Thank you @promise for inviting @Queen Nandi, I used to dislike her based on my own narrative but wow, this interview has changed my narrative, I respect her, what a smart woman she is, so much wisdom from her, she is in her right calling. Thank you once again, @Queen Nandi, I give you your flowers 🌺🌺🌺🌺
One thing you will not do is judging women for leaving their husbands. Just because yall okay with being made didom go sharp, but you will not judge women for leaving their toxic marriges
Hhayi kabi neh, but there's a part in the beginning @5:33 where she says people experience abuse and then just leave... Uhm i'm sorry but that's bad advice. If you're being abused, then absolutely, you should leave. I get the point that marriage is work and you should'nt be too quick to throw in the towel, however, you can't be 15yrs married and give such advice in South Africa with our GBV statistics. Women stay in abusive relationships with that mentality and then end up in a coffin. Abuse in any form should not be tolerated. ♥
I heard this too and came straight to the comments! Terrible advice that could lead to people being killed and suffering from illnesses all in the name of “holding on”. It truly shocked me how she just nonchalantly said that.
This was beautiful I don't like this lady I feel she is too controversial but let me tell you this she is very smart and open minded I thoroughly enjoyed this interview
You see these are ppl who were called for marriage. I wish to pray for marriage and ask God to make me ready and called for it. This woman just changed my perspective
I misjudged this woman based on clips I saw nje in passing (didn’t watch the reality show). But I must say, I enjoyed her perspective on marriage, might not fully agree with some of her views but she’s interesting. Wishing her & her family longevity 😘
I would like to meet Queen Nandi one day. Can someone help me. She is sooo mature like fine wine. She talk a lot of sense that I can relate. Wish her nothing but the best ❤❤
When people think they know lifes challenges and yet are empty empty empty, I just saw two blind sheep leading each other astray. But we forgive them. Listening being told about arguments over light bulbs in marriage and what what 🤔. To us woman who've been in it deep, deeper, deepest we look away and just utter the words LIFE WILL HUMBLE YOU....Kudos to us who left with no plan B, but God still had and has our back.
@@Queendollar83 bruh! Mbokodo mentality… I learnt something today… Just because you’ve been married for 15yrs, it clearly doesn’t mean you qualify to give good advice… but she was sharing her experience. I’ve been married 8 years and even I am shocked about this advice 😂😂😂
Yep.and am separation for 2 years nòw cos i choose not sacrifice myself like that just to keep the Mrs tittle.😂😂😂😂 It can never be me.Maybe am jot meant for it.😊
My granny had 13 kids...she raised them and most of her grandkids.... Her capacity to love was that large. So for me it is always according to one's capacity to raise children in love and God's providence
To those who keep talking about how this lady has so much wisdom. I just want to remind you that just because someone is on a podcast and they speak eloquently, doesn’t mean they are wise. I’m sorry but this woman is not wise, if she was, she would not have divulged so much about her husband on a public platform in his absence. I really hope that she reflects and changes her ways.
The comment I’ve been looking for. I also don’t think she is wise, there’s nothing wise about what she spoke about. Anyway im not married so let me be quiet 🤐
Wisdom according to broken women is putting up with nonsense from underserving men in marriage while convincing yourself that you are happy and content with that
facts,facts,facts saying that people leave marriage because of abuse,wueh! the worst advice I've ever heard in my entire 32 years of living.she's not wise because I don't want to use strong words like foolish and stupid
Did this lady just say if you leave when someone is not making you happy or abusing you then you have a spirit that you need to pray for? Is she insinuating that people stay when they are not happy or being abused?
Top tier is when she said u stay for the kids, meaning her mental well-being can be compromised as long as her kids have 2 unhappy parents in 1 house 😅
Thank you for this episode with theee Queen Nandi😘😘this episode totally enforced more on the values and principles I have. I hope to come and share my family dynamic soon ❤️
We are the creators if our own lives, power of the tongue, Nandi has spoken what she wants and it will turn out exactly like that, I like her positive energy with everything
where does the Bible that says Jezabel was sleeping around? She was a bad influence to her husband and devious. You cant glorify a woman who makes people hate her husband despise him because of her devious ways
The biggest problem that Nandi has is that of thinking she alone can change the constitution of the Methodist church and she is not doing it right when she goes to the social media and talk bad about Methodist church,they have women's conferences where changes are being discussed as the Reverend wife she has a more stronger word there
Today i watched her with a different perspective and i learnt a few things ..she has her wrongs BUT her character is strong .. like she knows what she wants
Don’t have many babies that you cannot take care of alone should things go left. This is why she is forced to stay. I also wouldn’t want to take care of 6 children alone.
Conversations like these, as in the one I heard today 🤐 ay bethuna, I'll say just this after struggling to finish this interview just because some one is aliquant doesn't mean thay are wise, but then again there is wisdom of this world and the is Wisdom depends which one we know and want and after listening to this particular conversation the errors yo but each to their own❤❤❤❤❤.
OMG... what an interesting interview or chatt or conversation... please Nandi write a book. hope you are working one or if not consider doing it. you have so much content Madam. Promise 🥰 thank you so much for this. this was very deep and spiritual hope you grasped the what she said... well I think you did though for the fact that you brought her into your space kudos to you.🥰🥰🥰🥰 Thank you. an hour well spend.
If u choose to have 6 kids, get ready for anything.. Even raising them alone.. I always say u should have the number of kids u r willing to raise alone if God forbid one partner dies or leaves
Listening to Nandi on birthing kids, love and submission just realized how selective we are sometimes. All that it's in the Bible just that we are worldly where the Bible is looked at as outdated and that's where life is. If we can go back to basics lots of the problems we facing will disappear. If stealing is a sin and one will be judged by God, even slandering or sexual immorality should be a sin.(there are lots) Promise on kids she's at what we are programmed to believe. I'm not saying I'm better, just learning and finding my way to Christ.
People have issues with Nandi having six kids. Our priorities are different; you want 2 kids, which is your choice, and she wants 6 kids, which is her choice. Judge Nandi all you want, but if you haven't walked a mile in her shoes, then respect her views on life. You chose to walk away from your marriage; well done to you. She chose to fight for her marriage good for her. Be happy with your choices, and let others be happy with their choices too.
Kids require money, time and attention. The level of attention each kid requires varies with personality and behaviour. I trust that I’d be able to do right by all 6 kids, somewhere it’s bound to lack.
In her wisdom that you see commentors, the fear I'm nursing is to hear her saying that she is going to fight bad practices in the Methodist Church she is a member of. Nandi must know that Jesus Christ, our Saviour was and is still not mad in advising us to leave the wheat and the tares to grow together because sifting will take place on the judgment day.
This woman still has alot of growing to do. She hasn't quite grasped the calling being a wife. Yes she dropped some few gems here and there but you can hear the level of matrimonial maturity has not quite blossomed. 15 years in marriage but then again they got married quite young. I do however wish them well
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Very funny how Nandipha came up with all the churches affairs n wanted to fight for other families including hers only after they were told that her husband’s term ended
She is very selfish to still want to bring more children in this situation, You cannot bring God to stupidity, you cant bring children to suffer or to fulfill your selfish desires. The well being of the children plays a huge part in who they become.
Marriage needs these from women - stupidity, support to the husband, intentional support, quiet, discipline own desires( sexually, financially, emotions) you will hear from the husband everything, he will tell you. You can come up with suggestion there n there but he will tell u.
