The first thing out of dads mouth was about their mom. He hasn't healed from the loss of that relationship. He needs to take time alone and focus on just him & his daughters. He is the only one who can change this situation.
Agreed totally ... he wanted to cry when he started speaking ... he has not healed from the mom ... I also believe if they seek therapy they can still make it as a family ... they are all at the show together .. hmmmm
@@sweetteacurls yup and she problay use it against him for him finally leaving you can tell by her energy because let's be clear them kids are old enough to deal with him without her
I personally believe that there might still be love between them. They let their issues strain the relationship instead of resolving them. The fact that they are all in the same room suggests that there is still love there. They are attempting to act maturely and let each other go, but it is evident that it hurts them both. You can see the pain in their eyes as they realize they must grow apart.
The way he looked when he talked about his new girl being his piece of mind… he is totally whipped 😂 and the ex said she’s trying to get along with his new girl. I believe they are just mature enough to co-parent and to choose a platform that is based on family therapy shows their commitment to their kids.
I was looking for this comment, there’s a WHOLE heap of love and history between the dad and mum here. I think they wanted an intervention to bring em back together?
The father isn't completely over the mother. That's why he is still getting emotional over what happened. The father is using the new girlfriend as a bandage to get over the mother,that's why he's still dealing with the girlfriend and allowing her to do what she wants. She's giving him some type of happiness and it's coming at the expense of his daughters. The girlfriend is toxic and he needs to move on.
Vice Versa… women always side with women… when Karamo asked her a few different questions she didn’t directly answer them because she still loves him and beat him down for years like he said at the start. He’s trying not to bash his daughter and mom. The daughters know their dad to be in the home, so I’m sure they are hurt and provoking the new lady.. the mom said she doesn’t respect me or my daughters.. the mom knew she pushed him away and she wants her family back..
True and he answered Selfishly. He brought attention to the issues he had with their mom , and tried to say the reason they don't like the girlfriend is because of what happened with the mother. Then he made it about him finding love and moving on, trying to justify breaking up his family after 20 years. I like how Karamo acknowledged that but brought it right back to what the daughters spoke on. My step dad was like that. Every time I called to spend time with him he made my effort into me wanting him get back with my mom. I took it like he didn't want anything to do with me, so I cut him off and haven't spoken to him in about 10 years now. These types of people are inconsiderate and only care about what makes them happy.
He sounds like he's been hurt for years and is choosing himself. His daughters would be moving on to another love soon, and he'll just be an ATM like most fathers are to their daughters soon. Choose your partner so long as they are not abusing your children. Your children will choose who they like, whether or not their parents like them
@@akaylacuffie5638 girl what? He couldve spoke up and gave reassurance to his daughters that he will put effort in or apologized. He was zoning out like he didnt care, so hurt about what?? My dad would NEVER. The only hurt one is YOU. Toodless
It’s okay to be single! He said he found sanity in that woman. Find peace within yourself and your children. Never make someone your everything because when they leave you’ll have nothing! Difficult lesson to learn but I’m so glad I did.
You can tell he has a lot on his heart and spirit.. he definitely doesn’t need to be in a relationship rn . Perhaps just stay single after 20 years of chaos . Smh STAY SINGLE AMD HEAL… When you don’t , you choose the wrong ones .
Absolutely! I feel that only men who can take care of themselves would stay single to heal. When they are not use to handling life alone , they tend to always need someone around whether they are toxic or not.
Dad talks like he’s a victim. It sounds like he blames the mother for the relationship ending. It sounds like he didn’t want it to end and he isn’t healed from it. Yet, he has a new girlfriend. WHY? Why didn’t he spend time healing. Does he have to have a woman? The girlfriend probably doesn’t like the mom because dad is blaming her for his poor emotional state. The new woman is trying to love on a broken man and she believes his ex broke him. Why is he even recruiting another woman to fix him? He isn’t protecting his ex or his girls because he’s to busy using this new woman to validate himself. It’s dysfunctional
@@aeshimani1342 There are people in general, men and women who use other people as a distraction. Some people use drugs, alcohol, food, entertainment, OTHER PEOPLE. None of these are healthy coping mechanisms. These man appears to possibly be codependent. He’s latched on to another woman instead of taking responsibility for his own emotional wellbeing and what is in the best interests of his children. How did he find love when he doesn’t seem to love himself? This isn’t love.
@@threelittlebirdscafe2294 You can be heartbroken and still acknowledge the part you played in the collapse of the relationship. He seems codependent instead of interdependent.
