To anyone reading this, don’t forget to forgive yourself. Forgive yourself for the way you treated yourself in the past. For the way you talked to your body. For the way you vilified the way your mind worked when you were dealing with anxiety, or overthinking, or depression, or anything that was haunting it. Forgive yourself for the way you settled for less than what you wanted, or desired, or knew you needed, because you didn’t think you deserved it; because you convinced yourself, somewhere along the lines, that you were not worthy of beauty in life, that you were not worthy of happiness or goodness or having things you wanted come to fruition. Forgive yourself for the way you held yourself back because you didn’t believe in your own potential, because you didn’t believe in your capacity to take up space. Forgive yourself for all the things you didn’t say, or didn’t wear, or didn’t do because you were afraid of how it would make you look, because you were afraid of what others might think of you. Forgive yourself for the way you didn’t show up for yourself. For the ways in which you held yourself back, for the ways in which you didn’t see just how worthy you were. For the ways in which you made yourself smaller. Forgive yourself for the things you had to do in order to survive. For the ways in which you had to fight.
How has no one replied to this? I never thought I’d be so blown away by a comment. Every word was perfect, this was the perfect thing to say. Thank you so much for this, seriously.
you’re so strong and I am incredibly proud of you for growing and learning from this. thank you for sharing your struggles ♡ this helps me and other so much to know that we will never be alone
Thank you so much for sharing this with us. I relapsed into sh 2,5 weeks ago and i felt so bad, but now my dance teacher at my acting school is helping me to heal mentally and i am so grateful for her. I think I'm gonna to her about the inner child/healthy grown up thing. It sounds so helpful. You're so strong Madita
You are so incredibly strong Madita. You seem like such a kind and caring person, and your videos are hilarious and help so many people. Hope you feel better very soon ❤️🩹 Love you 💗💗💗
Seeing someone being so open about their therapy and recovery gives me so much hope, I genuinely cannot express how much your videos help me with my own food shenanigans. I hope your good days outnumber your bad days more and more, and that you get to enjoy all of the delicious food you could possibly want 💙💙💙
Genuinely, thank you so much for sharing this part of your life. There are so many people who are in similar boats as you and seeing you share your struggles with mental health is like a lighthouse beacon of hope. We can do this. We are stronger than we realize and more capable than we think! Thank you Madita
You are so real for this!!!!!!!!!! Seriously thank you for sharing your experience. I’ve been feeling really overwhelmed with trying to get my mental health under control, but seeing practical steps like this really helps. Sending you love! 💕
Thank you so much Madita, this is so important to share and show that no one is alone with this and how hard it really can be, and you did an AMAZING job with it!! I hope more people who need this reminder or even aren't educated about how it is see this video, thank you!
May God give you the strength to keep on going... you are loved and I will pray for you always ❤❤ May God help you and guide you if you read this and have the same problem.. ❤
Thank you for sharing your journey with us. I'm happy that you feel comfortable enough to share this side of your life with us. We're proud of you and I hope you're doing okay 💜
I was crying the whole video you're such a strong person I really needed this video today I relate to you so much keep fighting angel you got this I love u 💗💗
Thank you so much. I’ve been struggling with my mental health the past few weeks and this video really helped me to know I’m not alone and even opened up some techniques I could use to help calm me down. Love you Madita, thanks for posting!
Thank you for shedding light on this as I feel that it's sort of stigmatised that it's bad or not appropriate when it should be normalised to share a real experience with others who share those same feelings and provide those healthy coping mechanisms. Thank you so much for this video and I hope that your recovery goes well :)
Ily Madita! I hope you know that we all adore you and wouldn’t judge you. We r here to support you, and to support you on your mission to happiness! I wish you all the tea in the world
I just wanna say i really enjoy your videos! Your reviews and recomendations, your vlogs, your uhauls, your organazation videos, all of them:) your personality and editing is great! You derserve the world❤
You are literally my comfort RU-vidr. Thank you for opening up about your mental health stuff because it really helps me deal with my own mental health shit 😅. You are literally so amazing, like watching your videos feels like being in a long FaceTime call with you and it just feels so cozy and funny and comforting in a way so yeaaa thank you for doing what you’re doing😊 i know i`m just a random person on the internet but maybe it helps you a bit to know that so many people here think you`re amazing! Love ya 👋🏻
your timing is always soo perfect. I've been sick for the past 2 days. couldn't even get up from bed and was struggling to breath and all that and today I'm feeling sm better and your video just made it 100× better. thank you
Thank you so much for sharing this and trusting us ❤ i‘m in therapy too but I find it very interesting what you explained with the three chairs that is a metaphor my therapist never used so i feel like i learn new things/new methods to understand myself ☺️
you are never alone Madita, you will get through this because you're stronger than you know. It's okay to have bad days and relapses, it is completely normal, your recovery is yours, try not to be influenced by other people's or your perception of what recovery should be. You have so much love around you and we all believe in you
Thank you madita for sharing your recovery journey. You make me feel less alone in my own recovery. Your are an amazing, kind, and, beautiful human being
I actually just relapsed earlier this morning in a very similar way, so this video could not have come at a better time. Watching this now is helping me get through all the negative thoughts I've had these past few hours, and I think I'll definitely take in account a lot of your tips. I have to remember a relapse does not determine who I am forever. They aren't permanent!! I hope you continue to get better Madita! So proud of you for lasting so long and working through this
Look at you! You’re doing so great! It’s amazing the strength and resilience you have to climb back up. I know it’s hard, but you’re getting so much stronger by the day, your inner child and mature adult self should be proud! Thank you so much for being so open with us, I love you❤! Have a good healthy week!
I know this was posted a month ago but idc im so proud of you girl im recovering from this exact thing and i was about to r3laps3 but i drew a picture like you suggested so ig im girlbossing rn. Again im so proud of you and you deserve to be happy 3
you are so strong, and remember its okey to not be okey, everyone has their ups and downs and thats totally okey. i love you and yout videos madita and i will always stand by your side no matter what
hi madita!! just wanted to say I love your videos so much and your uploads always bring a smile to my face! haven’t watched the whole video yet but I hope you’re doing better and I wish you nothing but the best for 2023!❤❤
You're so strong. I know I could not handle being in your situation, and I really admire you for not only having the strength to continue through this, but also for sharing it to help other people. Also... this is the 4th time copying and pasting this same comment on your recent videos so she sees this: MADITA!!!! You should totally read the Ash Princess Trilogy!!!!!! It's the best series I've ever read and here are some things I'd think you'd like about it - Complex fantasy world with magic - Forbidden love - forced proximity - a whole bunch of 'le gasp' moments' - Lil bit of enemies to loves - A man who's actually super romantic and not toxic at all - The 'I'm supposed to kill you trope' - It will make you cry at the end of the last book - more cuddly scenes/cute scenes with less spice I've never cried over a book before until this one. I ugly cried so much Just this quote from the boy to the girl "You could ask me for the whole ocean and I'd find a way to give it to you. I simp for this man so much Also, you should read Wilder Girls because I really want to know your opinion on it. I hated it so much omg I think we have pretty similar reading tastes, so I think you would really like this series, and I created every book 5 stars Please like this comment so Madita sees this
this is helping me so much since i just had a relapse the last few days and it reminded me that i‘m not a bad person because of it! i‘m really thankful ❤️🩹
thank you for sharing this!! it made me realize a lot about myself. i as well struggle with veryveryveryyy similar issues. this was very helpful and i thank you again!!❤️❤️ so proud of you!!
