It’s funny how you can care so much for someone you never met. Your mom was the sweetest, most genuine women. There is comfort knowing she was a believer and is resting in peace with Our Lord. She was loved by thousands ❤️🙏🏼
I totally agree with Gina M. She touched so many lives with her cooking, but mostly with her kindness and tenderness. She was a great Lady and a true Southern Gem. Rest in Peace Miss Phyllis. God bless you and her family
I’m terribly sorry for you and your family. Please know your mother was loved in her earthly body and adored in her spirit body. May God Bless you all! ❤️🙏🏼❤️
Fb Vandoren You are so very right! I still go to her channel for various questions about recipes, her recommendations about certain cookware and household items, and even though she is not with us in body, her presence is still strongly with me. I find myself saying "what would Phyllis say?", lol. She influenced me greatly! RIP Buckey and Phyllis!
I wanted to cry when watching this video. I don't know the lady. But will always remember her. Planning on never watching her videos again though. Her voice will bring grief to me. This is so devastating news to hear. R.I.P. Phllus. We, the youtube community will miss you, and always will miss you. Cancer sucks. Dear all RU-vidrs, please be there for your families, and every day tell them you love them. Don't take anything in life for granted. Life is too short. Very very short. One of us can go anytime. Life is precious, especially every single moment of life. God bless you all!
AngelicVoice1 I’m amazed as well at my intense grief right now. It really speaks volumes of the love she shared with us all through food. Every day I’d look for an update. Every day! I felt so sure we would hear her sweet voice one last time. 😪😪😪😪 Well, I see her sweet smile in my mind’s eye right now as I say, “ goodbye sweet lady, sleep well and go find your Bucky.”
I had just recently found your Mom and I so enjoyed her video's, she was such a kind hearted Lady. I had no idea she was ill though, so thank you for letting us know everything that had been going on. It's comforting to know she is with her lord and God bless.
I’ve never cried for anyone like I have for Phyllis. I’m sort of a recluse type person and stay to myself unless I’m reaching out to someone for the Lord. I never felt lonely, because when I watched Phyllis’ videos I felt like I was right there with her. She had a special talent of talking to her viewers as if she enjoyed every minute of the time she was with them. She’d say Y’all this or that and made everyone feel so special to be with her for that short video time. She and Mr. Bucky had so many hopes and dreams for their future. Knowing that they’re together and making each other happy really helps me. I’ve never been around a married couple that had such love and respect for each other. They just beamed with genuine love and happiness. I never had that in my life and I feel blessed to have seen that in Phyllis’ and Mr. Bucky. They’re gone but not forgotten. I think of them everyday.
I'm so sorry for your loss! I just discovered your moms videos a few days ago. I like her gentle way of talking thru the pineapple cake video. I'll be watching her other videos. Thank you for sharing your mom with us!
Please no Steven we are here for you as well. We're all going to miss Phyllis and I know what it's like when you lose a parent and I'm sure everyone else out here in Miss phyllis's World knows that as well
I am so thankful that Phyllis answered her calling and fulfilled her purpose. May we all be inspired to stay the course and leave a legacy of kindness, strength, humility, and gentleness.
@katy bourassa I think Chesha Hodge meant, Phyllis has said she felt "called" to help others by teaching from the life lessons she has learned and by sharing her vast knowledge and experience in cooking and meal planning, with us on You Tube. Many have enjoyed, appreciated and learned so much from her videos. She helped so many, in so many ways, just as she had hoped. We are so saddened by the loss of her presence. She was loved very much and will be missed,
I found your Mothers channel about 1and 1/2 years ago and just fell in love with Phyllis, Mr Buckey and the dogs! It shortly became one of my favorite channels, I have been just broken hearted as thousands of others have been also. I will keep watching and I will go back and we watch her older videos. God Bless you and all the others that have taken care of Miss Phyllis!
You have some of your mother's facial expressions. I can see the resemblance. Your mother and Mr. Bucky were a highlight of my day. I loved all her recipes and you certainly have a treasure trove of memories! I always tried to give her a smile with my comments. Y'all take care as she's free of pain. I will continue to look up her recipes as I'm sure I've missed a few. God bless y'all. RIP Ms. Phyllis and Mr. Bucky.
