I’ve never felt like I connected with someone through a video untill now, I myself (24 years old) race sprint cars and lost my father at 20 , and am battling depression and everything he said resonated with me. Some of the thing I felt like I needed to hear and helped me understand my situation deeper. Thank you mr craven.
You should look into possibly getting medicated. Some of our feelings and emotions are due to circumstance and some can be from a chemical imbalance. Medication can help with the imbalance provided you find the right meds. Getting on an antidepressant is definitely worth considering in my opinion. They can make a profound difference. Lexapro wasn't effective for me but about 6 weeks after I started taking wellbutrin it was like a load being lifted off my back. Depression not only effects you mentally but if can also have a massive impact on your energy and motivation levels and medication can dramatically improve feelings of accomplishment and satisfaction which can be severely lacking when your in the midst of anxiety/depression.
@@mustangmike4078 until you want to get off of them. It's very difficult. After being medicated for many years I was tired of it I was tired of the doctor I was tired of the side effects. It was a month battle to get off of that poison. That withdrawals or horrendous. They are not good for you and should be a last resort
Hang in - I was born with a couple of challenges - when I've gotten frustrated , down whatever you call it I think about others who have it a lot worse than I - it gives me perspective -
I just turned 51 this year and also fought panic attacks (at work) and refused any medication. My daughter turned 18 this January and I gave in and started on a low dose of Prozac. I can't imagine how much different things would be if I hadn't. Help is out there, folks. The hardest part is admitting you need help and then asking for help. Thank you for your candor, Ricky.
I crewed several races with Ricky in '97. I didnt realize until then how much of a thinker he really is. Went out of his way to thank us on the crew after every race. Great guy.
Lost my dad when I was 32 very hard time. Self medicated for next 30 yrs. Found my compass all good now. We had the pleasure of seeing Ricky Craven car in Sacramento before Sonoma race
I just stumbled upon this conversation. I grew up very close to where Ricky is from in Maine and I’ve always been a big fan because of that connection. I also have a great deal of respect for Dale Jr. for the man that he is. This was a great conversation and shows that these two are a couple of the best that NASCAR has ever had in their sport!
The stigmatism about mental health is real. Listening to Ricky and Dale Jr is like hearing my life unfold out in this video. Thank you Ricky for having the courage to speak out. Dale proud of you man for helping others that's struggling what you've also struggled with.
Such an important thing for everyone to hear. Having battled chronic depression for 40 years, I absolutely understand what Ricky describes. The confusion and pain, sometimes even physical, can rob you of the ability to function on anything but the most basic level. Recognizing you need help and having people to reach out to is vitally important. Thank you for sharing this very personal struggle. - And yes, anyone who has followed Dale’s career understands the quality of person he is and the weight he has had to carry. Thanks to both of you.
As a Combat Veteran, who lost a Father that was a Vietnam veteran, it’s not that easy!! Also lost a Daughter in 2019 at 23 years old. Active Duty Military, Buried in Arlington National Cemetery. You guys have access to Medical Care that Veterans don’t. Am I jealous, Absolutely!!! Is it Fair, Hell No!!!
I just listened to Ricky's conversation with Dale. As a MMA fighter and coach and a race fan since the 80's, I can understand SO much of what they talk about. Depression, anxiety, concussions. It's like they know my sport as well.
I can definitely and sadly, relate.... as someone with depression, some days, it seems like something is impossible, but you have to keep going.. Props to Ricky Craven, for being so open, about it, and I hope that the stigma against mental health goes away at some point soon..
Being from Maine, Ricky Craven was a big deal when I was a kid. We had his memorabilia and participated in his charity snowmobile runs. Just a few years ago, went hiking by Moosehead and a kind man asked if we were good. As soon as he drove away on his ATV, I asked my mom if she knew who that was... It was definitely Ricky. :)
Jr (and staff) I don't know if you'll ever see this comment, but man, you're a good guy Dale. If everyone had a friend like you the world would be a better place and I'm sure more people would still be around and not have taken their own lives. Depression not hurts, but it Kills. Its a cruel and evil mistress that sneaks up on you and before you know it, your down a rabbit hole clawing to get out. Thank you for talking about this important topic.
Hi Dale My name is Jeff Carder I'm 64 yrs old and worked for a shop,, H&H auto,, in palm springs CA. We had a southwest tour car in 1979 to 1983,, I just don't remember the year,, I have the program and my pit pass but it's all put away. But it was at Riverside Raceway My boss and the crew and I were in line to get our tickets and I looked over to the Grand National line,, we were Grand American,, and there's your Dad Mr Dale Earnhardt,, Bobby Alison ,, Richard Petty,, Bill Elliott and the list goes on. Your Dad was driving the Wrangler car ,, yellow and blue #3 ,, Dale, I was so moved and the best part was he looked over at me and gave me a nod with his head and I about lost it To this day he is my favorite racer hands down... I so love your shows I watch ALL the time and I thank you so much for bringing all the memories back Rod Hetrick drove,, Don and Chick Hetrick owner's Your the best Dale and Kelly is such a lady and Karry is a good man... Take care of yourself brother Again thank you,, God Bless Jeff Carder ✌️😎
Dale, you are an awesome guy man! I’ve been a fan since 1998 and I’ve stayed a fan because of who you are not because of your dad. You are the real deal man. I’m sure you’ll never see this but if you do mad respect!
