Real Time with Bill Maher: New Rules - October 16, 2015 (HBO) 

This is why I don't hate him.

@@kgius7434 shut the fuck up already

He’s such a f**cking legend this dude, no wonder the democrat party wanted him to be their mouthpiece.

+megha sharma I have noticed that pattern, myself, but for some reason I never put it all together before seeing this.

+megha sharma Freud already covered this over 80 years ago!! Ever read?

+megha sharma Something must be wrong with you if you actually take this seriously.

It's certainly a problem were there's polygamy or serial monogamy like in US. In both such cases, women are attracted to rich and successful. In Muslim countries a rich Saudi can have dozen of wives, while there are fewer women left for poor peasants. In US, while it's technically a monogamy, many women will just divorce if their mate is poor and has little potential to make it. Than they'll just throw themselves into the arms of someone from top 1% or top 10% or at least top 50% (if she is not that marketable). Or into the arms of someone who has potential to make it to the top. Then men from top 1% dump women all the time to get better ones. Since with money comes options. And so maybe top 75% of women are recycled among top 50% of richer and more successful men. So bottom 50% of men are left to compete for bottom 25% of women. And bottom 10% of men hardly stand a chance. So the effect with serial monogamy is the same as with polygamy. And the more unequal a country is, the more pronounced is this effect. But even in Denmark the chances for a successful marriage for the bottom 10% of men are not good. However at least the difference between bottom 50% and top 1% is much smaller than in US, so bottom 50% in Denmark stand much better chance of finding a mate there than in US where top 0.1 owns 90% of wealth.

+Mammal Right on! Very well said. There is a very good book on the subject called "Men On Strike." I would recommend it, but you already have the idea.

+ryan neitzel Every single that black people (and women) go through in America is due solely to the sexual frustration of white people.

+Arch5tanton I won't, I'm not white.

+Arch5tanton Because I won't go on a shooting rampage, I should leave the country? Wow, you're bent.

+Arch5tanton Thing is I got brown nieces and nephews under the age of 7, and, ya know what? THEY'RE the majority in their age group....better get fuckin'........that's an even worse problem, than anything else....white people not fuckin' as much as they should. THAT's humanity's biggest problem. the ones left ain't fuckin', and they're tryin' to exterminate the rest of us......man. grow a dick. The world's problems would be solved, if white people just fucked more...

+Arch5tanton LOL, you're right. Then, sittown, shut up, and watch the sun set.

Romantic love and chivalry is borderline crazy. Women are almost always transactional in nature themselves and leave the doting and lunacy to the man to show their brightest feathers, or have to prove their salt to be worthy. The definition of love: an intense feeling of deep affection The definition of affection: a gentle feeling of fondness or liking. The definition of fondness: affection or liking for someone or something The definition of liking: a feeling of regard or fondness One vague definition used to describe another vague definition used to describe another vague definition used to describe another vague definition.

+Ernie Hudson I hear your point on teaching the appreciation of the asexual lifestyle (chosen or by circumstance), but we should also be teaching our brothers how to actually talk to girls and how to be comfortable around them. It's not like we're an endangered species competing to spread our DNA anymore. We can help each other out.

+MegaVolcano Yes, that can be also a strategy, but if somebody has a less pleasing physical appearance then he will have a harder time to get closer to women no matter of how much he is a smooth-talker. He will feel more rejected in comparison to his friends and that in itself builds up frustration.

Ernie Hudson Shit dude, you haven't met my friend, Shayne. When I met him he hadn't brushed his teeth in years, was a dirty looking headbanger, and that dude to this day can talk the panties off of any woman. I took my cues from him. Be clever, keep them laughing, keep them comfortable.

Everybody asexual? That's like saying abstinence is the best thing to do. Many guys aren't comfortable around women because they have always been taught to put women above themselves on pedestal, if you could show relationships on a regular perspective way another thing would be. There is also the whole puritanism thing on relationships which leads to more confusion and frustration. Teaching a healthy view on relationships helps a lot. Other countries don't have this problems.

