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Raped by my Father | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 26 | Season 2 

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A young woman shares a traumatic experience she's encountered with a person she concered to be her father
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@elizabethbrown8491
@elizabethbrown8491 3 года назад
The man that was suppose to be your protector, was a predator. This is sickening and heartbreaking.
@bibizeeboohoo741
@bibizeeboohoo741 3 года назад
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@marcelledowridge3468
@marcelledowridge3468 3 года назад
Sz3rr
@dannypeter1806
@dannypeter1806 3 года назад
The thing dey sweet the girl I swear😂😂😂😂😂😂
@adeolaoke4165
@adeolaoke4165 3 года назад
It’s usually trusted people
@peacebestill9722
@peacebestill9722 3 года назад
@@dannypeter1806 must you run your mouth carelessly at r*pe victims..? Ode osi..
@kikataye6293
@kikataye6293 3 года назад
My grandfather did this to my mother from 6-12 years old. It made her non emotional, non nurturing and cold growing up. It also made her fear men, including any abusive one. We still have a difficult relationship to this day. You are a courageous woman for telling your story. God bless
@nenesibanda4171
@nenesibanda4171 2 года назад
Let your mom watch this and be with her as she probably replays the moments in her head.
@thina5918
@thina5918 2 года назад
Please be supportive to your mother and try to get her therapy. It’s not too late.
@laurenw.9176
@laurenw.9176 2 года назад
Try to work with your mom since you know her fight. God Bless you both.
@tracyinja7004
@tracyinja7004 2 года назад
Last generation women went through it a lot and never got help.
@prasenjeetupadhyaya6762
@prasenjeetupadhyaya6762 Год назад
My story is quite different
@gontsephaloane1530
@gontsephaloane1530 3 года назад
I have lived with my father for most of my life. And I cannot imagine how damaging it would be to me mentally if he would rape me. Shout out to loving, single fathers out there, that treat their daughters with love and care, genuine love and care.
@thatoscott6016
@thatoscott6016 3 года назад
True I also stayed with my father from 7yrs till 25 yrs when I got married.
@malinda1299
@malinda1299 3 года назад
I stayed with my dad since I was young!he was such sweetest nicest loving father!I miss him😞!rest in peace Dad!!
@gontsephaloane1530
@gontsephaloane1530 3 года назад
@@malinda1299 ŕest in peace to him. Condolences to you
@tinaanderson200
@tinaanderson200 3 года назад
Yes, I was told that its very common in African country's smh also in the B.C.
@chandatrevorchisanga6196
@chandatrevorchisanga6196 3 года назад
@@tinaanderson200 silly may I be the one to tell you that it's not common 😏😏
@kepaletswemoagi3455
@kepaletswemoagi3455 3 года назад
As a mother I'm helpless after listening to this. I'm so heartbroken. She's such a strong young woman. Truly so forgiving is healing. Stay strong girl
@antoinettefullerjohnson6143
@antoinettefullerjohnson6143 2 года назад
Wow she is a strong young lady so proud of her i couldn't imagine My dad doing that to me thank you for sharing
@rosebanda3613
@rosebanda3613 Год назад
🥺🥺🥺🥺
@lornadixon7839
@lornadixon7839 Год назад
Sickness predator
@vedanelson8022
@vedanelson8022 Год назад
He is a sick preditcer .Girl ylu are so strong.
@the_chill_wildlife5177
@the_chill_wildlife5177 Год назад
I was raped from the time I was 4 until 16 I ended up getting pregnant between 11 and 12 years old but I don't know if it was my stepfather or step brother... By the time my mom's marriage to my stepfather was over he had passed away and my step brother was gone... I was placed in an institute because I was lying about it.. moms and dads, if your children tell you that they're being raped please look into it. I'm in my 40s and I still have nightmares. When your little like that, and you hope there's someone to help you, and no one believes you ,It just tells you that you're not worth it . I no longer have anything to do with my family.
@shirleymurray1714
@shirleymurray1714 Год назад
Hi, I have a story to, but prefer not to talk about’ because I would be mad with my mother who I love so dearly, but I’m so sorry to hear that your mother and father do not believe you got molested by step, father or step bother, what a shame that some mothers don’t believe their own child or children smh that sick to me, please hang in their GOD got you in him hand so don’t you blame yourself or believe it over because GOD got the last word okay young strong lady ❤️😊👍🏽
@rfb915
@rfb915 Год назад
😢😢😢 It wasn't by my father however the pain of molestation still affects me and I am in my '60's! Shameful on these dirty dick men!!! Just shameful!
@thembekaportia1561
@thembekaportia1561 Год назад
I'm sorry. Please pray and take care.
@boitumelomathibela5174
@boitumelomathibela5174 Год назад
😢
@boitumelomathibela5174
@boitumelomathibela5174 Год назад
I'm so sad for you . Let Fe was stolen from you
@tebogomaupa_
@tebogomaupa_ 3 года назад
She’s healed and this is so refreshing . 🥺
@oliviajimenez7327
@oliviajimenez7327 2 года назад
Hola me sorprende que en Africa abusen de sus hijos pienso que la ley deberia ser m'as sebera méterlos en la carsel las madres deberian éducar ha sus.hijos sobre el peligro sexualité.gracias por el vidéo.hasta.pronto
@moonwillow9able
@moonwillow9able 3 года назад
Zizo has been so brave and courageous, and she spoke about her ordeal with such childlike innocence and grace...May the Lord bless her for ever!
@elizafastidio6123
@elizafastidio6123 3 года назад
God will bless you ur past is not good but in everything that happened has a purpose.
@abaaba3257
@abaaba3257 3 года назад
Amen and you too 🙏🏻
@abaaba3257
@abaaba3257 3 года назад
@@elizafastidio6123 Right
@patjones1730
@patjones1730 3 года назад
This is so discussing that a father could do to his child
@queen-ke6df
@queen-ke6df 3 года назад
With all that been said an done he would have to keep his distant and i will put the matter in Gods hands
@sim3663
@sim3663 3 года назад
💔💔 went to school with uZizo, she had so much positive energy around her, you would never think she went through such. You are so brave Zizo
@karlmakinda5805
@karlmakinda5805 3 года назад
She is obviously courageous. So pleasant, too!
@jacquelinehenriques2106
@jacquelinehenriques2106 3 года назад
Girl you are so beautiful I really appreciate you coming out and let everyone know what was going on
@jacquelinehenriques2106
@jacquelinehenriques2106 3 года назад
He should get life imprisonment
@glenettelambert4428
@glenettelambert4428 3 года назад
I'm so sorry. Thats Very sad. No one should have to go through that.