Junior thanks so much to you and your staff at Dirty Mo for having Ricky on your podcast! I swear to God you took my comment seriously over half a year ago about two of favorite drivers of all time having a conversation on my favorite RU-vid Channel. Junior, both you and Ricky are amazing 👏 people for taking the time to talk about mental health. It's not talked about enough. Our physical and mental health go hand in hand. There is no question about it. It's conversations like these that can help so many. Bravo! Wow! I'm so glad 😊 that someone took my comment serious about bringing on Ricky Craven. A true Mainer and someone who has inspired me over the years to pick myself up after I've fallen down. Including my quest for that first checkered flag. I love you guys! - Tim
Please note: I was in rehab for 6 months and just seeing these clips now. Again thanks from the bottom of my heart for having him on. I suggested it and you made it happen. You the best Junior! So is Craven!
Yes I understand completely the connection in this video as I've battled depression for over a decade since losing my own Mother and Father and I can totally relate to losing my compass and True North so Thank you for this video and information 👌👌👍👍👍
I don't have the right words to explain how powerful this clip is. Ricky, thank you for being brave enough to share some deep things about your life with the world. You're helping people see there's still hope. God bless everyone reading this. You're wanted, you're needed and you are so loved ❤
That was awesome. I'm in the middle of finding my true north. I can sense my compass is near. Ricky Craven just helped me take the step in the right direction to find it. Thank you Ricky and thank you Dale for having him on your podcast.
This conversation is so pure. Refreshing and inspiring. Appreciate you guys sharing your hearts. Not the first time I’ve heard a story of Dale Jr picking up the phone to check on someone. And the way Ricky describes losing his compass. I believe it can happen to anyone. I’ve lost it, I’ve found it and at the moment, seems as though my compass needs recalibrated. Life sure can be a puzzle at times.
Dam this is a very deep conversation. Just when I thought dale jr is the best possible dude something like this comes out and takes it to a whole new level. Jr is just an awesome dude, and Ricky is awesome to and very brave to talk about stuff that a lot of people would just bury in thier sole. 2 great guys
I stopped taking depression meds last year and overall this last year was the best year I've had mentally in 12 years. Went through some stuff last fall, but I powered through it!
So many times I continue to observe Dale Jr doing things because “it’s the right thing to do”. He may be a lot of things to a lot of people but he is clearly a really good human #1 - and everything else is secondary.
I've heard Dale talk about his concussions before and he's explained it so good. It's nice hearing a few people with similar experiences....it's kinda like a support group. I've been there where others just don't understand. Thanks Ricky and Dale .
This one hits home. Lost my mom at 18, we had a very complicated relationship. My father is battling cancer now in my mid 20s. Been in and out of major depression since I can remember. Really nice to hear someone understands. And for anyone else battling their own demons, keep your head up. We WILL make it through this storm.
Wow ......these discussions are the best. Very helpful. Thanks for sharing these very personal feelings. We all need help with life. Especially these days. God Bless you both for talking about really important stuff.
Wow this is soo powerful! Keep them coming! I love that people are free to share their faith on here and openly share their struggles. You have no idea how much people need to hear these testimonies and how many lives you are touching! I am blessed each time I listen!
Thank you Dale and Ricky. I delt with a farther that hated me from the day I was born. He was Julius from the Attention mom gave me. He was a Alcoholic and ran around on my mom. When she caught him with another woman he would get angry and started mistreating mom. From age 9 until I was twenty and got married we had fist fights because I was protecting my mom. My dad never did much with me as a father and son. In 1999 I had knee surgery. I spent two weeks in the hospital with a pholmiary blood clot in my left lung. They weren't sure if I was going to make it or not. When I got out of the hospital I called my dad to come visit me at home. He came in and we talked a few minutes. Then I said dad alot went through my mind when I was in the hospital. I told him I couldn't forget what he did to me but I could forgive him. I reached out to shake his hand. He got up and said he did that to make a family stronger. My dad never told me he was proud of me or told me he loved me. I wound up having a nerves brake down. I was thinking about taking my own life. Then I realized how it would make my family feel. I called and got help. To this day I still see a Psychiatrist. In 2017 I had a stroke sand I had to retire. I'm 68 years old and have a wonderful wife and family. I have a son and a daughter and I always give them a hug and tell them I love them. My wife and I have been married for forty eight years and been together fifty two years. I know I told you alot but I'm sure some one out there can relate to what I went through. I'm a big fan of your late dad and of course you. Thanks for having this pod cast it helped me alot.🙏
Dale Jr is the 💣 bomb! He is so compassionate and caring. Thank you for this interview. The world is hurting. It needs more Dale Jr, Earnhardts. God Bless. Prayers and blessings to you and your family. 🙏 ❤️ 🙏
Of all the people that have been on the show, I never expected to hear such an amazing story and then to hear his opinion on Dale Jr as a driver!!! Great episode!! Huge fan! Please keep um comin!!!!
