She's comfortable with her size. She occasionally pretends to try to lose weight because she knows her viewers want her to. It's only a matter of time until the next medical emergency takes her down and we'll hear all the excuses why it's not her fault.
she definitely is lol cause someone who is at least bit unhappy with how they look wouldn't post tiktoks where the main theme is how hot and desirable and sexually active they are
💯💯 She gave herself a hickey with a water bottle (in a spot where no one gives someone a hickey- front and center on the throat) washed and ironed her hair (because Jade loves her hair down) put on makeup and her sexiest dress and made these TikToks pretending to have a new Bae as a Hail Mary to try to make Jade jealous and lure her back (even proclaiming that her ideal woman is "masc, possessive") To quote Chantal: PATHETIC
what is her obsession with masc? I dont want to point fingers and I know its a preference thing but equating masculinity with =toxic traits is kinda fucked up , but I believe Destiny when she says that Amber is bisexual lol and she had the audacity to blame becky for keeping her in the closet. @@tdublakeo
True, clinical narcissists are excellent at this! I really think she has the personality disorder NPD (edit: I'm obviously NOT qualified or a professional, therapists on YT have discussed her before and there are a lot of signs...)
@DarthFurie oh without a doubt. I couldn't agree more with you and sadly I don't think she will ever change. ALR will just continue to blame anyone and everyone but herself #itsbeckysfault
That's probably because she's a narcissist & 1 classic character trait of a narc is they copy other people's personalities & other traits, eventually having no clue who they really are on the inside & ironically the one thing she's ever admitted & wasn't lying when she says she doesn't really know who she is.
She spent the entire day making ridiculous TikTok videos, when it would take less than 30 seconds to pack that shower curtain into a moving box. THAT is why she's packed 5 boxes in 2 months.
Oh I don't think she loves herself at all, in fact quite the opposite - but she can't face herself very often so she lives in denial most of the time- like when she got cancer & was sooo upset but within a very time (still had cancer) she was back to minimizing it or cashing in on being a victim - she did NOTHING to change her situation..she matter of factly told us that they had no clue if her cancer spread because she didn't fit into the CT scanner- even that didn't start her to make any changes... nope, this is NOT someone who loves themself at all
Narcs like dont like themselves but theyre obsessed with themselves. theres a big difference. Thats why she was so ok with being with Becky just as long as she stayed in her place.
I remember when she said she said that if she didn't have her hair she wouldn't have anything. She thinks her hair is what makes her sexy. That's why she's flipping her hair
I hope this move to wherever she’s going will give her some perspective and much needed time to grow up a little - quickly! Life isn’t chicken sausage, Legos, hauls and Tik Tok.
Why on earth, would she move somewhere that might challenge her? What about her history or personality indicates that she’s making any big changes in her life, other than scenery? She’s either already moving in with someone or she will get someone quick. Nothing will change - ever.
Moving isn't going to change her- I don't think she's capable of change- she is too insecure to really look at herself and if she can't face it you can't change
Depressive episode? In Ambers own words (and from the infamous cycle and pattern of behaviours we have witnessed over the years) Amber having her hair washed and clean and straightened and wearing it down means she's not depressed.... Also fawning over herself and eye f*cking herself in these tiktoks is a dead give away that she's not depressed also. I hate it when she uses bi-polar as like some quirky gimmick for attention.
Nah I think she really is manic right now. They come in cycles, and I’m sure her brain couldn’t cope with everything happening, so she went into mania.
I absolutely HATE how she will take her meds on & off, it sounds like she breaks about it, then whines about feeling depressed? I take lamotrigine & if I were to take it on/off like her, I'd be going down hill fast! She's just a narcissist who wants attention, like you said. Lol
Imo, she's actually Borderline PD. Same cycling behavior,with little differences of course. Traits of both really. The using and manipulation and anger that everyone is afraid of though, fits Borderline . The fact that people just disappear from her life and never ever return is a huge flag. She goes through all of the subset of borderline types in her cycles. Queen, Waif ,Hermit ,and witch all show up for the party.
