This is one of my favorite shows, and it's only getting better with time. The topics, better communication, everyone can speak without interruptions, the honesty, mental checks, acknowledging each other accomplishments and success. Go head y'all. Black people's Power and inspiring the rest of us.
I’m literally crying as Jess said that she feel like she’s not enough for Ash. I feel the same and I’m not even a celeb I’m just a boy mom working and full time student. I’ve sacrificed and committed just for the better for him. Everything every move is for my son and it’s not enough to me.
Same here and it does work on the mental sometimes because when you can't do something for your child, as a single parent but meanwhile your child tells you they are happy and not to worry about it. I just want to give my child everything that I didn't have- it's a lot sometimes because I do tend to forget about myself but in the end I know I am doing the right thing.
This episode was EVERYTHING! I’m super Proud of Rome and Jess for being open and Vulnerable the way they were. It was refreshing and very relatable as a single dad myself. I celebrate both of y’all for the Transparency and Humbleness💪🏿💪🏿
At this point I'm pegged to believe that prince couldn't wait for that bell bottoms comment to pull out all his flawless bottoms cause he has been stepping in his 70s bag since no lie! 🤣😭🤣😭😂 I'm so here for it I love it!!!
I love how London point out how everyone thinks she's always strong, but she goes through shit mentally and inside. This is absolutely me, but we will get pass it. And Rome keep your head up things will work out.
I think people use “single parent” as a way to describe that their not with their child’s father and/or not in a relationship, but has a child. Being a “single woman” can mean that you’re not in a relationship. Being a single parent doesn’t mean the other parent is not present it means “the parents aren’t together” so they are single.
Omg, this was the best episode hand's down, I shed some tears for Jess and Rome. All I can say is Rome was in tuned and he's still my favorite cast. I praying for you all...
Rome and Jess! Much respect to y’all. I come from a divorced household and that ain’t easy on kids. Jess, in time Ash gonna see the big picture (TRUST ME). I’m a Momma’s Boy and I experienced a lot growing up. Rome! Big shout out to you for how you are as father. Watch God do it BIG for you in this season of your life. Keep trusting him and let God be God in your life. One love to all y’all!
I feel you Rome, I’ve been a social work for too long, we get paid 💩 and I got burned out helping people, they take advantage and think you’re suppose to solve all their issues, that’s why I have a desk job doing admin work and I love it, hope all works out with that ridiculous case.
I loved this episode the most; I was s emotional. Please never stop speaking of facts and daily struggles, a lot of people fight silent battles and have no one to turn to for help. the fear of being judged and broken along the way stops a lot of communication. i pray for anyone going through it; you're not alone and better days are coming..
I am usually the person who check on everybody but at this moment in my life. I have to focus on myself and get through all the things I am going through.
Same here. I don't even greet people asking "how you doin" anymore because I don't have the energy to deal with what ever may come after that. I need my energy for me right now.
Ok. Viewing this while i am at #work. Smh, I haven't broke down like this since the year 1999.🙏🏾I couldn't hold it together. Conversation couldn't be any more #real than what it is. Talk shows can't match or even come close to the positive vibes here. Thanks to the whole panel for such a moving emotional topic. This topic stands out but such a great topic. #Congratulations to #everyone in regard of y'all #accomplishments. Prayers out to the #panel & #everyone for strength.🙏🏾Y'all be safe.
I’m not even a parent but that part had me up in tearsssss !!!! The relationship between Jess and Rome is something so special and I hope nothing ever come between that.
Definitely can agree with Lon. The strong friend who is there for EVERYONE. No one ever believes I’m going through anything when I be ready to call it quits but I dare not say anything, but God is my way out! Carrying everyone’s burdens when I’m mentally battling my own stuff but I’ll be good in Gods name. Never wear what you going through on your sleeve.
I love this episode. Rome you got deep and I can honestly relate to how he feel. My mom died and I felt like I couldn't save her. Be strong king. I'm praying for your strength Rome.
