Here again at end of 2023…i see why sajid stood by you in all bad times…it’s evident from this video that you have always respected your husband and never disrespected him at all as these haters claim! You simply never gave up on him or blamed him for second marriage but just shared your emotional journey as first wife after the new wife entered your husband’s life and we got attached to your emotions!❤ No wonder because of this mutual respect even to this day you and sajid have strong bond going! Keep this alive forever love you and your kids !
I am a teacher from India. Allow me to say this because I can understand your pain. But sister, you conditioned yourself in a wrong way to accept injustice. I think it's totally a wrong doing of your husband when he cheated you and your children. He is not loyal to you. And please don't compare a sinful person to the great prophet! It is an insult to Islam. Educate yourself and please don't demean the struggle of women across the world by justifying wrong doings of your husband and also justifying your lack of awareness about your well being! I feel sorry for you and sincerely hope, you understand what are your legitimate rights and how your husband violated your rights. My prayers and love!
When a 13 year old Child is pushed to become a wife, a mother, a Woman, you do start to believe that sacrifice is a virtue, injustice is the norm. I wish you more happiness and strength for your future.
be positive, accept that justice doesn't exist 🙂. find your peace, solve your own little problems and don't try to solve others' problems which they don't even have
She has shown immense strength and courageous motherhood despite all adversities. I really wish she continues to stand tall and move out of suffocating wedlock with children under her wings. I hope she be the change women have been looking for in Pakistan ever since it’s inception. A husband marrying again without divorcing first partner in so unjust and should be made illegal by law.
Here in 2023 and ur attitude hasn’t changed much. U’re still a beautiful soul and a very down to earth person who tries to smile for us even in ur most difficult times!❤❤❤
@@monalishamajhi4622 shadi hoge jab first wife allow krege. . Otherwise nai kr sakta aur agr wo chahhye b toh us ko first wali ko divorce ddena hoga. N jo unhun nai bola ki humary profit saw ki b sahdi huie thi un mai aur aj k insaan mai buht farq hai ... N tab e huie jab un ko pehli wife sai ijjzat mili ...
Look at her eyes 😭 pain dikh raha hai uski eyes mei 😪...stay strong sister...god bless u and God bless ur kids...lots of love from India ❤️...stay strong sister
Inka dard mere hum sabke dil tak pahunch Raha hai ankhon dekho awaz dekho jese andar se chikh rahi ho chilla rahi ho lekin apne bache or Ghar me sukun ke liye isne kese apna dard ko daba liya hai me to har vedic dekh kar ro rahi hu iski Allah ne kesi ajmaish me daal diya hai isko
Aap ka dill bda hai sabar vali ho isliye chinta na karo allah sath hai aap ka aur ham bhi baji mujhe lagta hai aap pakistan se ho bat aap bhot piyari ho baji
Mai muslim pariwar se hun lekin phir v mai muslim ladke se nafrat karti hun kuch muslim ladke hote hai ghatiya jo kabhi kisi ka nhi sochte apke husband ne shadi karli biwi rehte huye or mere papa mujhe or meri ammi ko marte h allah pak ap pls muslim ladke ke man me pyaar dijiye jo ladkion ki izzat kare 😭
My heart broke when I heard your story and tears rolled down. God give your courage and strength always and God fills your life with abundance. A woman's journey is full of challenges and its women like you who inspire people like us with your positivity and strength.💞💞❤💖💗
why are you feeling sad..end of the day she is saying she is happy.. and she is saying and giving references in their religion..tat so and so happened.. we cant help people who dont want to help themselves. may b who knows she cant work out side and dependent on her husband. so i think she has to compromise thats it. and overall in her video she is saying and b happy tat its good to compromise due to religious verses etc and wat not. t b frank i strongly believe women should stop begging for respect they have to earn by themselves.
muhabbt ki lie bewi bacho ko dokh daina lazmi tha kia..zrori hy muhabbt wali sy he shadi be ke jaye etna he agar osku muhabbt the tho es sy shadi karny ky bajaye wahe nibhata na
ye bechari pata nahe kasy seh rahe hogi aj kal k dor me ek behin dosre behin k sat time nahe gozar sakti ye sotan k sat gozaregi..os orat ko b zara sa khyal nahe hy enky bacho ke
Really feeling sad for such mentality. We all women need stories about good experiences that encourage each other to love ourselves. We need to let each other know that we are important, wanted on this earth, loved, beautiful and enough. Stay tough. You're irreplaceable.
