REF THROWS PARENT OUT OF GAME! 

@@mipilot30 Why have you made it a race issue?

@Ulysses432 I would agree with your statement that "your" country is beyond redemption. But there is always hope. And whilst I accept your insult, I don't think Jesus Christ deserves insulting by you.

I had a kid escort his dad out of a basketball game

My Mom did this once, it is very embarrassing having them yelling, she stopped now because she knew it is stupid

AT LEAST SHE DIDNT FIGHT THE OTHER PARENT AND ENDED UP ON THE NEWS LIKE JANICE DID. (sopranos)

No doubt.

ABSOFUCKINLUTELY

Joseph Gately that’s a good reason to yell at a kid

Fab SmgVEVO no, its not. Just showcasing their bad parenting

@@FabSmgVEVO can you read?

Football

Soccer

@@user-zd3cc7to8h foot. Ball. What you called football is hand. Egg.

@@user-zd3cc7to8hand ballet

John Doe yes

The same in Junior hockey

I coached U13 and U9 for several years. Parents were the reason I stopped.

Don’t you mean every youth sport.

Not only that, misbehaved parents are a reason why there's a shortage of youth referee's now, because they abuse the referee's.

As a youth ref I can tell u we don’t need a raise. Center refs get paid a dollar a minute straight cash to deal with this bullshit.

Don’t forget the tornado and planes in the background

He only made one mistake, which was when the free kick was kicked play should’ve continued, it was behind where it was supposed to be kicked and I think that’s fine.

As a ref i wish raises were a thing

@@yousufrizvi557 sorry mate, that ain’t a rule. From a guy in uk, played and followed football all my life. Meant to be where foul was committed... none of this rolling the ball forward or behind. I agree the ref should have let it play and then gone back to ask the parent to leave... although I have never seen someone in the crowd receive a card??? Is that a American amateur thing? In the uk even at amateur u16s for example if you get booked you still get fined or your club gets fined. Don’t know who to and what fine the “mum” would pay?

CHELSEY, No, I'm adopted.

It can be kind of like a St. Peter thing, eh? "Before the whistle blows, you will deny your mother three times?" lol

@@russs7574 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Cracked me up 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Agree 100 % parents can be more of the problem in all sports.

And there are many sports that struggle to get officials for games, I wonder why !

This is America. It's soccer.

@@SoupBeans-ln5ye No, in America now more people are calling it "football". The game played with a misshapen-egg ball on a field with weird lines by people dressed like medieval knights is called "American football".

@@karatearmchairhistorian9825 I'm sorry but that's just incorrect. In America if you say football you are talking about a sport that's fully padded with helmets and a oblong ball. When you're looking through a tv guide to find something to watch and you see the word football it iis football with the forward pass 100% of the time (except latin stations which say futbol but that's for people who were not born in the United States. Their 1st generation American children call it soccer.) I live in a city with a MLS team and when you go to it you say one of 2 things. I'm going to the Crew game or you say I'm going to the soccer game. People are starting to call it football lol. I'm American. l know that you're are either nuts or a straight up liar.

Kelly Fontes I played football cause that’s it’s real name not soccer but I never seen a ref kickout parents watching a game before I wouldn’t have left if he did that shit on me

Kelly Fontes

This ref has clearly never played lol what's he gonna card the goal post next hahaha

@pablo sanchez, Then it's game over and your team would forfeit.

Jose Gutierrez no guey es Futbol

You are a red in fifa what players did you meet I'm so curious your lucky to meet them all

Speaking as the inventor of football, blah blah blah. Sure buddy.

@@amongthederps Not that you know what you're talking about, let me give you a little edumakashun, bubba: FIFA has a system where teenagers, and some adults, are developed into being a ref. There are 8 grades of being a ref. To ref international games, such as World Cup, Olympics, etc, you must be a grade 1 ref. It takes many years to reach this level and not everyone can make it. Starting as a teenage ref, you are only allowed to referee other teens/children, as long as you are 2 yrs older. Once you've refereed and served as a linesman for enough games (and with your ocal FIFA coordinator's approval) you become a grade 7 ref. The process is long. There are physical fitness standards when you reach the highest levels. In an 11 vs. 11 match, an avg ref runs 10 miles if he's doing it right - a ref is supposed to try to remain within 10 meters of the ball. FIFA refs take re-certification tests annually on the "Laws of the Game" The rules are the same for children through adults. FIFA issues modifications/changes to the rules every year. Yes, even those teenagers you see refereeing kids games are most likely FIFA refs. The only exception is high school and college athletic associations have their own certifications, but 99.9% of the refs doing hs and college games are also FIFA refs.

