I don’t think Yarmayn is enjoying parenthood anymore than Alex is, he simply is stuck with the baby at night, and must tend to him in order to be kept in the life to which he has become accustomed. I really don’t think he holds the baby much when not feeding him, and he probably does it like Alex does, which is to hold the bottle while the baby lies on his back. My heart breaks for baby Anderson. Also, I think Alexandra developed a flat head from constantly being on her back in a crib, when she was a baby.
Hi Tara, hope all is well. Alex has been detached from her baby since she found out she was having a boy. It truly breaks my heart how she ignores him on camera and she doesn't even hide it. Babies at this young stage of their lives need to be held, rocked, talked to. They need interaction but she just doesn't get it. She hears him and keeps talking like he is suppose to know to keep quiet while she's vlogging. She needs to grow the F up and Yar probably doesn't care either, who knows what goes on behind closed doors. I don't believe he does much more than she does. There's got to be a nanny involved. These two are only excited about food, clothing and the latest gadgets. They both get on my nerves.
Alex is so obsessed with Anderson sleeping. What is she going to do when he stops sleeping so many hours. She is so lucky he is not colic she would go bonkers. For someone who wanted a baby sooooo bad it seems like all she wants is for him to sleep.
@@Tracy-f4eit is funny you say robotic because the first time I saw a reaction to this vlog I felt as if she had no soul, like she was extra sociapathic and empty.
The absolute best part of having a baby is holding them, rocking them and having them sleep on your chest!!! I would neglect house work, sleep anything to hold my babies!!! 🥹 and no you can not spoil a baby by holding them sorry not sorry!!!
Agreeed!! I rocked my son until my arms were cramping and well after he fell asleep. Then he got strong enough to squirm all over and I could barely keep him held lol I cannot stand when people say that holding them is spoiling them it’s called loving on them
So happy to see this comment! For the first 6 months i held our son for all of his naps. No regrets at all and he actually was an amazing sleeper through the night. Definitely not a believer that babies can be spoiled by lots of touch & affection.
She didn’t learn about the 4th trimester?! After he’s fed and changed, he doesn’t need to be rocked, he needs human touch and bonding with his MOTHER! Caring for him is the only thing she has to do! If you’re awake rocking him for a little while, so be it! That’s your job and you’re so blessed to be able to do that. Many mothers already send their babies to daycare and go back to work by this age.
It almost brings me to tears that she is so fortunate to have her job and all the 'free' time to shop but NOT enough 'free' time to comfort/snuggle her new baby and needs to try a red light in the baby room, 'baby night dream feed?.. and now a snoo!!!!The baby is about 8 weeks old and she has tried so many experiments on him to make him sleep. This is freaking scary!!
It makes me so sad to see this precious baby at about 8 weeks old being treated as an experiment for the sake of Big Al's social media! The Snoo needs to comfort your child? When you and YaYa don't work 'traditional jobs'? and you have the luxury of making your own hours. You are more pathetic than I ever thought!
Old Navy is also notorious for having EXTREMELY generous vanity sizing. So knowing she barely fit a 3x jacket means she is probably a 4-5x in reality. Shocking for someone who has had 2 weight loss surgeries.
Dear Alex... Just in case the red light, the 'dreamfeed', and the 'snoo' don't work out for your 8 week old baby MAYBE try the traditonal method of holding and comforting. Just sayin!
@@annstewart9693$700 and $1300 for a bookshelf which looked like packaging and mainly stores knick knacks. However the actual unread books are on tables under lamps and expensive candles.
You are absolutely spot on when you talk about her not picking up her baby when he's crying. Watching these reactions with seeing her interactions with her son are making me so angry. I think I need to just quit watching. You're a great reactor but I can't see the misuse abuse of the baby anymore
I know exactly how you feel regarding that poor little baby. I just have to continue to support the reaction channels. We can do more good by supporting the reaction channels than not. It certainly is very difficult since the baby appeared. I get it.♥️
Heartbreaking that they want this precious baby to sleep so they can sleep. Makes me sick!!! Can't type what I would really like to say about these two extremly selfish pieces of crap!!!! I don't know how much longer I can watch either. She will never say if he falls cause she walked away from him.
Did anyone know that babies liked to be rocked/cuddled? Big Al needs to tell her 'flying monkeys' that if you don't want to rock/cuddle your baby THERE IS A MACHINE FOR THAT!!! Good job Big Al!!
I am so freaking sick of her filters and her 'body positivity' bullsh@t! Her filters have been working overtime!! We all know this is not what Big Al really looks like. I have nothing about filters. Just lying about them!
Anything with Butterfly design just doesn't work on anything other than Summer. Maybe Spring with a push. Certainly doesn't make sense in Autumn/ fall,or Winter. She hasn't the last clue how to dress.
New sub here, im loving your videos :) she disgust me, the fact she wont even pick up her child and comfort him is just the worst thing ever. why did she even have this child seriously. I could be wrong but I think here in new zealand it was recalled for cot death so again why is she buying this stuff.