@mollympahane8262
@mollympahane8262 3 года назад
Many of us went through this and we couldn't report them
@senceriacruse4943
@senceriacruse4943 3 года назад
I am so sorry she went through this. I too was molested 47 years ago though by a grandfather, uncle, 2 brothers, and teachers aid. I forgave a long time ago. Nobody was taken to court I was sent to VA to live with my mom but my grandma didn't believe me and a bad decision in who to take me. What they went through because of their sin was bad enough. My brother who is 61 apologize 2 years ago and is a minister now . Most are grandfather and uncle. Seem like others have been violated when we were young. I learned that from a cousin. Having a relationship with God makes all the difference. God bless you and your family!
@relebogilemabotja215
@relebogilemabotja215 3 года назад
❤️
@MaribelMaldonado-yy6dx
@MaribelMaldonado-yy6dx Год назад
Yeah you say he is a minister I had a minister his name is John Rosa and he touched his own daughter ministers do it too
@khoimkhwanazimusic3504
@khoimkhwanazimusic3504 Год назад
​@@kirstiehiorns618 ask that again
@KM-oy5yh
@KM-oy5yh Год назад
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN, I #Agree, I was molested at the age of #7/#8 by an older Male cousin age #15/#16🎉
@IdahAsanda
@IdahAsanda 7 месяцев назад
😢😢😢
@jaiyaalexandra144
@jaiyaalexandra144 3 года назад
This is a warning to the mothers not to treat your children like a sack of potatoes that you pass from relative to relative. You need to be vigilant and trust no one.
@judyvermagondu6212
@judyvermagondu6212 2 года назад
My heart breaks for you
@KM-oy5yh
@KM-oy5yh Год назад
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉
@mahlatsemokgwatsana4957
@mahlatsemokgwatsana4957 3 года назад
I don't trust any1 with my daughter and my sons😭😭😭
@geoffreyamisi614
@geoffreyamisi614 3 года назад
Kumbavu ulipata pekee yako ama na mwanaume
@zoraxye4325
@zoraxye4325 3 года назад
you are right and this mistrust may keep her safe throughout her childhood.
@sbonzama7013
@sbonzama7013 3 года назад
That is very silly. You are part of the problem!
@mahlatsemokgwatsana4957
@mahlatsemokgwatsana4957 3 года назад
@@sbonzama7013 part of the problem how... Uyagula wena
@rakabum5964
@rakabum5964 3 года назад
Very true, this world is full of cruel people. The records of kids being raped by their family members, care givers and relatives are many than strangers. So this story and many more should be an eye opener and a watch out.
@masmodiba
@masmodiba 3 года назад
I can't imagine how many more women are going through this. This is heartbreaking 😫💔
@chirologypalmistry
@chirologypalmistry 3 года назад
yes so heartbreakingly tragic
@kwerfr
@kwerfr 3 года назад
Went through it. my daughter is now 24. I was 14 when I gave birth. I haven’t seen my dad in 24 years
@masmodiba
@masmodiba 3 года назад
@@kwerfr You're two years younger than me 😫 You seem sooo strong. I'm sorry for what you went through 😭💔💔 No one deserves that
@bcaiqs
@bcaiqs 3 года назад
@@kwerfr I’m so sorry
@malambamasindi4428
@malambamasindi4428 3 года назад
@@chirologypalmistry utterly utterly
@elizabethgamlashe674
@elizabethgamlashe674 3 года назад
I had a similar experience with my stepdad. I think it started when I was in grade 2 or 3 and stopped in grade 4 when one morning my mom found him on top of me. Even this day I don’t understand why he was not arrested or why mom stayed married and still had more kids with this man. Then I saw no problem - I wasn’t bothered. He’d give me money to go buy sweets with friends. Today I’m 29, turning 30 next month and the thought of it now that I understand better - I know exactly what was happening, it’s messing up with me every day. Thank you for sharing, it burdens me less to see people claiming back their dignity - I’ve also gained courage to talk about it.
@ndalamamashabele5956
@ndalamamashabele5956 3 года назад
Im truely sorry for your experience sesi❤
@balungilehlanganiso7441
@balungilehlanganiso7441 3 года назад
I’m so sorry Liz❤️
@tshepisomorobi659
@tshepisomorobi659 3 года назад
I'm so sorry my beautiful lady Elizabeth and Almighty provide you with more strength in reclaiming your dignity.
@lungeleniconstance3729
@lungeleniconstance3729 3 года назад
Hmmm sorry dear
@regaliam5685
@regaliam5685 3 года назад
Wishing you strength and blessings.you've been through alot and you didn't deserve what happened to you.
@veronastrauss8949
@veronastrauss8949 2 года назад
Bringing back memories, late 70's one of our neighbours was caught out,had 4 kids with his daughter. And another case the wife passed away,leaving hubby with 5 daughters,their father treated them as his wife's kids were born until one confided in her teacher,he was sentenced to 25 years.
@Megan_Kgwadi
@Megan_Kgwadi 2 года назад
25 years is a small price to pay for such atrocities
@unapologeticella4540
@unapologeticella4540 2 года назад
25 yrs is not enough for these demons
@pamelazingisa4448
@pamelazingisa4448 Год назад
He deserves life sentence without parole yoh
@Mommyoftwooak
@Mommyoftwooak 3 года назад
I am so glad that her mother believed her! That’s huge, specially in black communities.
@KM-oy5yh
@KM-oy5yh Год назад
#ALL RACES HAVE ALOT OF THIS GOING ON, U WOULD BE #SHOCKED WHAT REALLY GO ON BEHIND #CLOSED DOORS 🎉
@Mommyoftwooak
@Mommyoftwooak Год назад
@@KM-oy5yh Yeah, that’s a giving boo, I know.
@KM-oy5yh
@KM-oy5yh Год назад
@@Mommyoftwooak ❤️🙏
@tlhologelomakotanyane427
@tlhologelomakotanyane427 3 года назад
What i learned from this is that Parents needs to start teaching their children about these things at a very young age, sit down with your 5/6 years old girl or boy and explain to her or him these things, It doesn't have to be as deep but just let them know that no one must touch you there and there or do this to you it is wrong and you must come and tell me. It pained that Zizo didn't know that what her dad was doing is wrong. It was a great yet painful interview to watch. Strong to you Zizo, you are very beautiful.
@LeaJackson90
@LeaJackson90 3 года назад
Yeah
@vgraham9597
@vgraham9597 3 года назад
Girl my heart bleeds for you, for you to go through this for such a long time God was watching you only he couldn't come down to take you out of the situation. But you know what he did he make your mind blank so you could not understand the impact of what you were going through and heal when the time was right bless the Lord 🙏🙏💖 stay strong
@tashatash1986
@tashatash1986 3 года назад
So true!!