@@meghusingh3980 so true ... Mai logo ki mentality dekh kr hairan hun jo comment kiye h ... Chutiyapa .. ye aurat polygamy support kr rhi h aur bakwass krti h .. dard h dukh h ..
@@meghusingh3980 Non-Muslims ke liye na mehram logon ke saath relations rakhne ka kahin gunaah nahi haina unke religion mei....isi liye. Wo to bilkul allowed hain....hummm. Muslims ko aisi cheezon ki ijaazat nahi hai aur unko aa jaa kr nikkah hi krna parhhta hai to wo stereotypical polygamy ban jaati hai. Ye mentality bhi nahi samajh aati. Non-Muslims ke dusre logon ke saath affairs hon to koi masla nahi, acha. Bari achi mentality hai. Dumb ppl, when would you care to search for the rules for 4-marriages in Islam? + She should not have compared her marriage to prophets because they were too noble and pious and they treated their wives equally. And or ye batao, wo kare kia, shohar support kr rha hai agarche acha treat nahi kr rha to. At-least, apni izzat pe bani hai, magar ye hai keh khud kamana nahi parhh rha. Aise shoharon ke saath bus naatak karo agar apne aapko support nahi krsakte financially, unke paise pakro, apne bachon ka khayaal rakho, bus. Aur pata to hai, aaj kal divorcees ko kaise treat krte hai subcontinent ke log. Islam ne aqal di, phir bhi puraane fazool customs ka qeerhha to haina dimagh mein, divorcees ko log ghoorte hain unless they are much financially stable than the other partner. In dukhon ka jawaab, sirf allah dega aur isko kehte hain SABAR.
Sometimes I feel ki ye is bat ko use krti h to become famous on RU-vid qki iska 90% video is on the same topic and @hardworking alle.... SORRY WHAY ?? I just don't what are you trying to say
🥺,if u r financially independent,leave ur husband.Anyways ,you should leave him now.It's not a joke.What if you had married twice? do not succumb to injustice.This is bad.U r a beautiful women , independent.Do not go through pain.
Itni sundor wife hote huye Kon shadi karta hain.... Lots of love to you ❤️😘❣️😘 ....and naabi ji se ....is jamane ki insaan se compare nahi hota Hain....from (India)
Hi Sitara you are really strong.. I understand your husband is very supportive but do you feel it is justified to bring a second wife in lieu of his support.. And if you are financially independent you should take a step and it is not only related to you it's more over related to the growth and development of your kids.. I don't know men can do anything if any girl would have done the same she will disgrace her family, friends.. Womens get specific names.. Well eventually it's your call.. Keep growing and stay strong..
This is cheating man! 2nd wife what in the hell?? You are an independent woman apky baccho ka future apke hath mein hai. You legit have 2lac+ subscribers you should leave that person man this is freaking disloyalty what your husband is doing with you!
Just one question why always women will sacrifice man can do 1,2,3 So on marriges feelings changes so quickly after that he will do 3 marriage mistake is of those women who do not stand for herself and do sacrifices and says I can manage! Or may be those women are dependent to those so called man !
Polygamy is allowed in their religion, she is talking about the islamic history and how this already have happened in past, so it is ok for them to happen after thousands of years as well!
More power to you girl. You really love your husband in other words you are much supportive lady. Ap k husband n koi acha kam kiya hoga Jo ap jesi wife mili. May Allah bless you sister.
