All what you said is OK, thank you so much, iyawo Broda Adisa. But , I realise some people just give birth to children just anyhow , thinking someone else will help them to carry the loads and help them to educate their children, instead of doing everything in moderation. Even rich people have few number of children. For example, a bank manager decides to have a wife and two or four children whereas his messenger, or gateman or driver didn't plan his family well , having many wives and many children. Pushing their problems and responsibilities to other people in their family or office. Everyone need to learn and be responsible in this life, it's not easy everyone is managing to cope. So, help people if you can but don't forget yourself, love yourself too. " Ki eleru gbe eru e". This is not selfishness but common sense. Thank you.
