I'm in love with you guy's. let me share with u guy's my son got shot in the wrong place at the wrong time.an is been a roller coaster...his paralyzed from waist down..and to see that out there is womans like you is a blessing for us mother.that no matter the fisical for u lady's .u lady's are angel's .omg iloveu guy's. May God bless you both forever and ever an give u what your heart want.
Roll with Cole & Charisma is an inspiring channel. I love watching you guys!!!!! You guys make your morning routine look effortlessly. Love you guys!!!!!!
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HER NAME IS CHARISMA. That is just too perfect. i’m in love with the way she loves!!! i’m new to this channel and you guys are just so awesome! This is the exact definition of love with no boundaries. 💕
My ex-boyfriend unfortunately was paralyzed from the waist down due to a horseback riding accident in 2011. Fast forward to now - he is walking again with these crutch-type things. It took him about four years and tons of dedication but he did it. I helped him the first two years and I did exactly what you see her doing. I was a paramedic so I understood a lot of what I was getting into but a lot of it I didn’t. Anybody who devotes their life to somebody like this is an amazing human being .hands-down. We unfortunately didn’t work out-and it wasn’t because of me.I was all in after all of this, he just wanted to be alone and try to rebuild his life on his own and I totally understood it. We are still great friends and I am so proud of him. I’m so proud that I got to help him on his journey
evadiva238 she really does, cause it takes a strong person and someone deeply in love with someone to be there for a person everyday like that. God bless you both ❤️
It's really wonderful how you two work together. Charisma you do a wonderful job taking care of Cole. It takes a lot of love and patience in doing what you do.
Everyone praising his girl for taking care of him, but not one single comment about how cool of a guy he is. She's also lucky to have him too, can't be singling him out like that EDIT: Wtf why do I have 1.8k likes on this 😂?
Well considering the online hate they use to get about her being with him because it was comeup, her race constantly being mentioned, just nasty talk, at least NOW the comments are much more positive. As long as people are keeping it classy, that’s what matters.
Wow! This almost made me cry. The unconditional love this beautiful woman has for the man she loves is incredible. She genuinely cares & doesn’t make him feel like a burden. He is blessed to have her.
Hey guys I’m 19 and last year I had been a carer for my sister with cerebral palsy and mother for 11 years. And this made me feel so warm and supported, thank you 😌
For what it's worth, seeing you two is humbling. Your confidence, attitude, and the love you share really resounded with me, more so because you guys are so young. We all could be so lucky to have your humility and kindness..
My dad is a Paraplegic, has been since he was 17 & has suffered with chronic pain since before i could remember~ him & my mum(who is his full-time carer) have been married for 36 years this March :D😘 They've raised 3 kids and are still like you two; so happy and keeping as positive as possible, always have been! There's been some trying times, but they've got through it together-- i can tell you guys are just as strong! I wish you both the best of luck and watching you guys smile and be happy brought a tear to my eye:D
This is beautiful. Thank you Charisma for representing people who actually care about others and love without boundaries. And you, Cole, for being so open and in the moment. You guys are lovely. 💜
My father was a paraplegic, a victim of an assault with a knife. He had so many health and physical complications. Not to mention the emotional ones, that eventually won and crushed his spirit. My dad passed away from complications from his liver not processing his medicine. He had an inpatient small procedure done, he never woke up back in 2014. I truly admire you both. It warms my heart that you all are sharing your life and what that may entale, it would have helped his mental well being so much. To know other's dealt with these issues too.
amandajohns29 😭😭😭😭😭 I’m so sorry for you and your dad. 😭 May he Rest In Peace and may you find comfort in your heart knowing your father’s suffering is over, and he is always with you. ♥️✨♥️💕
I’m a relatively new C7 quadriplegic. I stumbled on your channel today and my husband (and caregiver) and I are definitely fans. you guys are massively helpful
This right here is love. I get so pissed when I see people saying negative things about their relationship. You can tell it’s a mutual feeling of love and respect between them.
I love how u takes care of him. You sure are a blessing to him. When my husband had a stroke I took care of him everyday until he passed away. I would give anything just to see him again. I commend u and god bless u both.
Just watching this, listening to how you two talk to each other, the sensitivity and care in every single thing you say to each other made me cry. That is love. I was in a marriage/relationship for 5 years and never experienced an ounce of this, now I see what love looks like.