It's not the hair that bothers me, it's her huge misshapen body. Why doesn't she see herself as she really is? You can't just look at yourself to the top of your breasts and think you're so beautiful. The business with her working her tongue was pretty awful, don't think I could watch that again. It was worse than her jumping around in her kitchen while supposedly showing her editing skills. Is she just high?
I've had long hair my whole life but when it gets to the kind of length she has it just seems gross to me. It always looks scraggly at the ends because it needs to be trimmed
I just can't fathom recording such tiktoks, watching them and thinking to yourself "yeeeaaah, I did that!" Lmao. She really thinks she's doing something 😂 It's so clear she's literally in love with herself. Especially when you watch those "transformation" ones 😅
Wifey keeps hooking up with her as a control mechanism. Amber met that new girl, which made wifey jealous, so in order to establish control and dominance over the situation, she tries to put the moves on Amber (as a coping mechanism after being so quickly replaced)
Then Jade was slap stupid. Amber always seeks a new partner quickly. I hope she does lose weight and experience those giant pieces of chest fat drop to where her knees should be located.
I think she's gonna claim a DV survivor status. She'll hint at it for ages first though. DV exists in lesbian relationships of course (in fact, the majority of the 3% of female perpetrators are in F2F relationships) but I think ALR is a victim only of herself.
Crazy how in here latest video she showed what she has packed in 2 months and it was just 5 boxes. She doesn't have time to pack or post an 8 minute video but she has time to post all these cringe tiktoks
Not Amberlynn thinking it’s cute to joke about loving pizza over a long life. I know it’s just a tiktok, but you just know that she really doesn’t think her obesity is as urgent as it is
The fact that they don't realize it's not just a long life they're giving up for pizza, it's a long healthy life. There's a huge difference in how you age living healthily or being morbidly obese and all your organs shutting down because they can't take the strain.
TBH I don't think these other women exist. She has BPD(borderline personality disorder), and she's acting like she has someone else to try and make Feline jealous in hopes that she'll react. I have BPD, and I USED to do that in relationships also bc it made me feel wanted when they would get jealous, which was/is extremely toxic.
I really had to mentally prepare to watch this. I put gum in my mouth for when the cringe inevitably causes me to grind my teeth and smudged my glasses to reduce the impact of her insufferable "sexy" expressions
The last time I was cringy on social media was when I was 24. And even then I was too dang old for it 😂 I can't believe she's not embarrassed by this yet
Becky was a fool. Probably the hardest thing she will have to come to grips with is the part she played in enabling someone like Amber who obviously showed that she didn’t love and barely like her in the least. Becky should just run her mouth until there isn’t anything else to tell. That woman doesn’t deserve any respect or consideration.
I don’t know which one you mean but either way I agree. Necky is playing the victim every bit as much as Amber and it’s annoying af how many people play into it.
@@GangstarComputerGodit’s easier to empathize with Becky because many people fall into toxic relationship cycles. I don’t Becky is a bad person, but she was definitely easily manipulated
It was easier for amber to be under the radar when she was younger but Im sure that everyone in Kentucky knows about her in that friend group and do talk about her and laugh at her as well. It has probably made becky's friends and destiny's friends interact because for some reason Amber's abuse brings people together.
I love when you share stuff from TikTok and Twitter/X. Why can't I see the weight loss from this month? Wasn't her last weekly weekend getting closer to 500? 🙄
I think the last weigh in was 511. She said the weight loss was slowing down. Now, it's time for weight gain along with hundreds of excuses and blaming others for it.
With a 99 cent Knorr pack with a splash of milk and dab of butter and 3min in the microwave she'd get fed fast and cheap. There's hundreds of add-ins for those of us not afraid of flavor or veg.
Tarot? Where-o? I love that kind of thing. I also want to see these critiques. I like to see people do readings. I don’t know the meanings of the cards even, but I strongly know that some people have the intuitive spirit juice and the cards just give a sort of framework to speak on what they pick up from the universe.
