting to see how different people gravitate towards and embrace traditional family roles. I especially like how a lot of the assumptions you get (like that you're emulating 50s western culture, or that you're sheltered and don't have a concept of familial hardship) are just blown away by your actual experiences and motivations. We all do it slightly differently as "traditional wives" and it's so exciting to see different experiences

Greetings from a homeschooling mom to 4 😁 from Poland!❤ Love your content, keep going😊

Just found your channel. Love you, you are so real. You know what type of relationship you and your husband want!! Traditional way of life is awesome especially when kids come around!!! I support you!!!

You are doing what makes you happy today and what's most likely to make you happy later in life. Nothing could ever be better than that!

Your openness about not just current events but also for plans and even your past. Who of us wants to share with others their mistakes along with their "smart" choices? Yet how can we most help others other than revealing some of our negative experiences along with our happy ones? Since you look so well-proportioned now (since your implants removal), it's difficult to imagine your feeling inadequate when younger. Your disclosure of other less than ideal decisions almost certainly will help some or many to avoid unnecessary disappointment or even pain in their lives. You husband has a gem in you instantly by being physically attractive (to all men) and well-groomed and an energetic, creative and loving helpmeet. I thank him for allowing you to share your life with viewers.

I believe that you are gorgeous no matter how you wear your hair. I love that you support your husband, and that he supports you! You both seem level headed, I am glad that you have this channel. Don't forget to be spontaneous!!!

Amazing! she's such an inspiration! Loving the wholesomeness and positive message Estee is sending out to the world.

I love this, Estee! Thanks for helping inspire the type of behavior that we need more of to build the framework of a healthy society! You hit the nail on the head: it's not wrong for a woman to not go the route we do, but it's also such a high calling and a noble challenge to choose to pursue it, especially when it's looked down on by modern culture! Wish you lived in Texas so we could be friends! I'm 25 and about to have my first baby, and I definitely consider myself a traditional wife. I don't have any friends who feel quite as passionate as I do about this lifestlye. Keep up the good work, and I hope we can get in touch and at least be friends virtually! ❤️🥰

Nine years older and learning so so much from you, beautiful lady. Keep it up; I love seeing my own lifestyle reflected back to me through the next generation's eyes, it makes me braver.

I can't find enough kind words in the English language to say about you. Women like you give me hope for humanity. God Bless you and your Husband

Hello from France. I'm a traditional husband, dealing with career/life expectations of my wife and kids. So, your video gaves me an interesting point of view. Thank you.

I’m so excited you will be on here! This is my personal favorite platform. I look forward to watching your upcoming videos ❤

I absolutely love your page. I always wanted to be a traditional wife and we thought we couldn’t afford it so I worked. We finally made the decision for me to be a stay at home mom and wife and it’s been the best decision of our lives. I can’t explain it, but there is just a peace/less stress in the house that wasn’t there before. Thank you and I love your content!

Good for you Estee! Nice to see an authentic young lady, quite rare these days! My wife always wanted to be a Mother more than anything else. Most fulfilling time of our lives was raising our three children. Wishing you & your husband all the very best with your life journey! Hugs from Australia!

Hi from France ! Thank you so much for being such an inspiration for women all around the world. God bless you and your husband

❤found your channel by chance and have been loving your content. Looking forward to part 2 and the husband storytime video, also would love a closet or housetour video

Love your Videos, Shorts, Etc. My degrees are in history and sociology, and I have so much to say in terms of how meaningful these are, but I’ll keep it short. I believe in the Lord and in what you’re portraying here. May He bless your creative pieces to influence people in a happier direction!❤️❤️❤️

I 100% admire your lifestyle choices! The illustrations that you post are the illustrations I grew up with. So growing up, that was my ideal for my future. Unfortunately, I was discontent with certain aspects of my life and started chasing a way to support myself. I regret throwing away those years with my kids and supporting my husband. Now at 57, I find myself longing for that lifestyle… soon…

You have a great outlook on life. Women need to hear your message that they don't need to feel pressured by society to have a career if they want to be a stay-at-home mom and wife, but they can certainly work if they want to. Blessings to you and your family.