It is quite possible the ref conveyed the info that coaches control their parents pre-match.

Speaking as a coach training division teams - id like for you to link where a spectator can have a red card within the fifa rules or any other football rules - jeez@@kevinrogers7650

"this was not competitive soccer". What the hell does that mean? If it's not competitive soccer then it's not soccer. You probably give out "participation" trophies as well.

You are a good citizen and a good coach❤

Timothy - this is what people don’t get. It’s recreational league, a club aimed at kids learning to love the game. And yes you do get participation trophy’s. You are rewarded by how you do on the field each game of the season. If your child plays competitive league you better hope they are good enough to stay off the bench otherwise your child will not get much play time and will eventually lose interest.

Timothy Landon You just don't get it, do you? It's recreational, supposed to be fun. These kids have the rest of their lives to deal with douche bags like you. Let the kids have fun. Stuff a sock in the parents mouth if that's what it takes.

Bullshit. Trophies for all convey an inaccurate and potentially dangerous life message to children: "We are all winners". This message is repeated at the end of each sports season, year after year, and is only reinforced by the collection of trophies that continues to pile up. We begin to expect awards and praise for just showing up - to class, practice, after-school jobs - leaving us woefully unprepared for reality. Outside the protected bubble of childhood, not everyone is a winner. Showing up to work, attending class, completing homework and trying my best at sports practice are expected of me, not worthy of an award. These are the foundations of a long path to potential success, a success that is not guaranteed no matter how much effort I put in. Trophies should be given out for first, second and third; participation should be recognized, but celebrated with words and a pat on the back rather than a trophy. As in sports as well as life, it is fact that there’s room for only a select few on the winners’ podium.

I'm afraid that in football and sometimes at rugby here in the UK you'll hear the F bomb and a few more choice words besides , by time they are 14-15 parents and even the kids themselves will be 'effing and blinding' like it's casual conversation. Our old rugby PE master would crack you a backhander if he heard you swearing (this was the early to mid 80s when corporal punishment was still a thing) The fact he was an ex pro rugby player helped with how some parents behaved but too often, particularly in football the reaction of parents is horrendous

@@tonyfranklin8306 US youth football parents are nuts. Flag football is growing very fast, while tackle football numbers shrink. CTE issues and overall parent craziness is at fault

@Mark Oster I attend baseball youth primarily. Football at the youth level gravitates to violence at times.

@@ethan3949 I think it's actually fun. Get to see the game from a different view.

@@ethan3949 You can't get a referee licence until you are 12, just so you know.

@@ethan3949 I'm sorry, I misinterpreted you. I thought you said you quit reffing.

@@ethan3949 :)

You never show a fan a card!!!!

Brian Beiler thanks dude that would've helped a lot of people's opinions

Not to mention most of these refs do this part time either for fun or to make a little extra money on the side. When I was a kid my dad used to ref as a fun way to stay in shape and make a little extra money. He really enjoyed it until he had to eject a parent who then threatened to go his car, get a gun, and come back and shoot him. That was his last game as a ref. Some people ruin it for everybody...

Well said

True but the ref here is clueless.

There are parents who yell at the refs at my kid's U-7 soccer games. It's a joke, I have no idea what goes through these people's heads.

A former boss of mine is a huge hockey fan. He would joke around at work and said work should be like hockey sometimes. If somebody is being an ass, you drop the gloves and go at it, then you go to the penalty box for 5 minutes. lol

The "K" Card. :)

It's usually checked or monitored more at the instructional stages of a program where I come from. As the kids get older, the refs are better and used to dicks. Not saying they like it, but it's harder to do anyting about it by high school or travel and select programs.

In the UK we are told to never approach the parents. If they get too bad then the home team should have their welfare officer deal with it. If it’s unresolved after that then the game should be suspended or abandoned. A parent would never be shown a yellow or red card in a game and in the UK it would have the opposite effect anyway cos ppl would definitely take the piss out of you 😂

no, you don't ignore, you kick them out and feel sorry for the kids. Eventually the parents will self police the morons.

@@iamlordinho5229 Whereabouts are you reffing in the UK? Refs are taught from the age of 14 to send disruptive parents away from the field of play if they become abusive in any way. Welfare officers from the league will then attend attend a set amount of the offending team's matches. If it is a young ref, just hope his / her dad doesn't get you first.

oscar-good job. probably was not an easy decision but took a lot of courage.