Take care of yourselves! Eat well, and get yourself comfortable in these colder months. Even if it's warm! It's never a bad time to get comfortable. Be well! ❤
Thanks Elara, I hope you are doing well, too! I finally got my sleep study last night, and I thought of you, hoping that you get your appointments too. (I'm in good health - they're just giving me a new machine!) Hope you have a great day! 🪴
@blackavar5723 I'm doing okay! Unfortunately, a family member did pass, but we're still staying positive the best we can. I'm glad you were able to get your sleep study done, and you've gotten new medication that should hopefully help! I was wondering how things were going, and hopefully, it's been better, and things have been figured out! It's such a relief to hear you are doing better, and I hope your wife is doing good, too. We've gotten some answers, thankfully, now it's just to see where to go from here. I hope the storms aren't hitting you, too much or at all!
@@UnseenElara I am so very sorry for your loss, my friend. I hope that comfort finds you and yours in this time. It's really telling what kind of person you are, when you're in grief and you're still posting messages to give others hope. Bless you. We are doing better this week, thank you. No storms here, thankfully! Hope you and yours are safe too!
@blackavar5723 My aunt is, unfortunately, being hit the hardest. She has good support with her. All should have those moments every single day where they find themselves smiling. I hope I'm able to offer at least one moment. Great news to both! It's been a little rainy, but otherwise, it's not all bad! You can never go wrong on a rainy day with some tea
She claims to have a Bipolar diagnosis, and while there is the excess spending, that could be the result of trauma, hyperfixation from the ADHD she believes she has. Thing is, I don't know if we've seen a textbook FULL type 1 manic episode. Speaking as someone who has Bipolar Disorder as well as education and years of working in psych, I will say Bipolar disorder IS more of a spectrum in terms of the symptoms we experience and their severity. Plus, we know her feelings about medication, and oftentimes those of us WITH Bipolar need to be taking an anti-depressant AND a mood stabilizer to keep our emotional state within a healthy, manageable range. Being that we know how she feels about medication, I'd have expected to see more symptoms of the disorder in terms of the mania that one can experience. Granted, I myself am type 2, so my hypomania can sometimes not be as noticeable as the mania that can be seen in type 1 or those who have rapid cycling/mixed episodes. Based on what I've seen of her (and I am aware that there is so much of her that I DO NOT see), she strikes me as someone with Borderline Personality Disorder. The disorder is ALSO comprised of mood shifts, as well as difficulty maintaining relationships and validating the self. I'd be curious to get a look at her therapist's notes for sure.
Ooh looks like you hurt her feelings!😂😂You know you’ve made it when you end up in one of Amberlynn Reid’s embarrassing TikTok’s. She really thought these would be well received, but by who? 13 year olds?
You're so cute lol "wash the body, wash the body" you had me crackin up but you have the most gorgeous smile! 😍 idk what it was about that moment but it was cute or you were! Lol ❤️
She doesnt know who she is without a romantic partner bro. Lmao Tik tok is the worst place for her it enables delulu side and I think she will come back worse than ever. Also the VACUUM HICKY THEORY has me crying. I believe it. I ship it. The healthy person sound clip of Trisha during her worst mental health era...is super inappropriate. But Amber really idolizes this era and podcast that she dreams to have something like that with destiny LMAO. Do you really think that Trish wants to live to 50 now that she has a child...? Even if Amber doesnt think this way, joking about this type of thing is so dumb at her age just because she thinks its cute ...I have no words. Back again to the main adult fact THAT IF YOU DONT TAKE YOURSELF seriously NO ONE ELSE WILL. (Honestly Trish was not mentally WELL when she was on frienamies and yet everyone keeps trying to bring it back. The concept of frienamies is just like fucked up in genneral. They were friends- they weren't enemies anymore but the thing is what they had was really unhealthy and filled with miscommunication and immaturity. ) Also FYI Amber if you see the other influencers that are at dangerous weights...its rare that they even live to 50.
Didn’t she just tell us on her last RU-vid video that if you see her hair in a poop bun it means she’s not ok and depressed? Looks pretty happy in these tik toks 🙄
Wait so she is in love again? She is the epitome of someone who doesn’t have the slightest idea of what love entails. She is constantly in love with being n love. So sad, always wanting to be loved and never getting it from anyone.
