It's so weird cause I've literally had the exact same experience, I've texted people first for the first time this year. I've also come to the realization that the fear is pointless and at the end of the day the result is fate. If they don't give you the same energy? Well, that's fate. I have one life so I can't let anything hold me back. Those are the ideals I carry myself through in life. Reaching out shouldn't be exempt from that.
YESSS!!! no more holding back and hoping for some miracle that might bring our wishes to us. time for us to take control of our lives and act to get what we want :)
I've been reaching out to a lot of people I otherwise wouldn't. This video helps me feel like I'm not weird for doing so. It's actually turned out sweet like you said. But some people, not so much. Regardless, I believe souls are drawn together. You meet people for a reason. Sometimes, you're not meant to be around someone after a certain point, and that's the most painful pill to swallow. I love souls I love the essence of certain souls. I hate thinking i can't ever feel that soul again. But through reaching out, I've been able to see that color, that essence, one last time. Thank you.
you have such a sweet way with words !!!!!!! ure not weird i promise! some people are not meant to be in our lives and even tho sometimes it feels unfair i like to think its for the better :) i LOVE that u also believe in souls!! i find souls to be the purest human form
I'm glad you seem a lot more upbeat this time around! I think it's super brave to challenge yourself to reach out first, It leaves you so vulnerable and sometimes that can suck! But there is always the chance it doesn't right? And usually that time it does go right is worth the hundreds of times it hasn't! No one can be without friends forever, Its not healthy at all. Choosing to make the first step of anything is where everyone great has started! Yes you can fail, But what if you don't! Super proud of you dude! -keep keeping on!
thank youuuu!!!! ure so so right! by challenging yourself and then acting on it u also gain your own trust. something people dont often talk about is how used we get to saying to ourselves that we're going to do something and then never ending up doing it . i think it leads to us just never having any trust in ourselves and if we cant even trust ourselves its a sad life. i hope life is treating u good too!!
@@valunariia Of course, even if no one has our back we have to have our own! Spent way too long trusting other people more than myself and it got me nowhere! It''s hard to trust yourself especially when we're low, but when you finally find the confidence to do so It feels amazing and empowering! - Thanks! It's been a good week for once! :D stay safe!
I wish I could be that brave, honestly just shut down trying to like anyone. Tried liking someone and I realized that it was a mistake. I have the courage in things I do in life and the stuff I earn but I can’t seem to pull myself out of my fear to get back into dating. Hearing this makes me happy for you tho, feels good seeing another being brave!
liking someone is never a mistake! i think of love as one of the purest things we have, cant force it & cant buy it. love is who we are and what we are! dont ever think its not for u just because 1 person wasnt ready for it! dating might be scary because it requires a certain vulnerability but the energy exchange u get from it is irreplaceable! never give up on love because ure full of it. also u ARE brave!
@@valunariiaI’ve been opening up to a possibility of getting back into it, but there is more to it then just because it’s hard. I agree that love is irreplaceable just sometimes want to share it with the right person
i literally just texted my friend abt whether or not i should try to make the first move on this guy i have an interest on but i kept backing out bc of "oh what if hes not interested in wanting to get to know me" or "what do i even say if i do text him" n such, so the timing of this vid popping on my page is crazily insane 😭 i really needed this ill just shoot my shot n if it doesnt work out, then it doesnt. life goes on, but i do hope n wish itd go well🤞
coming back here to lyk that my friend helped me get his contact earlier today n turns out he was just as shy as me 😭😭😭😭 but we're talking now n slowly getting to know each other! truly felt like your video was a sign for me to just yolo it so, truly, thank you for this vid 🥹
@@vernorexiaaa omg this is so sweet 😭 im so proud of u and so happy its going great !! and thank U for sharing this ! i feel so happy knowing i was able to help!! ❤️
then u should change your life, start with working on selflove, the rest will come. i used to feel the same way and its a horrible way of thinking. it wasnt even living, just existing
@@valunariia Idk......I've never actually tried. See if it's like some guy, ofc I can text him, but for some reason I really can't summon the courage to text some unknown girl. I mean I'm afraid of being thought as a guy who is somehow trying to get closer to them or something. Some people don't like it. They simply ignore or block.
@@ralspeno i get it but u are being the guy who wants to get to know them :) (even if its in a friendly way) are u scared or showing your real feelings or just feel vulnerable doing it? if they dont text back - its also okay, not meant to happen then :)
