Rachel Lindsay’s Advice for Single Women with High Standards 

That’s riiight! 💖

I’ve met them both in person and very fun and great couple.

preach yes folks in those feelings now when BW start speaking up and are educated. It's like this a threat now with men in general.

Rachel wanted to wear a boss babe pant suit to her wedding and her husband said “no - wear a dress” and I’m a bit salty she didn’t follow / wear what she wanted :/

I am black and was raised by my black father. I remember asking him if he would have a problem if I fell in love with a man who wasn't black. He told me that I could fall in love with a pig as long as he loved me. Get someone good for your soul. Period.

Black women need to wake up, black men have given up on us. We need to date outside our race.

Beautiful Couple

@@mees2751 yup

@@mees2751 Now you’re being an extremist. The percentage of black men who prefer black women actually is greater than that of white men. This tunnel vision approach will be to your detriment because it assumes all white men are husband material. You might end up with exactly what you tried to avoid because pigs exist in every group. Choose character, and that can be a black man or non black man.

Awe that’s so cool and sweet to hear

Thank you!

Yes! Rachel an Tamron both!

Aged like milk

He seems really masculine.

@@sparklesp9304 really hot, too

@@sparklesp9304 he is gay. Looks is deciving!

@@sparklesp9304 He seems passive, at least competing with his wife.

Flaw-leeeessssssss! Glad you said that

Catherine Roberts speaking her truth and your behavior say one thing tells people that you are a fake and do not care about your own race. Why is she bleaching her skin. Is she to black and realize she can not fit in with the people she surround herself with? I wonder!

Catherine Roberts seems like a nice person is a show. Watch how she treated the white girls on the show. I am glad they turn on her. She will only have a black girl in her circle to say that she like to be around her own. She need to stop letting her white agent write her script. She was taught hanging around to many black are not a good look because her father is a judge.

@@millihuggins1688 Seek therapy 💀

@@millihuggins1688 How do you know she is bleaching her skin?! IF she was planning on bleaching herself to make herself look more "white" and she was leaning towards white men why not bleach herself BEFORE her season as Bachelorette in order to make herself more desirable to ALL the white men?! Why wait until she HAS the man she wants, fine behind white Latino Bryan to decide to bleach herself when he obviously fell for her the way she was? You must not have watched her entire season, because if you had you would have found out ALL she had dated were black men and she was unhappy. Her sister is married to a white man, maybe that opened her eyes more to the possibilities. Some of her best female friends were white women BEFORE she ever joined the bachelor/ bachelorette franchise. Why? She is an upper middle class black woman who probably went to predominantly white schools, lived in predominantly white neighborhoods, and going to law school where she was once again surrounded mostly by whites I commend her for trying to remain true and STILL date black. However, I agree with @ Miss Klassy about why she was leaning towards whites AND I can understand with all the games black men play she decided enough is enough ESPECIALLY after seeing how they treat white women, no matter how skinny, how fat, how damaged her hair and/or skin, how poor, they will marry her and lift up her and her entire family while acting as if a beautiful black woman is never enough. Kudos Rachel! Why give those men more consideration than they give us just because they happen to be black?! Also you DO realize that whatever filters they use on the camera and/or the film you can look high yellow one minute, black as night the next, and then just brown in others. Unless you have seen her face to face IN PERSON, before the show and recently you can't say with a certainty that she has bleached herself. Smh

@@missklassy4447 Yes tell the truth & shame the devil. I definitely noticed a difference dating Hispanic guys vs black guys.

Yes, but she discussed this in her book so it is a fair topic

He absolutely adores her and it was apparent on the show that he was all about her. It doesn’t hurt that he’s handsome!

Mae because Rachel kept on carryon about this race issue and does not surround herself with her own black people in her circle only when she is looking to be paid. What happen to Jasmine, etc.. Why is she bleaching her face. Her behavior is showing who she really are.

I hope you make that known to younger black Women. Don’t keep this information to yourself

@@RC-iq2hh sure dear, let work in this together...the soulmate could come with any other color... Let us not limit our sucees in love....

You are about each other...I like that.😂

Didn't know he was racist until I heard this news last year.

He wasn't such a racist When Rachel Lindsay cried herself out of the bachelor when Nick rejected her and they bought her back to be the black bachelorette ? Rachel Lindsay thinks that she is the boss and she stepped out of her place knowing that she was still under contract with bachelor Nation and she thought she was going to be the new host this ain't April fool but she got played herself and yet from being a concubine that 30 women chasing after one guy when you combine love connection to the lifestyle of the Rich and famous and yet the ABC arranged this whole thing and was nothing more than a make believe relationship and yet Rachel Lindsay has cash in on her bachelorette Nation by using racism because she felt she was a victim and now she's smelling like green cash dollar bills has plenty that in her book that she wanted a black man when she was 18 I guess they never show up to come see her and to Brayn oh I'm going to support my wife if you've never dated a black woman before what was your true motive on being on the show being one of the Rachel's concubine and dude you talk big but if you were really bold you go over to see Chris Harrison since you want to defend your white honor and also remember you are under contract too and then your bachelor Nation contract was terminated ! Yeah real life romance that you don't drink that champagne and caviar dream !

