Questions Girls Are Too Afraid To Ask Guys (Pt 2) 

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We need to see this sweater.

For me, as a guy, the first thing that I notice is technically looks, but I don't think about a relationship with someone based on looks, though. I might be like "oh, she's attractive", but then I go about my day. However, a girl's mind is the part that hooks me. Like, if she can have deep philosophical conversations and share theological insights, that's INCREDIBLY attractive! (For me)

I found you guys through another RU-vidr that isn’t a fan, and didn’t care for Paul at first because of preconceived notions. Now, I’ve binged your videos and I think Paul is a beautiful soul and a true man of God. God bless 😀

As a Christian single guy, I agree with pretty much all of Paul's answers. The only thing I would add about a girl having a career is that I would be more looking to see what kind of work ethic she has and how she goes about her current job, more than I would does she have a good career. It would be comforting to know that you have a spouse who is a hard worker and you know she will always do whatever it takes to help out her family.

have you guys addressed how rape or sexual assault affects your purity? I have watched quite a few of your videos about purity and sex but I have not seen anything about that specifically. I think that's a really important subject for a lot of women and men who feel broken because of an experience they didn't consent to.

Song of Solomon is pretty steamy... “Your teeth are like a flock of sheep Which have come up from the washing; Every one bears twins, And none is barren among them.” 🤤🥰

Q: Do guys care about whether or not girls tell their friends all the details about dates/phone calls, etc? A: I don't know about ALL the details, but it's fine to talk about a fun time or share a lesson learned. No big deal. Q:DO guys groom "down there?" A:My understanding is a fair number do. That may have more to do with the influence what is seen in porn though. I personally do not, and was not comfortable last time I tried to. But in my mind, once I'm married, my wife will also technically own my body. If she wants some maintenance down there, it'll happen. Q:Do guys judge girls by their jobs? A: My mindset is similar to what Paul basically said. If something IS going to bother me about it, it's going to be because the job is taking a large part of who she is, her time and energy, etc away from where it perhaps should be. (example: Not sure I could be married to a CEO of a company who works 60-80 hours a week and travels a lot, or a firefighter who is gone half the nights every month. That being said, I put the same standards on myself I won't take a job that takes me away from family mentally or physically for extended periods of time, or that requires my heart to not be focused on being a good husband and father to do well.) Q: Why do guys find boobs so attractive? A: I think when God made Eve as a perfect partner for Adam, the "glory of Man," He built her to be beautiful; to exhibit the finer qualities of humanity. He also built differences into her body that Adam would appreciate. Before sin warped our ability to appreciate physical beauty, Adam had a perfect appreciate for Eve's body, and vise versa. After the Fall, there are sinful and unsinful appreciations of those differences, but the initial attraction is there. In short, Man was especially was made to be attracted to the differences God made Woman with. :) (And yes, we're very thankful for those differences.) Q:Do guys really have the need to lead? A:It's more of a duty, and obligation. It's not a "need" if it's at a healthy level, but a guy should take final responsibility for those hard choices or for spiritual growth. Like Paul said, it'd be easy to sit back and not do that. Q: How can we nicely tell you you need to dress better? A: Either be straightforward and lovingly just say it. Or take a more subtle approach and wait til they're wearing something good, then complement them heavily on it and mention that they look good in clothes like that. (Ask if they have other shirts like that, etc) If it's really really bad, go to Good Will and get some cheap stuff that looks better for them. In a relationship, the straightforward approach is probably ok, but perhaps start with the subtle. Q: Looks or personality for first attraction? A:For the very first interaction, looks, yes. But for me, if that attraction is going to stay very long or grow at all, the personality is key. And sometimes it's a mix. One time, we were playing a guys vs girls game. I noticed that the girl I liked at the time was the ONLY girl on the girls team that had knee-length shorts. It wasn't a huge deal, but the modesty made me like her even more, and went with her awesome personality. :) Good video guys. Looking forward to the Patron call! :D (P.S. I like Paul's Goatee, but the sideburns aren't quite ready to look 100%)

“Until their future wife makes them trim the bushes” 😂😭😭😭

Can we bring Michael in for part 3??