This is my favorite episode very uncut. Jess and London it’s ok to be vulnerable sometimes. Priince and Rome preached that thing today. Excellent job everyone!!!! 😉🙃😃
I can totally relate as a single parent. We do the best we can. I broke down a little today 😪 frustrated that I'm trying to be a better parent everyday‼️
Whew this episode was heavy. Great conversation! Rome came thru with a word!! Matter of fact all of y'all dropped gems! Jess crying just took me out. Ugh this episode was great.
i totally felt Rome in this episode, and he put his heart out there!!! All of you did and this was so heartfelt and raw to the core!!! This level of honestly was highly appreciated. Jess your lifestyle and balancing home is not easy but i commend you all for doing the best you can with what you have. Love and prayers for all of you!!!
Come on Prince with the bell bottoms 😂😍 we love it! on the other hand, this episode is heavyyyyy 😮💨 Praying for you as well Rome, you are going to be good! You’re livelihood and your family as well 🙏🏾❤️
Prince had me in tears with his statement about mother's and their role in their son's lives and the need for a mother's nurturing that can't come from other relatives. Boy oh boy! I'm over here thinking about my childhood and crying. Thinking about my 2 boys and crying. This episode was truly amazing and what I needed to hear today. The four of you do such a great job!
Thank you for reminding folks that kids are their own people too. We get some things from our parents but I’m also me just from me. My mom tends to take credit for every good thing I accomplish and it can be diminishing to a child and in adulthood. God bless us all 💕
Rome real talk...they be trying to come for you a lot. But you be talking real. I appreciate all you guys in your own way. Thanks for having the vulnerable talks so we as people understand and see that we all go through things
These are several conversations that needed to be spoken on because mental health is really wealth in every way. Big shoutout to the crew for being vulnerable, raw and authentic. I fucking love this podcast 💐💐❤️🙏🏾
Girl yall got me in tears Rome u saying everything thats needed to be said i live this everyday Jess girl strong u will find a balance i was crying 4 u frfr i feel that im going through that say ish love yall💕🙌🙌🙌🙌💖💖😇
I want to go deeper into parenting. I would love to adopt a child and I want to make sure I’m not bringing a child in my home just to let them down. Topic: parenting Getting ready: where you ready to become a parent Mommy and daddy guilt: do you feel guilty when you can’t afford something, can’t attend something, or use gift to buy your child’s love (over compensate) When they are young they step on your toes, but when they get older they step on your heart: what’s the worse thing your child ever said to you? If you do the crime you do the time: how do you punish your child Biological vs legal: do children/parents have closer connections with their biological parents or can they have that same connection (or more) with stepparents/adoptive parents Such a failure: did you ever feel like a failure when it came to parenting and why? Brighter day: name a positive situation that confirmed you’re a good parent
This was the realist episode!!!! I cried so bad because I can understand Rome and Jess situation with their son so much! It’s rewarding being a parent but it’s so challenging as well… I understood this message so deeply.
Ohh this was such a great and relatable episode. I can relate to London and rome 💯 People always think I am good because outwardly I look fine, happy & always helping others but mentally I’m drained. I don’t fault the people around me because I am really just a very private person so they only know what I allow them to which is mostly only the good things.
Rome Rome Rome !!! I'm a gymnastics instructor for kids and let me tell you I felt everything u said about this allegation!!! Love love love this episode!
London : Thx for the transparency u displayed on this episode. Throughout my life I’ve experienced severe anxiety and depression so I have learned ways to cope with this mental health conditions. Learn to live in the present! The past is gone. The future might not ever come. The present is a gift…open it.
Man I'm crying 😢.. Just to know others feel the same way I do about being a parent ... stuff is ruff right now dealing with my health but I thank God for my kids . Praying for everyone 🙏🏽 ❤️
THIS EPISODE WAS EVERYTHING! The way Rome spoke and the Jess responded had my entire attention. I am struggling with my son who is about the same age as Rome and Jess’s son so this episode spoke volumes to me.
