1984 -2008 the years that dictated how my adulthood was going ton play out. Neighbors teachers other parents knew all about it. I would say that I was playing football, or whatever to explain the black eyes and swollen face. There was even a police officer living across the street., nothing was ever said . They didn't want any retaliation from my dad. See something say something, not in river grove il during the years 1984 -1998.
What does someone do when a mandated report has been made, but nothing is being done? This is in Louisiana, and the children finally got brave enough to tell, and they were returned to the father and his wife who are doing this...It is all good to say report it, but when nothing happens, then what??
I was raised in foster homes since I been 6 years old til I was 18. I can say I lived through the worse torture and abuse by the fostering systems I have been in and most people working in the system is corrupt.
The saddest part is the law here in Minnesota for example- There must b 10 different reports made at different times, by different persons... Before the state or law enforcement actually look in to reports by first just meeting with said adults and talking to them. A abuser will lie at all costs and can be very convincing. Now I have reported stuff personally and nothing was done and was treated like I was liein or had no reasonable cause for any concern. My family has been threw so much with the system, I feel that they have failed us sad to say.
@@angelakane7925 yeah I have been trying to get help since I was 9 I almost 18.And even have videos proof going back to when I was 8.At this point I don't even care.My mom got false diagnoses put on me to hide the abuse so it is used a cover up.So now when people make reports and DSS comes my parents can just say I am "hallucinating" and I risk getting locked up in a mental hospital for years every time I tell about my abuse.so at this point I no longer care i am just going to get a real job regardless of my mom saying no because I am "mean" and "disrespectful" and save up for the 3 years till I am 18 so I can leave.
Some father's are really sadistic monsters because they hide their abuse, I was drowned by my own father, waterboarding style. Beaten everyday hit in the head and back of the head, berated. Just abuse for years. Its hard to stop the abuse if the abuser himself is hiding the abuse.
Children need to be trained first steps when going to school. (Being aware of the fact- of so many different personalities that are out there!). That should be discussed-not only in society-but in personal families also!
@@kazania7653 It seems no one can behave in a mature or appropriate manner and anyone who attempts to deliver accurate information or offer safe haven is humiliated and abused. There was a little girl I worked with/mentored for a while at the request of her single father. It was abundantly clear after two meetings that she was being abused. She asked me questions about what i would do if someone did such and such to me...you know, things a 8 year old has no business knowing about. I wasn't sure it wasn't the father so I approached the girl's grandmother. All it took was one sentence and I knew the grandmother knew it was the father (her son). Because I wasn't working with a formal institution, but as a private tutor/mentor, I didn't know how or to whom to report. I spoke with a lawyer who told me I was not mandated and to not worry about it. The grandmother must have said something to her sick-o son because after that he didn't bring the girl back. I remained concerned for the girl but was also relieved. Then, there was a young man in the foster system I worked with briefly. He was struggling deeply and the nature of his acting out caused me to belive he had at some point in his young life been forced to exchange sex for room and board. He felt it appropriate to make an offer of exchange to me and I was totally taken aback. Again, I didn't know to whom or how to report. It was so awkward and I felt a deep and strange mix of compassion, pity and disgust; compassion and pity for the 17 year old child in front of me and disgust for the adults who conditioned and groomed him. I've worked in correctional facilities, formal/traditional education systems as well as in private settings and have a list as long as a basketball players wingspan of stories I could tell, but it was after this particular interaction that I decided to not work with children anymore. Then, a few years later my bleeding heart tried to reach out again. I spoke to a local high school about creating a more formal program. The first student the school referred was obviously trouble at the interview and when I didn't offer her the position she tried to hit me with a car. Welfare has paid women to push em out and women are still taught they are only valuable as baby producing live stock. Motherhood isn't anything special. Children are treated as commodity and the woman without children is treated as a slave to be abused. I say, if you pushed it out, stay home, take care of it and stop expecting to be praised and paid for it. It's all ridiculous.
I've been trying to report Daddyofive on RU-vid all day but I do not have a laptop . His videos are awful. What he does and allows is ridiculous. The youngest always has bruises all over him. These kids need love they are already showing signs of dissociation and ptsd. Emotional and physical abuse should NOT be on RU-vid please help me report his channel
I'm looking for a movie I saw in 5th Grade about Child Sexual Abuse hosted by Children where a girl's teacher or coach offers her a ride, a girl's neighbor tries to make a video of her, and a boy tells his teacher or principal that he has to go stay with his aunt while his Mom is at work and that his Aunt likes to put her hands down his pants. Does anyone know where I can see this movie?
