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Guys if your tired of my divorce videos please click off and wait for the video you wanna watch coz some people want them. Let’s respect each other please 🙏
@owamie...nothing abt u and yr divorce stories is tiring me,i learned a lot 4rm yr life expiriences...de problem wid u is dat u are not aware of how jealous sum people are of u(4rm mafikeng)
I’m seeing some of the comments and I just wanted to say, don’t ever be silenced. More and more women have experienced exactly the same thing but have been convinced to keep quiet by their abusers and their female enablers. I have never been married but this advice is completely valuable and something I will be keeping in the back of my mind in case I ever find myself in that position. So by all means, please keep sharing. And I imagine it’s very healing for you to talk about it.
The abusers, cheaters, horrible husbands, deadbeats are usually their brothers, sons, uncles and friends. That’s why they’d much rather silence the victims. Don’t ever be silenced.
I wish you could hv the spirit of forgiveness and its power queen Ninja u scared me when u said whoever does you wrong you retaliate. God will help you ❤
I think by far its one of her biggest life lessons that she feels the urge to vent/talk about. It was a long ass marriage and I forgive her for still wanting to let her chest out. We can only learn from her experience or pass...
Owamie, the healing you are looking for in this content- is inside Owamie. We are mere strangers, giving you views but at the end of this video production, you have to still sit in it and unpack it with the honesty it requires, alone. You can only start living in “soft era” once you decide to stop being a “ninja” because ninjas are perpetually fighting. Your commitment to “retaliate” is not you manifesting ease and softness, situations where you don’t have to do all this.
Watching the vid you could see alot underline issues , irratation and Owamie trying to play alot off. YOU ARE GLOWING NOW , LOOK MUCH HAPPER SENDING LOVE 💓
I'm an Owamie day 1, I love your storytimes and your entertainment videos ❤ ❤. Sis I was under the impression that you hate cheating and I supported your stance on that 100%, you've made a couple of videos calling out cheating people so when you come out to say that you cheated back while legally married it comes across as double standards. It makes me think that your bashing of Mihlali, for example, had nothing to do with morals but just you projecting your experiences and hurt. Personally I don't mind you picking up your divorce storytimes if you feel they gave you views and obviously educational to some. I was really excited when you mentioned that you'll start creating content from stories of others sharing, I believe you mentioned interviews😍. I was happy that you are finally moving on and opening the door for new love and new experiences. There was a point in my life where I spoke a lot about my ex while in a new relationship and the new man eventually got tired of hearing about my ex😂😂and called me out. It was at that moment that I realized that men get turned off by hearing their woman constantly talking about her ex. To them it screams "she's not over him". Sis I'm by no means telling you what to do, you're an adult.
'My views are dwindling, what do I do🤔 ......Let me make multiple videos about my ex and hope he replies and other RU-vidrs react, I will then make a video about their reactions and call them a bunch of nobodies and throw in a Lawsuit threat; 'after all, I'm the Queen, I will use Sexual A* since it's women's month and my minions will support me' I personally feel sorry for you, You started making money on youtube and thought you could do better than the man that supported you and loved you. You started looking down at him....the grass isn't so green huh!
That was very noble of you to leave him with something because you knew you'd bounce back and ena he needed it. That's very selfless of you Sis. Keep going 💪🏾 ❤❤❤
Love the storytime, but it’s the double standards and hypocrisy for me ninja 😂😂😂 all that dragging of Mihlali day in day out as your daily bread, meanwhile you started an affair with someone before your marriage / divorce was over which is essentially what Leeroy did. Wow. That’s life for you. Batho will shock you!
Big up to you, and I wish many women can learn from your story .as painfully it sounds, but it's good to let go when things don't work out . Also, when it comes to love, no one can force it
As I unsubscribe to this channel. So one person asks how you did it. Then you go and record a 1-hour 20-minute video talking about "him" repeating everything you already said in your previous videos 😂. Aowa, you could have just responded on the chat to the person who asked the question. This content is not informative. Just another opportunity to bash your ex whom you miss so much 😅.
Some of us loved it as we haven't got time to go back and catch up. If it is not for you then do not watch. If you are so pressed go record your own content and relieve the pressure tu! Saphela ama dictator angahloliwe!
@cocodee7863 lol, I have a career and life that is too demanding. Unfortunately, I don't have time to record my content. 🤗. We all have a right to give our opinions. Love and light to you ✨️ 💛 💕
@@mamawegirlz4309trust them to ignore that she already checked out in her marriage AND SHE WAS ALLOWED but trust them to turn it around and try to defend Mihlali. 🤦🏻♀️
WOW This is the first time I get to fully understand your intro. You always rush through it and swallow your words. You know how to create content. I will give you that. You know exactly what gets our attention.
If you are so happy that he moved on, why are you dragging his name in your videos. Isn't that disrespecting their relationship. Hayi Owami you are contradicting yourself
I was enjoying your story until you said you cheated 🤢🤮 macheatos. You and your ex are no different. Sadly, some women are ingesting this like it's okay.
True hey. I don’t understand why ppl here are applauding her. She lost the plot here by admitting that she cheated. She should have just kept playing Ms goodie goodie. Not appreciating this truth because she has always claimed to be against cheaters.
Somethings can push you to react differently and that is not a definition of who you are. You should be appreciating her honesty, why on earth would you rather she put a mask? Y’all are so judgmental without even considering the facts. This was a reaction
You need to let go girl. You are a strong woman Queen Ninja. You are not your divorce. You have proven your strongness by making strides after the divorce. Please keep it moving. It hurts to watch you being stuck with him emotionally.