@@walterbrown9079 what do you mean exactly? is Nick not racist?

Don dada Chris is not racist. Rachel tried to take over the show, and Chris was just tired of her.

He wasn’t being a jerk. He asked a question about what a college age girl would find acceptable prior to a new awakening in society years later. And for the record, history is history and there’s NOTHING wrong with going to a party with an antebellum theme. I have eaten at plenty of antebellum theme’s restaurants in Georgia and New Orleans. It should have never been an issue and Chris should have never lost his job! He’s been nothing but a gracious host and a good man by all accounts. This ultra sensitivity has got to stop!

me too

Exactly.

Sorry but I’m dark skinned and I don’t desire any dark skinned man it is what it is

I would say your comment mostly applies to Black Americans because honestly in Africa dark skinned girls don't have a hard time(yes there may still be light skin privilege).What black people experience in western countries is not what they experience in Africa.I know this is an American"emission" however black is a race !. Being Black in the west is not the same as being Black in Africa.for exemple a black boy/girl in Africa can dream of becoming a CEO of KPMG, Deloitte etc but a black person in the west can only dream of occupying those positions because they are mostly given to white people.

@@tayasha123 Who cares, you're majority black in Africa so of course black men will pick you. Try living in a country where only 13% of the population is black and see how many black men will pursue you. Look at all the African footballers in Europe who are not marrying black women and that should answer your question.

@@mcarthurspark8636 Actually I live in a country in Europe so I know what I am talking about.and here in Europe black women are not marrying black man either.

Cause they are weak

And the word “Freedom” which has been abused. If there were serious consequences for death threats, do know think we would have them?

MauAng Mil are you missing something in your life? How much do you love Jesus?

@@carrieanderson3286 Jesus is the center of my life, without him I'm nothing 🙏. And as humans we all desire to love more, do more, have more and experience more, so in essence we are all missing something. If we do not seek to love, grow and do more we become STAGNANT and thats not a good state for a Christian. 🙏❤

@@FreeQA4RemoteWorkers it will change our image for the better but I actually really think middle eastern men latino men are very attractive

@@FreeQA4RemoteWorkers it doesn't. There's happy black couples and happy any race couples nothing will erase anyone. Stop the racism! People are not supposed to date, marry, based on colors. It should based on chemistry and love. Next. Have dated a black man for 3 years, left to raise my only child with him by myself. Happily married since 10 years with a perfect white man and been treated like the goddess that I am. But I have also several families members including my mom that are married to awesome perfect black husbands as well but I am not the only one in my family married to white or Spanish either to each their own that all that I can say.

Really? "Some of these black men might be your first second and third cousins and you don't know..." So - why is that? I'm curious to your response...

She really is ...and she never ages!

Bryan was her second choice. In Rachel head she is still in love with Peter cross. Isn't he the one she slept with before Bryan, as she stated when Hannah Brown reveal that she had sex with someone on her season? Bryan still trying to run competition with this man just to please her. All that mess that she showing with Bryan is only a show.

Yes, Bryan was seemingly the second choice.

Many are eliminating black women. It’s really strange black women are always professing their love for black men and I do not see the same.

Girl stop, please just stop with the open professions of love for a group that has unequivocally shown you they don't feel the same way about you.

A lot of men like and appreciate that "strong, successful, independent" woman, but then they get her then expect her to conform, make herself small so they can shine and puff out their chest. They can't just love, appreciate and support her.

I see what ya did there :)

I also saw what you did there! 😄

Congrats! 🌟

Covert racism from those you love DEFINITELY hurts, honey. Black women don't date out because we see the racism that men in our families have experienced from even their partners at times. It's not ok to go from dealing with antagonism and hostility at school, work, the store, etc, depending on where you live, to dealing with it at home.

My options have been open. I've found the love of my live that treats me very well. I will not be one of the blk women murked every 5 hours, every day by a blk man.

ColaBling please no! Please encourage her to go away from the media. It is time for her to go and never come back.

4991 Brave I do not see any beauty in her one bit when she always causing problems for others. She also bleaching her skin and just talk without showing the work.

@@millihuggins1688 Oh could you elaborate more on what problems Rachel is causing exactly? I don’t quite understand where you’re coming from. 😊

@@millihuggins1688 : Bleaching her skin, are you serious?

@@lindaroane3344 Are you blind? Go back and look at all of her pictures from when she entered in the BN world to today. What is it look like. People like you only follow the crowd and do not pay close attention to the behavior and looks of a person, that always want to perceive herself as everyone is racist.

@@millihuggins1688 : She's beautiful, and looks the same. Where did racist come from? Honey you're pumped. 😁😁😁😁😁

Black women are mitochondrial Eve that’s why.

