Me too dear croney, shayna's chanel is such a reminder of the aspirations of "oh life should/would/could be free like this...." Confirmation too of the road less taken, the do it yourself life.. My favorite thing though has been the most practicle reminder of dress how ever the F you want to..something like that....✌
@@lyricaldon9045 you got it! lol, the reward for living this long is i do anything i want, look anyway i please, and have a messy kitchen!!! It really cheers me up to see youngsters already feeling this free.
Watched Hitomi's video about her life lessons this morning & thought that I'd really love to see another vid like this from my other favorite youtubers, and then you posted this 💜 I'm so grateful, thank you so much! ✨✨
In my opinion you can't compare those two women...Hitomi seems very lost, far from the real world, struggles so so much with her eating disorder in a sad way and she talks stranger and stranger things, that I had to stop warching her videos. The purple palace chanel is so real, so interesting, so full of "word-diamonds", that it feels very good in my heart, when I listen to Shayna. she 's really a rare, beautiful soul💙
@@az894 hitomi seems fake. I tried watching her videos, but seeing her use terms such as "ancestral healing" just makes me cringe. The only other vlogger I watch is Leahsfieldnotes
The children you were an au pair for must’ve been so blessed You remind me of a younger more vibrant version of the Magic School Bus teacher - remember that cartoon?! Yours is at once a childlike energy with the depth and security of a mature insightful adult ❤️
The hypersensitive section was exactly what I needed to hear after this week. Thank you for being so open about your hypersensitivity. It’s been so hard for me to feel good about my sensitivity and I needed to hear validation for being sensitive.
Hi Shayna! I was wondering if you could make a video about journaling and how you go about it? like maybe how you go about goal setting or how you do your check-ins to see if you are on track? Thanks so much
you're like a real life Disney princess! you personality is so incredible and I am wonderfully grateful to have you on my life path. you are so kind!! I love you, beautiful soul
That's really inspiring hearing that you didn't even know if you should continue when you started your channel. Just watching you now it looks like you had the goal from the start but it's nice to see that it evolved naturally like that...
when you talked about what attracts you to a person, i was thinking, hey, this kinda sounds like me, and when you said people who are just lovingg. i dont know why but this feels a bit special to me, because that's how people describe be. dono, that really spoke to me
eee i luv luv luv ur vids so much ! i recently uploaded a fashion film/lookbook/character study thing (idk hehe) buuut it was majorly inspired by your and i'm really happy with it so thank you for being an incredible inspiration to me i appreciate you and your content so much xxx
I feel you girly!…. The whole open soul!.. and being an Empath is draining!… and I also have to watch who I spend time with and who is in my life- I totally get it!..!… I have your back girly
I totally relate to the having multiple interests. I'm currently interested in writing a novel, copywriting for creatives, learning to paint, and podcast editing. I'm definitely going to take Shayna's advice and start focusing on what projects I have the time to focus on during the month and go from there. 🌻💜✍🏾
Thank you for this video, it was really lovely 💖💖 I'm glad I came across your channel last winter bc following you through this year has been incredible. I'm glad to see you're landing in a good place, I hope you have a lovely autumn ❤ PS love the orange turtleneck!!
I really like what you said about friendships and being spontaneous with your friends! I want to buy a cake and go out somewhere random with a friend now haha Also when you mentioned happiness and finding happiness in the little things such as your cup of coffee in the morning. Lovely video!
Thank you so much for this vlog, you've inspired me while taking the day to paint! I especially appreciated when you talk about anchoring negative things we share with friends. I've been in Toulouse for 3 years waiting for my husband's greencard and he keeps getting rejected (very sad for my morale) I know it's a sign to stay in France! but I have to stop putting my energy into the whole thing and change my viewpoint when I talk about Us immigration services, and maybe that will change the reality. I'm really grateful for your vlogs, you make me feel like I can connect with an American, while trying to stay positive here and see all France's beauty. Gros bisous et merci!!! keep em cominnnng :D
do you ever notice that after a while of only speaking french you start speaking english differently ? i noticed you said «bank card » instead of debit card because that is what we say in french and it made me think of this lol
Mercury Retrograde until Oct 18th 2021Reset, Review, Relax...Empath (so understand and I totally watch my energy) OMG! you are so correct... I have an old fashion (manual) juicier and just to squeeze fresh oranges 2x per week...WOW...It IS the littleness of Life...YES. Whatever you Focus on GROWS...Both style videos are cool...
Hey Shayna:) are you an Enfp by any chance? (16 personalities test) because I am and I feel like you are too, but who knows. I'd just be interested to know:) I am super sensitive so I really appreciate the part where you talked about that. Also what you said about if ppl judge you they're not your friends and also choosing to do what makes you happy (although this is not new advice) just is good to hear every once in a while. You're having a really good impact you know, I feel encouraged and inspired by you. 💗
I am fun of you. I am also a foreign student in Paris . I wonder if I can find someone in Paris who can help me improve my speaking skill in English and in return I can help learning arabic or French.
hi! slightly random question, but I noticed your keyboard piano in the background and was wondering where you got it? i just moved to Paris and have been trying to find a place to get one but haven't had any luck yet :)
Hahaha I think all the things like blocking the phone and stuff happened because of the current mercury retrograde, it messes up with technology communication delays etc.