Your story is so similar to mine! Met my husband in middle school but lost track until our early 20s. I’m 14 months older and had to deal with confusion over my traditional decisions for ME. No problem with anyone else living their life their way. So 20 years in here’s my advice thank each other, love each other, and listen to each other NOT those outside of your relationship. You know you! Keep it up, you got this.

It’s great to hear your story and the traditional side of things. I grew up with non traditional but always craved it. My generation and younger are always told to be independent and have a job that doesn’t require you to depend on a man financially. If I continued that thought process my marriage would have failed. Luckily, I turned things around and I’m a SAHM of three, housewife, and I start homeschooling this year. Keep sharing your story! Also, for baby prep, I really recommend takingcarababies. Worth every penny. Didn’t with my first but did with my second and third. The difference in sleep habits is real.

Excellent, look forward to your longer form video format. Men need to learn what it takes and how to be a traditional masculine husband; and women need to learn the same in being a traditional wife. Both completely different roles but perfectly complimenting each other providing stability, confidence, companionship and a healthy lifestyle. Best of luck!

Thanks so much for your Content! It truly is encouraging to me. I’m also a house wife and I get lot pressure to go back to work. But honestly being a wife and full time mother has been such a blessing to my faith in Jesus and to my family. Keep up the videos. It great to see young ladies such as your self embracing Christian values. 🎊 🎉

You’re such a graceful and powerful woman! I’m excited to see more of your yt videos 🤍

I would do anything to be at home with my daughter and focus on my family. Thank you so much for sharing your life! It's an inspiration to see such a beautiful and feminine woman- inside and out - who is embracing a traditional female role. Society needs Moms back with their families. ❤

Bless you! It's so refreshing to see young women celebrating being a stay at home mum. My children are grown up now. We have 8 children of our own and 2 young adopted children, and I have been a stay at home for the whole of our 30 year marriage. It's been lovely to watch them grow up without the pressure of having to work. I'm very appreciative of the fact that I was able to do that, and had a husband that was very supportive in this choice. I don't think you can offer children anything better than a stable home and marriage, with a mum that is happy and not stressed. ❤

Love the traditional wife lifestyle!! ❤❤ Thanks for bringing it to light!

I can't wait for longer content and for you to be a youtuber!!! I'm 34 years old and I will still watch your content on being a homemaker! I can't wait for the next generation after me and see what modern day advice I can learn from and keep up with. I will happily wait. You already have a fan in me!

Keep on the path Estee! Im so blessed with a Trad Woman- been married since 1987. 3 kids. 8 grandkids. She makes me and our kids and family and home her priority and has a gentle, genuine, loving spirit like you

You are truly aligned with your purpose. I’m 32 and feeling so inspired by your content. ❤❤❤

We love all things traditional and simple. From gardening to finance. There is a lot of us out here who support you

Thanks for the glimpses into your lives, Estee. We really appreciate it. 😊👍

You have a beautiful soul, Estee. I saw that the first time I watched one of your videos. You’re a natural in front of a camera and authentic to the core. I wish you happiness always.

Day in the life, thrifting/thrift hauls,housewife life, organizing/decluttering. I'm also a traditional housewife and love it. ❤

Thank you so much for your voice on here! I cannot wait for more videos. I would love to see more about your daily life, your faith and recipes!

There are so many great mom you tubers that I watch. I find it very inspiring. You are setting a great example for women your age. Keep it up and good luck with your channel!

Good job!! Thank you for being brave and sharing in such a polarized world

I love hearing you speak! Thank you and God Bless 🙏

A provider!!! Some people don't understand this simple but TRUE blessing 😀

I'm an over 50s trad wife (or try to be) and I'm happy to take advice from you. You go girl! Keep sharing and we'll keep watching. Traditional is the way to go!

I enjoyed listening to this longer content! You mannerisms, demeanour and gentle, kind nature remind me of a young Emily Maynard far more than Marilyn. Also, I so appreciate that you celebrate the success of all women. Yes, we are all different and can be fulfilled in different ways. I very much respect the path you've chosen. Though we couldn't afford it, as a kid I would have really loved having a stay-at-home mom. These days, the world is even more difficult to navigate with social media and changing social trends. It's so vital to have loving and very 'present' parents that can positively guide children. Best wishes, and look forward to more videos!