I’m really good...my team is rank #5 in the state. I’m here to coach a team, not to deal with frustrations from parents, if you let someone abuse you... that’s on you buddy!!!!

You are an idiot and if you have kids it's apparent that you're an awful role model and awful parent as well. If you don't have kids please stay that way. We don't need any more of your entitled attitude in the gene pool.

Phil Denton all my players have above 3.00 GPA... they’re on their way to college some of them with athletic scholarships, for some people that’s pretty good.... I’m sure you’re one of those parents that likes to be coaching your kid from the sidelines, abusing refs and acting like a complete idiot on the sidelines....Your kid would never excede in sports.!!!

Oscar G. Keep up the good work coach hope u make it rank #1 some day and it's stressful eliminating good players from ur team just because of their parents but look at ur team now they are rank #5 which is something tht another coach might never get.

Eye of a hurricane, maybe?

It is absolutely amateur and much over the top. Preventative officiating will solve nearly all the problems - not blowing the whistle, stopping the game, running over (far over) and looking like an absolute idiot issuing yellow/red cards to spectators. Then going out of his way to find the tourney directors? How lame. Just ask the coach(es) for help.

Wheres step 2 ???

First of all you don't show cards on spectators. Only players coaches team personnel. I like your calm approach however it takes a long time from the game. Players waiting.

@@jasonmcleod6001 No. Preventive officiating will not stop even 50% of the problems because the problems most of the time are the PEOPLE, not the situations. I personally rarely have issues with spectators, but I have been relatively lucky.

Nope, you NEVER talk to these people. The proper way to deal with such spectators is to ask the respective team's coach to control them. If they do not or are unable to do so, simply refuse to continue the game and even terminate it. Btw, a youth soccer referee is entitled at any point before, during or even after a game to call local law enforcement and depending on the severity of the behavior even ask that the person is arrested.

Not necessarily, depends on league rules. He is probably completely justified issuing the warning & then notifying the parent they were gone. He did indeed then seek the coach’s help. The cards were silly & inappropriate.

yes you never show a card to a spectator (including player on the bench) a card@@slpguy6026

lol

Nothing compared to parents with boys soccer

awe poor whittle ref

People are completely different at home and at ⚽️ games there are always lots of emotions

When i played basketball in high school in a community league, the worst parents i encountered just happened to be the league commissioner and his wife. Also their kid was a total asshole as well

THATS IM SAYIN

Lol

She needs something else

yeah real classy, make the kids pay for the parents acting like jerks. What a piece of shit ref you probably were. you don't punish the kids for the parents Behavior you ass.

Well what a piece of work you clearly are. The kid ref did the right thing. He took charge and made a good call. If the coach let's the parents act like assholes that's not the ref's fault. If you can't handle doing the right thing, go find your safe zone snowflake.@@randalhill6283

I agree, this whole thing was way over the top.

@@randalhill6283 umm you question someone class with a trashy post great logic

@Mark W If they fucking suck, you should go do it and we'll see how good of a job you do.

Point well taken. In a lot of cases, they could. We did when we were kids. During the summer, we spent almost all of our free time playing all sorts of sports (Football in the park in July? Sure, why not?), and the vast majority of that was NOT spent in an organized league, so we just officiated ourselves. We were the best umpires/referees on the planet. lol The best way to ruin a sport for kids is to get the adults involved.

i would have fought him for you

Go for the retracted nuts next time dear

Why should the coach be getting a warning?

OK, the rules for soccer must be different than those for baseball. Because I coached years and years ago, and the umpire was most definitely allowed to eject out-of-control fans from the facility. Actually, the best tactic would be, parent get out of control....whistle.....unsportsmanlike conduct.....free kick the other way.....and if it's in the offending parent's team's end of the field, a direct free kick.

*they're

Same here. I yellow card the coach this last weekend but let the coach know it goes on him but it is due to the parent. This was after verbal warnings. Coach was also instigating and for his sake he is lucky he decided to stop because the red was coming and he had no assistant so the game would have been forfeited in our league. U12 game and hate to see kids not get to play because of the the parents and coaches. The kids were actually really well behaved. The offending parent's kid actually told his dad to sit down so they could play.

That’s league rules

Yeah, ref here too and would never card a parent. Its not on a ref to do so (follow laws of the game, nothing else). If a parent/supporter is getting too hot and heavy, inform the home team coach, who must inform whoevers looking after the grounds, to remove them from the grounds.