“You have to determine for yourself if the fear is greater than your purpose” 🧡 reminds me of what you said in Damon’s red wine talk video (saved in my notes haha): “you have to find something you care more about than what others think of you”. Really struck a chord with me and is helping me approach my fear of posting 🎥 you’re an inspiration as always 🧡🧡
When you started talking about when/if you should give up on a dream, I got teary eyed. After seventeen years of chasing my dream of being an actor, I let it go due to the toxicity of the environments I found myself in. Now I’m focusing on my drawings and spending more time outdoors. It’s not always easy, but I’ve found the tradeoff to be the most beneficial thing I could have done for my mental health.
I'm in France as an exchange student and I've been feeling a bit lonely lately. Your videos help me so much to remeber I'm not alone in this world and to remind myself what I'm doing all this for. It always feels like a coffee with an old friend. Thank you!
@@julienbee3467 i'm not in Paris, but I visited it for a week. People are not really talkative, I think that it's easier to make friends in smaller cities.
Going off one of the questions you answered about following your dreams/not knowing what to do: a lot of people (including me) dont really have “dream jobs” and thats 100% ok!! You can always pursue something you feel is practical/works best for you. Although I do think everyone should find something they find fulfilling and enjoy, you dont always have to monetize your passions/hobbies 💖
@@Jess-it9jy Right now everything’s still very fresh, so I’m not yet doing okay. I’m basically just sitting around waiting for the wound to dry, and once that’s the case, I really want to follow Shayna‘s footsteps and pour all of the energy that I used for feeling the pain and loving him into my filmmaking and my RU-vid channel. I just gotta trust the process, that one day I’ll be fine and can create something beautiful from it, even though right now everything just seems hopeless. Idk, sorry for rambling, I’m a bit of a mess these days 😅
@@iCharlyprime I know exactly how you feel but you will be okay again. It sounds like you’re on the right path and I’m sure you’ll go on to create amazing things! The feeling of hopelessness will pass I promise. I wish you all the best xox
"youre sensitive" is gaslighting. not the type of person i want to be around. (not meaning sensitive is a bad thing...but when someone says that following your response..theyre being dismissive)
I just quit smoking weed it was rlly cool to hear u talk ab stopping drinking im 17 and so all my friends smike and i used to be a huge stoner so this is a big step for me bur its been a week and i am more motivated than ever I am making so much art and j so happy rn :)
I've been an intern at a centre for child and adolescentpsychology and what we teach the kids when they are worrying is that you can decide to get on the train (the negative thoughts that come by a trigger). Sometimes you can sit on it and step out at the next stop (it is alright to worry a little bit), but you can also decide to let the train pass (not feeding into the thought). You''ll have to train to not get on the train, but it will get easier over time. Thought it was a night visual example of what you're saying about what helped you over your heartbreak.
I’ve also made the decision to cut back on alcohol. I’ve been much more mindful about my drinking habits. It feels so good to be fully present and not numb myself out of habit. I didn’t realize I was often robbing myself from experiences I would forget about the next day because of alcohol. I’m on a mission to find a balance for myself.
I love watching her aesthetic but also listening to her wise thoughts 😔💖 Thanks for sharing this stuff PS. Orange looks so gorgeous on you ✨✨
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woahhhh when you were talking about having true connections with ppl and when you notice when someone "takes" your energy - i was just talking to a friend about that the other day ! then you said a lot of your friends are cancers...hehe yep that's me! love your spirit
I've been struggling with relationship things for the past few months and I think the advice you gave about not giving your problems/worries attention was so apt! I felt the need to update my friends on the smallest things (someone not texting back, someone doing a kind gesture, etc.) and it just drove me crazy because I started to make the small things so big in my mind and heart :') So right now I'm committing to not talking about it and giving less thought to relationships and potential partners - here's to letting things be and taking one step at a time!💛 Thank you for sharing vulnerably, Shayna💕
13:35 I often think how can I make this dream work for me in this moment. Timing is everything and you may not be in a place where the dream that you envision makes sense , in that moment. So instead of giving it up completely, it may help to do something or learn something that will aid in achieving said dream. You won’t always make huge leaps and bounds towards your dreams, sometimes you have to take a step here and there. I believe as long as your making some type of progress towards what you want, you’re doing a good job 😊
Can we be friends already?!?!?! I'm only at the part where you talk about being sensitive and I feel SO SEEN AND HEARD!!! Thanks for representing us sensitive people!!!
I look forward to your videos each week. You radiate strength and openness and emotional/spiritual maturity and I aspire to be so true and loving to myself as you. I was actually so in awe with your self-support when you were talking about reclaiming the relationship with yourself and being so secure in yourself 💓 these videos are an amazing relaxation time and a pick-me-up after a heavy week (working weekend, Monday and Tuesday). Thank you for being you!!!
the being extremely sensitive is something I relate to a lot, I mostly saw it as a negative aspect my whole life, but you helped me see the positive sides to it too :)
Thank you Shayna!!!!! i've had a tough day so far and your chats comfort me! thank you for being vulnerable with us, it's so comforting for me. i also love that you are just so yourself and you just own it. you inspire me so much
Can’t think of anything I would «give up» right now. I just gave up social media, except for checking out other people’s RU-vid’s, obviously. I used to post almost daily on Facebook and Instagram, and approximately monthly on RU-vid (empress of the sun). Alcohol is really something I enjoy so that’s not going away. Drinking is something I’ve done in so many ways throughout my life and the mental state is really the key to making the poison healing and not damaging. I’ve recently started drinking Tuscan red wine. I highly recommend Brunello. 🍷🧛🏻♀️☠️
Another wonderful video. I am so glad to see you Shayna. You always make me feel good about myself. and help me see things that normally I wouldn't notice. Love you girl!