I love to see you happiness, passion and creativity. You live your beliefs and that is great. In the end, what matters in life is to be who we are and to express ourselves in the best way for us and those we love (without harming anybody). In whatever area we chose. For one it might be being an athlete, for another a scientist, farmer, teacher, housewife... as long as we love what we do and give it our best, everything is fine!!

Estee, you are such a living doll! From one trad gal to another, I applaud you and your goodness. There is no other nobler calling than that of being a wife and a mother. Truly, you are an inspiration and I love all your content.

I think it’s great that are following your heart and not giving into trendy lifestyle pressure. You be you, it’s interesting hearing your views.

I’m so glad I found you! I have really embraced being a trad wife in the last few months and I’m so excited to find some help and insight to help me improve!!

Congratulations on your standing up for what you know will be true.

You are such a happy person to look at and learn a thing or two from. I can’t wait to watch your content here on RU-vid. Topic for suggestions will be “house wear dresses” you look gorgeous in them❤️

You’ve inspired me. Thank you for being a light and example on here ❤️

You ate wonderful. Stay strong. Always refresh yourself in the word. And just saying. I know several family's of 5-7 children. If you and your husband are in a good place and feel inclined, please don't let society limit that number. A beautiful family just blesses all those around them. God bless you and your hubby and all your family. ❤

My husband and I love your videos and we are almost the same in our relationship. I stay at home and raise our newborn and keep the house. He provides and protects. We love this and since I’ve stopped work and given birth I am a totally different person. I now have the time and energy to put into my family and not a job. Keep making your videos! It’s beautiful to see traditional housewives speaking out. I believe this relationship is the key to a happy marriage and life. Everyone gets what they need then 😊

So refreshing in this crazy world. God bless you and your husband.

Amen 🙏 tight budget to save money. Marry a provider man not a wealthy one ❤ when I had my daughter I knew I needed to stay home and God wanted me to be there. I quit and God provided the increase in my husbands pay. Follow God and he will provide!

I love your content and am excited to see you on RU-vid now! You have taught me a lot and helped solidify my goals to be a housewife and mother just like you :) I can't wait for your future videos.

The cooking videos you've been making recently are awesome. If you're looking for inspiration for other types of videos to make going forward, Mrs. Midwest or Courtney Ryan's channels might give you some ideas. A collab with you and Mrs. Midwest someday would be amazing.

Thank you. You inspire not women only but men either. You inspired me work hard and make more money to find and support traditional woman

I'm glad you're bringing this traditional lifestyle back into the light! Society would be MUCH better off if more households followed suit. I myself want to be a homemaker, and it's shocking the amount of men that respond with, "So you just want to be a maid?" I can see you're so happy, and I think it's great that you're bringing spreading the truth about being a homemaker- it's NATURAL to want this, and it's clear you're happy and living your best life!

Your kindness is beautiful ❤ Keep loving the ones who post hurtful comments. You’re making a difference.

Home births are absolutely amazing and empowering! Both of my kids I've had at home. To me, it feels like the more comfortable, natural decision. Good luck in future pregnancies and home births 💛

Estee! You are such a breath of fresh air. I whole heartedly agree with everything you say. I was raised to be a "girl boss" and it never felt right in my heart.

Hello Estee, Thanks for this nice and long video, i already commented a video of yours and i repeat again what i have said, i am not american i am french 62 years old and proud to see some traditional wifes like you ! you are the hope for the future in that crazy world , classy , polite, respectful. I hope to see you more on YT , sending much love and respect ♥

This leading edge, from the past yes, but its now the leading edge. In the 1970's there were no girls that I can remember ever saying they wanted to me a homemaker. What you are doing is amazing and you are making a wonderful effect. What you do gives me a great deal of optimism for future girls and women.

Keep the encouraging coming! Love your content and your honesty ❤

Very glad you will be more serious about youtube, you are an inspiration, much needed now-a-days.