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@MichelJanse 3 года назад

IMPORTANT ADDITIONAL THOUGHTS IN PARAGRAPHS BELOW: The thing I learned filming this is that I smile when I'm upset so like... that's weird and misleading haha. Thanks for joining me in this very honest conversation. I really hit a wall and just point-blank said some things unfiltered. Maybe it's growth, maybe it's exhaustion... who knows. BUT SOMETHING HAPPY: Thank you Skillshare for sponsoring this video! For a limited time, use the link in my description to get a free trial of Skillshare Premium Membership: The first 1000 people to use the link will get a free trial of Skillshare Premium Membership: skl.sh/micheljanse10201 PS, I want to clarify that when discussing politics in this video, I am speaking about identifying with a political PARTY & their ideals, not a candidate. I'd also like to say that I have taken the political compass test multiple times since the filming of this video, and left versus right is still not conclusive. It will swing a bit side to side depending on how I interpret the questions, I believe. However, every time I score between -3.5 to -6 down (Libertarian), which is interesting. I really feel vulnerable sharing this and honestly I wish I could learn more in peace instead of publicly, just as you have the right to. But as I said, since it was the most "liked" comment, me not addressing it in this video WOULD be a statement of its own, unfortunately. ALSO: Just like the last video, I am also not referencing the social injustices of this World when discussing politics. I feel like that should not be a political issue and I CLEARLY know where I stand. Black Lives Matter. I am firm on that belief. blacklivesmatter.com/resources/

@danadz2383 3 года назад

Hi there Michel, I don't usually comment on RU-vid but, I felt the need to on this one. You are an amazing woman with a big heart and a lot to offer the world. Being someone who wants to make people happy is a beautiful trait. It is also not a trait that people trust as authentic. What matters is that you are authentically yourself. If you care than that needs to be celebrated and nurtured. God created us all so uniquely and that is a gift. The field you are in both acting and as a RU-vidr/influencer is about hoping people like you. The ones that don't "get" you is fine, it isn't up to you to change their mind. Let them move on. There are so many people out there that just want to start something or spread hate. We need to move on from them. Thank you for sharing your gifts and talents! Hugs to you! 💜🙏👍😘

@amberbeasley6227 3 года назад

I also took a test in college and came as libertarian. During elections I vote more with the candidates so the last few times have been democrat but the first year I voted, I voted republican. Luckily where I live libertarian is a valid option in local elections (I’m in a conservative area of Texas that is now “purple”). When I was your age I was very much on the fence and could not pick a side and my dad told me it was okay, I did not need to pick a party just to please my sister and mom. I’m more democrat now but prior to this last four years I was still very on the fence.

@amberbeasley6227 3 года назад

I have also had political assumptions based solely on looks from my students. It is one of the first things I try to stop in my class.

@allisonn4527 3 года назад

Your amazing and being yourself is what makes your channel unique.There is always going to be people that will disagree or may not like you.Eckhart is a great spiritual speaker he is on you tube he is amazing if your interested in that maybe it will help🙂.

@KielaD 3 года назад

Hey!!! I watch your videos and I honestly am unbothered about the political side you choose. The fact is people get to choose and THAT is how it is supposed to be. Politics can be very decisive even in families and people blindly follow one party or the next but the issues are what matter! All that said to say, it's totally okay to ask for space and respect on your boundaries! Thanks for sharing anyway!

@musicislovelyforme 3 года назад

I just want you to know that I’m an atheist lesbian and I’ve never felt unwelcome here. You are very welcoming and loving and that comes across in your videos. ❤️

@MichelJanse 3 года назад

I wish I saw this sooner but I love and appreciate you; I’m so glad you’re here ❤️

@amandaleighplans Год назад

hi fellow atheist lesbian !!!

@jeanniecollier6763 3 года назад

I am a nurse DO NOT TRY a waist trainer since you have a lot of GI issues. I would rather you be healthy than trying something to please others.

@lisaurbain3692 3 года назад

I'm also a nurse and I agree! Skip the waist trainer for sure. Not worth it at all.

@phoenixmermaid5096 3 года назад

I agree! I have GI issues (heartburn included).

@dawnmeyer5969 3 года назад

What, exactly, is a waist trainer?!

@shellylauritsen5629 3 года назад

@@dawnmeyer5969 A corset

@lindykirk1807 3 года назад

From an older woman to a very young woman... I think you are wise beyond your years. My impression is that you are a strong, kind, caring woman. Never feel guilty for who you are...or your beliefs. As you get older you will become more comfortable & confident. You are far too young to have so much guilt. I literally tried to count the number of times you said guilt or guilty & gave up. BTW we don’t discuss politics in my family...you don’t need to discuss it on RU-vid!

@sakura-sc5bw 3 года назад

I feel so horrible to know that you feel guilty for having a good childhood! Absolutely don't!

@sydneyhance1919 3 года назад

I don’t think I’ve ever commented on a RU-vid video but I just felt so compelled to tell you that I have a ton of respect for you and your views and the way you navigated a tough conversation. It came off as wise, empathetic and mature.

@leslieneigh4069 3 года назад

There were a million things that I wanted to comment about, but I feel this was the most important. I am agnostic and have NEVER got the feeling that you were a fair weather Christian or an exclusive one. You seem to absolutely fit the definition of a Christian who is confident in their faith and understands your faith journey is not your neighbors. Its refreshing😊

@lindablackerby9819 3 года назад

1) guilt is a waste of energy and useless emotion. If you truly did something wrong, you will feel appropriately badly about it. 2) Being fortunate enough to not have experienced major loss or struggle does not make you a bad person (if you are lucky, your long life will certainly have its share of challenges). 3) You don’t owe anyone your political views. I applaud you for understanding we all won’t agree, but can still get along and take care of each other.

@krysten-paige9167 3 года назад

I know this was an honesty video but gosh your hair looks great

@MichelJanse 3 года назад

Omg you’re too sweet 😭❤️

@OceanEyes02 3 года назад

UGH nothing irritates me more than when people put others in a “box” when it comes to politics. Even if someone is conservative doesn’t mean they like our president. Just because someone is Christian doesn’t mean they are super conservative. It’s so closed minded and honestly I felt like a lot of these assumptions were an excuse to attack you. These were a lot harsher than I’ve seen in other assumption videos and I am so sorry Michel. Just know that most of us think you are a shining light in the midst of the toxic internet. We love you ❤️

@andygirl333 3 года назад

Truth!