Why are you wymen all so pressed about him having a girlfriend and he needs to heal and he should just be alone? Because none of y'all can stand to see a man happy. He is happy and they can't take it, so they're gonna stress and gaslight him and hopefully strain the relationship to its breaking point 😮
If they all came to the Karamo Show together...it ain't over and this is the reason the new gf has issues. Dad...gotta always choose his babies!! The girls are trying to get them back together...he knows this....with all this she pushed me away!
I hear this a lot, my children went through the same thing with their dad. As the mom said the father has to fix that, a man should NEVER allow any woman to disrespect their children. It’s disgusting, I don’t understand why men think that’s ok. 😢
Everybody is there except the gf. She's not really a part of the family. Yh, he probably still does want to be with the Mom. And he's allowing the disrespect because he's mad. And he keeps something going with his ex.
They shop for the audience they want. It’s a stage for a reason. Maybe the storyline wasn’t strong enough for the audience because the girlfriend didn’t want to come.
What it sounds like is he got a young girl she's not mature enough for the past life that he had and he's probably most likely going to pick the young girl😢😢😢😢
I felt this one. My ex of 15 years is currently dating a YOUNGER woman he cheated on me with YEARS ago😳I didn’t know about her back then. Our son teenage son feels like his dad chooses his girl over him…and I feel bad for him. I communicate this to his dad but he always gets so defensive!! He moved the girl in his apartment and she doesn’t even make sure my son eats when he’s there! She’s 20 years younger…no kids…not a nurturing bone in her body smh. It’s so frustrating. Although her & don’t interact at all (so no chance for disrespect) I totally understand how the mom & daughters feel.
How did your son eat at his fathers before she moved in? I ask because I dated a guy in a similar situation and he told me the boy was very independent and I didn’t have to look after him to make me comfortable. Ur ex is looking for a mate only.
Karamo You are a very wise man Sometimes I cry when I watch your show. But, this show is where I get my healing from other than the Bible I love you Keep doing what you doing helping us to heal and grow❤❤❤❤
I feel he using his new GF as a rebound but really deeply still in love with the mother. His daughter's look just like him. He needs to step up grab a set of balls and tell his GF Don't EVER disrespect his daughter's AGAIN 💔
It’s so sad to see a man listen in public n trying to take advice on getting better and y’all hear trying to rips his heart out because he listen 😂😂😂😂😂 stay blessed king n protect your daughter, family is everything
Honestly for him to be there with his kids moms and for over 20 years i see the love they have for each other i pray they keep that strength and he keeps that bond the son is not saying nothing
This is complicated. Its going to take time and respect with boundaries. Mom if she doesn't have a man might be a issue. Not sure but women be hating !ot of the time cause it generally easier for men to move on then females and children follow her energy.Hope it all come together..
These are grown daughters, let your dad live his life. The mother has negatively influenced them...the new person doesn't owe them, she doesn't need to bend backwards and already just from this minutes you can tell they have an attitude to her. Man be happy, they don't have to meet with each other since I believe they live with their mother. Dad looks tireeeeeeeed...he must have felt and seen drama.
I truly believe Dad in saying mom has a lot to do with the children feeling as they do. He has no Ed on due to what I feel he was describing an affair the mom had. It's very common that daughters and sons don't like the new mate if Dad/moms new love interest. Kids have a tendency to react and respond as mom feels about the breakup.
Everyone should be respectful of one another. Dad may need to be single if he can’t get the relationship with his new gf and children in order. He’ll never be happy if his daughters feel like they’re his woman. I’ve experienced my man’s daughters feeling like what they want trumps what I want in my own home. They felt they should get what they wanted regardless of what I said. They didn’t want their father to be in the bedroom sleep with me. They wanted him to sleep in the room with them. That’s unhealthy. So fathers need to make sure their daughters are treated like their daughters and not their wives.
What will happen is the girls will slowly drift away from him when they are older, and the relationship will be less than what was or should be. That's what happened to me.
That happened to me too my parents were married 36 years and my father cheated got remarried and our relationship is now strained 🤷🏾♀️ but idc to repair it anymore
Respect needs to come from ALL involved. I have a boyfriend who has two girls. They are in their early teens. I get up in the morning, say good morning. I ask how everyone slept, try n make small talk. These girls don't have the decency to reply. The older one will reply with something I cant decipher. They are always too sleepy still for small talk or on their phones. Their father is around and sees this. Does nothing. They dont even say good morning to him. So Im wondering when these ex wives and kids demand respect are you also giving it? You cant demand respect and show disdain to the girlfriend cause the girlfriend is just that - a girlfriend.