@tashatash1986
@tashatash1986 3 года назад
It could have been avoided but we are not perfect and make mistakes, may we learn F r on this unfortunate situation. Knowledge and understanding should be imparted in our children early... in order to protect them for their own good.
@tlhologelomakotanyane427
@tlhologelomakotanyane427 3 года назад
@@tashatash1986 very true and i concur
@ncumisanomazele887
@ncumisanomazele887 3 года назад
I wish all mothers could believe their kids like her mother did 👏
@lynndakay
@lynndakay 3 года назад
True 😥😥
@alanaharp9527
@alanaharp9527 3 года назад
In my days I know a lot of mothers didn't believe their girls.😫😭 especially the dad.
@marciagranthall3129
@marciagranthall3129 3 года назад
They don't 😪. Many of these women are abused by the men without even realizing it. They are trauma bonded and suffer Stockholm syndrome. They will always chose him over anyone--even their own children.
@guthabanglasdash8641
@guthabanglasdash8641 2 года назад
What kind of man could be turned on by his own daughter 😂 yuck!! Even though I live here the United States this kind of crap goes on everywhere even in Antarctica of
@bongiwenkomombini9412
@bongiwenkomombini9412 Год назад
Instead of my mom support me no she hated me so much I just wish I never talk about it you know. 😢😢😭😭
@Liz-up2ti
@Liz-up2ti 3 года назад
Not me crying like it happened to me, she is such a strong soul.. Bless her heart
@baldwin5510
@baldwin5510 3 года назад
❤❤
@estherkhalo4397
@estherkhalo4397 3 года назад
Yoh I'm bawling like a baby at work, this poor girl
@thembekahadebe8122
@thembekahadebe8122 3 года назад
I'm so sorry sisi 😭
@tiki-kut7494
@tiki-kut7494 3 года назад
Same.
@rosejurgen4292
@rosejurgen4292 3 года назад
But Dr. Akhigbe, Traditional Herbal Practitioner in Africa, Have cured for HIV which is extracted from some rare herbals. It is highly potential to cure AIDS 100% without any residue. Dr Akhigbe herbal medicine has already passed various blogs on how he use his powerful herbals to heal all kind of diseases such as. Herpes, HIV,,Cushing’s disease,Heart failure,Multiple Sclerosis,Hypertension,Colo_Rectal Cancer, Diabetes, Hepatitis,Hpv,Weak ErectionLyme Disease,Blood Cancer,Alzheimer’s disease,Bechet’s disease,Crohn’s disease,Parkinson's disease,Schizophrenia,Lung Cancer,Breast Cancer,Colo-Rectal Cancer,Blood Cancer,Prostate Cancer,siva.Fatal Familial Insomnia Factor V Leiden Mutation ,Epilepsy Dupuytren's disease,Desmoplastic small-round-cell tumor Diabetes ,Coeliac disease,Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease,Cerebral Amyloid Angiopathy, Ataxia,Arthritis,Amyotrophic Lateral Scoliosis,Fibromyalgia,Fluoroquinolone Toxicity,Brain Cancer,Breast Cancer,Lung Cancer,Kidney Cancer,Syndrome Fibrodysplasia Ossificans ProgresSclerosis,Seizures,Alzheimer's disease,Adrenocortical carcinoma.Asthma,Allergic diseases.Hiv_ Aids,Herpe ,Copd,Glaucoma., Cataracts,Macular degeneration,Cardiovascular disease,Lung disease.Enlarged prostate,Osteoporosis.Alzheimer's disease,Dementia.,Wart Remover,Cold Sore, Epilepsy.. contact him and get your cure.. Here is email address drrealakhigbe@gmail.com website. drrealakhigbe.weebly.com/
@mzomanci6322
@mzomanci6322 Год назад
This young lady is very forgiving and she has a super mom.
@shariffagrant9224
@shariffagrant9224 3 года назад
Commenting from Jamaica this story from this strong beautiful young lady touch my heart I appreciate the fact that her mom believe her mothers always listen to your kids put them first
@kgaogelokekana5595
@kgaogelokekana5595 3 года назад
This story is soooo similar to mine, except it wasn't my father,but a neighbor, and he was a complete narcissistic psychopath when we sat down for the vod (victim offender dialogue)! Blamed he's behavior o n the devil and alcohol! Fortunately he's serving life! I was only 9 when it happened, but Im in my 30s now and totally at peace with it!
@elizabethletsoso2558
@elizabethletsoso2558 3 года назад
Kgaogelo I'm so sorry my darling sending you love, hugs 💕💕
@chipokandemiirichiguri6007
@chipokandemiirichiguri6007 3 года назад
Hugs to you Kgaogelo. Im happy you are now at peace with it.
@NaadiraSsali
@NaadiraSsali 3 года назад
God bless you and hold you
@brightdays555
@brightdays555 3 года назад
Blessings for you for wonderful ❤ life for rest of your days my dear
@jabulilenhlapo1592
@jabulilenhlapo1592 2 года назад
Am so sorry it happened to you
@dimakigulah4311
@dimakigulah4311 3 года назад
This is heartbreaking but big ups to the lady. I grew up with my brother's in Lesotho. They were helping me taking a bath. They never in any way made me feel uncomfortable. My brother's were adults but very protective of me. From that age of seven till I went to high school. I love them to this day. Because they was not even a sign of discomfort able. I thank God
@barbaramabuda9512
@barbaramabuda9512 3 года назад
I want a husband from your home-true gentlemen 😘
@sherondhlamini8713
@sherondhlamini8713 3 года назад
same as me, my father used to bath me but i never experience some discomfort or any some form of harassments , a rapist is a rapist this man is sick in his head.
@juliasephaka8033
@juliasephaka8033 3 года назад
I also grow up in Lesotho from a very young age under my mother's brother's care who had no wife even now as I speak,my uncle loved me so much that sometimes I wonder where he got that courage and love to take care of me from such a tenter age but he did,all I can say is he did more than what my own father couldn't I pray everyday that God must give him whatever his heart desires and also I believe there will be time where I will be able thank him even to take care of him one day when he need help😭😭
@dimakigulah4311
@dimakigulah4311 3 года назад
We are very blessed indeed. Both my brother's are married and I always pride myself to their children. A young man who would help me bath and put on clothes and school uniform. Am in primary he is in high school already but he is carrying me to school. Drops me off at my classroom and run to his own. After School he would come and see if my friend are going home with me. Then he goes back to his studies and come home very late. To cook for me and make sure my uniform and things are in order. I thank God for my brother's life's. Sometimes I feel like I don't thank them enough.
