Traditional match making has not failed. The truth is those born after 1990 have already made up their mind that arranged marriage would be a disaster. This could be because of their parents' boring relationship or some other trauma. However, the truth is, today's generation has made up their mind about Traditional matchmaking without even trying that Traditional approach. One change that has to come in arranged marriage is the increase in courtship period to atleast 2 years. The courtship can happen under parental supervision. That is one change that has to come in the arranged marriage. Nobody can decide about another person in just 1 or 2 meetings. I still feel arranged marriages still work if you are open to it and recent statistics have shown that love marriages are ending up in divorce a lot more than arranged marriages.
No hook ups, no drugs, no smoking, no drinking. Still, I haven't achieved anything in life. 😂😂. Kam se kam yeh sab experience karne walo k pass blame karne k liye koi to hota hai.
For men, dating is like dying of thirst in the desert. Not a drop of water in sight. For women, it’s like dying of thirst in the ocean. Water is everywhere, but it’s mostly toxic and full of salt.”
None of these apps can ever replace organic connections and conversations. No wonder people are experiencing mental and emotional fatigue. Humans are designed for social connections, meeting people on ground & networking and not for staring at a screen and swiping.
Still, the desi crowd is a huge letdown. There is no organic connection to begin with. Attraction is either there or not, nothing organic about it however you come across the person.
Hi Sangeeta, You've beautifully put this across ♡ Apps are killing the feeling. Love and romance is such a beautiful, heavy topic but people just don't want to experience it.
Options are killing us. Not just in dating, if a human has multiple options in any area of life, they will always keep expecting for better without deciding on one. It's a sad reality.
General rule for happiness in relationships - Stay away from people who use these apps. Mindset of people using these apps is only hawas, no commitment. Jai Shri Ram 🙌🏻
My main concern is how to survive all of these financial and political crisis, especially in light of the US political power scuffle. The government has really called things more difficult for its citizens, and we can't sit back and bear all the consequences of the bad governance.
I'm glad you made this video, I can recall when I was homeless and faced with many things in Life until $75,000 biweekly began rolling in and my Life went from A homeless nobody to a different person with good things to offer!!!!!!❤️
Raj Shamani, day after day your content is becoming more n more intellectual and great.The best part of your podcast is you always focus on the topic..content N while doing it u never consider the person has to be a celebrity..as long as he/she is bringing value to the discussion, that person is part of your podcast. Great work buddy 👏👏👏
@@MrBlackjack456 that depends on how individually you perceive things in general. For people at large including me, this podcast highlights issues of today’s dating apps which till date no one has talked abt in public domain. Kudos to you again Raj Shamani 👍🏻
I disagree. There are more opinions than facts which are over generalised than what actually is on this podcast. Nothing to learn here compared to one’s own experiences, observation and perception.
These podcasts are nothing but someone’s point of view on any given subject…considering these as reference points of reality is a mistake people should avoid. I mean what is “Genuine hook up”?
It's not app or people problem It's bigger than that When your mind is trained from everywhere to get sexually driven for everything then that is the result you get....whatever you bring it, will lead you to that.. or you have high regulations from starting
No one wants long term in dating apps. Like guys putting long term or claiming that they are looking for long term and then going on a date then they say they are looking for casual ?! I mean all guys i have talked to or met wanted casual
I don't really understand how he is creating content about the events that I'm encountering in my life. First fitness, then cheating culture, then this matrimony thing.
Women have plenty of men but end up not liking anyone and men have limited options and end up not getting liked. So eventually both are lonely. What an interesting time we are living in!
I have interviewed with the founder Varun. He is really passionate and optimistic. Hope he makes big in the buisness. And solves problems of modern dating.
was really looking forward to Juleo's launch - we thought another service provider like ours but disappointed listening to the discussion....come on dating service providers - lets build a service that has sanity.
It’s disastrous parenting that’s producing evil spirits. Parental control on their sons is negligible & they turn a blind eye to male addictions like gambling, smoking, drugs, porrn, alcohol, fast cars, nonstop gaming, mobile addiction, watching crime series, violent abusive fights, ragging, bullying, aggression Tv shows Bigg Boss, anxiety, depression, domestic violence . This indiscipline, lack of character building, creates monsters who are let loose on women; these parent made predators are a grave danger to females. red flags he mentioned are very superficial, as females run away from men who have bad habits
Spot on👌 This is the main reason And I have actually seen when parents raise a guy properly they develop empathy for other people too Just like women It's not like only women are capable of developing empathy and kindness 😒
Spot on👌 This is the main reason And I have actually seen when parents raise a guy properly they develop empathy for other people too Just like women It's not like only women are capable of developing empathy and kindness 😒
In the starting of 10 mins 3 times you have started speaking in the mid of the guest let him complete i hope you don't do it in your next podcast you are fabulous and we love your content and its our duty to tell you where uh have done the mistake lots of love from bihar
Lagta hai Raj Shamani bhai ki sardi kabhi sudharti hi nahi.. 😁😁 Whenever I hear his podcast in the background with my headphones I always hear him snorting all the time 🤧😀😄, like just before this podcast I saw his previous podcast of wow momo. In that podcast also I heard him snorting a lot while talking 😄 Get well soon bhai ✌🏻
I met a guy that's for arrange marriage. But he told he want to discuss about sexul compatability. Even I was open I started speaking openly about my view. But turned out he need only sexaul talks from me. I don't understand at all about men.
