Queer Eye's Antoni: "I was most comfortable with my body when I was in relationships with women." 

Joyce Prepis I agree. At least it got us here and he does such a good job of explaining himself in the video so he shouldn’t be too worried about it aye :)

It gets the clicks. You clicked on it didnt you

This was my thought exactly and you articulated it perfectly! Thanks!

say it again for the people in the back

But this is the nature of youtube titles It is the nature of all big business; to use manipulation to draw you in so you "buy" their "product." In the case of media the buyers are the advertisers, who won't pay a station unless ratings are high. So just by watching a clip youtube keeps their advertisers. It is the nature of all mainstream media. It is this dynamic that has empowered Trump cultists to call all news "fake." The news really does make profit their highest priority, unless you watch alternative media, and even then a business has to make some money just to continue to exist. So; get used to it. Unless we make laws that require absolute accuracy in any kind of news-like expression this is impossible to regulate without modifying our constitution and our first amendment rights of free speech. Free speech means it's usually not illegal to lie. (Myself; I would like to see youtube, twitter, google, amazon, and facebook to be busted by our anti-monopoly laws; but technilogical communications weren't on the radar when those laws busted big corporations in the past. How could the unions of the late 1800s up till the depression possibly foresee technilogical mass media? They could not.)

The title of the vid is just the greatest clickbait for it.

SCREAMNING 😂😂 I thought the same thing

me 👋 😂

Haha

i feel called out and super guilty and i don't even care because he's so yummy like a bowl of greek yoghurt with nuts and honey in it bye.

I would've used so much weight that way

I think this is more revealing than one mightt see when hearing it for the first time. It tells you something about his character and nature.

@faridah hanum dam who

like Sheldon Cooper lol

Actually hes cute all the time haha

Sometimes it can feel like more and more labels come out to cover every feeling which is great but when you STILL feel like you don’t fit it’s almost like drowning. No matter how you might feel or how you end up building experiences off of those feelings just know that you can just be you at the end of the day and your name is the only real label that matters. ❤️

Carly thank you ❤️❤️❤️

Josue2018 I think that’s exactly the part that’s confusing me. I think I’m "functional" with a guy if I really like him as a person, but it just doesn’t feel the same. But then I’m left wondering if that’s "enough" to call it bisexual or pansexual or whatever or not?

@Josue2018 That's really not true. Your statement is bi-phobic. From my persepective I can't imagine not falling for someone, just because of who they are: female, male, non-binary, trans, it really doesn't matter. Trying to get my head around someone only liking one gender, is like trying to understand the physics of baryonic dark matter. Your experience is just that YOURS.

@@josepha133 Call yourself whatever you like :) Or don't, it's your own business. And ignore the "functional" bs, it's an awful statement that has been used in awful situations. If you are in love with someone you make it work. There are folks that don't have sex at all in romantic relationships, asexual romantics, and that is normal and healthy for them. The important thing is having healthy relationships, be that with someone you just want to cuddle forever, or bump uglies with.

yeah, me neither

I think it's more complex than just feeling more self conscious because there's a more direct comparison with you. I've heard more women would say they feel more comfortable and confident in their body when they're in relationships or intimate with other women compared to with men. There's a lot of different things that can factor in.

I think it heavily depends on the person. I absolutely feel better about my body when I'm with women, but my fiance said she used to feel self conscious because she compared herself to me. But we both agree that we feel less shameful and less pressure about our bodies- especially things like hair and periods- when we're with women, probably because other women understand our bodies.

I'm a woman in a relationship with another female bodied person. I absolutely compare my body to hers and sometimes it does really get to me. But overall, I feel much more comfortable with her than with men, or at least the men I've been with. Men haven't hesitated to make their opinions known about my appearance, good and bad.

Well, not everyone of the LGBTQ+ community will compare themselves to their partners. I never had. 😊

TBH don't really agree with that statement.

@@jackfordon5532 Why's that?

I feel the same as a bisexual woman. Women that were interested never shamed me about my height/weight or anything else...

