Relapsed In Love: Benjamin Adams v Chantillae Adams 

The wisdom in your words strikes a chord within me, and I genuinely desire that my sentiments align with yours. Despite our separation at present, I cannot conceive of my existence without her; my love for her knows no bounds. I yearn for her return, and I'm committed to doing whatever it takes to achieve reconciliation. We've pursued different avenues, including therapy, in our journey to bridge the gap.

Parting ways with someone you deeply care about is never easy, but in my particular circumstance, I was aided by a spiritual mentor who averted the collapse of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

Your guidance is valued. I'll immediately seek her out online. Appreciate it. I'm hopeful that implementing this method will also bring me success; I miss her dearly

You definitely should

I agree, you design your own marriage

Yes if you notice how they met this exactly what it is. A trauma bond

Yes!!

My thoughts exactly. 🤔💭

33 is grown as hell

There you go. Daddy/Daughter syndrome. He's looking to be a mentor, and she's acting out because she wants to convince herself that she's unworthy.

33 is a grown woman. She's not compatible to be with anybody.

Age is just a number,there are teenagers who knows how to show respect and love for their partners!She is an alcoholic and walked out of treatment,because she doesn't care about,anyone her self included!They both need therapy, anger management, parenting and rehab!Else its best they go their separate ways!

What's the name of the album? 😂

@@BREEZYM6015 🤷 I have no idea! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Lmao

Now, I'm not unseeing it...😅

I was just about to say that...she looks just like her

Some people needs to be single FOREVER and dont go to any rescue shelter Even the dogs don't want their foolishness🤣

Right😂❤😂❤

@@feliciacoleman6650I CAN’T BELIEVE YOU HATED ON ME LIKE THIS. MY MOTHER HAS TOOK IN AND FED YOUR DAUGHTER MANY NIGHTS WHILE YOU WERE HIGH ON CRACK AND SHE DID NOT WANT TO COME HOME PITIFUL HOW LOW PEOPLE CAN GO!!! BY THE WAY WE’RE STILL TOGETHER!!!! 🤡

😂😂😂so true

Me 2. What is happening here?! 😐

He’s not innocent either although he appears to be. He destroys the items that he buys for her and her son whenever he gets angry with her. That’s hurtful too. He tore out his part in the family photo that gutted her deeply. They are two very broken people that need healing.

Me 2. He appeared broken up about his 1st wife. & maybe he's trying to desperately replace her.

Maturity is the key 🔑

Alcoholic lie!!

He's played enough!

Amen I used to do the same thing pick sick people

Maybe he settled for the first wife🤷🏽‍♀️

🙂 people get married for reasons way beyond just love at times...Many need companionship, some for financial support or gain, others because it sounds nice or to have status and lots of other reasons/etc...For many people love isn't their priority...

Nah…. You called it sis. I peep game when I see it. He’s not as innocent as y’all want him to be. He’s an enabler. How is he helping her? Especially to be sober when he drinking with her. His WHOLE spill is that she’s an alcoholic.. Then WHY ARE YOU DRINKING WITH HER SIR???

I agree. I've seen worse as well. But she did research so she knows. They bonded during covid which was a horrible time and gave them something else to focus on. Now covid is behind us and now they focus on each other. They don't like what they see. Judge Star is right. They need to separate and move on .However the wife needs to get into treatment first before she starts another relationship.

She could have helped them if she actually wanted too I don’t think she wanted to and if there was more to the case she should have had a part 2 for us to understand. I didn’t like her attitude this episode. I have seen way worse couples and she goes above and beyond to help.

Ridiculous how the judge handled that case...case of having a bad day herself... embarrassing to see this episode🤦🏾‍♀️

Yep. The audience didn’t get to hear enough to understand how the judge came to her conclusion

I thought so as well. The wife obviously has some issues still dealing with addiction because I know at least one of those accidents she said wasnt alcohol related, was indeed alcohol related. I am in recovery and can clearly see she is in denial of her alcohol issues. People who dont have an alcohol problem, do not have so many issues with people, places and driving while drinking!

Nope.. I think he enabled his former wife. That’s why he does it sooo well with his current wife.

I'll give u the $100. Bc I agree with you.

She’s too much in La La Land to know or care. She seems like a binge alcoholic

I agree, but it’s worse than that. He is definitely triggering her on purpose and enabling her.

