Rudy Simone's 22 Things a Woman with Asperger's Syndrome Wants Her Partner to Know 

I am an aspie. I have no handwriting. As in my hand writing has changed over the years but it has been copied and an emulation of someone else's writings. Am I the only one who has this?

Conversations always end up somewhere people don't quite understand... then they say it is random, but in my mind it is always perfectly connected. I think faster than i can explain my thoughts so sometimes people don't see how one point can lead to another but it is all connected.

Things my partner and I have struggled with in our 4 1/2 year relationship (me being the aspie): 1. my inability to look into his eyes directly (especially during heated arguments) 2. appearantly I don't "see" certain things or am not aware of them (things, he thinks he clearly points out to me, even though I feel like he's being very ambiguous and unclear. I can't read between the lines.) 3. My issues with social interaction (making a phonecall can take me a day, I need a list, of exact words and phrases I will say, and I still panic) 4. The fact that I need certain things to be done in a specific way/order. Like the way we clean the house, cook, etc. 5. I struggle with expressing my emotions while I experience them (I can usually only tell how I felt a couple of days later). 6. I struggle with interpreting his emotions, going by his facial expressing or gestures (I need clear explanations). 7. Physical intimacy requires both partners to read body-language well (which is something I'm not good at) 8. I struggle with criticism, because I struggle with taking his perspective 9. I need a lot of me-time to come down what benefits I bring to our relationship: 1. I've been told I don't tend to dissect the world into binary gender- / race-codes. (we pay the same, clean the same, build the same, bring out the trash the same, argue the same etc.) 2. I have little to no vanity when it comes to topics that are uncomfortable for other people 3. I'm not clingy or desperate to have him around 24/7 4. I may miss social cues, but I have a good eye for details and am very analytical, which always adds more depth to a conversation / arguments 5. I struggle with criticism, but am very self-aware 6. If given enough time, I can give very detailed and thorough descriptions of my point of view, that are more plausible and less vague than those of others 7. I may not be able to read body-language, but I am very articulate about what I want and how exactly / have less shame in that regard, which is key in having a consensual respectful sex life. 8. I may struggle with interpreting his emotions, but that doesn't mean I don't care. I may even care more, because to me it's a riddle, and I love riddles and want to solve them. 9. The best thing: I'm always honest. There are no hidden or mixed messages. What you see is what you get. I don't play mind-games or manipulate. There is no hot-and-cold-bs which seems to be refreshing to a lot of guys out there.

Ow. My Left Ear loved this.

Social chameleons.

Did you say Spock-like?! Ha - I've used the same description. Mr Spock was my role model as a kid "Live long and Asper"

@ nobody - Females work way harder at mastering social interaction (some girls dont but most do). If you didn't know this and that isn't your fault. But when you express her as fake, without knowing how hard she has worked on mastering her social interactions to be this "normal" then that can be a very hurtfull thing to say to a girl with AS. Learn everything you csn, not just the parts that seem to matter to you. Trust me, it will help you and your partner. /guy with an AS girlfriend.

I found out my Asperger a year ago at 45 y.o ! I have a 14 y.o son who has Asperger syndrom too. Very intuitively I've given him all I missed in my childhood and teenagehood : lots of time alone in his kingdom , support and interest in his passions , meditations to manage his stress and anxiety , lessons about social relationships , judo classes to help him feel connected to his body . .. He's a happy aspie teenager because he feels respected and guided to our strange , beautiful world .

Hi Rudy ! I happened on your video by chance . I twas nice to watch as I dated a couple years ago a girl with Aspergers . Though it Did not work out and I think partly it was her fear of telling me she had it because of being made fun of for it growing up . ( which i cant say I blame her for that ) She was a really nice girl and maybe things would have been different had I known and understood some of her behaviors which just seemed so strange . Though had I known I could have researched it as she was def worth the time it would have taken. anyways I enjoyed watching as it touched upon a few things I went thru as a Non Aspie BF . and Who knows I may meet another wonderful Lady who Happens to be an Aspie in the future . :-)

I have 2 aspie children and the more I learn about the spectrum the more I wonder if my ocd and anxiety disorder and manic depression is actually aspergers. the put me on med as a child and I have been on them ever since . so basically 20 years of meds.

Great, clear video, thank you. I just found out at 51 years old that I am an "aspie" (I don't really like that word because in my native language that mean "vacuum"). I am in shock, I now realize that my life could have been much easier if I knew what was wrong with me. Now everything make sense, years and years of pain and loneliness because people did not understand me. I even developed epilepsy & seizures since 2005 because my brain is "overloaded". I feel better now that I know what to do, this is a new start for me and my family/friends. I wish my teachers or doctors knew how to detect the Asperger syndrome, I have been humiliated by so many people (including teachers) because they did not understand what was wrong with me. Thank you for talking about the Asperger syndrome, the more people know about it, the less people will suffer of it. Alex.