@krhardesty 3 года назад

Agree!!

@normavalle8283 3 года назад

Agree with you!

@reneerussell5866 3 года назад

I could not agree more!! And She is such a Sweet soul!!!

@tonyaboggs5367 3 года назад

100%

@xxflipchick22xx 3 года назад

I applaud you for doing this video. Some of the questions were probably weren’t easy for you but thank you for being so honest.

@MichelJanse 3 года назад

This means so much ❤️

@michellereedg 3 года назад

discovered your videos while planning our wedding. you’ve always been such a sweet, light on youtube ❤️

@gabrielamoraga2076 3 года назад

Michelle Reed Collab video!! I love both your channels so much.

@4evermusic13 3 года назад

I love both you and Michel! Please do a collab!

@MichelJanse 3 года назад

That means so much, thank you gal. ❤️ I appreciate you, truly! 😭

@Tarnira222 3 года назад

Same here, i had a small wedding and instead wished I went table to table to say thanks during dinner.

@andygirl333 3 года назад

I Agree!!

@evaowens1400 3 года назад

Sweet Michel, I'm in my sixties and new to watching RU-vid, and while I enjoy getting to know you and others, I'm bothered that Influencers do not seem to know when to draw the line on privacy. It's no one's business what your political beliefs are, just as certain information between you and Brook is meant to be sacred and only for the two of you. There is no way to ever please everyone in this life; I learned this at a young age working retail! When you deal with the public, which is what you do, you will have every personality, healthy or not, and every mood coming at you. I know you are aware of this, and you know Who can help you through. So my advice is this: since God gave you this platform, seek Him to help you handle it. Much love back to you.

@jenniferparsons1814 3 года назад

I am very saddened that people have not respected your boundaries when it comes to you figuring out your politics. I think you have addressed this is a reasonable way and it is your right as a human being to figure out your beliefs whether its religion or politics. Otherwise, I wish you wouldn't feel guilty about your finances. I actually love your "young adult completely honest vides" such as going to the obgyn for the first time, or what it takes to be self employed. I would really love to see you explain how you budget, you discuss often that you have a very good grasp of personal finance, even if you use fake numbers I think it would be interesting and informative to do an educational video in a casual way. Like this is how you set your bills up, this is the percentage you use for food, this is the percentage each you and brook bring into your financial situation, do you use spreadsheets or quicken or just plain old pen and paper. I think a lot of young adults struggle with budgeting because no one has ever taught them, and as someone who has their own business I just think you could offer a really fun and interesting perspective. Anyways, since quarantine has started I am addicted to your videos, no matter if you are just sitting in front of the screen talking and drinking matcha or unboxing some fun new subscription.

@MichelJanse 3 года назад

Jennifer Parsons this truly means so very much, thank you friend ❤️❤️❤️

@Travelbyailsa 3 года назад

It’s a hard one because Michel asked for any assumptions and as far as I saw didn’t say “no politics as per last video” so it’s very possible the people who commented either 1. Didn’t see the video at all or 2. Thought that it wasn’t as serious a boundary as it clearly was

@tonyaboggs5367 3 года назад

@@Travelbyailsa politics is a very personal subject to talk about. At every job ive ever worked at we were aloud to get that personal with co workers or clients. Its way too personal for anybody .. Kind of common sence to know that

@Travelbyailsa 3 года назад

@@tonyaboggs5367 well yes that’s fine but if she wants people to see it as a total no go zone she needs to say it.

@cynthiacapps9121 3 года назад

Hey Michel! I’ve been watching your channel for a couple years now. I never comment on anything on RU-vid. I just want you to know you are one of my favorite you tubers and you inspire me in so many ways. In a lot of ways we have similar qualities, and I love seeing that other people have the same feelings in certain situations. I am the same way a people pleaser always doing for others, because like you said I want to be a good person in life. It is 100% draining. I just hope you know there’s so many of us in the RU-vid world watching your video that relate to you. I honestly wish I was more like you in a lot of ways. You have such a kind heart and I can’t wait to see what you accomplish in life and cheer you on from afar. You are awesome!

@MangoIscream 3 года назад

I definitely think it's unfair (and extremely closed-minded) of people to (1) put pressure on you opening up about your political beliefs and (2) bashing on you on an assumption that you're leaning in one direction on the political spectrum. Keep doing you girl! I love your content and you have such an honest, sweet, and humble personality!

@DahrensAGD 3 года назад

👏 yes for setting boundaries!!! People forget that on the other side of the screen is an actual HUMAN & feel entitled because they’re comfy in their own space. Love you back💓💓💓

@TheAnntonia23 3 года назад

Don’t apologize for having a wonderful childhood love. Thanks for spreading love in the world and being a genuine person. Also remember you will never be able to please everyone and you shouldn’t try to. God Bless you love

@raymars 3 года назад

I’m a bit older and I feel this more and more to be true: You can be the ripest, sweetest, juiciest peach in the yard but there always be people who don’t like peaches. For them there is an unfollow button! You do you, there is only one of you 😘

@diya.thacker 3 года назад

I love your personal finance videos! People might think you're 'showing' how much you make but it is so helpful. You make what you make and you deserve that. Please make more of those🙆🏻‍♀️ It was very visible you were kinda uncomfortable making this video but I applaud you for uploading it💗

@phoenixmermaid5096 3 года назад

Agree on both parts!!

@courtneyjw9828 3 года назад

I could just feel how genuine and honest you were in this video, which I can’t even imagine how difficult it was!! How could anyone not just love the sweet and caring person you are is beyond me!! ❤️

@maddieohman690 3 года назад

Hi Michel! I am a therapist and I thoroughly enjoy listening to your videos. I have always been impressed with your self-reflection and awareness. I am so sad to hear how negative comments weigh you down, though this makes complete sense. Highly recommend that you find someone to talk to, it can be so helpful because you really are balancing a lot! You really are so bold and brave for making this video!