To be honest it doesn't easily go away, I left mine, I am not going to lie I was still in love with him, but I knew it will never work again, I could not forgive the situation even if I try. So I left, I was crying most of the nights until I was healed.
It's cold, sometimes divorced women think after their horrible divorce there is a Prince Charming waiting for them , until they find out that the game has been changed so much that they might never ever meet a man who can take them serious ever again.
This video was meant for me..I didn't know I needed it so much. I'm in a relationship with a guy whom I've long lost feelings for due to bad things he did to me. I tried to put things behind me after he apologized but it's hard
ARE YOU STILL IN LOVE WITH THIS DUDE?? COZ YOU KEEP TALKING ABOUT HIM PLZ LIVE GUY ALONE DO YOU CELEBRATE THE FUTURE NOT THE PAST ANYWAY ITS NOT MY BUSINESS I WILL STOP WATCHING OR COMMITTING I CANT STAND THIS ANYMORE. LIVE THIS GUY ALONE 😂😂
Its a learning curve Ninja to those u need some information ...n we thank you for ur info some of us we followed you while u still in back room so we still need more info until u finish ur story time n we learn from them
I can relate Owami, I barely delete anything myself....and have somehow felt this is weird/strange...not a content creator either but I record almost everything(I do voice/audio recordings of important things/events im my life) ...glad I found someone like me 😅
Doesn't you having a side piece make you as toxic as he is, I don't know maybe I'm too emotionally attached but I somehow feel like you know when the marriage is finished and we are just to ignorant to face it besides the cheating and all but knowing that it's finished and you still love this human is still the its just hurtful
no darling... revenge is a result of getting betrayed by some1 if he did not start the isht ..owami would not have done the "phone cheating" with the other guy so no hun, we aint frying owami for that owami did what she had to do to survive the situation!!
There's a video where your ex said something like being in lockdown with you without seeing some people is going to be boring, not his exact words. It is 5hen I knew he was to no good. Look for that video, you literally laughed when he said it.
Owami I think 🤔 you still love him besides the views and the experience. You will see when you have moved on you will make new content. May you heal honey and not keeping watching videos of him and you because it will hurt you more. ❤❤❤
You lying Owami you ddnt cheat on your ex husband, you would never even think of it because you where obsessed with the guy. Just take your L sisi it’s fine it’s over
So this video is your response to him when he said bekakulaya! You are proving a point to him🧐, not that you responding to people who asked you how you did it🙈.
Maturity is moving out COMPLETELY from sum1,emotionally - mentally- physically and pray to disconnect Spiritually.We see you as Vocal but Silence is Always GOLDEN. Those who keep quiet make a LOT of SENSE.
Guyssss , Y'all know healing is a phase right ?? It doesn't happen overnight .I mean what if this is her way or part of healing?? We handle things differently as human beings..Stop with the rude comments , just let owamie do whatever she wants to do and if you dont like her "divorce" content then unsubscribe bethuna ,Simple ...😊❤️
No! We need the truth!! One minute she never cheated she used to drive to Secunda and buy herself gifts and the next she was cheating haai this lady 😂😂
You looked good together no matter what you paint and all relationships go thru something as they say thru thick and thin , I gueese I wanted only thick no one is perfect and I only wish you knew and understood it better before u tigh the knot. Wishing you wisdom
I once got a side person also after being cheated on by my boyfriend. Side person saved me from feeling the hurt, the pain of being cheated on by someone I really loved. Side persons definitely have their role in society. They are to be brought in by the victim of cheating when the relationship is about to end. Trust me when i say this i could have endured prolonged heartache because of that guy but thanks to my towards-end-of-relationship-side person i didn't.
So what happens to the side when you feel okay? Do they just get thrown out like they never existed? Or do you continue with them and live happily ever after? 😢
Why are you dating a married man if you know that cheating is bad? Your current Nigerian boyfriend is married to another venda woman but still you dating him. Is that some sort of revenge on cheating married men?
A person who can be able to act knowing the truth can kill you! This is grose she! Sleep on his chest knowing he is cheating? Who is a snake here? Sneakingly divorce? Sies! Who follows this ???? And you think its a tatic? Why didn't you leave???
Does Owamie not have any friends or family that she can share this information with?! Either no, she does not or she needs to check into the nearest Mental Institution because san Big guy and his family live rent free in your head!!😂😂😅🤣
She has a RU-vid channel to share this with n she can make money while she gives us her subscribers the wisdom through her life experiences and Danggggg we have learned a lot 🙌🙌🙌 you welcome to hate while you give her your view and comment because it adds to her revenue though 😉
A few minutes later of watching, I feel like aaaw, he is such a charmer, tired or not. Handsome, too. Sorry your marriage didn't work, Owamie. This video, your love for this man is so apparent, but you knew you just had to go nevertheless bc wow once a cheat, always a cheat
Yoo Owami u r right by saying the guy is Dom you can just tell by the way he just badge in while you are still talking it soo annoying. I'm sure being as good wife that you were, you were always holding your breath when he was having a conversation with your family in Venda phela Vendas are smart. Like God please don't let him say something stupid or you will quickly answer on his behalf, phela we can afford ukuthi ama famalies ethu abone ukuthi we are married to fools
Iyoh Owami you are so trong, no doubt that this devorce has matured you so much. Genuinely you are healed girl, you don't need to convince me, you are so over him and at peace🤞