@juliasephaka8033
@juliasephaka8033 3 года назад
@@dimakigulah4311 I'm 35 years but I'm still my uncle's little princess even now,when he talks about the hardships and joy of raising me he actually can't stop from laughter it brings him so much happiness although some of my episodes are so embarrassing in a good way though all I can say is I can't thank him enough also for everything he's done for me God must bless him for me
@vongairosemarymutebuka9423
@vongairosemarymutebuka9423 3 года назад
Relebogile is an Iron Woman. Strong. I just love her. The way she unpacks these issues hmmmm...much respect from Zimbabwe
@elizabethmuzanenhamo3371
@elizabethmuzanenhamo3371 3 года назад
Q
@liliantendere9197
@liliantendere9197 3 года назад
My sister
@thembamkhize3779
@thembamkhize3779 3 года назад
She doesn't do interviews bt conversations
@shamisomakuvaro9393
@shamisomakuvaro9393 3 года назад
This world is so full of evil imagine a daddy doing that to his daughter.Thats why he chased his wife so that he could have her to himself crazy pyschopathy.
@rosejurgen4292
@rosejurgen4292 3 года назад
But Dr. Akhigbe, Traditional Herbal Practitioner in Africa, Have cured for HIV which is extracted from some rare herbals. It is highly potential to cure AIDS 100% without any residue. Dr Akhigbe herbal medicine has already passed various blogs on how he use his powerful herbals to heal all kind of diseases such as. Herpes, HIV,,Cushing’s disease,Heart failure,Multiple Sclerosis,Hypertension,Colo_Rectal Cancer, Diabetes, Hepatitis,Hpv,Weak ErectionLyme Disease,Blood Cancer,Alzheimer’s disease,Bechet’s disease,Crohn’s disease,Parkinson's disease,Schizophrenia,Lung Cancer,Breast Cancer,Colo-Rectal Cancer,Blood Cancer,Prostate Cancer,siva.Fatal Familial Insomnia Factor V Leiden Mutation ,Epilepsy Dupuytren's disease,Desmoplastic small-round-cell tumor Diabetes ,Coeliac disease,Creutzfeldt-Jakob disease,Cerebral Amyloid Angiopathy, Ataxia,Arthritis,Amyotrophic Lateral Scoliosis,Fibromyalgia,Fluoroquinolone Toxicity,Brain Cancer,Breast Cancer,Lung Cancer,Kidney Cancer,Syndrome Fibrodysplasia Ossificans ProgresSclerosis,Seizures,Alzheimer's disease,Adrenocortical carcinoma.Asthma,Allergic diseases.Hiv_ Aids,Herpe ,Copd,Glaucoma., Cataracts,Macular degeneration,Cardiovascular disease,Lung disease.Enlarged prostate,Osteoporosis.Alzheimer's disease,Dementia.,Wart Remover,Cold Sore, Epilepsy.. contact him and get your cure.. Here is email address drrealakhigbe@gmail.com website. drrealakhigbe.weebly.com/
@therapistMAG
@therapistMAG 3 года назад
In my country Cameroon, victims of rape like myself are blamed. What were you wearing they go? What were you doing there in the first place? Blablabla... What was this 7 year old child wearing I beg you? Was that not her father's house where she should have been so protected and not utterly violated? God is good. So so much love and healing Ms Zizo...and I guess those who gave thumbs down are perpetrators or those rape enablers and victim shamers
@elizabethpuling
@elizabethpuling 4 месяца назад
South Africa also started the with those crazy questions bot thank God we've progressed from there❤
@nontsikelelokhasu5257
@nontsikelelokhasu5257 2 года назад
This is really heartbreaking. I hope you continue to find healing and give courage to other girls who have experienced this trauma.
@karlenenation1941
@karlenenation1941 3 года назад
So proud of this young lady for speaking out! She is a brave, courageous young lady!
@hsuniquecrochetaccessories9532
@hsuniquecrochetaccessories9532 3 года назад
Yes very brave
@ZakiyyahAMcGee
@ZakiyyahAMcGee Год назад
God bless and keep you and may you gain strength and your faith and trust in God continue to keep you victorious.😢
@OscarineMlisana
@OscarineMlisana 3 года назад
This is hurting to listen to, remain strong bby girl,watching from the UK, 🇬🇧🇬🇧
@elizabethletsoso2558
@elizabethletsoso2558 3 года назад
So hurting indeed 💔💔💔
@jennycampbell989
@jennycampbell989 3 года назад
Yes I’m hurting for her,from the Uk,God Bless and keep her strong,her father will get his comeuppance..he wasn’t man enough to to speak the truth.....
@neveragetv
@neveragetv Год назад
Sad
@BukelwaNjokweni
@BukelwaNjokweni 5 месяцев назад
yes its true
@pauletteneo8682
@pauletteneo8682 3 года назад
This was so heartbreaking 😭.. There is actually a lady from our village that this happened to... But her mother didn't want her to press charges...said to her what are they going to eat😭😭😭. .. At least now he is in Jail. Thank you Ausi Lebo for the amazing platform.
@cebo_9998
@cebo_9998 3 года назад
😭😭😭😭
@silindilewitness943
@silindilewitness943 3 года назад
😭😭😭
@thabisokhumalo6516
@thabisokhumalo6516 2 года назад
The mother is sick for that
@cecemadison3921
@cecemadison3921 3 года назад
This happens more often than we think😢 it recently happens within my family, my cousin husband was sleeping with their daughter he got her pregnant and took her for abortion right here in America, my cousin is still with her husband now she has sent their daughter to go-lives with another family member. my cousin told me her daughter told her it started when she was 14 years old but this lady is still with this man😢 and she stayed had more kids for him this happened a lot in African households.
@stayblackbaby2587
@stayblackbaby2587 3 года назад
Wtf still with the devil
@Nicole-og6df
@Nicole-og6df 3 года назад
Why tf did she stay with him??? 😕
@samanthabrown5853
@samanthabrown5853 3 года назад
What kind of mother is that? I hope the daughter presses charges. She's had more children, what if he rapes them?
@chikarayleigh4534
@chikarayleigh4534 2 года назад
I'm in my 30s and I don't know any family where it happened.
@mykarma2
@mykarma2 2 года назад
@@chikarayleigh4534 It doesn't mean that it didn't happen in your family though. I found out in my sixties that one of my cousin's grandfather was raping her since she was a child and she never told anyone until her grandmother passed away. If she refused he would beat her grandmother and when she got older he threaten to rape her little sister if she didn't agree. That really messed her life up.
