quality men date differently 

Makes so much sense as to why guys (immature ones) fall off and ghost once they see they’ll have to put in some effort/work and go at a pace to build an actual relationship

Thank you Fareen! I have experienced chasing behavior recently and it's very unsettling. It's like they've decided they like me and want me in their life before they even know me. It doesn't make me feel valued it makes me feel like prey. Thank you for putting words to why I felt the way I did. ❤️

A masculine men sounds so much more disciplined. This is very appealing.

I can’t handle the chasing energy, it’s very ungrounding. And yeah it’s true it’s like they’re trying to get something from you in order for them to feel better about themselves.

The other part of the equation is that a woman has to give a man a reason to pursue her. 💯

I absolutely loved the examples of the two different men you went on dates with and how you approached both those situations! Keep the examples coming 😘❤️❤️🙏🙏

I feel like I am able to actually understand and see the difference between genuinely feminine women, and women who are not feminine, from having watched your videos, and now I’m seeking out examples, to tune in with it more, and if anyone else is looking for examples like I am, I just found Emily Noel’s makeup RU-vid channel today, randomly, and she felt so radiantly feminine to me that I searched for any videos of her and and her husband, and there are several, and sure enough the one I watched is so touching and beautiful, and frankly, instructive, for someone like me, on this journey. Just in case someone else reads this and could use some more real life feminine-masculine couple inspiration and examples. Love your channel, Fareen, and I’ve read both books and am starting the inner work course, and you and your work is 100% changing my life. Thank you from the bottom of my heart 🙏

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Women also need to realise how they contribute to a whether guy chases or pursues - when a quality man can feel that you are connected to him and genuinely want to get to know him and will reward his efforts, then he will be much more comfortable patiently pursuing. However, when women drop breadcrumbs and play hard to get or send mixed messages (perhaps because of insecurity) then this can bring out the unhealthy pursuit side of men. It's essentially like random reinforcement, which is highly addoctive and ungrounding. And if a guy thinks he has a chance but you are running away but also sending signals that you may possibly be interested, this sets off a sort of hunting instinct. Often, if you are face to face with a dangerous animal, if you run away they will chase you, because they see you as prey or something to chase. If you stand your ground you appear to be not a threat and not prey. So running away can make a man chase, it's like a hunting instinct. I guess that's why some women use the hard to get strategy, but women who are genuinely trying to get away after initially showing some interest will also find themselves chased. If you are a woman and you want to be pursued, then you have to stand your ground and compell the man to come to you, in the same way a flower, or amy female animals will do to bring in a mate. Imagine you want to get a bear to move: You can draw its attention then run away and it will chase you because it sees you as prey. The trouble is it will keep chasing you even qhen you no longer eant to play the game OR you can stay where you are, get the bear's attention, let it know that you see him, and wait for him to come to you. The bear will initially be confused, but will eventually become intrigued and curious. You are not acting like prey so its predatory instincts won't come into play, and it doesn't know what to make of the situation so it will become curious and go investigate. I know that's probably not what you should do around a bear (don't treat this as safety advice!) but you can replace bear with cat, dog, horse, wolf, or any other not completely domesticated animal. I'm just using it to illustrate a point, which is that sometimes women will encourage 'chasing' instead of 'pursuing' and there are things you can do to make sure a guy pursues and not chases. Some guys only chase and some only pursue but there are many who can swing either way depending on how the woman is behaving. It's important to kmow that the woman plays a role on this, it is not exclusively down to whether a man is someone who ALWAYS does one or the other

This is such good sharing. Thank you! :)

Very helpful! Thank you, Fareen!

Nailed it!

You forgot to include the part that talks about today's generation...in the U.S. Many women in the U.S. simply use men for food, attention, validation or other things. They secretly brag about it to their best female friends...and the simp guys have no clue. Men need to date with a purpose and vet the women (i.e., make the women qualify for their time and attention). Of course, that assume's the man has made himself into a high-value person and worthy of a real woman (i.e., he understands how to be a good man and husband material). By the way, any made that takes a woman on a NINTH date without knowing/understanding her true intentions is a simp.

Thanks for sharing❤❤

Wait I have so many questions, when do you actually get physical and do you do other things? Because my boyfriend told he was okay waiting for me but then he would also say that he felt “rejected” when I would tell him that I wanted to wait until I was sure. How does me respecting my boundaries make you feel rejected?

Like you didn’t kiss him for 3 months ?

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I understand the message you are trying to pass but I think you got the concept of Chase and Pursue incorrectly. They basically mean the same thing.

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❤❤❤ wow boys vs men! Boys need their mother to cuddle them in the night 😂

Purposeful seduction 👍

So man nowadays Court?

I'm just a boy because I want my quick fix😂😂😂

Why are you so beautiful?