@abbyneighbors4769 3 года назад

Sending you good vibes ❤️ this was definitely the most honest assumptions video I’ve ever seen! I’ve been watching you for almost two years now and it’s cool to go back and watch your old videos and see how much you’ve grown. I hope you know that you definitely come off as a genuine and kind person (I’ve always gotten the vibe that like if we were in a group and someone got interrupted, you’d make eye contact to show that you were still listening 😂) and people who take the time to comment hateful things on a RU-vid video have a lot of internal turmoil and it most likely has nothing to do with you. You don’t owe anyone an explanation about anything, especially about such personal things. Love you and your videos, thank you for sharing your life with us (hope that doesn’t sound creepy lol)

@ms.gomezpizzacutter1948 2 года назад

I can tell that your parents did a great job raising you. I just discovered your videos a couple days ago and I can’t stop watching. I also had to comment and let you know how brave you are to give so much of yourself on so many of these videos. I hope that by sharing in turn it is mentally healing to you. I too am a people pleaser and let me say I do not think I could ever be so brave as to bare my vulnerabilities while being judges by others. Thanks for being you!

@tintedblue 3 года назад

First of all thank you for being so open and honest in this video. The fact that you care so much about being a good person and making sure not to alienate or offend others says so much about your character. Your videos are such a joy to watch. ♥️

@laurenfujimoto5566 3 года назад

Hi Michel! I just wanted to leave a comment to tell you how much you inspire me! I started watching you right before I started my first job as a new teacher and I can truly say that you have been such a light! I’ve been really stressed with my job and whenever I am able to take a break, I turn on one of your videos and I can literally feel light shining through you. I can tell just from watching your videos that you’re such a genuine person who is always trying to better themselves. That’s all you can really ask from a person. Thank you for creating content that brings people like me joy. My pastor Rick Warren one time said something that has always stuck with me - “If you were a peach, you could be the most beautiful, ripest peach in the world but there is always going to be somebody who doesn’t like peaches.” It’s something I have to remind myself of too. I tend to let that one negative student/parent comment get to me even though I get more positive than negative comments. I just have to remind myself that I can’t please everyone and I can only be my best version of myself and try to keep bettering myself.

@ColeNoack 3 года назад

Michel! I am catching up on your videos so I’m pretty late but I just wanted to comment to let you know that you’re doing such an amazing job being a “good person”. You being your sweetheart self is what brought a lot of your fans to you and the real ones will keep loving you for that. We appreciate your honesty and bravery with being so open with us. Please don’t let people bring you down and keep doing you!

@karengurske 3 года назад

Something I've always noticed and assumed from your videos is that you are wise beyond your years! I'm 26 and we share a few similarities (recently married, not starting a family yet, Christian, Enneagram 3, etc.) but when you speak about finances, lessons learned, and other vulnerable topics you speak with such a great balance of grace and authority, wisdom and meekness. It's a refreshing balance to see someone in their 20's that "has it together" but is also "figuring it out" at the same time. I want to encourage you to give yourself the same acceptance and grace you freely share with others.

@phoenixmermaid5096 3 года назад

Hi Michel, thank you so much for being so open, honest, and raw in this video. I really want to give you a huge warm hug. I think you handled this video very well. I love that you have boundaries and stick to them no matter what. Keep having those boundaries! Boundaries are a VERY healthy and neccesary part of being a human, and is very critical if you are an influencer. I don't want you to get swept away with your audience's wants and desires to the point in which you get lost. You be you hon!! I think that you are one of the most healthiest (mentally/emotionally) that I have seen on RU-vid so far. It's truly a breath of fresh air! With that said, even the healthiest person can benefit from seeking help. There tends to be a lot of shame and guilt attached to seeking help, I don't want you to feel that way. I know I'm not in control of how you feel, but I did want to say that. I also want to say that if you chose to seek help, I don't want you to feel obligated to share that information with the world, or anyone really.... well, maybe your SO... Right now is kind of a dark time due to COVID and so many other things, I don't want your shine/brightness to dim, but I also don't want you to feel the need to fake being shinny (not that you would). Sorry, I know I'm having issues saying what I want to say, the cliche way of saying it is "it's okay to seek help." I also don't want you to feel that I'm telling you that you need to seek help... As you can tell, I care a little bit too much on what people think also, especially when it comes to certain sensitive subjects. Lol. I hope you understood what I was trying to say. Without you being in front of me, it's hard to effectively communicate some things sometimes. (Also, apologies for any mispelled words). As far as not being political or showing any political anything on here, I totally understand. Not only is the climate very intense right now. I can also relate to how disorientating it is right now. I would say more, but if you responded it would be a statement in itself, and I don't want you to feel that you can't comment on your own video comments... I totally respect you and the views that you presented in this video. Thank you again!!! With love, Phoenix Mermaid

@noshinsnotions 3 года назад

I know this video was really tough for you to make, but I'm glad you did. I hate to admit it, but like a few of the people who messaged you, I too had a little underlying worry that as much as I loved your videos, if we met in real life, you wouldn't like me bc of my differing beliefs (I'm a pretty devout Muslim). I think I only felt this way bc that has happened to me in the past, and it's so stupid bc when we boil it down, our core beliefs are very similar. Nonetheless, I totally believe you and felt the conviction with which you said you love and respect everyone, even if they have differing beliefs. Although I would have continued watching your videos regardless, its nice to do that now without that lingering sense of guilt/worry and I love you even more for it! Thank you :)

@2cwn2 3 года назад

Thank you for your honesty! You always handle all tough topics from admitting you’ve gotten more sensitive (I feel the same way about myself) to the more controversial topics like religion and politics so well. I agree we all should be able to educate ourselves at our own speed and keep who we’re voting for private, especially on a fun, positive lifestyle RU-vid channel 💗 (I am curious to go take my political compass test now though, thanks for the tip!)

@jonthelowww8394 2 года назад

I just subscribed to your channel because I felt so connected to you,listening to you describe yourself,alot like me.Your kind,soul shows so strong through your eyes and your words.Very honest and pure.That makes you so very strong!It is VERY hard to live life pleasing everybody,everyday.You have to think about yourself more and how things make you feel and NOT worry about pleasing people as much as you do.I know that is so hard,but for YOUR health try to NOT care more often friend.For you to please your viewers,we WANT to see you happy and thriving.Much love!

@CourtneyHanaway 3 года назад

You are so mature. I feel the same way and do not feel comfortable talking about politics publicly because people are so quick to judge and criticize. I admire your strength, and love your channel and your videos!