@lebogangmauco8150
@lebogangmauco8150 3 года назад
This is actually sad and embarrassing for us as men to think that we can go for such extreme extend for our own selfish reasons and denting even your own child’s future. I hope this opens the eyes of many out there both men and women, these kids needs extra care and attention. Big ups to this strong lady, really applaud her.
@relebogilemabotja215
@relebogilemabotja215 3 года назад
Thank you for this comment. There’s so many men that should to see this.
@nomxhosapekani7966
@nomxhosapekani7966 3 года назад
Realeboga, for your imput maybe you can also help us how to get this through to other buthis and babas.
@stellamooibedi9027
@stellamooibedi9027 3 года назад
Women are always the first on the list when coming to protect perpetrators and patriarchy, I'm not shocked that they went there to support their *boyfriend *
@jacquamine
@jacquamine 3 года назад
@@stellamooibedi9027 it's so sad, always!
@sandzz1nce
@sandzz1nce 3 года назад
I don't know if it's proper to say sorry on behalf of men as my brother is feeling ashamed on our behalf... I know it's dat one man dat committed dis wrong act but I feel de need to tell U dat we are so sorry coz urhuqe igama lethu phansi utatawakho, continue being courageous & be strong sisters
@tamarandziweni8862
@tamarandziweni8862 3 года назад
Mothers please please believe your children when they tell you and not believe your men...
@margaretmsongweni564
@margaretmsongweni564 3 года назад
This is so absurd thank you for sharing. I commend you, you are very strong.
@karlmakinda5805
@karlmakinda5805 3 года назад
All reports of this nature should be thoroughlly investigated. There is no need to imprison a skunk who has done such natinesss. Removal of the blasted testicles and being fitted with an iron tag with the detailed offence, and being ordered to march twice per day through the ommunity should be enough. Even so, I believe that her father is a sick man. Now could a father have intimate feeling for his daughter? That make no damned sense!
@muffetroberts6790
@muffetroberts6790 3 года назад
Sad
@yolisa444
@yolisa444 3 года назад
Jesus and I love u(he loves u so much u could not even fathem). I'm just here to say keep going bc God's got u even if u feel like he doesn't, trust in Him❤ Stay blessed
@carolynndunge4142
@carolynndunge4142 3 года назад
This is a threat to our children and we must stay informed
@alicenxumalo
@alicenxumalo 3 года назад
How sick can 1 be🤮🤮. Such a traumatic experience for a 7 year old. The person who was supposed to protect her 😭😭😭😭😭
@neveragetv
@neveragetv Год назад
Trauma
@christopherchungong4869
@christopherchungong4869 2 года назад
She tell her story with so much grace. Is not in search of words to use or not use in telling her story. What a strong young lady
@neveragetv
@neveragetv Год назад
God., Oh God of mercy.
@sandie4yeshua
@sandie4yeshua 2 года назад
My sister, you are FREE emotionally and physically. Your courage to speak has touched more people than you would ever know. God bless you 🇬🇧 ❤️
@carolinephale2472
@carolinephale2472 3 года назад
May the lord heal all the victims of rape and make justice to be served
@karlmakinda5805
@karlmakinda5805 3 года назад
Wouldn't it have been better if the Lord had prevented the abuse? Millions of girls, boys and women have been sexually abused.....Prevention is superior to any form of cure,
@rosejurgen4292
@rosejurgen4292 3 года назад
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@nokwethabamdluli6694
@nokwethabamdluli6694 2 года назад
👏
@mwituamweene9850
@mwituamweene9850 2 года назад
@@karlmakinda5805 Thank you. In this day and age, people still shoot their mouths carelessly about the lord.
@woutervanlent5181
@woutervanlent5181 2 года назад
@@karlmakinda5805 He he , finaly someone else makes this remark ! Sometimes I think that I am the only one
@sinazomgali7255
@sinazomgali7255 3 года назад
Zizo's story is heartbreaking, we really live in a sick world. Love and light to her. Please buy her books guys, she goes further into detail there.❤
@freckles8932
@freckles8932 3 года назад
This makes me realize how blessed I was to have a dad who wasn't sick in his mind. Coz growing up my mother having left he used to bath me rarely when he saw that I wasn't doing a good job in bathing. He never in any way touched me in an inappropriate way. To imagine that there are plenty women out there who are willing to have sexual partners and he leaves all of them for his 7 yr old daughter? To Zizo I say you are strong and I hope your book will enlighten people and prevent further abuse of such kind. Thank you for coming public about this coz in doing so you are helping a lot of people. May God continue to heal you
@humbulaniraphunga7442
@humbulaniraphunga7442 2 года назад
My late dad used to bath me and my 2 sisters from a young age because my mom was very sickly most of the time.At some point my mom's family would take her away to take care of her and he would sleep with the 3 of us on their bed whilst she was away and there was never a single day that he touched any of us inappropriately during those baths or those occasions when we slept together in the same bed.May your soul continue to rest in peace Dad ,we now understand just how blessed we were to have you as a father🙏😘
@phindilemazibuko7508
@phindilemazibuko7508 2 года назад
I use to share a bed with my late dad till I was a teenager, I was raised by him, never not even on a single day touch me in any inappropriate manner, watching Zizo's story makes me realize how blessed I was to have such a dad. You're very strong Zizo I am sorry for what you went through
@victoriansindane1062
@victoriansindane1062 Год назад
@@humbulaniraphunga7442 7
@shirleymurray1714
@shirleymurray1714 Год назад
That’s very kind words to her, she needs to hear that😊
@kittypanda10
@kittypanda10 2 года назад
As a new mama who unfortunately underwent abuse as well I sure will protect my daughter to the end of the world and if ANYONE hurts her in this way not only will I believe her but I will also ensure that that monster NEVER hurts anyone else. Than i will make sure to get my baby any help nessessary. And I'd smile in my mugshot if needed.
@ongeziwerorwana7372
@ongeziwerorwana7372 2 года назад
Zizo is so strong , the fact that she can talk about this without tearing
@ireadwhatilike1967
@ireadwhatilike1967 3 года назад
This show is powerful! A game changer. These discussions are overdue and so important. Zizo is a formidable force ❤
@stizo3066
@stizo3066 3 года назад
Agreed 100%. This is needed definitely
@noreenm5018
@noreenm5018 3 года назад
Uncontrollable tears in my eyes. Thanks God for your continuous healing Zizo ,
@stellamooibedi9027
@stellamooibedi9027 3 года назад
So almost every girl child experienced some sort of sexual abuse...we honestly live in a sick world..