+Enrique Godinez This problem is not unique to the United States. I am German and I lived as well for a long time in Britain and I have a lot of international friends. The problem with guys getting girls is not a specific cultural problem, but just biology. We are all programmed to look for attractive partners and women in general are even more picky than men, so if someone looks chubby or has not a symmetric face or is disfigured he will have the problem that his chances are reduced in every country on planet earth (except he is mega rich or there are arranged marriages) and that is a hurtful thing to learn! And if you are rejected by the one you fell in love with that is even more hurtful and no culture in the world will ever change that. And I do not mean people should live an asexual lifestyle, but the media should send out the message that you can be on your own and have a fulfilled life and there is nothing wrong with you and there is no clock clicking in the background. In almost every fucking movie the single person has to find a partner in order to be transformed into a happy human being. Bullshit!!!

+Shreshtha Mani Choudhary Fucking love this post

+Shreshtha Mani Choudhary done

+KingDT2007 well you were quick..i would wave a white flag ....but a tissue is more appropriate. Bravo!

A cat will do.

+Shreshtha Mani Choudhary Brilliant! And Hilarious!

"incels" don't deserve any pussy because they gave up. Not how nature works.

Charlie Dillon no one's saying they do. Explaining an issue isn't the same as proposing a solution

Nah, incel was around way before this

the term was coined since the 1990's

@@forman208 90s

+Virtuoso80 He didn't make fun of him for being ugly and awkward. He made fun of him because of what he wrote.

+roscoegino yeah, but he did look rather ugly and awkward in the photo...

To be fair, those are your words, not Bill's.

It is. It's like he's saying "this is a serious issue...a serious issue that these sorry ass pathetic losers suffer from. "

They killed people, does anyone care about them? It was about preventing this in the future.

david kayal but I want to slap bitches

It's unlikely to help, I suspect. Because needing to pay for sex still means that they'd feel like girls / women are still rejecting them...

Exactly! Have the police protect the brothels too

But thats to expansive for young poor men.

Legalized prostitution will help these guys minimally at best, and at worst give them a crutch to not attempt to improve themselves as human beings. They are in the grander scheme of things looking for connection and validation, not sex.

+ninearthify "How about instead of laughing in a guy's face when he asks you out, politely say no and walk away without making him feel like a creep ?" That doesn't sound like you're blaming them at all. Not even a little bit. By the way, there are millions of people who get rejected by someone every day and they handle it. Not every girl who turns these guys down is laughing in their face either, there are women who did politely refuse the shooter at one point who ended up being killed regardless. It's not the fact that they weren't polite to them, it's the fact that they were refused something they thought they deserved. That's the difference between people who actually become mass shooters and normal frustrated people--the former feels entitled to the perfect life and seeks vengeance they feel is justly deserved when they don't get it. Most people aren't like that, they're able to get over rejection or bullying without killing people.

+ninearthify Sounds like a fantasy world to jerk off to... :P

+ninearthify Do you really think women actually laughed in these guys' faces? Your premise vilifies women unfairly. I'd wager even if they were turned down politely these men would have still sprayed the room.

ninearthify dont forget pussy

When you label yourself as a conservative Republican and try to date another conservative Republican you never gonna get a date it's one assholes asking out another assholes Stop being asses and try being nice thoughtful caring nonjudgemental and just maybe one van get a date

+Boss Ignostic really good comment, It totally makes sense.

Shit son, I wasn't agreeing with that argument; I was pointing out where Bill probably got it. Slow down a bit yeah? You went off half cocked.

well said

Sometimes, yes lol

she's probably sleeping with the one that gets a majority of the action anyways, not the weirdo in the back

No because she inevitably chooses the "stud" anyway, reinforcing the tropes to the average looking kids that even their teacher is off limits to their fantasy.

@@nocheteipsum stop feeling sorry for yourself. Some women prefer nerds or men who aren't chads. I am an INTP, so 'chads' are a turn off - unless their IQ is over 130. Stop worrying about what *most* women want and focus on the type of women who like your type. Even if that is only 1% of females - do the math- there are millions of females on the planet. I had a hard time meeting men I liked in my rural area, but found some willing to drive hours to see me - I either found them online or met them in a metro area. Stop being *re*active and start being *pro*active. There are women out there who are lonely and would love your company - if you release your bitterness towards women- no body wants a sour friend.