He is a passive/aggressive victim enabler. I believe he is EVERYTHING she said he is…

He gravitated towards a woman and her child just to buy them things and take it back every time he’s mad, and he threw a TV out of the front door . They’re both toxic

Case closed

33 is young now? Y’all so insecure with age y’all have to gaslight what young is lol

So 33 is old ? 😂 wtf

@@ebonyjordan9643 yes tf it is. Do you mfs ever grow up? What you gotta be 50 until you grow tf up?

Nothing is wrong with Judge Star. I saw what the Judge saw and you don't appear to understand. 1. He married a woman young enough to be his daughter with a serious alcohol addiction in denial who is destroying her young son's life. She's a danger to herself and other's. 2. He never got over his addictive first wife's drug overdose. He's as mean and aggressive by cutting up the Family pic, cussing her out, all the yelling at her, and more, 3. She doesn't face the truth, deflect's her sick behavior onto him, screwed another man, doesn't defend him against her family, and more... She's a total train wreck who married a man standing on the edge of a cliff. Marrying each other was an abysmal, unnecessary occurrence especially getting 2gether in the thick of the COVID CRISIS. I'm a jury member who viewed this case same as Judge Star. They don't care, Judge don't care, l don't care. Those two wouldn't receive help via therapy if they were threatened with gasoline drawers

They both bring out the worst in each other. He’s just not as innocent as everybody is saying; I just see him through a different lens.

​@bryanbeeman5256 Yall act like people can't provoke you.

@@keyairaspivey5093- What did Judge Lynn Toler state about allowing people to control you??? No one can make you act unseemly except you. You sound triggered

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

You'd be rich. Those darn thin condoms, maybe next time use a glad wrap 😅

She only do that to black men watch how she treat Spanish guys

🤨 She is the cheating alcoholic with a bad temper but SOMEHOW he's the one at fault for standing up for himself during her combative episodes?... Judge Star be dressed nice but damn she tripping ...Ive seen her give grace to women who did way more than this guy...smh I wish them both the best ...💯

didn’t understand judge starr at all today?

The sisterhood is strong with Starr

Did u miss he take whatever he buys and destroys it! He cut himself out a family picture??SMH...for his age that is childish..they BOTH need to run away from each other ASAP

Damn 😂

Exactly 😂😂😂

I thought she liked women also

Why was I thinking the same 😂

Everybody not seeing that part of it. They’re just blaming her for everything.

I am wondering where you read that. I don't think 3 glasses of any alcoholic beverage, wine or spirits a week makes one an alcoholic. Drinking every day or binging is. In her case, yes, I think she is though.

That’s not true. You can have 3 drinks and not become drunk. An alcoholic abuses alcohol.

Yes! 👏🏿 &, that wife should not be around that pour lil boy with a drinking issue.

Me 2. 🤔

Me either

Alcoholics Anonymous!

That’s the way alcoholics look. She probably has some type of altered personality by now due to the excessive amount of drinking in the loss of brain cells. But you can tell she’s been to AAA because she’s brutally honest.

CrazieRichie ? I strongly agree with you. The Judge immediately came out from left field & jumped on both of them. I felt for the husband. He needed help or some kind of direction, & the Judge didn't deliver it. She must have had her mind on something or somebody else & needed to hurry up and leave. Something wasn't right. 🧐

Lately, she’s been off.

What episode are you watching? Judge Star stated she's angry at them both. Husband traumatized by 1st wife's overdose death . She's an alcoholic in denial. He's old enough to be her father. No fool like an old fool standing before Judge Star as an innocent victim.

She's gotten quite a few of them wrong lately

🤨 She is the cheating alcoholic with a bad temper but SOMEHOW he's the one at fault for standing up for himself during her combative episodes?... Judge Starr be dressed nice but damn she tripping ...Ive seen her give grace to women who did way more than this guy...smh I wish them both the best ...💯

Nah… he not clean peeps. He is purposefully triggering her. Look at the excuses he coming up with. This girl (as bad as she is) has been truthful to me… he’s the one where all of his tales are not adding up.

I think she just caught wind of him being mean too because he threw that TV out the front door and tried to word it as if they both threw it out😅 and he’s giving “I am your pappy”vibes and she’s an alcoholic G……… she don’t play that lmaoooooo they’re both toxic people

Definitely watch it again and see if this guy’s words and actions are aligned

That's just what I said. 🤔🧐

The last several episodes she's shown a very toxic and biased side. She's ruining the legacy of this show in my opinion. I miss Judge Toler

I had to lose a lot in order for me to realize that I had a drinking problem. I've been sober for 8 years. No one can force a person to seek help for an addiction. You have to want to change.

You're entitled to your opinion

Jesus helps more but church helps as long as the church has groups and departments that give people a healthy Avenue to discover talents and abilities.