@tinyikoubisi2402
@tinyikoubisi2402 3 года назад
True, and it is a painful experience 🥺
@tebogomodiba1994
@tebogomodiba1994 3 года назад
Imagine. I wish I didn't know anyone who hasn't but it seems strange because myself I went through it. 😩🤦🏾‍♀️
@stellamooibedi9027
@stellamooibedi9027 3 года назад
@@tebogomodiba1994 for me it was an almost thing from a guy I knew and trusted luckily I managed to get free and run for my life.the only abuse I experienced from my uncle was physically abuse me and my sisters. Ne re trapiwa goed for nothing. He will come back home drunk at night and will find excuses to beat the hell out of us.
@prudencendlovu3960
@prudencendlovu3960 3 года назад
True
@cumtwatnow4779
@cumtwatnow4779 3 года назад
Sad yes we do
@pldilliner9490
@pldilliner9490 Год назад
An amazing story of forgiveness and moving forward. This girl’s wisdom & maturity is a firm lesson to us; may she be so honored for her strength & truth. 🌺🙏Lei
@hisexcellency2993
@hisexcellency2993 3 года назад
May God in His infinite love make this lady to succeed in life, no matter what.
@daphneystyles5145
@daphneystyles5145 3 года назад
7
@odettemazh6947
@odettemazh6947 3 года назад
Amen
@kennethvolwana7799
@kennethvolwana7799 3 года назад
Evil period. How do you even penetrate your own child. Rape is a very sinful thing. Thank you for sharing this. 💔💔💔💯
@neveragetv
@neveragetv Год назад
How on earth...
@laken1804
@laken1804 Год назад
Nasty!
@mandywynn9192
@mandywynn9192 3 года назад
Wow, what a strong lady. I wish her nothing but the best for the future x
@elizabethletsoso2558
@elizabethletsoso2558 3 года назад
Yes and Amen to that 🙏
@chichipriscilla467
@chichipriscilla467 3 года назад
Sad but this is happing to so many innocent kids being sexually abused by their family members.or being abused by child molesters. I wonder what happens in this man's heads when they are doing this.
@elizabethletsoso2558
@elizabethletsoso2558 3 года назад
@@chichipriscilla467 I don't know how to describe my dear what is happening in their minds but hey is discusting what they are doing
@kudakwashekanombirira961
@kudakwashekanombirira961 3 года назад
Heartbreaking 💔
@catherinebergeron3819
@catherinebergeron3819 Год назад
Zizo , you are such a warrior and I admire your courage and determination to be a light for others that are in a dark place maybe still dealing with sexual abuse . There needs to be more open conversations about this and laws involving statutes need to be changed so that more perpetrators can be prosecuted regardless of when the abuse occurred . Parents who allow this sort of thing to go on or sweep it under the rug need to be held accountable!
@Tshepisoism
@Tshepisoism Год назад
I was also sexually abused by my step father who was also a pastor for years and people struggled to understand why it took me so long to speak up, and didn't even believe it happened because he was a pastor 🙄
@Tshepisoism
@Tshepisoism Год назад
And the police women who were taking my statement when I finally did open the case were mean 😔 and had me regretting even doing it, only when child protection unit got involved was my case handled with sensitivity
@carriemtsh9648
@carriemtsh9648 Год назад
My heart breaks when I hear your ordeal, no words can make it better, I pray with time you’ll get counselling support and some healing, take care ❤❤❤
@dannyboi4027
@dannyboi4027 Год назад
hi
@annameyer1737
@annameyer1737 Год назад
It's so sad you can forgive but never forget it will haunt you for the rest of your life
@dannyboi4027
@dannyboi4027 Год назад
Hi
@carenatingling2909
@carenatingling2909 3 года назад
God bless this young lady. She speaks so fluent and intelligently. She is such a pleasant soul
@jeanduncan5614
@jeanduncan5614 3 года назад
Such a strong and beautiful young lady.
@shemarfmoore9036
@shemarfmoore9036 3 года назад
Hello....greeting from here
@treasureokoh4722
@treasureokoh4722 3 года назад
Can we take a moment go commend her mother for believing her!!! Like a ton of mothers don’t believe their children and invite their children’s abusers, but her mother truly was her protector! I pray that she finds healing and continues to save lives ❤️❤️
@shirleymurray1714
@shirleymurray1714 Год назад
“That” the truth will must take notice of the mother including myself for believing their child, I believe my child because the way he was too me’ I knew he did what she said, and kick him out the house, and that was that ☹️😊
@valerietiro4652
@valerietiro4652 Год назад
Love you Zozo stay blessed my baby girl
@LethoHali
@LethoHali 3 года назад
So glad that people in her life didn’t stop her from sharing her story!
@shannonwilliams4260
@shannonwilliams4260 Год назад
She's such a beautiful intelligent young woman. I wish her nothing but happiness and success in her life.
@shanicewessels54
@shanicewessels54 2 года назад
You are such a beautiful brave person I commend you for that. My dad is watching tv in the living room and I'm in my room watching this episode. I cannot even imagine my dad doing such a horrible thing to me or any other person. I grew up with three men and not once did I feel unsafe around them, I guess not everyone was blessed with a great father, brother and cousin.
@vuvulicious41
@vuvulicious41 3 года назад
Gosh!! I'm traumatized for this young lady. For her own father to violate her and take away her innocence away like that..its so painful! The Gaslighting 😭😭
@SincerelyPearlM
@SincerelyPearlM 3 года назад
Humans keep on disappointing me everyday, everyday☝ Thank you for sharing your story sis❤
@woutervanlent5181
@woutervanlent5181 2 года назад
During Covid I had a beautiful dream : We humans were all dead , skelletons . Cats & donkeys were walking around .
@olutobilobataiwo5934
@olutobilobataiwo5934 3 года назад
Her last word about forgiveness is the most touching one for me... She is such a good and strong woman.
@willie.hairhale5819
@willie.hairhale5819 3 года назад
I'm 79 yrs and I also was raped until I was 13 yrs and I too went to court at 7 yrs and my dad served 3 yrs in prison but the court date he could not live in with us. But it is a bling story I can tell it later..it's still hard for me to tell it I have 2 brother left and they may not know this
@PriscillahMwangi
@PriscillahMwangi 3 года назад
Oohh goodness 🥺
@janayserrano
@janayserrano 2 года назад
Only 3 years???? If the laws don’t change, more and more children will continue to be violated. These monsters always get a slap on the wrist smh
@evah787
@evah787 3 года назад
At 16:00 - What a great Mom.... she took the case/crime very seriously!
@nomxhosapekani7966
@nomxhosapekani7966 3 года назад
Relebogile, please share more details about the book and how we in the diaspora can get it because the sister needs all the support she can get.