The Rocket money “commercial “ is the exact talking points other influencers use. The “cancels subscriptions” line is EXACT, to what I’ve heard Anne Elise 10 to life Use. None of what she said is true. I bet she saw this floating around and reached out to work with them.
@@JaxxNThBoxx you’re not granny age! I know I said 55 with the red rose thing but that was the first age to pop to mind. That butterfly jacket though? That’s totally granny at 75-80.
@CountryShadeTree no no no, my comment is not directed at you or anything you said. Girl! I'm saying, Al's style is sooo old for her age. At 52, I probably dress too young lol. No worries!
@@JaxxNThBoxx Me too Jaxx, my 20yr old daughter always says I slay when Im going out somewhere. lol. But in the house its just leggings and t shirts. lol
Notice how at 6:24 (here in your video) right where you paused it for commentary, she has delayed blink where her eyes are shut her eyes are shut a few seconds longer than a regular blink. I will die on this hill, but I have brought this up in the past. Every time that she is making a video where she is disingenuous either about an advertisement or about gaslighting her audience and lying about something, you will see it in her body language. This is just one of the ways that you will see it. She looks down, she looks away, she holds her eyes closed, or she subconsciously shakes her head. And yet she is trying so incredibly hard to appear genuine. It is by design that she included Anderson in this clip because she wanted it to be clickbait for people to watch the sponsored portion of the video and to be intrigued. None of this makes sense as I said on Priscilla's video (because , you know will support both of your reactions as much as I can 😊) -- this is just one more in the long line of disingenuous sponsorships for Alex. There is no way in hell that you can convince me that someone married to an accountant by trade who holds two Master degrees and has been working in the finance sector for several years now, needs a stupid app like Rocket Money help cancel subscriptions and managea budget. Give me a break!! I hope her stats on this sponsorship are trash, and they never work with her again given investment. If they do work with her again, it sure says a lot about them as a company, not that I would ever give them my money in the first place.
@Tracy-f4e True, although I do think he is way smarter than she is (even if it's more book smart or street smart. But it's infuriating that he can't/refuses to use his brain to put his food down and take control of that household; or better yet leave her demented ass, divorce her, prove in court how unfit she is and take his son far far away to maybe give him a better chance at life!
She doesn't want to pick her baby up when he cries at 7 weeks old! I can't believe that, why wouldn't she want to hold him and comfort him. And Yar obviously sees it as a nuisance now too, so sad.
I hear everything you are saying Tarah!! It infuriates me when she has him on the table or the counter. I have never been a mom, but I have looked after my nieces, and now great niece. Babies want affection and love, holding them is the best feeling in the world. I don’t understand the detachment Alex has, and I hate to say this but is it because she had a boy and not a girl? You should absolutely love a baby no matter what, but we all know she desperately wanted a girl, and maybe the reason she interacts with Anderson the way she does. She talked about having another child, and I think she needs to learn how to take care of Anderson first, before thinking about having another baby. I mentioned this on Priscilla video, I believe she thought motherhood would be some sort of fantasy. Not realizing she is responsible for him until the age of 18, even then motherhood doesn’t stop. I just cringe because people like her have a baby and don’t realize how lucky they are, and someone like me struggled for seventeen years to have a baby and couldn’t. ( I know I am not the only one) I have tears in my eyes just writing this. I tell myself I really don’t know how much longer I can watch her, even through reaction channels. It really is so upsetting to watch.
The only person who actually wants to hold & rock this child is Nancy. Maybe let her come be the live in nanny, cuz it's unfair for this little boy to be sleeping 90% of the time & never have human contact. Alex doesn't talk, sing, read to him, doesn't interact/engage with him, never cuddles or rocks/rubs/comforts him...she just goes on tik tok to search methods & electronic smart devices to do her job for her instead. I've never seen a more unfit mom so early on, the way she treats Anderson is vile & i hope her stans who are mother's take notice.
@@Tracy-f4e yar is gonna resent her for this. I don't think he was prepared to be the only hands on parent. It's not 50/50 at all & the fact that they're trying all these new methods to train their 7 week old to sleep longer is because Alex can't be bothered to do anything. For her to "crave motherhood" so badly, she sure doesn't show it & in fact she's failing worse at this than weight loss.
@@RebuildingMyself45 I totally agree with you. The pair of the are useless.. I know we all joke about him with his tech and her with her shopping etc... But, I truly now believe BOTH of them are only "Their kinda happy" when they are surrounded by Materilistic garbage! Smh.
@@nicpic1985 lol, I mean she's better than these two, but they desperately need a nanny around the clock if they don't wanna take care of him. Yar seems burnt out & he's over it now, Alex hasn't done anything from day 1 so...this baby deserves human comfort!! It's so sad 😔
Tarah.. I loved your reaction. I realize and appreciate that you have a life! You cannot always react to her videos. But when you do you are so 'spot on' and truthful and hilarious! Love your channel!