@@genkiferal7178 Excellent point! I was trying to be facetious....must have come off cringy.

+Bob Cornholio I say why the hell not, what ever the way the powers have working don't seem to be right now so lets try a new thing for once. we may just be surprised

Fuck no. It's hard out here for a pimp! What? You want us to stop profiting off the work of the actual workers, abusing them and coercing them? Fuck you, mang!

+Zac Jay lowering sexual content is never going to happen in my lifetime. The more these maniacs are teased the more they'll snap.

+Bob Cornholio In live in Chile, here the prostitution is legal, don't exist pimps and the prostitute have a sindicate, really.

+Zac Jay the media needs to stop teasing or outlets (prostitution) need to be legalized. Humans are animals and when you tease an animal enough it will snap.

He probably wrote about gun oil too.

+Alex P he mostly writes about black dicks and feminists.

+Seyi 116 Who? Oh, you mean that kid that's an utter pseudo-intellectual hack and troll.

***** Found the right-wing serf and Freikorps member-in-waiting.

+AJ Beamish Wow it's like people can change their minds on things. Amazing.

There’s a massive difference between what you call and assault rifle and the type of weapons out military uses. Handguns are responsible for way more deaths yearly than your so called “assault rifles”

Poster child for Big Pharma.

Adam Lanza is the type of person who given that picture should not have access to even a pair of scissors; let alone a gun, knives, pruning shears, hedge clippers, etc.

Pimps have the same rights as prostitutes

Agreed 100%. I read, somewhere, when Australia 🇦🇺 legalized or at least decriminalized massage parlour "happy endings" there was a decrease in divorce etc

No, they would NOT be mass shooters, and that’s what makes these people talking about “gun” control so stupid. Like frustration only needs guns to express itself

+Dakota Andrus if only such a thing wernt illegal and had a horrible social stigma pretty much everywhere.

+Dakota Andrus Paying for it ain't the same. The only win is when she wants it too.

tfcooks Then why do rapist exist? I'm pretty sure they know their victims aren't going to be too excited about it.

Yukikazehalo Sould it be illegal and should there be a social stigma associated with it? Both parties consent and get what they want so I don't see a problem

Physical satisfaction and emotional satisfaction aren't the same thing. Rape is a act of violence "doing something to someone." Good sex is" doing something with someone. "

+J R Yeah its definitely lack of connection. I was in the same big boat as all of those kids but I still had close friends from High School who were in my corner no matter how much sex I had and they didn't judge me at all. None of those kids had any friends at all, leaving shit they read and watch on the internet as their ONLY guiding force since their parents were so attentive. It would get to anyone. I feel like the fact that you can choose to be a basement dweller and not directly get penalized for it is also a contributing factor. The fact that nearly half of men over 25 are jobless and live with their parents scares the shit out of me cuz it means they are getting polluted by reading shit on the internet all day. I mean shit I was running a 10 month dry spell until yesterday and I didn't hurt a soul. Why? Cuz I got other shit to worry about. I have school, a job, hobbies that I take seriously, etc. I don't have the time to hurt people cuz I got shit to do. We should have like a "reverse curfew" where people are forced out of their homes for certain times of the day lol.

you are onto something here with your post. The social skills thing is true but it goes much deeper than that. at least 4 out of those shooters, possibly all 5 were on the autism spectrum. ( a pattern maher failed to notice)They had a subtle frustrating invisible mental impairment that prevented them or made it much more difficult to do just that . socializing . You are right on your points, but someone on the spectrum doesn't understand social cues or cant talk the subtle "language of socializing" . A girl may throw signs of interest verbal or non verbal, they may not understand. They needed to have been thought social skills other people learn without anyone teaching them.

Right on!

its both, sexual release and an intimate connection with someone

J R you're absolutely right. Fucking is a bandaid and solves nothing

why was it horrible?

I've said it before and I'll say it again. How the fuck do you miss that?

+RebelThoughts82 The only reason we exist.

"everything is about sex and sex is about everything else" -House of Cards

+Yukikazehalo I thought sex was about power?

+Yukikazehalo Ya, that's not the line. He says everything is about sex, except sex, sex is about power.