I really appreciate yall for this one . The topics keep getting better and better . But this one came perfect timing ..omg so many valid points and revelations each week! Our generation the 90s babies need these conversations fr..I could say so much but ..going to continue watching 👀 can't wait til next week . ! Love ❤ 😍
Tearing up as well; one of the best thus far.....i love when they silly and acting a fool and I absolutely love them being transparent and real. I hope Jess and Rome can be together, I believe at this point in the juncture; they can be genuinely happy together.
I loved this discussion and appreciate the transparency. I can definitely relate! I am a single/solo mother and I own a business. Before I got my business up and running, I was new in my career, working 3 jobs to get ahead so that I could get in the position to work less hours and have the same schedule s my baby girl. To keep from having to put her with nanny's she had a long school day. I'd hustle 2 jobs during the week until 6pm so she only had to be with her school peers and teachers that she knew. On Saturdays I was able to work very early and have sitter watch her. By the time I made it home she didn't miss many hours with me. That grind is something else. Now I am blessed with a successful business and to work less Hours and have the same schedule as her. Building a legacy for her and now my new born and being present has been a journey and difficult, but I made sure I attended school events and take interest in what she loves and spends quality time with her. Kids are their own individuals and they will not always understand, we can only pray that they "get it" as they mature.
This was probably one of my favorite episodes by far definitely was crying😢. I love how Rome opened up this episode and caused everyone else to follow. Mental health is real and not talked about enough. I'm glad that Jess is using her platform to make the community aware! God definitely knew what he was doing when he blessed you Jess 🙏🏼. You definitely wear many hats. I love ❤️ all of yous!
This episode right hereeee!!!!! I'm going through this right now! I've been crying for 20 minutes. The kids at my job are looking at me like I'm crazy. Lol. Yall continue to be Blessed! Sending you all LOVE & Light!
I really enjoyed this episode it really touched on so many topics that hit home for me. I’m that friend that’s always reaching out to ppl checking on their mental wether it’s a text, a inspirational quote in the text, a phone call which ppl rarely do nowadays since internet exists most don’t know how to pick up the phone anymore. However, no one reciprocates & checks on me and honestly to be real I’m starting to just match ppl energies. Also I shed a few tears right w/Jess as she was saying she felt as if she wasn’t enough for her son. I am a boy mom as well w/two sons and I sometimes worked two jobs and wouldn’t see my sons until 11p.m once I got off of work and they used to act out as well because of me working all the time. I had to sit them down and really break it down to them by explaining why mommy works like that to be able to provide shelter, food, clothes, music lessons, bills, etc. I also took them everywhere when I had time off. Amusement parks, trips, vacations and all but to kids when they are young they never understand until they become of age and then they realize why their parent had to work as much. Sometimes it doesn’t kick in to them until they are grown w/kids of their own. Overall I loved this episode soooo very much . Sending ♥️ 💜 ❤️ 💜 to Jess, London, Rome & Prince !!! You all are my close friends in my head. And Rome you are going to be alright w/your job so try not to stress just 🙏 about it & leave it to the most high…
this episode brought me to tears and then smiles after I love you all. Thanks for being transparent bc sometimes as single mothers we feel alone or like we should be doing more , and we blame ourselves for everything. Even hearing prince childhood story in relation to ash really helped me understand why my son acts the way he acts. He really wants my attention and will Do anything for it. It made me realize that I need to be more present , bc sometimes just being there isn’t really being there. Thanks everyone 🙌🏾
Every time I think the last one was my favorite episode here comes another one!! Love Love Loved this episode. Y’all had me crying. But I appreciated the vulnerability you all displayed! Keep them coming y’all ❤️❤️❤️
This episode made me break down. I’ve already been struggling all week with how I don’t think I’ve been a good parent to my daughters but we grow and we learn. Love this so much thank y’all
This is such a great episode. The topics were so relatable. I so look forward to Wednesday’s. May you’ll continue to uplift each other and share with us.
Love the show. This was my favorite episode yet. The vulnerability was heartfelt. Keep y’all head up, keep checking in with your supports. Thank y’all for sharing your lives with us.