@vannessahaley1230 3 года назад

I relate to you more than you know. Thank you for being vulnerable. I have struggled with being a people pleaser my entire life and it is exhausting. I have OCD and when I was a teenager I struggled with external habits that align with OCD and now as a grownup i have internalized it all into the habit of pleasing everyone. I SO appreciate you for being brave and admitting that you wish you didn’t care so much. I envy those that seem to just let things roll off their shoulders. I have discovered that making a conscious effort to allow myself a small amount of time to obsess over things and then LETTING IT GO is most helpful. Practice, practice, practice. You’ll get there, my friend. In the meantime- keep doing the right things, at the right times, for the right reasons and know that you could be the sweetest peach and some people simply don’t like peaches. Let that go. It is liberating.

@BrigitteDiessl 3 года назад

Oh my sweet, sweet girl. You are such an inspiration to so many people - even people like me (a 51 year old dual citizen of New Zealand and Austria.) I worry about you, though. Being such a people pleaser and taking things so much to heart is not good for you physically, mentally or emotionally. Maybe go and see a counsellor (as opposed to a psychologist.) I have two children. My daughter is the same age as you and has struggled with anorexia since she was 16. She's doing really well, now, but she has decided to go and see a counsellor. I think she is worn out from seeing psychologists/therapists. A counsellor is a bit more like a life coach and has a lot more tools in their bag to help you through the guilt you feel. I don't think you should feel guilty. The most important thing is just keep being you. Personally, I don't care what your political beliefs are and I think it is incredibly arrogant of people to expect you to talk about politics. As a reasonably new voter, I think the best way to make a decision on who to vote for is to decide on the issues you feel are most important to you as you are now and learn everything there is to learn about the policies on those issues. Some of my closest friends have completely opposing political views to me and I really don't care. Sometimes it's just healthy not to talk about that kind of stuff. In fact, when I was young, it was considered rude to talk about money, religion or politics to other people. Just keep being the person you are. I think you are absolutely gorgeous. One suggestion, though. Stay away from the assumptions videos for a while. People are not going to change their assumptions and I think it's important for you. Oh, and no waist trainers! Take care. Lots of love from an old Kiwi mum.

@tonyaboggs5367 3 года назад

100% agree with your comment :)

@courtneywestra4102 3 года назад

Michel, I love watching your videos and this one made me love you even more. You are so mature and I have so much respect for you. Especially when it comes to you defining your boundaries and not wanting to speak on something you dont feel sufficiently informed about. Please don't let the internet push you around on things like that. Which brings me to my second point. I love that you mentioned seeking professional guidance in navigating some issues. Not just because we need to destigmatize therapy (it's for everyone), but I'd hate for you to become overwhelmed, or burnout, etc. Do whatever it takes to take the best care of yourself, so you can continue to do what you love and be the genuine light that you are. We need more people like you in this world. ❤

@siehelms1 3 года назад

Michel, your channel has quickly become a favorite of mine, your sweet, kind hearted, and honest self. I completely understand how you feel on the religious and political front. I am always in fear to bring those topics up. My best friend is the polar opposite then I am and she said something that was so profound to me. She said “I enjoy listening to other opinions and views so I can try to understand where the person is coming from, even if I don’t agree.” More people need that mindset. Just keep being you, because that’s what we all love.

@warrendn613 3 года назад

You’re an absolutely beautiful person inside and out, and as much as I enjoy learning more about you in these types of videos, we aren’t owed anything that makes you uncomfortable. It’s easy to expect unlimited access to “public” figures, but those viewers who genuinely care and enjoy your content will be here regardless as long as you stay Michel, because you are truly a one of a kind piece of art 💛 sending you lots of Texas love

@ByJamieAnn 3 года назад

Michel you are so strong to make a video like this! I really appreciate your openness and honesty as always! 💕💕💕

@sabrinarobinson1154 2 года назад

I’ve found you recently and have been catching up on your videos. Watched this old video. Already thought you were an amazing person. A true breath of fresh air and a great place to come for just light-hearted/real videos. Thank you for being the person you are and for doing this video. Wish there were more people like you in this world.

@kelsea8018 3 года назад

I’ve watched a ton of these and you and Carrie Dayton are the two most honest and raw vloggers I’ve seen in years! Literally the only assumption videos that have felt genuine and real to me. I used to think you were so different from me, and I’ve enjoyed having a window into a different world. But I learned in this video that you were a theater kid and so was I! I can see it now and it makes sense since you’re an actor! I just never caught that fact until this video and it was cool to find a similarity. Just shows that we are all connected in some way in this world. Love your vlogs! Don’t give rude comments free real estate in your head. You’re being your best self, that’s all you can do and it doesn’t have to be right for everyone. In fact, it would be quite terrible/boring to be someone that is palatable to all.

@jingyunhu4480 3 года назад

You are already the best person, especially for us who love you so much. Try not to put too much pressure on yourself. ♥️♥️♥️

@sarahsalmon3512 3 года назад

Don’t feel bad about having a good childhood! That’s the way God originally intended it to be! Happy that you were blessed🤍

@NicoleGillianHopkins 3 года назад

Definitely agree 💕

@MichelJanse 3 года назад

Awe, thank you sweet friend! ❤️❤️

@julecoach 3 года назад

Hi Sarah, I do have to say that while you probably meant for your comment to console Michel, it somehow stuck out to me. I get where you're coming from. However, I did not have a picture perfect upbringing although I grew up in a Christian home. And comments like yours make me feel like people such as me didn't get to live a life intended by God. I believe, that God has a plan for each an every one of us and we each face different challenges. The effects of my childhood make me into the person, the Jesus loving, God affirming person I am today. I hope this doesn't come across rude, I just wanted to point this out. 💛

@sarahsalmon3512 3 года назад

Jule Kocher Hey! It was said to give her peace about it! Idk how the person who said that to her came off, so I want to affirm that Gods original design for family was to not be broken. We obviously live in a broken world which means there are broken families. I too, had a really hard childhood and it shaped me to have a different viewpoint on life. He new my future before I did, but we have to recognize those who had a beautiful childhood and not allow them to feel ashamed. The best way I can describe what I’m trying to say is this: when God created the world He intended it to be whole. Therefore when I see a broken world, I take it back to the Garden. Where he wanted to be whole with us. I use to be very insecure about my childhood because I was the odd ball out when having a very broken family. People like you and I have to come to terms and see that we don’t choose our childhoods. We have a way to seek out Gods original design. It might be harder, but it’s worth the freedom♥️Which is why I’m happy that Michel has been blessed! Hope this explains my meaning more!