Yes, yes, and YES!!! Definitely do a Part III. I'm loving all of them :) Also, I've said it before and I'll say it again haha I just really REALLY appreciate how you take each question seriously, even and perhaps especially, the potentially awkward ones. The way you address them makes them seem more normal and ordinary and not "hush-hush" which I can't thank you enough for haha Love you guys and keep shining

"Hey man." Bahahaha I love how chill Paul is. You guys are adorable and inspiring! Much love to you both! ❤️❤️❤️

For me at first, appearance is the first thing I notice and they could be the best looking woman alive, but if their personality isn't what I'm looking for it's an easy no for me. Personality to me is a huge deal way more than the way she looks (not saying I don't prefer certain types of looks).

Paul and Morgan your videos are light and life. They are so life giving. I struggle with my health and your videos are the highlight of my day!! Thank you for seeking after God in all you do!

So excited you did a part 2 and can’t wait for a part 3! Love, love, love your videos and advice. Thank you Paul and Morgan!

It's so funny when I've seen my guy friends get a girlfriend they instantly started looking more put together and less like a baggy fith grader!😂

Hey Paul, as a Johnathan, I felt that fashion talk, however, I don't think I can get rid of my lucky cargo shorts.

I'm a muslim, but I still love to watch and learn from you guys because everything you say is 100% compatible with what I have been raised and taught

If you want your man to dress better, compliment him when he wears something you like, gift him clothes and shoes like and hopefully he'll get the hint lol

Love you guys, keep posting the content that you do. As a Christian lady as myself, it is so encouraging to hear you guys talk about things that are on our minds and genuinely converse about it. And I feel especially now since everyone has time on their hands, questions in their minds and just stuff that they are going through (and have a LOT of time to think about it!) it is super encouraging to watch your content.

Yes yes yes!! We need a part 3!! Your insight is so appreciated!! ♥️

Love the insight! I have a question about guys as well. Do they notice when a girl is eager? Like when they’re talking can guys see the excitement and if they do, is this a turn off for guys? Thank you Paul and Morgan!

Really enjoyed this! I so appreciate your willingness to be vulnerable and open, in this video as well as in your other videos:) Thanks for sharing your hearts with us!

I'm all for seeing these question videos at least once a month. Very helpful!

I'm in my 40s, and not dated for a long time. I came across your vids, and am encouraged as a Christian! I've heard about dating these days, and am familiar with the distractions & impure relationships as well. I want no part of that. Modest, old fashioned as I am, I wasn't very hopeful at meeting a Christian man. Your honesty, God fearing approach on real life topics in the world we live in are a relief, and I feel more hopeful. Thank u for putting this out there, and for being you!

Great video as usual, looking forward to part three! I just felt compelled to touch on this topic: When it comes to a woman’s line of work, hopefully she’s following God’s purpose for her life, in which case it may not just be a job for her but her calling. I’m not a firefighter but I have a similar demanding career that does take me away from many special occasions, holidays, nights/days from my family and friends. It’s hard but I know that this is what God made me for and it’s my ministry in a way. Even with my demanding work life, I still desire marriage and maybe even kids one day. Now, I can’t change my calling but only trust the Lord to work everything out for my good and the good of His kingdom. I understand that a husband and kids would rather have mom home more instead of working long hours and vice versa. But the reality is for some careers, Firefighters, Paramedics, Military, Police, Nurses/Doctors (careers of service), they’re not necessarily away from family by choice or for the money (it’s another issue if they’re consciously pulling extra shifts for money or to avoid family). If someone is intentionally choosing to work more and neglect their responsibilities at home by choice, irregardless of whether they’re male or female, that’s an issue that should be addressed. My point in all this is, yes I agree with the notion of being present, working less, putting God and family first but there are those who have to make some sacrifices for the good of their communities, State, Country and humanity as a whole. Christian brothers, please don’t be so quick to judge a woman based on her career path or dismiss a good relationship because her work is too demanding and you can’t see how things would work with her working so much. If the relationship is meant to be, trust God to help and guide you both in utilizing the times you do have together to do even more then maybe you would if you had all the time in the world. Also, don’t be threaten because she might be in a male dominated career. Trust in the Lord and trust each other. Communication is key!

He answered every question the way I would word for word

My mom blacked out Song of Solomon with a sharpie.

You know what this means? Questions Guys Are Too Afraid To Ask Girls Part 2 !?!?!??!