Everyone saying “omg she’s literally a mother to him and only takes care of him” well guess what Charisma loves Cole and anyone else putting race into this is stupid
Frankie Flannery I was confused about that too, but I think she meant it as a separate idea.. hopefully she knows the difference between mothering and race
anyone putting race into this? You mean even the positive comments about her being a loving Black woman and all the positive comment supporting interacial couples? Unfortunately you cant have good opinions without bad ones.🤷🏽♀️
It’s kinda strange that he has her doing the entire routine when his arms are working, not bashing them but I think he can do somethings for himself too so he can feel a little independent. But to each it’s own
This is the most loving thing I have ever seen!!! Thanks for being so vulnerable, Cole. This video educated on so many levels, not just the technicalities of the morning routine, but on the value of selflessness and true partnership!!!
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Ugh she is so good to you, I love it. I’m in a wheelchair as well, about 9 months ago I lost my ability to walk due to my disability and ever since then it’s been my biggest worry that I wouldn’t find a person who would care for me like this (other then my family) and watching you guys and seeing how good she is with you and how amazingly trusting you are with her leads me to feeling like I will find that someone that treats me just as good. ❤️ Love you guys
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They are such a great couple period. He’s so helpful and appreciative of the care that she provides and I think that’s important. He is independent, he doesn’t just depend on her and not help himself in ways that he can . I think they are both blessed to have each other... they compliment each other ... so many people couldn’t do this because it takes two people to be on one accord. I know disabled people who abuse their caregiver..... this is not that. He loves her and helps her care for him... that is why u see such a beautiful smile on both of their faces. Continue to grow and love ❤️ each other you are both blessed 🙏🏽 . He will walk one day I see it 🙏🏽
This is literally one of the most genuine videos I’ve seen in awhile. Nowadays these RU-vid’s put up a front but this video is purely how I act around my s/o and I’m glad to see that I’m not alone with my dynamic with my s/o. You guys are awesome for putting this video out too, it’ll put perspective in people’s lives including mine
Been there done that. I did all that & much more for my double amputee husband. Some days he was cooperative like Cole. But other days it was a battle to get him up, bathed, & dressed. Then there was the deep argument over what he would eat. As an insulin dependent diabetic I had to test him at least 4x per day & administer the insulin because the last 3 years of his life he couldn't use his hands, like Cole. Feeding time was a battle. He hated being fed. I pray Charisma does take time for herself & does have a backup crew. At 69 I was worn completely down. It has been 8 months since I lost him & now at 70, I have recovered very little. But we survived 40 years together. Ya'll are young, ya'll should stand the test of time as long as you love & respect each other. GOD BLESS you both & ya'll's families. Both Mama's 'done good' rearing good kids.
WOW, sorry for your loss and God is with you! Even though he became difficult at times you continue to care and love him to the very end! That speaks value about your character! I hope you are enjoying these days of your life now because you deserve every day of happiness!🥰🙏
The amount of patience and love involved in this video is simply amazing! This video surely illustrates the true picture of taking care of an individual with disabilities and here's to everyone out there who is going through this on a daily basis - you guys are literally heroes!
This is probably the best video I’ve seen in a LONG TIME. The amount of unconditional love that was shown in this short video was amazing. Coming from a CNA, I understand how hard it is to take care of people in this way and I can’t do nothing but respect and applaud her. I love y’all already 😭😭😭😭
I love watching you guys, my child was paralyzed in 2017 by a drunk driver. He is 9 now and I get nervous about him growing up and worry all the time about how the world is going to treat him. It isn't going to be easy but I hope he does find someone he can be in such a loving relationship with.
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Yeah whoever her parents are. I give them all the props in the world 2. This young lady right here is a sweetheart and they truly need to be more people in this world like her he or she has a loving soul and a loving heart. I just came across these videos today and I cannot stop watching them I'm already on my 8 one lol.❤🙏😊 and I'm getting ready to subscribe to their Channel.
That kiss in the shower made my heart skip a beat!! So sweet.. so much love and appreciation. There is nothing us women wouldn’t do for the man we love. ❤️
Omg girl, you literally made me cry. The way you are taking care of Cole reminds me of how I did it for my Mom. Sadly she passed away 5 years ago on March 12th. She caught a virus and ended up in a wheelchair. I love how you guys are showing people how you are doing everything so it can help them. I had to learn everything by myself. It takes a lot to take care of somebody who can't use their legs. People have no idea. When it is your love one you don't think but just automatically do it. Some of your technics I used on my mom too. I remember when I was pregnant she used to tell me how she was praying every night for God to bless me with a girl and that the girl would take care of me when I got old. I did get my girl and she is so caring. Grandma enjoyed some of her caring before she passed away. So I hope you will be blessed someday with a little girl just like me. You are doing a awesome job. But remember take good care of yourself, we both know you do when you do what you do. Wow that was a mouthful. Keep doing what you're doing and you will be blessed.