Many girls start seeking serious relationships at a young age because they may have had experiences with hookups and casual relationships with successful men early on. This often happens while many guys at the same age are struggling financially and with their appearance. After experiencing empty and meaningless casual encounters, girls may yearn for a more meaningful and committed relationship. Meanwhile, guys at that age may be focusing on improving their financial stability and appearance, and may want to explore and have fun before committing to a serious relationship. This is why it's often said that women peak in their early twenties, while men tend to peak in their late twenties or early thirties.
I m 26 year old nd single ...its not like i achieved something very great in life but i know my friends who went into relationships had countless heartbreaks , low self esteem, a round of therapy sessions...they all r more mature than me but it came at a very heavy price.
I think now only way to find someone is via. Comments section... where you agree to someone's pov or find it absolutely your type. There you can try and initiate things. 🤣🤣 since i have tried matrimony sites which legit turned into hookup oriented profiles. And i can't just get serious with men on dating apps who are out there for just FUN. 🤷♀️
Juleo sounds interesting and if they can build a descent size community, rest everything will fall in place for building a sustainable business as market size is massive, worldwide!
I prefer what Raj says than the speaker! Bazaar is meant for dating apps - than even private matchmaking is the same - Something like "An Expensive Bazaar with a tour guide"
Bro this is super informative, one of my friend having account on jeevanaathi and connected to girl followed by insta they talked and girl is ready for one night stand 😅 wtf is happening to our society
I agree. Guys, don't take rejection very well. A guy called me a judgy b*tch when I told him I don't see it going anywhere after 2 days of chatting. Another guy told me I'm rejecting him cause I have self-worth issues after a week of chatting. I'm scared to be on dating apps now. 😅😂
Any body at the age 18 😂 single and keep expectations in your mind that if i choose a better pattern or gf we grow together and support each other for our success
Girls have alot of options either offline or online 1 girl can easily data 3 guys at time and thats reality that is why guy is always cry in breakup not because she left him cuz he invest alot in her
Everyone says they have a secure app with govt ID verification etc. but once the revenue starts coming in no one removes people from the app. It’s all non sense.
Nothing can replace old school love no matter what.......How can anyone choose the most imp thing i.e soulmate through any fellow app?? How can someone get attached to a stranger whom he/she has never met before?? Dating apps can never help you in searching for a husband or wife whom u never met in real in person before......Dating apps are just making u characterless n destroying today's generation.....People should understand this harsh reality🙏🙏
Dude Raj , you have invited a expert to seek knowledge in their field of study not to listen to your buk buk . Stop speaking let the guest talk . Stop putting your opinion in everything.
Exactly! Please don’t turn into Ranveer. That you call up people and show them how intelligent and well informed you are. Many a times your guest just nodded and did not have anything to add. Also felt guest was bit overwhelmed that you are throwing stats after stats instead of listening to him. May be because of that did not find any insightful information from the guest. Or was it just a surrogate promotional video of the app than actually discussing the solutions to the dating problems. We as a country are hopelessly romantic!!! Do you really think we know what is romance, we are just manipulated by sh*t bollywood, who are disguising people for decades. We need to start talking about what is a real relationship (mostly what you talked is about attraction). I live in Europe for 13 years, Indian men are seen cheap in western countries. Our men’s all idea about romance are from bollywood which is all crap. We need to make boys into the men by making them work on themselves (it’s basically developing your own character organically), not by just building muscles. Educating them how to become an attractive guy, nit just by building muscles and dressing well. There are lot of relationship coaches or podcasts online that Indian men need to watch.m, like Mark Manson, Lewis hows etc. I don’t really think there was any real value from this podcast!
As per the research or theory....Raj has to mentioned the details of researchers/papers with endorsement once he put it in percentage statistics to the podcast...Numbers are illusive
Yes he saying correct u can't trust male or female which u connect in matrimony sites because u know u simultaneously search other best matches also its a like a Bazaar...
arrange marriage on one side and dating cannot go hand in hand ... 😂😂😂😂 need to understand lust ,marriage of convenience. Nothing is going to fix you whether it is marriage or bumble or college love. Prenup should be introduced in India.
Everybody wants to fall in love, but nobody is willing to put the effort to go out and meet someone. We been trying to solve for the same problem at Couple Squad: Our biggest question to the focus group was who is the Primary decision maker in your marriage? Our insight: In both cases you are wrong, it should be a guided journey where you lead the journey and your parents should help you in navigating the rough waters, being someone who came from the background of arranged marriage they will really understand what you’re saying. Indians need Datrimony From Date to Marriages
Mai ek old school person hun but as you know this gen Z jamana mujhe mostly casual dating, casual sex, situationship, short term relationship commitment issue yehi puchte hain ladke.. That's make me so sad ki old school love is daying now...mere jaise logo ye sab dekhna padta hain😒
Raj bhai you cut the guy when he was telling the ways to avoid traps where law, police etc are all together . You should have come back to that point & let HIM complete that section 😢