Definitely do a part 3 love the video 👌

You guys do an excellent job with these videos all the time! Keep up with the good work! It’s not easy to answer these questions as a representative of your whole gender, whether it’s Morgan or Paul answering the question; yet, you both do oh so well with these! Keep up the good work with turning your passion that God gave you two into action!

This was so good! Awesome points about being consumed with work. Some people are called to do high maintenance jobs, and we need to be grateful for that. But I know what it's like to have a workaholic in your life, and it's definitely something I'll be taking into account when pursuing a relationship.

Do like a five part series! This is the best! I was literally just thinking the other day they should make another one of these! Love you guys!

I really appreciate you guys shedding light on a career path. Of course it’s different for each couple, but I think some of us women can be looked down upon (by other women) for not wanting 60 hour work weeks and being high up in the business chain. We have known since day 1 that we wanted 1 or both of us home with our kids and love that my husband has a job that he can do so.

Yesss part 3 please! Love y’all ❤️

I love love love your videos! I really appreciate you 2!!! Morgan is so funny and her laugh makes it so much better. I never realized that being so involved in pursuing my career could actually turn guys away if I don't have some sort of balance. I understand that this is Paul's opinion, but the feedback in the comments from the guys seems to be like Paul is on point with the answers.

Great! Yes! Another great Q & A. Recently started a FB page for Christian singles of different ages and stages in life, in our area and your videos are some I have posted since this is a page for those committed to date in a Godly way. Keep up the great videos! The beard, at the stage where it is, suits you Paul. Normally I prefer clean-shaven but you have a nice combo going on there.

PART 3 !!!! Great job you two! And PART 2&3 for the women !!

This was great! Ready for part 3 😁

I love these type of videos that you do aha they’re so fun and really interesting to watch. Defo would like to see a part three haha

You two are hilarious together! :) I'm waiting for a godly man to be my husband. It's hard to wait but I know it's worth it. :) I just wish I had the chance to meet single Christian men but my church is very small. The clothes question was good! I've helped my brothers with fashion advice and they've really appreciated it. I hope that my future husband will enjoy dressing nicely as well. :)

You guys are great!! My older sister loves you guys and she really wants to meet you! She's been through so so much and you have helped her alot!!!

Part 3 pleaseeee! Love these videos!

Love this so much!!! Definitely up for a part 3! ♥️♥️♥️

nobody: Paul: *tWin fAWnS oF a gAZeLLe*

You two seem so radiant. I love your new content!!!

The credits at the end crack me up. Great advice, keep these coming!

Thanks for the info!! Part3??? Love you guys!!💙

Please do a part three. Love you guys ♥️♥️♥️

4:28-4:32, when he says future wife i love how she smiles and waves and then u see the realization set in, like eXcUsE mE, fUtUrE wIfE?!😂

Got super excited when I saw the title 😍 your videos are so good!

That's an awesome video on all levels. Also can I add my idea for the question of looks over personality, it might honestly depend on how you are raised. Also girls just tell a guy something and be straight forward. Most of the time, guys can handle it. Thanks Paul and Morgan for another awesome video. P.S. A third video....😲😲😲👍🏻

Love love love these videos. Keep em coming

Question for Part 3: When guys ask you on a date, are they thinking you have wife potential and how soon into the relationship are they thinking seriously about a married future with you?

I love your beard, Paul! All of my four bros have them and are rocking it. Go facial hair!

Loved it!!! Part 3 please!!!! A question for part three would be do “guys like girls who are honest about their personal struggles?” Thank you!!

This was awesome! I'm in my twenties now and still when I read Songs of Solomon, I'm like, not old enough for this! ;) Thank you guys for this!! Great questions, and I love hearing the answers from the perspective of a guy!

Yeah, I like your beard 😁 thank you for the advice, looking forward for part three!

Hi Paul and Morgan! I've just found your channel and have absolutely LOVED watching your Christian dating videos and advice and to just see some great role models like yourselves talking about how you can honor God through relationships. I have another question that girls might be too afraid to ask guys which is what is the best thing you can do for your man if you know something is wrong or troubling him? A lot of people tell me it's best to just leave a guy alone when he is upset about something but I was wondering what a guy genuinely wants to hear from their girl when they are upset or what we should do when they are upset. like, give them a hug or something idk lol. Let me know what you think!