@@Zombie-adventures I am so sorry for my ignorance here but is dusk to dusk a American thing never heard of it before I always loved Phyllis she was so beautiful and intelligent and calming God bless her and Bucky 😇💕🌹
@@beeohel6787 l believe it is "Dust to Dust" Bee. It is a natural burial. Your body is buried in a biodegradable box or a quilt and it is not embalmed. It was Phyllis and Mr. Bucky's wish to be buried that way.
I avoided her Chanel because I knew this was coming 😢 and I finally faced my fear and came to her Chanel today and it was what I expected 😔 thank you so much for informing us! I loved her and her husband 💞 their peaceful aura was so infectious how could you not love them!? Rest In Peace Beautiful 😘👸🏻
A Golden Soul who will be sorely missed. May she rest peacefully in God's arms, beside Mr. Bucky. Thank you for the update. Heartfelt condolences to you and the family.
I'm so sorry to hear about your Mom's passing. Her videos were wonderful, her receipts were delicious and I loved her and Mr. Buckys stories. She was a friend to everyone and I'm going to miss her. She's in Paradise with Mr. Bucky. God Bless you and your family.
Cathy Blasco so sorry for your loss. My husband passed away from cancer they found it in his liver and they said it started in his pancreas. It was a stage 4 when diagnosed so I know what you are going through.
We love you Phyllis and will miss you and Mr. Bucky! Rest In Peace in heaven together! Prayers for the family✝️🙏💕 It would be a lovely tribute to keep the channel 💕
My heart is broken but at the same time I rejoice that she's with her daughter & Mr. Bucky & Jesus. May the Lord give your family peace & unity at this difficult time.
I'll always remember your mom, she is a very intelligent, sharp and impressive woman. She's reunited with Mr. Bucky and completely healed and full of joy where she is now. She has met God 🙌 and is more alive then we are down here. My love goes out to Steeley and Sonny ... I kept thinking about them and I'm happy to hear they are being loved on by a familiar couple who have another doggy sibling for them to play with. Sending you and your family my love ❤❤❤
PRAYING FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. CAN YOU PLEASE LIST AN ADDRESS WHERE CARDS AND CONDOLENSES CAN Be sent. Thank-you and God bless ! Adc564@gmail.com. I loved Ms. Phylis and Mr. Buckey. God knows best♡
Sweet Phyllis was the finest Southern lady! So gracious, smart, talented and godly. Your family and thousands of friends worldwide will certainly miss her straightforward outlook on life and the wonderful recipes she left us. We so enjoyed her videos about her life with her beloved Mr. Bucky. Thank you for this update, Stephen. I know this was hard for you to film this. I have thought of her so often during the last months. Take care of yourself. We love you Phyllis and will miss you so much. You were one of a kind. I am so sorry , Stephen. Harriet Carr, North Caroilna
I’m so sorry to hear that she has passed. She had such a great spirit. I loved her grace and belief in God. I thought after Bucky passed she would pass. She was a wonderful woman. She will be missed God Bless and Rest In Peace dear Lady 🙏🏻
She is in the loving arms of her Mr. Bucky. She was so strong, such a beautiful sweet lady. Thank you Miss Phyllis for sharing with all of us. I am so glad I got to know you - even if only through the screen. Rest in eternal peace. 💖🙏🏼
I’m so saddened to hear this. I loved her from a screen. The best person on RU-vid. You all have my love. But she loved the Lord and is with her sweet husband. She left lovely children and overwhelming love ... her legacy.
I am just devastated hearing this. My heart goes out to all. Please do keep the channel up, even at age 56, I have learned so much from your lovely Mother. I really connected with Miss Phyllis, I too lost my daughter and she has inspired me to keep moving forward. Rest in Peace Miss Phyllis and my deepest sympathies to the family. Bless you all xx
Your words are profound. Thank you. I'm remembering all the times that she brought me so much joy. So many of us love her. Always. edit: Yes. I'm sobbing too. I hope she knows how many lives that she touched. And I'm so thankful that her son love(d) her so much. He is here. So bittersweet.