+RebelThoughts82 Yes, the bottom line on most human behavior comes down to the fundamentals. Sex, power, survival...the core issues that make us who we are.

@ronnie van den heuvel If you take out gang violence, there are not that many gun homicides in America, especially considering we privately own about 400 Million guns.

well said!

Lmao, there was absolutely nothing "manly" about Elliot Rodger. Dude was the world's whiniest, entitled piece of shit

Dude couldn't even get laid driving a BMW. lol. All joking aside, nothing about killing innocent people, walking down the street, with handguns, on a college campus, resembles the faintest bit of manliness. This is someone that had severe mental problems that would've eventually taken out his anger on anyone, or anything, depending on his latest collection of insecurities.

@@Chrisicola he was actually quite good looking and came from a well of family. It was definitely a mental health issue that caused his inability to make friends or be in a relationship. He was also apparently autistic

​@@ivanvoronov3871Who knows exactly. I think it was a combination of inability, and/or desire, as far as associating with others. Maybe he had an unnerving presence around others, or said weird s--t, or was an a-hole and didn't realize it (probably it). He was an average looking dude with a BMW in college-I mean if you cant get a date in that situation then there's serious problems. Most other guys at college have no money and eat ramen noodles 5 days a week. His problems were purely internal and he blamed and punished (killed) others in cold blood for his own demons. I mean that guy was like 20, right? Who's that pissed off at the world when they're 20 years old and driving a Beamer around the UCSB campus? Geez, if he thought life stunk then, what would he be like at 50?

+Enrique Godinez Ehh, I'd argue that the real issue is toxic masculinity. The idea that one needs to be a "real man", to be "tough", and "macho" is deeply corrosive and psychologically poisonous. Stigmatizing a man for showing any perceived sign of weakness encourages men who feel hurt to hide their pain by lashing out violently in tragedies like these, and it's high-time we acknowledge that fact and take action to correct it by reducing the stigma associated with expressing sadness or pain, and to do that we need to STOP telling boys to "man up" and STOP saying to "grow a thicker skin", and take a long, deep look in a MIRROR and admit that all this toughness is killing us from inside, and eating away at us like a malignant tumor until all that remains is a tough, but hollow, empty shell.

+Steve Chisnall Trouble is, women uphold Toxic Masculinity more than any man. Just read through ONE woman's magazine. Nearly all of them express intense dislike for men who have not "made it," who are sexually inexperienced, and who are socially awkward. When the vast majority of women stop demanding that any man who tries to ask them out be perfect in every aspect of life, then there might be a change.

Joelsuf Exactly you got it. Women always looking for the "attractive athletic perfect guy" and if you are outside the category for most of them they look down on you.

Enrique Godinez I wouldn't say looked down on, just not dateable. It IS kinda on guys to accept that and look for chicks who are on their level of attractiveness. Any guy who has made the decision to not be at their best aesthetically and socially and still bitches about attractive women not dating him is delusional. And even still, dating is completely random and a lot of boys more and more have a big problem understanding that. That to me is the scary part. That's how it is with me. I date average to below average chicks (from cold approaching/online dating) because I'm not physically attractive enough to get better looking chick, at least outside of a social circle. This is why it is SO important to have a good network of friends even if they are not close. You can meet chicks who are more attractive this way. Some of healthiest and successful couples I know are completely mismatched when it comes to appearance but just because they met at a bowling league or something they were able to get together. It's kinda on women to at least be honest with the boys they are shooting down and to not judge them by how socially intelligent they are or how good they are at sex. But its kinda on men to realize that don't just deserve chicks for existing and to get some friends (and no this doesn't count people you interact with online). Both sexes have a lot to work on.