I hope someone sees this and replies but there was this kid who was on my bus and he had a bruise once and I asked him what it was and he laughed nervously and changed the subject or just talked to someone else. (I can't remember it very well) he also often got in trouble and I'm pretty sure some other kids said he is getting abused before I saw the bruise so it made me more supucious . every now and then I remember and feel guilty because I am scared he actually might be abused. what should I do? I told my mom but she didn't really do anything. any ideas? thanks. also this happened a year ago and I haven't seen him since last year and I don't even know his last name so would there still be any hope?
I'm sorry to hear that about the kid on your bus-- it's never too late to report your concerns to someone in authority. School districts and school systems stay connected and someone somewhere may still have contact with that person. It's never too late. You can also look up child abuse reporting in your area and see what phone number there is to call and make a report. See if your mom will help you make a report by calling, even if she thinks it's not a big deal. It's always good to take action. Thanks for caring for this person!
There is an online website that helps you report, but Im not sure how they deal with those. It is called Inhope. Read the bottom of this: If you see images on Facebook of a child being physically abused or sexually exploited, we ask that you: Please contact your local law enforcement immediately. They may be able to identify and rescue the child. Report the photo or video to Facebook. You'll be able to check the status of your report from the Support Inbox. If you don't have a Facebook account or are blocked from seeing the content you want to report, you can ask a friend to help you. Notify the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children using the CyberTipline: Visit report.cybertip.org or call 1-800-843-5678.Don't share, download, or comment on the content. It can be criminal to share, or send messages with, photos and videos of children being sexually abused and exploited. You won't be asked to provide a copy of the content in any report. More resources Seeing an image or video of a child who has been abused can be distressing. We understand that people may be affected in different ways when they view these types of images, and we want to be sure that there are resources available for further support. Facebook has worked with a number of safety experts around the world to identify these resources, including social services and tips for reaching out to professionals. If you, or a child you know, have been the victim of child physical or sexual abuse, or if you've witnessed child physical or sexual abuse and are interested in resources or support services, we encourage you to consider the resources provided by these organizations: The National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC) assists in cases of missing or exploited children throughout the world.The International Centre for Missing and Exploited Children (ICMEC) provides a list of international operational centers that work to assist in cases of missing or exploited children.Child Helpline International is a global network of hotlines providing support and social services.ECPAT is a global network of civil society organizations dedicated to fighting against the sexual exploitation of children. INHOPE is a global network of hotlines committed to removing child sexual abuse online.UNICEF defends the rights of children across 190 countries.
If you’re bad and you know consequence is to “get hit” Is it really abuse? If the child learns from his or hers mistake ? Idk that’s how my parents raised me, do good things and good things will happen and if. Choose bad things, bad things will happen
@Charly Dat Duc Lai you’d be surprised by how many people do not follow the rules when it comes to parenting. All throughout elementary, highschool it was very diverse and almost everyone has a story of getting dragged by their parents 😫😂 not saying this behaviour is okay but it seems to be the norm amongst every background. There’s always some sort of abuse to set the child straight. Depending on culture, the abuse varies in severity.
This is not true. mandated reporters just have to suspect abuse. It is the responsibility of the Children's protection services and police to investigate and provide evidence.
@@christinaluis4293 yeah but DSS doesn't care. I have been trying to get help since I was 9 I'm almost 18.And even have videos proof going back to when I was 8.At this point I don't even care.My mom got false diagnoses put on me to hide the abuse by lying on me and framing me. so it is used a cover up. now when people make reports and DSS comes my parents can just say I am "hallucinating" and I risk getting locked up in a mental hospital for years every time I tell about my abuse.so at this point I no longer care i am just going to get a real job regardless of my mom and sister saying no because I am "mean" and "disrespectful" and save up for the 3 years till I am 18 so I can leave.
@@christinaluis4293 also DSS sex traffics millions of kids so there kind of is no one to trust in this world.That's why 99% of abuse victims just live through the abuse till the can leave or till they die.sadly for most staying the environment makes them believe it's normal and it also transfers bad spirits which is a long story.
Family fun pack consistently abuses their kids, they put the kids to panhandle, feed them nothing but old food for a day, beg their community to send the kids clothes. They homeschool the kids so teachers "dont interfere with their channel" . they have a p.o. box and a friend runs it so no one knows their whereabouts
The best place for a child is with the family. If something is not right report. YOU DONT NEED PROOF. If something is really wrong call police but you must still report
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