S B Hasey aww I’m so sorry for the loss of your daughter.... you’ll see her again:). But.. did miss Phyllis lose her daughter too... I wasn’t aware ... I’ve been following her for ab 8 mths now... I love Phyllis... her sweet recipes... I’m heart broken
Your mother was a beautiful, gentle soul who deeply loved the Lord and-uncle Bucky too. She clearly raised you well because your kind, caring disposition is a real tribute to her as a mother. Your mom is with the Lord and Bucky now and couldn’t be happier. God bless you.
I’m so heartbroken. I was afraid something was wrong when Renee said that you, instead of herself would be updating us on her condition. So sad, and sorry for your loss. I love Mrs Phyllis like she is my own flesh and blood. The first time I saw a video of hers, I was hooked. Her and Mr Bucky always made me happy and cracked me up. She is and will be missed forever. Father in Heaven, please hug and kiss Mrs Phyllis and tell her I love her!
I feel like I lost a special aunt. Someone you could sit and talk to when you needed cheering up. I loved watching her cook. She had such an easy style. She was a special lady. God keep you and Mr Bucky in his arms.
My own family is all gone now. Phyllis & Mr. Bucky helped fill that void some for me. They felt like family inviting us into their home, sharing their opinions, plans, memories, laughs and lives with us. Even having us in their kitchen. The only thing that eases the sadness of her passing is knowing that Phyllis and Mr. Bucky and Renee are now happily reunited. What a reunion that must have been! I wish she could vlog about it.
God bless you Mrs Stokes. You lived a good life, a happy life. Thank you for all you did and the kind person you are. I can't believe I'm crying, I never met you. But I loved you and your sweet heart and kindness that showed thru in your vlogs. Rest in peace with Mr. Bucky, dear sweet lady.
This community will sure have a void without your beautiful, smart, southern cooking momma! I’m so sorry for your family’s loss. Prayers for the loved ones.
The Lord took his daughter home❤️ she is healed… no more pain or suffering. I thank the Lord for miss Phyllis while we had her. She was such a blessing to me and a beautiful soul. May the Lord give peace and comfort to her family. Hugs 💕
My sincerest condolences to the family and friends of Mrs. Stokes. I enjoyed the videos and use the recipes. Thank you for letting us know your Mother is at peace.
Yes the world will be very different without Mrs. Stokes. OMG I am so sorry for your losses. Losing your mom and Bucky has been tough on all of us who have loved her so very much. I can't imagine how big the loss has to have been for your entire family. I kept coming back and checking the channel looking for her, waiting for her, praying for her daily. I believe that she would so love it for you to tell us stories of them both. I know how she made me feel and I felt like family. I will always miss her and treasure this channel that has been left behind. I use her recipes all the time. I know this had to have been a really rough RU-vid video to make, and I can tell that you are your mother's son. My prayers will now be with you and the rest of your family. And my hope will be that I will see her again one day. It's so great that you were able to find a place for Steely and Sonny. And I'm so grateful they were there to give her the comfort that she needed. We just don't know what his plan for our lives. But the plan for her and for Bucky was to touch us all, I am sure of that. I thank you so much for letting us all know. Again I know this was not an easy RU-vid video to make. I'm sure she will continue to live on through all of her recipes and all of her stories and all of her good will that she passed on to us in every RU-vid video. God bless your family and especially you, and all of the caregivers. She was a wonderful, truly wonderful woman. Thank you so much and God bless you always. Rest in peace Mrs. Stokes, it is your time to rest.
To the family of Phyllis Stokes you have my deepest sympathy. The kindest person may she RIP I’ll miss her as many others will. Looking forward as I believe she would like us to, ill still watch her RU-vid channel. I’ll watch yours as well thank you for letting us know. God Bless you all. 🙏🙏🙏
I never me her but I thought of her as a long distance friend. Listening to her soft, southern voice as she explained recipes was so relaxing. RIP my friend. You did a great deal of good with the time you had on earth.