@khanyamabena
@khanyamabena 3 года назад
Email me on mabenakhanya@gmail.com and I'll forward the details to you
@joanmiksabel3598
@joanmiksabel3598 3 года назад
"My father took away my innocence "
@thelyricguy6308
@thelyricguy6308 3 года назад
How twisted and perverse can one mind be? Not me crying like it's me.... A big thumbs up to all the loving and protective dads, and brothers out there
@marciaworbey3570
@marciaworbey3570 Год назад
What a strong woman, so many abused women are so ashamed and frightened they are unable to talk about the abuse they have been through, it’s complicated depending on the mothers life experience but mothers have to believe their children! Help them and help yourself by doing the right thing. Remember this - an abused person would have suffered approximately 38 abusive incidents before disclosing to someone.
@lonagwegwe
@lonagwegwe 2 года назад
She was groomed from an early age and I can understand why she did not understand it as being wrong, she never felt victimized because the grooming was done by someone she loved, she perceived everything as normal.
@neveragetv
@neveragetv Год назад
What is this now??
@chiazorwalters9857
@chiazorwalters9857 Год назад
Many men need psychological support
@Mbalings
@Mbalings 3 года назад
Firstly, Relebogile, you’re amazing ❣️ Secondly my heart is in pieces watching this 💔💔 literally sobbing 😭 I just wanna hug her ❣️❣️
@dannyboi4027
@dannyboi4027 Год назад
hi
@moonshine456sundays3
@moonshine456sundays3 3 года назад
May healing find her in full, she's truly one strong woman.
@montshegetsimasibi2359
@montshegetsimasibi2359 3 года назад
Love and light to you 💛 and your family. I'm so sorry that happened to you 😔
@ntshabengra3370
@ntshabengra3370 3 года назад
Her mom's reaction!! 🙏🏽Moms, aunts, grandmothers please🙏🏽
@jennytapoi1653
@jennytapoi1653 3 года назад
Be strong young woman.may god bless you
@helenagele3662
@helenagele3662 3 года назад
An outstanding young lady. So focused. So forgiving in a realistic way. Thank you Jesus for controlling what she went through and giving her peace so she can heal totally. Wishing her a happy, successful and peaceful future. Thank you UNPACKED for this interview.
@sdypg
@sdypg 3 года назад
Relebogile & others are bringing this out into the light skillfully. No more hidden away. Evil deeds flourish in society when hidden. Zizo is also helped now. Her story is no more a taboo story. Which she must carry on her own. She has us the public now & our empathy.
@nompumelelomahlangu360
@nompumelelomahlangu360 3 года назад
I was in tears watching this. Am sorry Zizo and to all girls who have been through this trauma.
@reabecoethabane5059
@reabecoethabane5059 3 года назад
Watching this has opened my eyes. That children are easy target because they dont have mental capacity to know or even explain rape. My mom never trusted even her brothers, she was over protective. I never understood why but now I get it. This was very insightful, I have heard many rape cases but never quite like this. Thanks for sharing your story. God bless you
@pettiebgoni2234
@pettiebgoni2234 3 года назад
My mum too crazy now I see you
@karenmartin772
@karenmartin772 3 года назад
Yes every mother need to let their children i taught my children as early as they turns 3 years old up until they understands where no one is allow to touch them
@angelmadlala6353
@angelmadlala6353 2 года назад
This was my mom and now this is me to my daughters
@woutervanlent5181
@woutervanlent5181 2 года назад
I am a man and like children like many people do . I will NEVER treat a child without their parents . Don't want to teach children to accept things from men . And you parents : teach your children not to accept anything " my parents told me ONLY to accept things from them " . 95% of sexual childabuse comes from men who are near to the parents : Friends , uncles , grandfathers ....
@junic2794
@junic2794 Год назад
Iam super protective but God is the best protector
@jonasagbodike2942
@jonasagbodike2942 3 года назад
Zizo is a very clean person, pure in heart, i admire your sincerity very much. Great spirit!
@araineacutebrownnurse7315
@araineacutebrownnurse7315 Год назад
This is absolutely heartbreaking! 😢I could not imagine! Lord please continue to heal the beautiful courageous woman
@itamatito1944
@itamatito1944 Год назад
So inspired by Zizo. God bless and protect her. Love you so much. Was in tears but her smiles seized them. Thank you
@TJ-my9nh
@TJ-my9nh 3 года назад
My sister you are one strong and intelligent young woman. May the Lord strengthen you over and over
@lettiemayisela6303
@lettiemayisela6303 3 года назад
This program deserves millions of subscribes.
@nickdutton5261
@nickdutton5261 3 года назад
Brave Girlxx where can I buy your book
@futurezvinoyera6022
@futurezvinoyera6022 3 года назад
God bless you for me,,, you are an amazing angel,,, ZIMBABWE
@mbalikambule6053
@mbalikambule6053 3 года назад
This is so unreal. It just sounds so unreal that a father can do such. 😔💔
@ednaidatipote5602
@ednaidatipote5602 Год назад
I share your story and pain Zizo..except it was a family friend who I thought was an Uncle at the time. Except my mum never believed me. She travelled at the time to another country. He use to rape the maid first then when he is done with her he would come to me after. It's a pain none could ever understand unless you experience it. Thank you for your bravery to speak out today. God be with you always 🙏
@peninahgitamo8717
@peninahgitamo8717 Год назад
OMG 😳😳 so sorry
@Boscehdey
@Boscehdey 2 года назад
This is so brave. Glad you are able to get pass it all and got healed of the mental torture. And to be able to come out to talk about it, so as to help others in such situations, is quite courageous of you You are indeed a rare gem. God bless Zizo. Well done
@neveragetv
@neveragetv Год назад
Ohh God...
@asandezuma3768
@asandezuma3768 3 года назад
I so wish we had a formula on how to heal after being abused💔😭 15 years later i am still struggling😭
@marilynvena7915
@marilynvena7915 3 года назад
Jesus Chris is the Formula. He is the answer to everything. There's no pain that God cannot heal.
@portiakobue8454
@portiakobue8454 3 года назад
I am so sorry Asande, that you are still hurting. It is not easy to let go, bust once you do you heal. I am sending you lots of LOVE and strength. Please find me on FB if you wish to connect.
@divineceleste.m
@divineceleste.m 3 года назад
It never leaves your mind. ❤️ Love and light to you dearest Asande. You are stronger than you think!
@kzapj5094
@kzapj5094 3 года назад
Im so sorry hun xx
@emicamalcolm1791
@emicamalcolm1791 3 года назад
23 years for me
@pm1647
@pm1647 3 года назад
Am glad they called her mom imagine if they called the father the story would have been different.