اللہ پاک آپ کو مکمل طور پر سنت کے مطابق زندگی گزارنے کی توفیق عطا فرمائے آمین... اور پانچویں نمازوں کا خیال رکھیں. اللہ اپکو خوش رکھے. اور آپکی اولاد کو آنکھوں کی ٹھنڈک بنائے
I m sorry to say that but thank God i m not Muslim... Because I can't share my husband with anyone... I would rather die than do this... But on the other way ...u r strong ... Beautiful girl... And u r independent too... Pls don't accept this ... This is not right for u... Why would he need another woman?. U r perfect... This is harrasment.. don't accept wrong thing...
ان اللہ مع الصابرین واقعی آپ کا دل تو بہت بڑا ہے اللہ آپ کو ہمیشہ خوش رکھے آپ کے بچوں کا مستقبل روشن رکھے آمین آپ کا بتایا ہوا سیرم ہم نے بنایا بہت اچھا ہے
I think you are blaming your husband for the sake of sympathy and also to get fame and intentions by viewers and that you all said on videos about your family is just a false statement
Kahan se aa Jate hen ese log....ye bhi apko apke husband ne convince krne k liye Kahani Sunai hogi..... Hazrat Yousuf(as) ki Kisi shadi Ka quraan me zikar Nahi ...Kuch tafaseer ki kitabon me is Ka zikar he....k zulekha se shadi koi lekin unki Kisi bhi aur wife Ka zikar Nahi na Kisi bv ne ESA Kia....ab hansain k roain....baqi Hazrat Mohammad peace be upon him ne apni 1st wife Bibi khateeja (Ra) ke hote koi dosri shadi Nahi ki...aur apke husband ne Jo 13 sal Ishq laraya Woh bhi Islam me najaiz he... Kese kese log Islam ko use krte hen...Astaghfirullah...
Mood kitna bhi kharaab ho mgr apka videos dekh ke apse positive vibes ati hai mood bht acha ho jta h Allah apko or apke bachcho or puri family ko apne hifzo amaan me rakhe aaj se me jab bhi allah se dua karungi aap ke liye bhi karungi💖
شکر ہے کہ شوہر کے حلال کام پر واویلا نہیں مچایا ۔ بہت بڑی بات ہے ورنہ دور حاضر میں ہم دس حرام برداشت کرلیتے ہیں مگر اک حلال کام نہیں کرنے دیتے شوہر کو ۔ واقعی دل سے دعا ہے آپ کیلئے
@@ladycarebeautynfashion1455 g in sha Allah. I m Muslim girl . Haram relationship ko ik lmha brdasht nhi kron gi or halal action pr na Allah k hukum pr zuban daraz krongi na krny Don gi .
@@ladycarebeautynfashion1455 اب یہ بندی ان لبرل آنٹیوں کے کہنے پر گھر برباد کرے طلاق لے بچوں کو باپ کی شفقت سے محروم کرکے بیٹھ جائے جبکہ شوہر حقوق ادا کررہا ہے ۔ اگر ناانصافی کرے تو بالکل کوئی ایکشن لے مگر صرف ہندوانہ ذہنیت کی بنا پر تماشہ کرنا صرف اسلام دشمنی ہے جو کہ اس معاشرے کو حرام کی جانب دھکیل رہی ہے بسسسس
sub sy pehly ziadti thu yahe the ky punjab jakr os ny nikah kia or esko bad me bata dia jbky zrori tha ky pehly ijazat lia jata..es bechari ny tho bary dil ka muzahira kar dia hy lekin sirf yahe nahe mojhe thu enky bacho py taras ata hai..mary khyal me jb ek orat apki har zarort pore kar sakti ho thu do kashtiyo par sawari karna thek nahe hy
Masaallah sister AP bohod strong,pirbi ak bad he apka husband ko esa nehi Karne sayeti,AP bohod cute he,koi kami ney he,by the way apko Liye bohod dowata he or ham sob apka sad he anythime,hum banladesh se,👋❤️❤️❤️❤️
*माँ ही बस ये कर सकती हैं उसका ही दिल पहाड़ जैसा मजबूत और आसमान जैसा बड़ा होता हैं. सितारा जी आपके दिन बदलेंगे अल्लाह सबका हिसाब करता हैं. दुआ हैं के बच्चे तुम्हे इतनी इज़्ज़त और प्यार दे की किसी की जरुरत ना पड़े.*