I have tears running down my face as I type this, I've been watching your mom's videos down here in New Zealand and became very attached to her darling ways, remarks and her lovely personality. Bless you all, I truly feel a great sense of loss but at least her suffering is over and her new journey begun. I've buried 3 of my own children and my mom so I know the pain of loss but be assured your mom will always be close in your heart. Love❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I am so heartbroken. I loved the way she and Mr. Bucky interacted with each other The love they had for each other was so obvious Watching them together always made my day brighter
I was thinking about her alot last week, and tried to check for any updates. Her and Mr. Bucky were soulmates. You could clearly see that in the videos. I praise God she is no longer suffering. Cancer didn't win, God did! Mrs. Phyllis is healed now! And right where she probably wanted to be, with Mr. Bucky. Prayers for you, Stephen, and your family during this time. She will be missed by many, many people. But rejoice knowing she isn't having to endure the pain any longer. God bless you!
This is so hurtful.. She'll definitely be missed.... I learned so much from her cooking but her spirit shall forever live on in her recipes💜💜💜 Rest in Love Phyllis and Bucky😞
Thank you Dust to Dust, for helping such a beautiful family. Phyllis was wonderful, I think of her often. I haven't had a Mother for 20 years now, and when I would hear Phyllis talk and cook, well she was like having my mom with me and helping me. I am so sorry she had pain, and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Sweet peace for Phyllis dear Lord.
This was more than a "RU-vidr" She's been on my mind! Thank you so much for telling us this. She's been such a blessing to watch, like I was visiting in her home💐⚘ she will live on in my heart ❤...I'm still cooking her dishes. You look just like your mom..take care sir
Everybody who watched Phyllis' videos fell in love with her and her gentile voice. She was a wonderful representative of Christ. As Christians, we live our lives looking forward to being where she is now. Godspeed, Phyllis. ♥
I’m writing with tears, my mom also died of cancer, so I know the pain and loss you are feeling. I’d like to thank you for coming on and facing all of her followers, she was truly a celebrity, so considerate of you to reach out and talk with us. By now through all these posted comments, you must realize how your mom touched so many lives with her way of cooking, and how much she will be missed. May God comfort you and yours through your time of loss, but rest assured she is in heaven enjoying her new life and spreading her cheer with others still.
So very very sorry to hear of Phyllis’s passing. Steven, “Thank You” for taking the time/sharing briefly what’s been going on over the last several months with your Mom. I’ve been praying for her, “to either get over all of this or if not able to get over it, for her not to suffer” (This was my prayer for her, to our Lord). She is/was a WONDERFUL WOMAN, so Loving, extremely Caring and she will be very truly missed by us also. I know she is not hurting anymore and she’s with Mr. Buckey. I am so very thankful to you and your step-brother (Ernie) for deciding to keep her site up - for us to continue to watch her video’s and for us to be able to keep a little piece of her with us; so again “Thank You”! I’ve been watching her for many years and she has become apart of our family, as we have come into her family. 🙏 😇 🙏
So very sorry for the loss of your Mom Phillis. I just so enjoyed her just a Beautiful loving and caring lady. She will be always loved and missed. Thank You for taking the time to give us this update. My thoughts and prayers are with you and family.
So very sorry to hear that Phyllis passed away. I loved everything she did on RU-vid and will sorely miss her posts. God bless and keep her family safe. Thank you for letting us know what happened. Sincerely, Carolyn, Mobile, Al
I have thought of Mrs. Phyllis often since her last video; and prayed she was doing well. May she rest in peace. Thank you for your message to her subscribers. God bless you and family.
When I look at you and see the kindness in your eyes and the eloquent, modest way you spoke, I thought I am watching the best parts of who Phyllis was, represented in her son. I am not surprised to learn of your mom grilling the lawyer. Phyllis was always so precise and exacting and seemed to have a mind like a steel trap. I lost count of the number of tasks that people would pay a professional to do and Phyllis would explain how she learned to do it herself because she could. She was the best mix of intelligence and pragmatism. When I watched her videos she was entertaining but her encyclopedic knowledge that she shared also made Phyllis a teacher; the type of teacher that made you want to work extra hard to earn that A+. I appreciate the update about the dogs. They were an integral part of the family. You mother had what I would call a dry sense of humour; at least what she showed on RU-vid. She did a series of Steely Talks videos that were so funny. I would re-watch them and they never got old. The timing of what she said always lined up perfectly with Steely's facial expressions and Sunny's antics. It was magic to watch. Then there was the banter between your mom and Bucky that left little doubt about the depth of their love and partnership. We will all shuffle off this mortal coil but it is so hard to say goodbye. There is something very beautiful about how humans, especially the ones that lay bare their true authentic selves, can touch the hearts of so many that they have never met in person; like your mom and Bucky, their presence becomes intransient and remains. Thank you for sharing.