@tonyaboggs5367 3 года назад

Yes!!!!!!!!! I agree!!

@angelitacantu9601 3 года назад

Hello! I’ve watched a few of your subscription review videos and actually tried one I was disappointed in (definitely not a reflection on you 🙂 just my weird luck lol)... I have to say I love your energy and your positivity. I just saw this video and have to give you props for tackling some difficult questions that shouldn’t have been asked in the first place... Thank you for being you! The world needs more positive people and you shine a light that change can happen... I always say “anything is possible”! The world needs more sweetness, smiles, and good vibes, so thank you! I really enjoyed watching this video as I few like it gave me more insight on how genuine you are, I apologize that people made you go into uncomfortable areas that weren’t really their business. I literally just subscribed to your channel! I can’t wait to view other videos... I didn’t realize you put other videos out there besides subscription reviews... 😂... I’m learning about RU-vid... haha! Again, Great job! And have a blessed evening!

@fernandamartins9797 3 года назад

As a chronic people pleaser myself, I've heard once something that helped me change my perspective about it and I feel like I should tell you the same thing: the fact that you care so much about being a good person already makes you a much better person than most, because most people just don't care about being good or improving themselves everyday. You are truly one of the most (if not the most) caring, charismatic and adorable youtubers I watch and I honestly believe the pressure you put on yourself is not a bad thing, because it's probably why you are the way you are. ❤️

@kaelynheard983 3 года назад

honestly this is my first time ever commenting on a RU-vid video, but this just needs to be said. You are such a LIGHT in this messed up world we live in. I greatly respect how you do not talk about politics on your channel. I completely agree that they can just lead to so much conflict and everyone thinks their opinion is the only one there should be. There’s no way to please everyone and you will lose who God made you to be in the process of trying. Keep on being 100%, unapologetically you! (Remember that’s what has gotten you this far)

@jessicamclaughlin62 3 года назад

You're such a sweet and positive person! Don't let any negative comments get you down. I think the minimalist comment came from one of your decorating videos where you mentioned that your style is minimalist chic- as in furniture and decor. I love your style and appreciate all of your product reviews, I've actually splurged on a few things you've featured to make my home even more of an enjoyable space for me : ) I also appreciate having expensive taste while being financially responsible, which you definitely exhibit as well. Don't feel guilty about enjoying the finer things or having a blessed family situation, you truly reflect how much you appreciate it all

@charlitanae 3 года назад

I just have to say that honestly everything you said In this video I agree with. I honestly feel like we are the same person 😂 but I found you at the beginning of the year from a causebox unboxing and loved how gentle and sweet of a spirit you have and have watched every video since. There’s something about you that just makes me and I’m sure others happy. As someone who understands being a people pleaser you have to take breaks sometimes and not let other opinions of you affect you. Which believe me I know is HARD. But we’ll all get there eventually. Keep being you and don’t let what others think determine what you have to give to the world.

@lizziemurphey5006 3 года назад

You are so genuine and you have a whole crowd of people who love your content but also YOU. You’re doing good Michel. 💛

@elizabeth-vv7fp 3 года назад

I have been following you since 7,000 subs, and you are seriously such an inspiration. Your positivity and light you bring into this world is so contagious. Keep doin you. Stop living to make others happy, and always remember... YOU DONT OWE ANYONE ANYTHING 💗

@krand76 3 года назад

I always thought of your channel as lifestyle and you share what you feel comfortable. I don't understand why people feel that you have to speak on a topic when it not really what your channel is about or just don't want to share for reasons you have stated already. I don't think you have ever made anyone feel unwelcome and you are really genuine in your videos and one of the reason I keep watching. I came for the subscription boxes reviews at first but glad I subscribed. We live in a society that people feel they need complete access to you just because you are on this platform. I really do love your channel.

@tabithahenricksen421 3 года назад

I have never been prouder to be your internet friend. ❤❤❤ YES. Love God. Love others. Everything else is extra. YES. Keep showing up as your fullest self. We need you. And it gives the rest of us permission to show up with our hearts extended in our hands. YES. Boundaries are good. You don't owe us things that bring you pain and you aren't called to share. To answer your question: I haven't studied psychology. I'm actually a college-drop-out. (who liked your podcast episode about college BTW 😄) I started learning about the enneagram a couple of years ago and just pulled the trigger this month on getting my coaching certification. I literally spent the last few days doing hours of study while my brain replayed the track "You probably aren't good at this. No one wants you to do this. You are going to embarrass yourself. What makes you think you know people? Why do you think YOU could help people when you're so clearly unqualified?..." - on a loop. You and Brook share connections to my enneagram type that make you guys feel like home to me, each in a different way, and it was affirming to know my assumptions weren't too far off base. Thank you for stumbling through my poor typing. Much love. ❤

@lyssaevelyn7737 3 года назад

Never feel bad about who you are. Obviously I don't know you personally, and can only speak to how you are on your videos (which seems to be a pretty accurate representation of your true self since you're so transparent and honest on this chanel) But you are such a kind and beautiful person, and the very fact that you do your very best to use your privilege to help others as much as possible says so much about you. If more of the privileged people in the world were like you, we would live in a much better world. I also completely understand how stressed you get with being a people pleaser. I'm the exact same way and have struggled with anxiety and even depression because I put myself under pressure to make everybody around me happy. I'm not on a social media platform so it's just people close to me that I feel pressure to please. And I put myself through so much, I can't even imagine going through what you go through, having so many people on a social media platform that you feel pressured to please. Just know that you have so many followers who love you and look forward to seeing you in every single video. You're a genuinely great person and nothing can change that. I really hope you read this and know that even though I could never understand the level of pressure you feel, I truly hope and pray that you are able to feel relief in knowing that so many people see you as the good person you need so badly to be, and that you are impacting so many lives in a positive way. I love you!