I've always liked Ricky for as long as can remember. I always said there is something about this guy, he is different. Now I have a new found respect for him and who he is. Incredible person!!!
I am a retired Clinical Social Worker with forty years of experience with every type of human being and situation you can imagine. This was a great segment. Much respect to Ricky, Dale and all who helped to make it possible. Also, Dale, I have shared your book with clients experiencing effects of concussion. Well done.
Thank you for your open discussion of depression. I've suffered from a mental illness most of my life. (I'm much better now) I'm old, which means I dealt with deep depression and other issues for over forty years. I'm a child of the 1970s, so this means I was raised by "tough" men who weren't fond of getting in touch with their feelings. I was small boy, but I was still signed up to hockey and lacrosse, and I suffered countless concussions. I know how Dale Jr brain went all woozy. And as Dale Jr and Ricky have both admitted, back in the day, you were told to just walk it off. It's not tough to close up and hide your feelings. It's brave of Ricky and Dale Jr to talk about their real issues. It takes courage. I think these two "tough- real men", are showing strength by resisting their fears and sharing their experiences with others. Because, the worst thing about mental illness is that you feel all alone. But, thanks to men like these true gentle men, many people now know they are not suffering alone, and there's help. It's helps just to talk about it. Bravo!
I’ve battled depression for 8 years now. At first I didn’t want help. I battled through it. Until one night when I broke down and decided to seek help. I was fine for a few months, and then the anxiety attacks would happen a few times a week. I attempted suicide a few times. The doctors kept prescribing me medications to help with my depression. I’m still dealing with depression and anxiety today. I’m still on medication. I have good days and bad days. But depression is still there. I do my best to live with it and try to stay positive.
What a special video. Thank you, Ricky Thank you for coming forward and sharing your story. You and Dale can help so many folks. I have been a longtime fan from NE. Thank you for sharing your struggles to help others. Blessings to you and your family.
Thank You Ricky,wishing you all the very best in health & happiness.I believe it so true what you said about Jr.,there are thousands who love and care about him and it has nothing to do with his name.
I've always liked Ricky Craven, when he drove, and as a commentator after that. His story is very similar to mine. I go in and out of depressions. I happen to live with chronic back pain also.I've been on medication a long time, but still struggle. My primary doctor and pain management doctor have referred me to a psychiatrist to see if she could take me off my current medication and replace it. with something else so I stay on a more even keel. This touched my heart, thank you for being real men who can share.
Wow this video really hit home Thank you guys for sharing this with us. I've been dealing with depression my hole life and I'm 52 now, my first realization of depression was 2012, and at that time I knew that I've been suffering with it my whole life, I went and got help, and yes I took medication for 3 years and now I don't take any, I now take what ever time I need every day to evaluate myself and I just talk myself through it some days it's only 15 minutes other days it might be 1 or 2 hours Life is better now Thank you so much I've been a NASCAR fan since the 1980's 👍
Much respect for all 3 of these guys - and the folks in the booth as well - this is a fine program - I think there are people out there who will be helped by this - and others like myself may be picking up the phone and make time for someone else - someone who may not reach out - sometimes Its ourselves who need to do the reaching - thanks again
this really hit home for me. My dad passed away 10 years ago this coming September, and every time I think about it or him, I just go into this deep "funk". I chalk it up to just having an extended grieving, but now I'm not sure if maybe I don't suffer from some sort of depression. THANK YOU both for posting this kind of material. It's really needed.
This is such a powerful, genuine conversation. Thank you. All the conversations Junior has are basically awesome, but this is especially great to see: two drivers discussing mental health. Bravo.
I appreciate Ricky and Dale's courage to talk about these difficult issues. I wish we knew back years ago and had these treatments for some of my heroes . In auto racing that had major head injuries and concussions. Ricky and dale jr . You both were hell of race car drivers and good people.
Thank you for sharing Ricky... and thank you Jr for being such a good listener... you can tell Ricky has wanted to share this for along time.... wow... Jr, I think the impact you are making is unmeasurable..... thank you
Man I wish I could see all of you guys racing late models once... craven, bodine, JR, SR, Gordon, And a maybe Harvick. Almondinger, I know I just Hatchett jobed dingerz name , pierce, petty, that would be awesome. And all of you have your signature paint schemes at bristol or Knoxville