That was one of the most eloquent and beautiful things I have ever read about life and death. I wish I knew you in the "real world" and had you as a friend. Those who do are lucky souls
I've been thinking about Phyllis lately. She must be very proud of Stephen for keeping the channel going so nicely. Hope the doggies are still doing well.
To Phyllis’s family and friends, My heart goes out to all. I recently found her show and loved her immediately and her food also. Her food and her Kitchen reminds me of the summers I spent with my Grandparents in East Texas. My Grandmother was not biological related but no one would ever have known. My Grandmother was a wonder cook just like Phylis. My Grandmother has been gone a very long time I still miss her so much, I will Phylis too.
My, my, my. I am visiting your mom's page to review some recipes. I didn't know she passed. You have my condolences. She was truly an inspiration. God bless.
I just discovered Mrs. Stoke's videos in the spring of 2019. I instantly so loved her charm and her wonderful stories! God Bless her. May God be with you and your family. She will missed.
My grandparents passed away when I was young, so I’ve never had a relationship with them. Phyllis felt like a grandmother I never had. She was such a light in my life, and her videos always put a smile on my face. I could listen to her talk for hours. I’m so sorry for your loss, she was an incredible woman.
Close to the anniversary of Phyllis' passing (Jan. 25). Seems like yesterday. She left a multitude of loving fans who miss her so much. Thank you for keeping her channel up. Love and prayers to you all. Phyllis and Bucky on their high mountain and replaced a tiny house for a heavenly mansion.
Phyllis helped me out of a lonely depression a few years ago. Her videos never failed to put a smile on my face- I’m so sad for your family. They’ve lost a wonderful woman. May she Rest In Peace 💕
I just found the videos about Phyllis being sick and passing on. I am SO sorry to hear this. She was a blessing to me through her videos. She was such a 'real' person--we need more Phyllis's in this world!
"Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints." Psalm 116 v 15. May you find great comfort in your memories of her life. Miss Phyllis was a treasured friend to so many and she will be greatly missed. Sincere condolences to all the family.
So sorry for your loss, RIH Phyllis, you are truly missed. To the son, you are a very strong man, handling everything. God's got you and prayers going up and blessings coming down on you.
I'm sad, but I did chuckle when you told the story about her grilling the lawyer.. I have missed your mom. I looked forward to her videos. Thank you for letting us know.
Hugs to you Steven for having the courage to give us a thorough update on dear Phyllis, as you can see she was very loved by the RU-vid community and she brought joy to our lives. She was genuine and the type of person that I wish was my neighbor. Much love to you and your family and those who helped her along the way. I will certainly miss her and I am heartbroken. I will miss her personality, her wit, her recipes and her stories. Take Care of yourself and those around you. Jodie from Colorado
Very sad to hear this. Loved hearing her stories especially how they met at a dance. She’s rejoicing with The lord and Mr. Bucky. Thank you for the closure to her fans. God bless
I only just met Phyllis...moments ago in her lime jello and cream cheese frugal dessert...and the onion pie, which I haven't finished watching yet. Phyllis presented the most honest and direct youtube experience I've ever had. She knows now how grateful people are to have known her, and how grateful we all are to you and all the family for keeping her with us. We hope (I feel safe in saying "we") that one or more of her children will take up her calling and keep her style and her channel cookin' large.
First of all, my condolences. I felt like I knew her personally. She was so calming and kind. You look and sound just like her. Thank you so much for allowing her channel to stay up. That would be so wonderful !
RIP Phyllis Stokes and thank you Steven. I found her recipe for Bread Pudding with Rum Sauce and started watching more until someone said she had passed away. What a sweet lady whom I have never met but feel like she was a friend. I am going to go through all the videos now, thank you for leaving them up. You all have my deepest condolences.