@madisonbuford8039 3 года назад

Hi Michel! I really love your channel and appreciate how honest you are all the time💖 I’m studying speech language pathology and just wanted to say that your face is so pretty and interesting while you annunciate your words! I feel like you speak with your whole face and i love it!! I totally understand not wanting to share your political beliefs but i’m wondering if the people commenting hadn’t seen your other video addressing it? I watch your channel regularly and had missed that video myself. Also you clarified that the assumptions didn’t have to be nice so i wonder if the person saw this as an opportunity to post something that was on their mind, rather than outwardly disrespecting your boundaries. just a thought. I am a lot like you and take things very personally and know how hard that can be!

@symphoniecameron 3 года назад

also your entire response about your religion literally made me tear up. thank you so much for being such an amazing, open minded, loving person. there’s a lot of people who push their religion and therefore i’m not comfortable watching their content because it makes me feel unwelcome. however you have never made me feel that way and everything you said here just confirmed that for me. much love🖤

@alyssacalder5874 3 года назад

Thanks for being so vulnerable with strangers on the internet! Lol I know I had some minor assumptions about you and as I am watching this I feel like I can relate to you on almost every topic; I want to chat with you and commiserate about being our own worse critic but also talk to you about personal finances and the deals we found on home decor. This is such a great reminder that you can't judge a book by its cover and that we are all humans with many similarities despite all our varios upbringings and life experiences ☺️

@bethknack2015 3 года назад

Michel thank you for this video. I started watching you thru COVID quarantine. I just love you, and feel like if I meet you in person I would want to be friends (not that we cant be friends thru internet...but hopefully you know what I mean) lol. Just wanted to comment and give you some support. There was a couple of moments that was hard for me to watch...just you being so vulnerable and honest..... I feel very similiar to you with alot of your opinions that your voices during this video and feel others would assume similiar things about myself. It's hard to get some of that feedback and see where people got it wrong...and sometimes hard when they got it right too! I hope that maybe as much as this video has helped your fans to get to know you a little bit more, it also has helped you reassess and provide additional confidence in your boundaries with your content and viewers. I do believe everyone needs boundaries to maintain good mental health.....especially those like yourself that put so much of yourself out there for others to see. Take care! Hope you have a beautiful day and I look forward to watching future videos :) Not related to the video but I love that burnt orange color on you!

@brittanygreene8054 3 года назад

This was by far my favorite video of yours because of how honest and vulnerable you were. I feel so close to you and we don’t know each other! I could tell you meant everything you said about Christianity and loving others. I was raised Christian but left the church when I was a teenager from the hypocrisy I kept seeing. I do tend to have that thought that “Christian’s are close-minded and hateful” but have to remind myself that’s not true, some are for sure, but you can’t judge an entire group of people for the actions of a few. You really reinforced that for me today and I thank you for it.

@denisemurphy3527 3 года назад

I enjoy watching your channel. Your kindness and open attitude comes out as soon as you talk. I am a people pleaser as well. I’m not on a platform like you but I still get a lot of criticism. I learned as I got older that the criticism doesn’t bother me anymore! Why! Because I please people because I feel that’s why I was put on this planet and at the end of the day I can smile and feel good that I did something for people who needed me. Because Michel the first thing a person will figure out about you is that your s people pleaser and take advantage of that. Your still young and beautiful, do what your doing as you get older you will not be so emotional about it. You are my hero, be you and do you. You do it well. Trust me I’m 56 now and I stopped being emotionally stressed when I turned 45. It will take time. That why they say you can’t please everyone. Don’t change unless you want to. I think your great just the way you are.

@madisoncognetta1813 3 года назад

I feel for you girl! No one should ever feel that they owe anyone an explanation. You’re young! I’m young! I’d assume most of your viewers are in a similar age group and were all just figuring everything out. I respect you so much for taking a back seat and trying to find what you believe. So much miss information is spread in the world and it is amazing that you’re self aware enough to say “hey. I’m going to take a back seat while I learn and grow and educate myself”. Not everyone has the maturity to do that! I also totally agree that not everyone should have the same opinions as their friends. People should be able to put differences aside and be loving to each other. I’m agnostic and have SO many Christian friends, atheist friends, Buddhist friends, etc. not all my friends share my political beliefs, nor should they! We can’t grow and learn from each other if we only surround ourselves with people who think like us. I love your videos and hope you never filter yourself! I know it might get harder to be candid as you grow in popularity so, selfishly, I love that you’re a medium sized channel but I do hope you continue to grow and get more subscribers so that you can continue to love the life you love. 😊❤️

@jessicaburnett7891 3 года назад

I completely get the whole people pleasing thing and all the stress and anxiety that goes along with it, I have been there and I found I would just hold it all in until I would break and it was not healthy. Once I learned that no matter what you do there are certain people you’ll never please, it’s ok to say no to people, and what people think really doesn’t matter in the long run my life became a lot more enjoyable. It’s ok to take time for you, it’s important really. You are a wonderful and beautiful person and I appreciate your reviews 😃❤️

@lunacyandlaceee 3 года назад

I just want to give you the biggest hug 🥺 I’m proud of you for filming this & having the courage to post it ❤️

@ellenkroon8444 3 года назад

You are brave to do this! Love your channel. You have such a good outlook on life and it’s contagious! It’s hard to let go of negative comments- it’s a lifelong process for some of us people pleasers!😊 Thank You for just being you!

@emeryndorman 3 года назад

I rarely comment on videos, but you deserve to hear how absolutely proud I am of you for this. I am so privileged to have worked with you and known you during those cringe-y middle school years (and let's face it--the confidence you showed while wearing those jean leg warmers is UNMATCHED)! You inspire me everyday to be the best version of myself--the best actor, the best (although imperfect) Christian, and the best human possible. You've got a fan and a friend in me, Michel!

@jillfoster484 3 года назад

Thank you for taking the time to do this video and your honesty!! You are such a beautiful person inside and out! I love your videos because you are so down to earth and real. You are so precious ❤️

@clairehall9820 3 года назад

Wow...this video is everything. It’s raw it’s real it’s emotional. For the last 36 minutes I felt totally enthralled in your conversation. I wanted to say I really appreciate what you said about being a Christian and loving everyone and wanting to make it a safe enjoyable place for everyone . As someone who grew up in an Ultra conservative cult like church and is an atheist now I stay far away from very religious atmospheres because they trigger some emotional baggage I have. However on your channel your values and beliefs are evident while being free from the “Pharisees” attitude. I respect who you are even more now after hearing you share your thoughts on love and acceptance of others.