+Joelsuf "When the vast majority of women stop demanding that any man who tries to ask them out be perfect in every aspect of life, then there might be a change" Pardon me for asking, but isn't the whole problem the fact that these shooters seem to be demanding that they deserve a woman who is perfect in every aspect of life. You said yourself that people need to accept their own looks/personality and go for someone who is on their same level, so shouldn't that apply to women as well? Evolutionarily-speaking, women have always been the one who needs to be selective in choosing their mate, because they're the ones who carry the baby so their biological role has been deciding which mate has the best-fitting genes to create the strongest offspring. That's why women are turned on during ovulation and men are turned-on mostly all the time, if women were turned on all the time everyone would be fucking but it would be against the biological imperative to reproduce, if men were only turned on once a month nobody would ever fuck, this set-up is the best for a species to continue procreating. So women are naturally more picky than men, but it's because sex for us can result in a baby so we want to make sure whoever we're sexing will have strong genes to pass down. Apparently when a person smells good it means their immune system is opposite of yours, which results in stronger immune systems in potential offspring. Whereas men aren't as picky because for them the biological imperative is to spread their seed, they can't have their own babies so the chances of passing down your genes comes down to sexing as many ladies as possible to make their chances of reproduction greater. That's where the whole "women are picky/men will fuck anything" stereotypes come from at least.

WELL SAID! SPOT ON!

legalize prostitution

ArgoX2007 Bring back family values.

Great thought on this

They're definitely repressed, but my guess is it's for the opposite reason: my guess is that they're feminists.

If anything, I'd guess they'd be MORE likely to like this video. It's probably Evangelicals who cringe when anything remotely tangential to human sexuality is brought up....

+Yukikazehalo It doesn't have to be "resolved", it simply has to be reduced to the point where young men don't go into schools and shoot people.

+Yukikazehalo Nonsense. You're talking about the familiar 80/20 rule where roughly 80% of effects come from only 20% of the causes.How do you figure this applies to female partner choices?

+PrometheaRising I think he's saying that 80% of women are only attracted to the top 20% of men. You could say that the vice-versa is also true, but in the end, the woman is the one who makes the choice, not the men.

+AgeOfSuperboredom "I think he's saying that 80% of women are only attracted to the top 20% of men. You could say that the vice-versa is also true" You could say a lot of bullshit that isn't true.

Alternamaton​ What's not true about it? It's pretty obvious that only a minority of men receive exceptionally positive attention and desire from women, but eventually everyone settles for what they can get, which is usually not what they want the most.

Genghis Khan wasn't mad at the world. He wanted to conquer it, probably because doing so would ensure that the flow of women would last forever.

Gregthegamer he is a different kind of murderer than these lone crazies though. and when you think about it I'm not sure Genghis could ever attract a consenting woman based on his own glimmering personality

If my college experience is any indication, they do put out... a lot. Just not to these types that end up on shooting sprees.

the problem is that autistic people like me or the shooters need special teaching on how to talk and interact to learn what a normal person does not need teaching on. how easy was in your college? what college was it by the way?

They do put out easily. Just be cultured, intelligent, and get some game.

Nah, y'all just need to git gud and improve yourselves. No Chad started as Chad, they all started as Virgins.

+Peter Smythe It makes for good talk show; but it is very naive and limited.

+Peter Smythe You mean Charles Manson. He is not the first person to suggest this, it has been well documented, lots of books written on the subject. People just don't want to admit it. But it is true. What do you think happens to young men who grew up sheltered playing video games with poor social skills, from unsupportive families when the time comes to meet girls-non of which is there fault, you can't fault a child, but now they blame society who they think is responsible. It is not magic, use common sense. Many will suffer through it, other will go to drugs and drinks, few will join the army "Generation Kill", and few will commit atrocities. If you takeaway the guns, the crazy ones will find something else.

+ponder2006 Well Marilyn Manson, Slipknot, Metallica, Eminem, others; have all been blamed for "causing" incidents of school violence. To me that is just such a cop out explanation, and so is; "because they didn't have sex".

The fact that they are not having sex is the result. Most of these guys are antisocial, They have hard time making normal friends, having a regular conversation with people. As they grow to adulthood most of that anxiety and frustration is focused in to having a gf which they can't, they haven't developed the skill to have even a guy friend, all those people you mentioned didn't have a normal childhood, but they found an outlet in Music. Listen to Eminem's lyrics you understand his anger and pain, music saved him. Even if these guys paid for sex, they may still end up angry and frustrated even worse because, now they realize even sex can't remove the anger, social anxiety they feel inside. Bill nailed it, in that he underlines the boiling point which is Sex. The root cause that made them not have a friend to talk to is the real problem.

I live here too