We all know what happens when a narcissist doesn’t get what they want. In her case a girl was all she wanted even questioned the test results of gender and took another test. She was in denial for a long time and I believe we are in shock at the way she acts as a mom wanting nothing to do with him and this machine to rock her baby because Yar is worn out is disgusting . She can’t re home him so she is finding ways to keep him quiet. I don’t know how much longer I can watch this mom wear a mom shirt, hat, for new identification that she doesn’t deserve. The way she said he is fed diapered swaddled burped, that’s basic needs a nanny does , a mom needs to hold and keep baby close to chest and rocky rock as she calls it . I am so grossed out by her.
I rocked my Nephew me and my sister took shifts with him I feel bad for Anderson because I enjoyed rocking my nephew we didn't have to do it all the time but she has no job and I work and I never complained
Been a long time since I've watched any reaction channels. I have the next two days off. But, yeah Alex doesn't want to talk about her weight anymore? Some people are speculating her doctor must have brought up her weight issues and possibility she's on shots to start her weight loss journey, again.
I love the cursing lol. I can only watch Alex through reaction channels. Alex is insufferable. Also, I never knew that denim jackets tend to have shorter sleeves!! I love learning new things from you! ♥
Thank you for speaking the truth. She might have had better clothing style around size 14-16 or when she was younger but she needs a professional stylist now
I don’t understand about this expensive bed for baby that needs to rock so Alex can sleep more what a wonderful mother that doesn’t want to get off her fat but to take care of son? This is simply ridiculous I wonder if this was her roommate idea since he loves gadgets? Mother & a father job to take care of their baby hands on ! What if the baby sick but you need more sleep? 😳😳😳 I had 3 babies never needing some stupid bassinet that rock I would hold & rock my baby myself but my babies were more important than my sleep I was selfless . Alex is selfish so she should get her priorities straight the baby needs to come first ! Thank you😘🥰🥰🥰
I just hope if she doesn't listen to the reactions and our advice, that maybe some of her subs could speak up for the sake of their Son. Its horrible. A tech friggin house, a tech marriage, and a tech life. Materilism at its best! 😢
@@Tracy-f4e It’s so odd this boy never touching Alex unless it’s her shoulder! Why wouldn’t Alex want to rock her own son in her favourite chair? Alex rather sleep then be with her baby boy or let a $600.00 bassinet will do the work for her since she doesn’t know how to deal with her son crying? Alex is so lazy all she wants is for him to sleep all day? I never see her interact with him unless it’s to give him a bottle !
It’s actually bad for your hair and scalp to put heartless curls in while your hair has any moisture in it. This can cause yeast and stuff to form on your scalp because it’s not meant to be wet for a long period of time, so they don’t make sense to me because you usually have to blow dry your hair still 😂 or let it air dry I guess! Alex should know this stuff, she did go to school for it 👀
Didn't all the advice about the doc a tot say babies should never sleep in them as they've been recalled because it's a risk?! Amd she said herself he would only be in it for supervised awake time? But she seems to be leaving him sleeping on it on the kitchen work top 😮
" barrel bull/ shit ". Tarah you are absolutely hilarious. Thing is,you don't know it. You just carry on regardless while im choking on my tea.🌻🌻🌻♥️♥️♥️😂😂😂
@@janefriel6895 yesterday husband said something about the USS Texas battleship being worked on and without pause or thinking I said “oh good because the way the world is going, we may need it.” He was left speechless. 😂
@@janefriel6895 Alex doesn’t like touching her baby like her roommate doesn’t want to touch Alex ? She rather have the bed rock the baby boy? Alex is such a lazy slob!🤡😳🤭😂😆😂😆 ❤️ya Jane hope your having wonderful day!😘🥰🥰❤️
I keep hearing people thin she's taking a wls shot ..idk... poor Anderson hes always laying and shes not cuddling him.. 😢 I'd be snuggling him as much as i could...
I think the Auntie Pam top suits her. She as per usual needs a better fitting bra. I probably would not have that pattern but otherwise it gave her a better shape.
@@CountryShadeTree they can work miracles, the amount she has spent on nonsense, she could have gotten fitted for some good bras. Nothing "sexy" like those Skims and Fenty stuff which were all ill fitting, but underwear which work properly under clothes.
I live in Scotland Tarah, where abouts were your parents? You and Mr Texas should come visit one day. As for A lie x.... You said it all.. She infuriates me beyond belief, and he is just an extra in her Vlogs.
@@Tracy-f4e they went all over. The were in Largs for a few days and then ended in Edinburgh for the last days. I know there was another town but can’t remember. I can’t wait to go with them. They usually go every year.
@@CountryShadeTree Oh right, Yeah largs is nice, and Edinburgh is our Capitol of course. Did they go to Glsgow maybe? I live about 4 miles from Glasgow City Centre. I love my country, must meet up if you near me when you travel x