@breannacarels6479 3 года назад

I think your vulnerability is admirable.. and I was most touched by your sensitivity around people's comments. I'm sure some of this will improve with age and perspective.. and I imagine I would have react very similarly if I was in this situation at your age. I've done alot of self work since my twenties.... if you haven't read any Brene Brown yet, I strongly recommend her work. Also.. listening to your sharing made me think of a quote she loves and references in her books: “It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.” ― Theodore Roosevelt Remember, you are the one putting yourself out there... it's easy to leave a nasty or critical comment... but putting yourself out there like you do takes courage and vulnerability.. and unless the person critiquing you is also putting themselves out there.... I don't think their opinion matters. Keep up the great work. Best of luck with your journey of growth and self discovery! p.s. I love your definition of Christianity.

@kaitlynneer6832 3 года назад

I appreciate your honesty and am really glad you are placing some boundaries on your content. I think that can be healthy and I am super happy to be a part of a community that is both open and welcoming. Keep up the good work!

@michelletaing5733 3 года назад

I enjoy watching your videos, I have been binge watching them this week. Concerning the rude or prejudiced questions asked in this video, don’t ever feel like you need to justify yourself for your own beliefs or views because we are all different and all hold a certain view about life whether in religious beliefs or political viewpoints. Don’t let yourself be put down or pressured by the judgment of others because there will always be haters, it is best to ignore them! And regarding political views, I feel like there is this sort of norm in society where it is expected of an individual to identify with a political party; however, during university, a professor had discussed how political identification doesn’t have to be black and white, and that most of us actually stand in this grey area where we agree with specific views from each party. I hope you the best!

@naabg.2422 3 года назад

This is definitely one of the most vulnerable videos you’ve ever done. Thank you for just having an awesome platform🤍

@amymartin1236 3 года назад

You are a beautiful person. I love you and I am sending you a virtual hug. Thank you for being so honest whilst respecting your views and opinions xx

@andygirl333 3 года назад

YOU ROCK! I Love you and your channel so much! To be honest it calms me down when I'm stressed, your the only channel I watch that makes me feel so dang positive! It's like having a warm blanket wrapped around me! Your such a wonderful person, don't ever forget that or doubt yourself and your beliefs 🌻✌🌻✌

@ericagibbons7697 3 года назад

As a parent having a 22 year old daughter and a ten-year-old son my son being high functioning autistic like myself, I know you don't have to have children unless you personally choose to. You can adopt. You can just be happy with a dog. I had zero connection with my daughter throughout her life. I was always wondering why I couldn't comprehend her, her needs/wants, and has always felt bad that she rather love anyone but me. It was never about myself and we are trying from different states. When it came to my son it just felt like he was my twin, in the very beginning. He's a little different, like me. As a single parent my son and I have had our ups and downs for a long time. But to be able to understand him from his mind perspective has been amazing because there's a lot of parents of autistic children and they have no idea what they're thinking and have no idea how they feel. Not a lot of people understand from that perspective. I handle it and proud of him when he chooses to progress. A lot of people miss their Independence. I hope you and your husband in the future sit down and think about it and decide what you guys need to be happy with. It's not selfish. As an individual you and your husband have that personal choice; you don't have to unless you really want to.

@juliettegentenaar4380 3 года назад

I love the way you live your faith. When I became a Christian a few years ago, many of my Christian brothers and sisters have told me ideally others should know we're Christian because we show the love of God through our lives and actions, not our words, preaching or the symbols we might wear. To me you honestly are a near perfect example of this. Thank you for being such an inspiration!

@nancyteune3141 3 года назад

Just be you. Those of us that care for you and your channel will be here for you always. You are definitely a breath of fresh air . Thank you.

@tinalemac 3 года назад

Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your honest feelings! I can identify with being a people pleaser, but it is so helpful just to think about all the good comments and supportive words from people! 👏🏼👏🏼

@callagiallombardo 3 года назад

Michel, your bravery and strength to answer so many harsh comments and questions shows how absolutely awesome you are. All of your answers were so insightful, mature, honest, and so educated. Especially your answers about Christianity. Your wording was so effective. Keep going and don't listen the the people who's only goals are to tear people down. We love you!

@jenniferk1724 3 года назад

It is very natural that we tend to focus more on the negative feedbacks we get than the positive ones, and try our best to make everyone happy, but the truth is, it is kinda impossible to be liked by every single person in the planet (there are people who just tend to hate things for no reason). It is 100% OK to feel stressed to not be liked by the others, and I don't think forcing yourself to not care will make you genuinely feel better, so I guess at least stop beating yourself up for feeling the way you feel, you have 100% right to feel whatever ways you want and you don't need people's approval for feeling the way you are feeling right now. Anyways, the ones who love and appreciate you will always support you, thanks for bring us positive energy via your videos! Love you,Michel

@elladickson586 3 года назад

I wish I could’ve liked this video more than just once, because believe me I would’ve. Michel I really appreciate your channel, your voice, your compassion and your honesty - It’s hard to come by in our current world. You’re like a breath of beautiful spring-fresh air

@jenniferthorpe6706 3 года назад

You are a beacon of honesty, hope and change. I look forward to your videos because they are a safe and calming place. Thank you for being YOU.

@jessicagraddy5959 3 года назад

I think this was great and you’re definitely a strong person to do videos like this! I agree that certain subjects are meant to stay within just a very small circle of family in order to keep your own mental health at peace and others! ❤️ You’re awesome!!