Sitara tumne sach me Allah ko pa liya he. Tumhare man ki beauty priceless he. I just cannot imagine how a person can have so much of strength in this young age! God bless you my dear. Best wishes to Kausar also
Aoa sis mujhe btao ke meri skin ap jesi kese ho jis se me boht piyar krti thi us ne mujhe mere face ke color ki waja se chor diya hai kuch btay ke wo jb mjhe dekhy to pachtay
Allah Ta'ala Apki preshanio ko asan kry aisy hi positive rehna har hal mn Zindagi pursakoon na bhi ho tou automatically hojati hy positive hony sy and best of luck
im literally shocked he literally chosed Kosar over this beauty for real!!!! I bey he is an insecure person as she is a strong headed women and he gets insecure so he chosed someone that is lower then her in terms of everything
Mashaallh ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ kyaa baat kahi kitana bada dil h our sahejadi our shining ✨ star 🌟 ka heads of you meri jaan Lots of love ❤❤❤Lots of happiness God bless you Bhagwan aap ko hamesha khush rkhe kamyaabi de 🙏
Allah pak apko bhttttttttt khushiyan or kamiyabi ata kry Ammeeennnnnnn ap bht achi n brave hain Allah apky bachon ko naik or apka farmabardar bnay ammeenn summaa ammeenn ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️
Mry husband ki girl finds bht hain or mujy black mail krty hain k m or shadi kr lnga m yh sun k 6 6 maa qommy m rehti hon but sitara u r really strong girl Allah bht asaniya peda kry or taybba ayat ka naseeb bht pyra kry ameen
Hamare Prophet S.A.W ki biwiyan thi to kisi wajah sai thi. Hazrat Yusuf A.S ki aik hi biwi thin Zuelikha (A.S) Islam nei 4 shadiyon ki ijazat di hai takay ap kisi widow sai yani kai beiwa sai ya kisi talaq yafta aurat sai ya kisi bei sahara aurat sai shadi kr sakain unhe sahara dei sakain unhe support kr sakain. Na kai yeh kai biwi kai hotw hue idhr udhr muh marain aur dosri aurat sai shadi krke usy ghr lei ayen. Apni biwi pai cheat krna is also a gunah. Allah Pak hi hidayat ata farmaen aise mardon ko.
Hazor pak ne yeh nai farmaya tha k tafreeh mein shadian kro unka faarman tha k kisi k help k tur par ap shadi kro jesey bewa ho ya koi issues hun . Apk husband ka faisla sahi nahi as i think unki dosri wife k koi khas issues tu hingy nai k sahara deny ko shadi karae hein Sindhi culture ne bahut kharabian kar rakhi hein in our society females ko bahut tang kark rakha hua he . Allah pak apk liye behtri krein my sister.
I will pray ki aapko koi samjhdar dang se guide kare ....smjhaye .......kyunki aapne jo baat kahi wo sahi nahi hai sorry to say ..........don't tolerate anything like this
I can feel your pain. You are a great lady , I salute you. Allah tala tumhary saath hy aur wo kabhi bhi aap ko akela nahi chory ga subb kuch aap k huqq mai phely say bhi zedah acha hoga. Inshallah
nabi pak chup chup k nikkah nae karte thay ye fazool bakwas band karo ye sab dhokay bazi me ata sunnat me nae nabi pak apni wife ki permission aur mojoudigi me hoti thi dhokay de k nae baad me khufya nikkah