I just discovered Jess podcast. I love it! Wow...Much needed conversation. So proud of her and Rome for co-parenting successfully. Reminds me of my ex and myself who work as a team co-parenting. We tag team our sons! This is a beautiful blessing! I felt that "it's a different feeling of both parents not being in separate households" However, we strive to keep the same structure in both households. I applaud Rome!!!
Jess praying you settle this in your heart. The best moms always feel guilty someone told me. They were right I am there with my 14 yr teen every day and I still feel guilty. She ignores the heck out of me and I am screaming for her attention! So it’s all good 🙏🏾❤️He is blessed to have you both.
Giiiirrrl let me just say I was crying with you for real had me I’m tears I’m at work trying not to mess up my make up 🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭 this episode hit home for sure y’all are so awesome I’m glad I took the time to see this cause checking on your strong friend low friend family whoever it counts it matter Jess I’ll say it all the time you are truely a Golden Young Woman ✨ God gonna keep on keeping on hunny your awesome and your family as well yall stay tight no matter what
Rome☹️ I’m so sorry you’re going through this. None of us believe you cause harm to that child. CPS is looking for someone to blame because the other staff did not do anything when the child was first harm.
this was a very good episode i didn’t know y’all would’ve had me in tears like this. but i love the conversation and the vulnerability in this episode can’t wait til next week
Y’all had me crying 😭, this was such a emotional Episode today. I wish each Episode could be 1 1/2 hours long. Peace & Blessings y’all. (Texas y’all)😊🙏🏽
Thanks for sharing Rome!! I use to fill so guilty my dad had the heart attack. I felt if I was there it wouldn’t have happened and he wouldn’t have died!!
Loved this episode so much! Everything is going to go well Rome I’m praying for you 🙏🏾 Jess and London yall spot on parenting doesn’t come with a manual. We do what we can and we do what we feel is best for our children ❤️❤️
Y’all get better and better every episode. Thanks for airing this. I’m a new mom and its good to learn these lessons now. Cause I already feel like I’m not enough but I am. I have to remember that. Thanks y’all
Noooooooo this had me in tears and laugh. Wow now that was an amazing episode! Rome prayers to you my fellow social worker crazy thing is I also work with group home populations and I see how much power these trauma clients have over us workers. So prayers up to you and this case. God knows your heart! Jesssss as a fellow Aquarius! I felt this. It's so hard being the strong one. As Aquarius that energy is real !
This was a heartfelt conversation. I thoroughly enjoyed this and I loved the fact that Prince's story allowed a middle ground between Jessica's and Rome's point of view of parenting
I got this shit in rotation every week like it’s P-Valley lol 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 PLEASE keep these going! I needed this one so much, my favorite episode by far!! Y’all are mfn🔥🔥🔥🥹🥹🥹
This was a very good episode. I appreciate the vulnerability . I could relate to the topics . Thank you all you never know how the conversations you have might help someone else .
Yooo, rome on here speaking straights facts about that group home/programs for kids in the system environments. He has explained the environment on point. &it is hard for workers in those positions really doing they best and trying to help the kids and make a difference in their life. Def a stressful environment and cant take a hold on the mental some days. But keep doing ya thang and god got you covered just keep taking it a day at a time. He got you and remember it dont rain always, sunshine comes in the morning. So just find your sun through each day to help you get through whether small or big.
I am sooooooooooo proud of All of Y’all it takes a lot to stand up and speak out on heavy topics that we all be dealing with. Keep Living On Purpose Ms. I E🧡
Not yall got me crying this whole episode. 😭 no but fr thank you guys!! It’s comforting to know others go through the same things mentally. I’ve always known that but actually hearing it helps. I can relate to everything Rome said about going through things and not speaking on it, and I absolutely feel everything Jess does as a mother. So thank you guy!! Side note: I love that for you Prince. It’ll only get better from here baby 💗
This episode was truly emotional. I have so much respect for Jess and Rome co parenting skills. He said I don't go against his mother. If she said he can't have steak and Lamb chops, I'm not giving it to him.
