Yes we are but no. If I can't be pulled apart from my mom I'd have killed myself to save her the stress of wondering where I was for 15 years at a time. At 50 I want my mom to know her kids are grown and know how to get past her dying. She died in the recent past while I was in another's nest. This is a different nest too. I'm just getting fitted & oriented. My apologies for what we don't know how to change yet.