Their mother is probely bitter, they old enough to look at the next girl like they dont like her and she dont go for the disrespect either now his daughters want respect when they give none. This was a short clip but i bet the new lady has done nothing but be nice. This new generation be nosey and judgmental. Wanna control dads life. I just went thru this w a mans grown daughter. There are bounderies.
Karamo was completely right that if the dad continues to allow the woman to disrespect his kids she will not respect him either. Another thing, some women are insecure and try to eliminate their man's first family to feel comfortable. The woman is not mature if she feels the need to eliminate his family to secure a place. He should shut his mouth telling his woman about his problems with the kid's mother. That only helps fuel her disrespect.
I get a feeling that they started the disrespect because their dad is with a new woman. I mean they were together for most of the lives. The mom started her comment with I have been with him for 20 years and we have 4 children together- she feels entitled to him because of this. The children feel the same way. I am glad that Karamo picked up on this. I wish the woman was there to defend herself and address why she may be disrespectful, she may be reacting to their actions.
That mom probably gives him hell still and being together and breaking up after 20 years and she claim she happy for him is 🧢 the mom probably dont have a man which she still has time to focus on him
I know how women is she's not happy he have another woman now the man needs to set boundaries between all of them the daughters listening and bias to mama but the new girlfriend knows they don't like her and they might be low key disrespectful ut daddy needs to be a man and set boundaries
So...put ALL THE RESPONSIBILITY on dad with ZERO AUTHORITY for him to take control. And the moment he "check" the girlfriend, Karamo will say that he is wrong for doing it lol. FOOLISHNESS!
Karamo, ur right about not all families could do that becuz I have/had 20 years in (3 kids) with my Ex & I couldn’t & wouldn’t stand being in the same room as that man 😂 🤦🏾♀️
Being someone who has had this happened to them… my father chose his girlfriend at the time wife now over me and my other two siblings. Me and my other three siblings. My dad is not one of those men who gets out of a relationship and works on his self and heels and gets into a healthy relationship… My dad’s a cheater, a deadbeat, and someone who has messed up with his three daughters. My brother also fuck with him, but he still talks to him. I know what these girls are going through and I hope their dad doesn’t get as far as my dad did me and my siblings are just done with him… I hope they understand what he is putting at risk if he doesn’t put this third-party in her place about his children
You should not allow your children and the girlfriend to disrespect each other. You should not allow a woman to disrespect your children under no circumstances.
Why is the mom there if there's an issue between the two daughters and time with their father? If it's over, let it be over. It's not fair to the new woman, that he has to go and be around his adult daughters in the presence of his ex.
The dad is using this new woman as a band aide. He’s still hurt and in love with the mom. He’s rebounding. He needs to heal himself through counseling and not through rebounds.
Let's hear the girlfriend's side. Lets hear about the snark and disrespect the daughter's show to his chosen partner because he is not with their mother. I would not doubt they have strategy sessions with mom on how to drive her out of their father's life.😮
Clearly, they still do things as a family, and I think the girlfriend, don't understand it. She probably thinks when they're doing family things it's because he still wants the mom.
I ❤ you Kamaro , I honestly feel like like the dad still has deep feelings for the kids' mom, and it was difficult for him to move on . The family unit has got to work on communication and the girlfriend has got to except this mans daughters not one but two and treat them with respect and vice versa or the relationship will be a no go period , my own mama know not to even attempt to come in between me and my dad let alone a girlfriend friend oh I let them know 😏
Where is the girlfriend??? He went to the show with his ex and daughters without the girlfriend. He needs to put his foot down, act like a man. Tell them that they need to respect the fact that he has moved on and respect the new woman in his life. They are talking bad about her without her being there to defend herself and that is disrespectful and speaks volumes. Also if the girlfriend is so disrespectful like they say im sure he would have ended the relationship.
They Don't Want Daddy To Have A Life! They Can't Judge Who He Is With! Dad Needs To Say These Are My Daughter's, They Will Be Here! Respect Them. And He Needs To Tell The Daughters That's My Woman Respect Her. Period! Momma Taught Them Disrespect There Father!😮 DAD Needs To make That Clear!
Why is it that all the negativity is to the father? And all from women, but none of you are acknowledging the first thing he said was how bad the mom hurt him and tore him down in their relationship.