@@liambrowne8255 Yeah, referee to stop the game, referee to go searching for the coach, coach argues with him, referee leaves it to the coach to find the ground manager ... on and on it goes. Attack the parents, tell 'em to leave immediately and to come to the mid week judiciary to explain themselves. Why did the referee here have to first find the fat sheila to act and then find the old fella to act, with his faithful manservant Pancho?

@@dannyfitzpatrick9783 It ain't hard to find the coach.. they'll be on the line. You get the coach to sort it, or you stop the game and leave it to the league to decide.

No shame if you have no moral or conscience. I'm guessing she tore up social media with her rants on how wronged she was by an evil ref at a kids game. WTF?

@Hestiff, I understand. They are entitled parents who don't spend enough time with their kids.

@steve b why should they elect women for the sake of having a woman in office? Surely the platform matters more......unless your a treasonous libtard.

Hey asshole, libs didn't elect Putin's bitch, cons did. Cons have been traitors since the revolutionary war when they fought against the founding fathers who were liberals - progressives.@@number62

@@mipilot30 You two should both get red cards for trying to politicize this board.

mtt i

I do not believe you! If your partner went into the stands during a collegiate game then he never work another college game again. If you cant take criticism in the profession then find another avocation. Tell me professional POSER! How many rules are in the rule book?

@@besto6279 You're an idiot BestO.

mtt *foo

hahaha so how was reffing the NBA mtt? must have been a great experience. did the players moms yell at you there too? poor guy

What? You want purple to sooth the snowflake angst?

Sadly that happens all too often.

penubly if it’s anything like England then a lot of them are out there for attention and a sense of authority. This guy looks the type ...

This isn't England - soccer isn't the top sport and most parents haven't played. Spectators need to realize they shouldn't be commentators, especially if they aren't willing to get out there themselves.

penubly I have refed game s and I still hate so called refs .hate that they act like they are better than anyone else .

penubly refs are definitely out there the money! No one would put up with some of the shit that goes on out for free. At the same time some of these refs are control freaks and make the game about them self.

Are you lumping all refs in the same category?

Agreed. He cant card the fans, he should be carding the team sidelines. That's when the coach steps in and tells the parents to stfu.

The carding of the parent is wrong (unless that specific league allows it) but the ref is well within his right to stop the game and not allow it to continue until the abusive parent is removed. Usually league policy (and most youth leagues have a similar policy) is that this is done by going over and telling the coaches that the game will not continue until said parent has left. As a ref myself if I have an abusive parent I pause the game and go talk to both coaches and have them go over and remind their parents to be respectful. If it continues a second pause until the parent is removed. If the parent wont leave the ref can end the game and file a report with the league.

I've seen the same here in the Charente. Father's leaving their sons in tears with their abuse and criticisms. Not worth the hassle of being involved with kid's sport.

The Arbiter snowflake

I used to ump. An obnoxious mother pulled that one me once. She insisted on sitting directly behind the backstop, when the rules of our league definitely said that parents had to sit in the bleachers behind the benches, and that spectators with lawn chairs had to sit down the foul lines. It was a safety thing, for one, but it was also our experience that parents who sit there are the one who like to chirp at the plate ump the most. So I told her she couldn't sit there. Same response..."It's a free country, and I'll sit where I damn well please." So I told her, "This may be a free country, but on this field I am an absolute dictator. This game will start when you remove yourself to the parking lot." And then I went to the manager of the team her kid played for and told him, "You saw, I tossed (kid's name) mother. If she's not gone in 5 minutes, you guys are forfeiting the game. I'm not putting up with her nonsense." She left.

Just a 'Come on Ref, and an Unbelievable, not abusive to me.

multiple people voiced pretty standard frustrations with the call and the ref whips out his red card on a lady sitting down... lmao wouldn't be surprised if this guy red cards Subway employees when he doesn't like the sandwiches and gives technical fouls to goalposts

When did refs, players, spectators society become so sensitive? Everyone is a snowflake nowadays and this is the reason why everyone is in everyone's business.....players and refs are supposed to tune out the crowd and ignore them. This mentality is why we have a new generation where no one can criticize or give constructive feedback and its everyone else's fault beit on the field or in the workplace. Sport was an activity where this was to prepare you for instances of unruliness and the like, but all the do gooders have done their beat to take this away from youth as well. Life is tough, being able to shoulder some of the nastiest is part of it. Obviously I'm talking about the extremes, but in this video, come on, grow up ref.

I used the horrible phrase 'call it both ways' at a youth basketball game, the female ref heard me, kicked me out and called the game with 40 seconds left. Sometimes refs are too thin skinned and take everything personally.