Exactly! Expand your options! If BW want masculine provider _husbands_ (not baby daddies), you MUST look outside of the blk community.

Lisa Cossa then she should have never slept with Peter. This is what make Peter change his mind about her. he felt that she should not be doing things with him and then go and do the same thing with Bryan if she really liked him. After Hannah Brown came out and said she slept with Peter Rachel looking attention said she slept with Peter Krause on her show. So now tell me who was right to protect their heart and embarrassment the guys in the house was speaking about her and Bryan. peter did the right thing by not messing up his name by offering to get engage to her.

@@millihuggins1688 I personally can't speak for things I didn't not understand behind the scenes, at the end of the day she chose Bryan for a reason, and someone's heart always gets hurt at the show, one person gets picked at the end of the day.🤷🏽‍♀️

@@millihuggins1688 how u know she slept with Peter

Was it the Whitney plantation

@@AJ-pg6rg No clue which one it was. I was in Baton Rouge at the time.

Yeah I don't know how I'd feel about that either...

Yep. It was the same with Lauren from 'Love is Blind'. She is a beautiful, smart, charismatic & ambitious black woman that could not find HEALTHY love until she opened her options & found Cameron. I'm so happy for these women. It is a representation of whats going in the communitae. With the number imbalance ( well over 2 million more blk women than men & 3x blk men dating out) blk women HAVE to open their options.

@@jg3865 I just looovveeee Lauren! I hope that one day, more blk women are open to non blk men.

No don't watch it because it will taint what you think of their love story. A huge event happens at the end, right before she chooses him, and honestly it had most of Bachelor Nation questioning of Brian was truly her choice.

@@misstab2869 I'm not part of 'Bachelor Nation' though. I've never EVER been into that show lol! Also as far as I know they're one of the very few couples that actually got married and are currently together, right?

Preach!!!

Why are you bringing gay people into this? Isn't this a black straight man problem?

@@nanaak8617 We are black men regardless no matter who we sleep with. It is important that we lead our community and set the example for future generations.

@@SC-tn5id 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

Well said, I'm a independent woman, with my own home and a good job and A very good woman to know how to treat a man special and the problem I always end up with someone who is intermediate by my strong natural and strong will. Black man have sooo.much ego it's hard to get pass them with that. Now I decided to go all white

M. Palmer i agree with you about it was not a big deal. Rachel wanted to chose for Matt and destroy his show, so she could not refuse the gossip about that young lady. She complaining about death treat to her. What about what got Chris upset a furious. It was because that young lady parents was getting death treat and people looking into their pollical record. Rachel was pushing the agenda for democrat and Black life matter. They did it because of her interference with Beca fiancé about his political belief that cause them to broke up, so she felt that she ran the franchise and everyone should listen to her. Chris did the right thing to distance himself from her completely.

I absolutely hate the fact that Americans made everything about Race, Ryan is Colombian, im a black Colombian and back home you see a lot of interracial couples, like it blows my mind that in 2022 this is still odd in America, it is sooo weird, also the black Americans always try to put everyone in the same basket, like back home we dont eat fried chicken it it not a thing, so one day when I asked about this a black lady rudely told me that I was ignorant about black history to which I said: madam, i was born and raised Colombian, of course i know my ancestors are black but fried chicken is not a thing for us, you should respect that period. There black latinos, black Caribbean but the Afro Americans want to make everything about themselves. As soon I became a physician I left that land because the negativity that comes from the black community there towards other black ethnicities is horrible. Another day, in Boston someone said to me that I was faking my accent and that i was ashamed of being black and thats why i was faking it, i laughed soooo hard, i said well, my first language is Spanish lady, so im sorry my english is not perfect but I get by with an accent and all, so no im not ashamed at all to be black, ppl just need to understand that a black Panamenian, Cuban, Colombian, venezuelan, brazilian is not the same as a black American, we come from different cultures, have different food, different accents, we have in common our ancestors and skin tone past that point we are all different, so pls pls black Americans stop putting everyone in the same basket

Vee C he is a looser. Do not think that he is all that great. he have done women really bad just to please his mother. This is why they never accepted him and her in Miami. She was very unhappy their and had to get out because she felt that they would have rallied around them because he is from their. Dallas Texas where she is from did not accept them. The Mexican did not like the fact that he was with her as a Spanish guy, so they never got the love that they was expecting. He is a mama boy. Kook at the way he dance with his mother on the dance floor. It is so scary to see them dance that close. He feeling her and he feeling him, OH my Goosh! he does not even dance with her like that. These are things that people need to pay attention to and stop looking for entertainment from them.

@@millihuggins1688this is the wierdest Cynical observation shed

@@millihuggins1688 He's not a looser. A looser is an unsuccessful, uneducated man that doesn't respect their woman. All that you have pointed out that doesn't have nothing to do with Bryan. Exterior people opinions including Mexicans talks are BS. He treats Rachel like the goddess and the queen she is and that's all that matters. Stop the racism ! If they divorce by now we can rest in peace it wasn't because of race or sex lies BS