RIP to your mom. I took care of my mom like this for 8 years. It was really tiresome. But I will do it all again. I cant imagine the toll this could take on a intimate relationship.
They have a deeper level of CONNECTION AND INTIMACY that most people will never ever experience in their lifetime! That alone makes their life more pleasurable and worthy! I love them BOTH ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I am a 32 year old man with Limb Girdle Muscular dystrophy and my morning routine is somewhat similar. I just want to say this video was awesome and inspiring. Thanks for sharing. You two are amazing.
Thank you for sharing this! A few years ago when my husband had to have a colostomy bag and the nurse didn't show us how to change it and we couldn't get a hold of anyone it was so stressful so I texted my sister in law who is a nurse and she told me to RU-vid it and yes!! So many were willing to video the instructions of how to change a bag!! It was such a help and a relief during those tough times.... God bless you both! Definitely appreciate the positivity!!
I know I live in ENGLAND , but IF I lived in America , I WOULD'NT WANT CHRISMA to WASH ME , not after watching this video , I CAN HAVE a shower IF I wanted to , but too used to having a BED BATH
Cole and Charisma, what can I say, two amazing young people who truly love each other and are willing to face each challenge head on. You both are brilliant individually and collectively. Love and blessings always♥️👍
Y’all are the sweetest couple! I’m a retired nurse and I KNOW all these videos that educate are helpful for the newly injured and also for CGs just learning new ways and new products that are avail. God bless!
she does this everyday... that’s love man. y’all are both lucky to have each other. this video isn’t even sad im just so sensitive i cried 😂 tears of joy. God bless you both 💙
I have no words for the amount of respect and admiration i feel watching this video. You two are amazing seperately and even better together. I'm honestly speechless.🔥
Go head bbygrl take care your man cause I do the same thing. My husband is paralyze on his right side. He had three strokes and a brain aneurysm. Luv you both.
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Idk why this appeared in my feed but!!! This is the type of unconditional love people need to have! You guys have the beet chemistry and make a wonderful team. Love all of this ✨✨✨
I was a morning caregiver for a young man very similar to Cole. I vividly recall all those same morning rituals too, getting him up, enema, shower, and dressed for work. Charisma is an amazing spirit and excellent caregiver.
This is the kind of love everyone wants. Supporting each other and loving every inch of the person, building a great lifestyle that suits them. He loves her to death and so does she.
I have a disabled child (5yrs old) and have wondered what the future will hold. Although her disability is extremely rare, your video gave me a few ideas. Thank you so very much
You two are awesome! This makes me especially happy being a person who works in nursing as a CNA and currently in nursing school. I know how hard those things can be to do everyday. All the kudos in the world to Cole for educating others with the video and being mentally strong through the whole process! You are a role model. Also big kudos to Charisma as well for being so supportive. Again both of you rock!
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This literally reminds me of my brother Derrick and I , (except we’re not a couple lmao) he got into a diving accident and broke his C6 when he was 16 in June 2011, that day definitely changed my life forever!! I’ve seen him go through so much and still do! I’m so happy that I found you guys and can’t wait to show him. I saw a lot of tips like the razor and the bm stuff that would help us out a lot, thanks for sharing people don’t understand this lifestyle until they go through it! I must say he’s very talented and can play video games so good no one can beat him yet... makes me so proud!! I am my brothers keeper!! ♥️♿️
Can i ask you charisma a personal question? Why did you decide to date a handicapped person when it obviously will take a physical toll on you over the years.
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I only click dislike when I see people commenting on people's dislikes. There are a hundred reasons for disliking a video. All you are doing is showing that you don't understand that.
I have a boyfriend just like him n we've been together for 1 year now n my friends n fam keep on saying that its true love n the thing is he's such a happy n joyful person n everyone loves him😍🤗🤗💗💕💕💕💖this helps me soo much thankss
It's a specific fetish for women/men to with people in need or specifically men missing limbs or the use of limbs. Simply figure out a way to find them my man. There's a lot of reasons for this. I would do as much research as you can. Maybe try Fet life?
Thank God for her..This what you call True love and Unconditionally. .She's definitely a Blessing and A Wonderful and Awesome Woman..Not too many women will not do that take the time nor patience..Both of you guys are a Beautiful couple and Thanks for sharing this with us.
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