It must be something about the male gaze... I find the same too, much more body secure in relationships with women and non binary afab people than with men

@@Gagoum17 or that multiple men have told me awful things about my body and women havent xD

Ladies mostly just want to find a decent dude 😅 almost all guys I've dated have been blah looking. But their personalities are my type so I overlook it. I find most of my female friends having similar experiences, meanwhile guys who've been interested in me, half the time they've pick on my looks,clothes, hair,etc.

I'm so sorry! I'm a female, but I've had the same experience. Men seem very comfortable openly expressing their negative opinions about other people's bodies/attractiveness level. I can't believe some of the things that men have said to me, whereas other women have always built me up and focused on what they like about my appearance, if they mention it at all.

OMG Yessss.🤗

this is a tricky one. it can be a sign of empathy. but it can also be maladaptive responses to unprocessed trauma.

HSP is more common than people think

@@its_msk Yes, it is. 😊

or maybe he's codependant which is not a good thing

There's a lot of things it could be tbh

well that's because the hierarchy of names puts anglo names at the top. its the tiniest of the struggles.

In Virginia, not in Canada...

It's his mouth. Also his hair a bit. He reminds me of young Christian Bale as Teddy in Little Women. 🥰

Christian Bale and John Mayer’s love child

Both boys who look like they haven’t slept in weeks.

Yes. He did an American Psycho parody.

he often looks like christian bale to me

my BIL 's name is actually krzysztof Sokolowski , what a coincidence , we call him Sokosoko, he is from Gdansk , you've got to be a relative from abroad.The name is not that common it appears.

@@PHlophe it is a common surname, even in Russia. It means "falcon".

too true

dude, yes right

Wth, how is this possible to pinpoint personalities to an astrological sign so accurately? I don’t believe in astrology but I am a Pisces, too, and I have the exact same mindset, beliefs and even mannerisms as Antoni. At least from what he shows in Interviews. Or is this because people are all quite similar?

@@reginagerrits3598 the astrological chart is an extremely detailed and layered system of information. People share mannerisms, features etc in varying degrees for sure but every chart is unique.

OMG I did not know he was a Pisces until this minute. Life changed...hahaha March 8th ovah here.

Kayla MacEachern you should check out jonathan van ness’s podcast “ getting curious” antoni was on an episode and you learn a lot about him!!

yes!

Same!!!

I GET THAT REFERENCE :D

SQUA

Yeah, but nobody should compete like that! It makes total sense that many people would though, what with all the societal pressures on our bodies.

I don't think it's just about competition, it's that resembling the thing you're attracted to makes you much more aware of your own body. Especially if you don't think you live up to that other person or ideal

J P I 100% appreciate this comment. Great additional thought

scorsesesgirl I agree! I’ve been worried about the dark circles under his eyes for a while. I don’t think he had them season 1! 😔

@Vanessa Hanns Dark circles are genetic for some people. Antoni has spoken about this before. I will admit that he does seem drained though.

@@hammerheaddummyface this comment is so snarky and insensitive, yikes

Yeah, in fact the cabbage are essential to Polish day-to-day cuisine ☺️🥦🥒🥕

he's slightly reaching to victimize himself imo

@you're arrested for first-degree clownery luv I don't think you know much about Polish food. Plus, in many ways Polish food is similar to German, only better.

@you're arrested for first-degree clownery luv In general, Eastern European food is considered much tastier than German, which doesn't have a very high opinion in Europe. Schnitzel is really a Viennese cuisine not German and Vienna food has always had a strong foreign influence because Austrian Empire was so multiethnic.

@you're arrested for first-degree clownery luv What are you on about? I live in the UK but I am German with Polish heritage. And guess what, I go to Polish shops here to get some of my German cravings fixed. There are differences, yes but cabbage, Sauerkraut, potatoes etc. are identical. Even some of the sweets. So stop hating on yourself. Just for good measure, I'll have some Sauerkraut.