@sthabilemjadu6550
@sthabilemjadu6550 2 года назад
Damn right, never thought about that
@merciasmith4552
@merciasmith4552 2 года назад
You are such an inspiration sweetheart, I admire your strength as an activist dealing with abused victims on a daily basis I believe victims suffering in silence will have the courage to open up after hearing your story, and for victims out there open up is the beginning of the healing process, you are such a strong woman lots of ❤️
@NthabeMoh
@NthabeMoh Год назад
I applaud your mom and family for going straight to the police and not listening to that "paying damages"/ "family meeting" nonsense. Light and love to you sisi🕯️🕯️
@vuyosithole3056
@vuyosithole3056 3 года назад
It's really hard to watch this one, she has been through the most, I cried like this happened to me! So glad she has found healing. You unpack with such empathy and asking the right questions without making the interviewee uncomfortable, now that's superb interview skills Relebogile ❤️!
@relebogilemabotja215
@relebogilemabotja215 3 года назад
❤️
@Gurlchild-tayl
@Gurlchild-tayl 3 года назад
I could hardly listen...felt like my heart wanted to burst....what a demon! You are soo beautiful and strong...may the Lord direct you always....Love you 😊
@vuyosithole3056
@vuyosithole3056 3 года назад
@@Gurlchild-tayl I burst out crying all the time, seeing this comment I am still awake tearing up!
@nenesibanda4171
@nenesibanda4171 2 года назад
Empathy is everything
@susanodle2762
@susanodle2762 Год назад
@@Gurlchild-tayl.
@sinovuyolusizi3930
@sinovuyolusizi3930 3 года назад
I commend Zizo for her courage to heal although the odds were against her. This horrific ordeal breaks my heart to absolute pieces!
@ezekielaisagbonhi4865
@ezekielaisagbonhi4865 2 года назад
This lady has a very beautiful soul & she's one of the strongest women out there.
@Life-b01
@Life-b01 3 года назад
I remember this lady her story broke my heart when she once shared it on Enca or SABCA news I cant recall🥺💔. Love and light to you sis Zizo❤
@itumelengthagane5132
@itumelengthagane5132 3 года назад
Iyooo this interview is heartbreaking 💔😭.
@karlmakinda5805
@karlmakinda5805 3 года назад
Very disturbing. I am sorry to have stmbled on it. It much more than enough to cause headache. What a cruel blow to the young lady!
@Talkwithjoy88
@Talkwithjoy88 3 года назад
Girl you the strongest... May God continues healing you... I have a baby girl and I worry about her every day... God bless you
@nomxhosapekani7966
@nomxhosapekani7966 3 года назад
Hai kabi, but how can the same God who watched her been raped and did nothing heal and bless her now?😢😢😢
@zenabadam5157
@zenabadam5157 3 года назад
Wow! I applaud and commend your strength, so many are still going through my this and have continued to stay in this sick relationship because they couldn't get anyone to believe them and we're afraid of the stigma that comes with it. Well done.
@neveragetv
@neveragetv Год назад
Ohhhh nooooo...
@aliciaarroyo6
@aliciaarroyo6 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing your story. I am so sorry you went through this. I went through a similar situation with my daughter and ex husband. I pray every day my children are safe. 💗
@CyAzor
@CyAzor 3 года назад
When I was that age I can actually walk around naked and not know. Innocent age. What a Wicked and selfish world.
@zoraxye4325
@zoraxye4325 3 года назад
*Correction* What a wicked, selfish morally bankrupt, sorry excuse of a *father* He defiled his own flesh and blood. May he be severely punished.
@TJ-my9nh
@TJ-my9nh 3 года назад
My question is, is there any woman in SA who has not been raped at some point in their lives? This is really disturbing
@walkwithorr
@walkwithorr 3 года назад
Yes, there are.
@baldwin5510
@baldwin5510 3 года назад
Walkwithorr I don't think this question is literal
@DimphoKayla
@DimphoKayla 3 года назад
I always ask myself that exact questiong when l hear stories like this.
@ncoe3093
@ncoe3093 3 года назад
1%
@LethoHali
@LethoHali 3 года назад
If we are not, we most certainly personally know someone who is or almost was.
@ditekokgwarapi6916
@ditekokgwarapi6916 3 года назад
Sad story indeed, this man is bad sleeping with your biological child 😭😭😭😭😭
@fmaroyalepr2122
@fmaroyalepr2122 Год назад
This host is so good and she has a natural flow with her guest and her audience. You just gained a following.
@sivuyilecindytswina795
@sivuyilecindytswina795 3 года назад
Memories that are rushing to my brain as l watch this. I don't want to deal with them😭😭😭😭. Thank you Zizo
@pinkydlamini9414
@pinkydlamini9414 3 года назад
Eish kunzima
@jeanetseanego4802
@jeanetseanego4802 3 года назад
Ooooh sis, some scars never go away
@Starr_Soks
@Starr_Soks 3 года назад
Love and light to you
@yolandantuli102
@yolandantuli102 3 года назад
I'm so sorry
@KYRA_FX
@KYRA_FX 3 года назад
Deal with them. Let’s heal. Let’s feel.
@thandolwethu_SibuM
@thandolwethu_SibuM 3 года назад
🥺🥺 God keeps on showing us that there are people who go through the most yet we're here complaining. She's so strong I wouldn't wish that pain to anyone,that was someone who was supposed to protect her at all costs but yet he felt the need to destroy her own daughter. Thank you Sisi Lebo ♥️
@baldwin5510
@baldwin5510 3 года назад
This is too much. I admire this woman's strength!
@neveragetv
@neveragetv Год назад
Annoying
@BRENDAWARDLE
@BRENDAWARDLE Год назад
I'm in tears, and I honestly have only profanity and expletives for her father. Zizo, my darling, you are strong and resilient and pure.
@BRENDAWARDLE
@BRENDAWARDLE Год назад
Wow, Zizo, I will hate him forever, notwithstanding the fact that I don't know who he is. Bless your heart for forgiving him. Lots of love❤
@joelreacts2248
@joelreacts2248 3 года назад
He stole her innocence😢
@elizabethletsoso2558
@elizabethletsoso2558 3 года назад
Volume to that
@joelreacts2248
@joelreacts2248 3 года назад
@@elizabethletsoso2558 It's so sad she had to begin life that way, I hope she keeps it all behind her and move one without looking back
@kgaladimasehela7725
@kgaladimasehela7725 3 года назад
😢 this is heart wrenching...and the thought of women picketing for his innocence. No child should never have to go through this.
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