@mahloeree 3 года назад

OK this video made me see you in a whole new light and I realize why I relate so much to you. I appreciate this kind of vulnerability so much. And remember to be the leading lady of your own life and not let the opinions and thoughts of others dictate you so much (easier said than done I know.) They are fleeting and you won't remember those when you're old enjoying the fruits of your labor with your husband. If you're constantly aware of being a good person than the odds are that you truly are a good person have faith in that and in yourself

@abbyk6927 3 года назад

Hi! I never comment on videos, but I HAVE to comment on this one because you handled every assumption with grace and poise. You’re seriously such a sweet soul and I appreciate your channel because it is an escape from the crazy (kinda scary rn?🤷🏼‍♀️) world! Thanks for being such a light in a dark world-which is exactly what Jesus calls us to do. Much love for ya girl! 💛💛

@garizmabehl6048 3 года назад

Such a good soul you are. You are trying so hard to be the best in everything you do for yourself and your loved ones. I truly can relate to you. It's hard to be a people pleaser i still haven't figured out how to be carefree like most people. But maybe it is our strength. ❤❤❤

@flippingfurnitureflipper7205 3 года назад

I just watched your video and wanted to take a second to applaud you for doing what you do. I think it takes a special kind of person with a special kind of strength to be able to put their self out there like you do while still taking into consideration other people's feelings and believed. I do not see how you can sit through a video like you just made without absolutely spazzin out on some people. Haha I'm a Christian myself but I'm not really sure that I can be a strong enough Christian to bite my tongue the way you do. So just keep your head up I think you do an awesome job I'll ever Channel and hang in there!

@danielledaves8921 3 года назад

Aww Michel I was literally crying. We love you and want you to continue to be your true self. You brought up some really interesting points about cancel culture and how easily the world turns on people for making one mistake. But I just know everything you have learned from being in the public eye will only make you better and stronger. So when your this big time A-list actor you are going to be that much better at handling it. Love you and keep doing you! 😊❤

@mirandacamp4222 3 года назад

You would be perfect for Hallmark movies! You’re beautiful, tall and kind hearted. I wish you all the best in the world.

@lexysybounheuang3257 3 года назад

Yes!! I always say this when i watch her videos!! lol

@plantisami4993 3 года назад

I am so sorry that others crossed your boundary; that is never okay. Also, I really do not like when people put others into a box based on stereotypes. Thank you for opening up and being honest. Thank you for speaking up on the Christian side of things....that we are not that basic stereotype. I love people and I never would tell someone they are going to Hell. I believe like you...that we should love others and God. Thank you for loving people. However, I do hope that you are able to build a boundary with people pleasing. I struggle with the same thing and I am working on my boundaries as well. IDK how it will look for you to set up those boundaries, but I hope you are able to some day. Love your channel dear! You are a light! You are amazing! You are loved!

@yujane6295 3 года назад

I applaud you for holding onto your belief that certain things should be person. You are a respectful human being and that's really all we need to know about you and learn from you. I wish you all the best and thank you for holding your ground!!

@joytimmerman6185 3 года назад

You are a kind and sweet girl. The whole people pleasing thing resonated with me greatly. At 37 it’s still something I struggle with daily...but it does get better. Thank you for your open heart and spirit.

@melissacannon2409 3 года назад

I just wanted to give you a hug watching this video, when I could see you getting a little sad. Thank you for just being you and such an honest video.

@stephluvsdave 3 года назад

Everyone is entitled to their own beliefs, political, religious, or otherwise. I hope I never turn into a person consumed with hatred of anyone based on their beliefs. What an awful world that would be for me. If you're my friend then you're my friend and I love you...plain and simple. That doesn't mean we don't have boundaries. Boundaries are healthy and necessary. Keep and maintain yours...and choose from now on only to respond to things that fit within those boundaries. You've stepped outside them enough to satisfy other's curiosity. I love your videos and I'm so happy I found you so I can watch and enjoy them all!!! ❤️❤️

@katheriner37 3 года назад

Michel, I can relate to you in the sense that I have extreme empathy towards others, something that sounds great in nature but in practice, can actually be personally toxic! It adds to a lot of my anxiety. When you talk about being a people pleaser, it sounded like what I struggle with!

@NicoleGillianHopkins 3 года назад

Your makeup looks amazing! Thanks for sharing and being yourself!

@kelseysigars3409 3 года назад

Wow, I look up to you so much! I love how open minded you are. I really hope you don’t carry the weight of some of the more difficult assumptions because it is so obvious in your channel how down to earth you are and how respectful you are to people with differing opinions and beliefs. From watching your videos I always had the idea that you were very open minded when it came to religion, diversity, and differing opinions and views! Thanks for being you and sharing so much with us!

@jessicapienaar4170 3 года назад

Hey Michel! Being from South Africa where political beliefs basically define who you are and where (in my opinion), it is a brutal thing to talk about, even to mention, I understand that you want to enjoy this channel without that discussion. Everybody is entitled to their own opinion and you are entitled to keep it to yourself. I truly hope that you can find peace with harsh comments and people and be free from the heartbreak that comes with it. I look up to you for what you have done so far, being so honest. Thank you for the video and all of the wisdom, I am proud of you. I love u!!

@makenziedougall6029 3 года назад

I love all your videos and you seem like such a great person, I don't know about anyone else but I personally come to this corner of youtube to watch your videos for the product reviews, thrift shopping, baking, decorating, how adorable max is, your bubbly personality, the overall happiness of your channel and so much more. One thing however, that I don't feel is something you should feel pressured to share is your political viewpoint. If you want to share this then that's something different but it's clear that you feel uncomfortable doing so and I personally think its more than 100% okay not to share your opinions on certain topics that make you feel this way, some things are allowed to be lighthearted and you do not owe anyone anything by doing the job that you love!! That's my personal opinion anyway, I think you're great!

@heathermillertitmus2431 3 года назад

Michel, I honestly think we would totally be friends in real life, you are so awesome and amazing and inspiring. It sucks people care so much about politics- it is ridiculous because it doesn't change who you are, it comes down to morals and if we as people are good people than that is all that should matter. I am the type of person that believes most people ARE good. And we all can tell you are a good, kind person who cares deeply about others. I am proud of you for researching your political views and respect that is your own journey... and look forward to your videos that you feel comfortable doing, I love the diversity of your content and appreciate each and every one. Thank you for your hard work.

@tonyaboggs5367 3 года назад

You're so wonderful I'm so happy you make these videos. You do such a great job and I just want to thank you for being you.

@karenpender7729 3 года назад

I think you did an amazing job at being honest in your video! I would look at it as personal growth! I don't think I have ever felt more comfortable watching any other you tuber. You are a very sweet woman and you need to remember that the only person you should really please is yourself! (and Brook! lol) I also wanted to just comment that people should not have pushed you about your political views when you clearly said you weren't prepared to discuss them. And just know that as much as we are entitled to our opinions, you are as well and you can't please everyone hun! Love you and love your channel!!