Hello everyone!! Thanks so much for this honest video! I like it very much just as I like pt1!! I also have a question for pt3: When I'm takling to a guy (not in relationship) and he notices that I'm excited about it, what does he feel about it? Would he feel honoured or would he be more like 'ew we have a problem'? Or would it be sth else? Edit: What would a guy think if I told him that I don't want to have kids? And what would he de if I told him that I'm medically not able to get kids? Would you leave a woman because of that? Thanks for all you work and honesty. You're really helping and supporting us!

Love this series.

Another amazing video! Great job you guys ❤

Loved this!!!! Keep posting!!! ❤️❤️

YES PLEASE DO PART THREE

Great job you guys! Paul you did a good job representing guys!! Can you guys do another video on questions guys have for girls too??, I really enjoyed this video. I would like to know how do guy lose respect for a girl? Like do guy just think a girl is overreacting whenever she gets mad, over little things?

so funny, my boyfriend's name is Jonathan! But he dresses great! haha

Haha I'm 25 and still use one of my shirts from 9th grade. It's one of my favorites

I have a question relating to the part 1 video. You guys talked about how a married man can look at a single girl. My question is: as a single girl, can I protect myself or prevent it somehow so he doesn’t get too far? I would say I dress pretty modestly. Love watching you two by the way😍❤️

Part3 please 😊😊

Another great video! Thanks a lot 🤗.

Yesss great video guys. Love you guys. Keep it up

SPOT on Paul ,great opinions bro!

Like these videos !! Please keep them up

You guys should just make a ton of videos like this and make a “Questions girls are too afraid to ask guys” playlist

This is great!

To elaborate on the last question: physical attraction is huge but it isn't everything. A girl who is a 10 at first glance can easily be brought down to a 2 if she has an awful personality. On the other hand, a girl who is a 6 or 7 can easily be brought up to an 8 or 9 if you two click and she has a great personality. Looks spark an attraction, but it's sustained by the personality. And to be honest, I don't think girls view it much differently.

Shout out to Morgan for that question! I’m a firefighter/medic and loved Paul’s answer ☺️ I’d love to know if guys are less likely to date a girl if her walk with God is newer/isn’t as long as his walk with God?

Such a great video! Also... Morgan where did you get your shirt? It’s so cute😍

I love you guys ❤❤going to eventually add you to my prayer list

Love your videos 😊

I can so relate to Morgan on the point she made of how guys sometimes aren’t attractive until you get to know them. When I first starting really talking to my now boyfriend, I really didn’t think he was that attractive but now he is the most attractive guy to me

I LOVED THIS VIDEO!!!

PART THREE PLEASE!!!!!!

About the beardddd haha could use a little touch up 🙈🙈🙈 that’s just me, Morgan may like it that way 🤷🏻‍♀️ about asking guys questions how long should you wait or how can you let the guy know if you like him, when he shows interest in you but also doesn’t do anything about it... asking for a friend 🤪

That golf shot sound effect! 😅

Great video!

Love your shirt Morgan!

Good video guys!! Very graceful but honest answers under pressure.

Great video. Honest and straightforward, Paul.

Love it ❤️

This is the first video of yours I’ve watched and the fact that Paul said my name when talking about wearing a shirt since ninth grade I legit jumped because I do that still

I commented something before super harshly really hastily. I only deleted it because it was too angry for what i was trying to say. Aside from my criticism my biggest desire is for more jesus content in the world. My nitpicking is so tiny in comparison to the important things christian content creators are doing with their abilities. I totally have some qualms, but they are dim in the light of you guys spreading the word of God through your videos. Sending love.

Part 3!!!

P&M I love your videos! Would yall ever do another combo q and a with another couple?

You both are doing awesome work 😇god bless you

That beard thing🤣🤣 I do like it Paul, just don't let it get too long. Btw, thanks so much for being real! Don't be afraid to be honest!

I appreciate your input so much guys!!! just personally wouldnt ask my partner to dress differently, because I would respect his own style and tast. but other than than, keep it as funny! you're doing so well!! love from germany xx

When you guys started talking about dressing better 😭😂

"we are grateful for your man brain" 😂😂😂

I loved these questions, spot on! Awesome video.