How frustrating to have a teaser that says "22 things..." and then it's just an informercial. When people put something like this is a youtube title, the viewer expects to see what the title promises. You don't need to go into every detail, people could be enticed to buy the book to learn more, but it was a big turn off.

If Spock & Troy had a baby, that would be me...Data would be my brother! ;-P

I need everyone I know to know these things! The accent thing I've never known anyone else do! I try really hard not to do it. Also just excited that things like this exist, thank you!!

Could you possibly give me some help and advice?....I am married to an Aspie woman and I am trying to encourage her to seek a professional diagnosis. Unfortunately my wife denies that she has Aspergers and refuses to get diagnosed. Can you offer us any help? as I fear that without a clear diagnosis our relationship will come to a very sad end.

I'm so glad I'm not the only one who feels the same way about receiving gifts. I feel like such a bitch to feel that way but I don't want to have to actively hide that disappointment

While reading this book, I felt as though this stranger was writing my autobiography better than I could. It was very illuminating. Thank you, Rudy Simone!

Aspies are the next step in human evolution! We will dominate the world! Muhahahahaha! Although, it would be a socially awkward world, but still!

Well, 22 is my favorite number! I used to end up just buying my own gifts. lol Also, Oh My Gosh...I pick up others accents when I talk to them too, especially English accents, which I love. I never understood why. It's like a light bulb in my brain! I must get your book someday. (Greg, note the 6:44 minutes. What can I say?)

This woman has helped me understand so much about my Asperger's :-)

I'd like to hear more on the sensory issues. I'm an aspie and I always feel unbalanced. So when my boyfriend playfully shoves me or tries to pick me up and fight him with aggression. I hate the feeling and I tell him not to do that but he doesn't understand. It's very frustrating.

We feel, we just don't always understand.

Getting older it's harder to put a masks for me...

I get the whole present thing I’m same exact way. I also developed southern accent on my way to my grandparents house in Tenn. very good at parroting behaviors. No one ever understood my behavior so I was bullied , made fun of and physically abused over things I could not control as family thought I could.

As a young woman with BPD, and autistic traits, I identify SO much with this video. Thank you 🤍

I wanted to ask for some advice. I'm a 17 year old college student and I've always known I was a bit different but I come from a household that doesn't believe mental disorders or Autism exists. However, I've been told many times that I should seek out a diagnosis and listening to this video was like you were describing me. I've never been too worried about it because I always figured out ways to get by. But now I find that I'm never able to keep a job because of the social aptitude required.

Thank you for being so vulnerable, very moving. My personal opinion is that sometimes we label things incorrectly. As a researcher in bio-chemistry with over 15 years experience, I often see bio-chemical and brain imbalances that often go un-diagnosed. We then say that the person is depressed or emotionally imbalanced. It can be a simple as a person is allergic to black pepper and eats it with food often, I do not fully agree with your autism diagnosis. A simple calcium deficiency can make someone seem insane to others. (More common with women than men) I cannot recommend more highly that a broad spectrum vitamin/supplement regime, The difficulty here is that most persons will buy a few exotic supplements and then stop taking them after a short time. Stick to the basics and add condition specific formulas to counter a specific condition. I also cannot speak more highly of Bach Flower Remedies. If you were to only buy one chose Star of Bethlehem which fortifies the emotional body for strength, promotes more restful sleep and boosts the immune system. A broad spectrum regime for depression benefits almost everyone as this world tends to grind us into the dirt. We love you deeply.

I was dating someone on the spectrum and I remember thinking “must not be that interested in me. We never talk on the phone.” Now I realize, I had unrealistic expectations. She was doing as best as she can!

Maybe she doesn't want the label (or maybe you are wrong, that's possible too right?) Perhaps you should read the book. You may find that simple changes to your understanding, expectation and behaviours will make it easier for her. If YOU can quietly adapt to her needs you can become her refuge rather than yet another social struggle. If this works, after some time you may find it easier to approach the subject with her. But bear in mind, she may reject the label strongly - if so accept this

Your RU-vid presentation was exceptionally well done in every way. Thank you. As a neurotypical who was rejected by my partner's daughters (and he never intervened) I later realized each family member displayed varying ASPI symptoms. My partner's mother's bloodline affected each one. I plan to write my own observations and heart broken memory of those months as "Never the Twain Shall Meet." bitsy

This concise book has contributed to my understanding myself a bit better (as an aspergirl) and has provided a resource for my boyfriend (who is also an aspie). Thank you! Also, I too mimic accents. As a customer service employee I involuntarily mimicked the accents of customers, and this was interpreted more than once as disrespect.

I wish I could find a woman with Asperger's to date. I'm so tired of being misunderstood by everyone around me, and it would be so much easier, I think, to be with somebody who was like me.

I am on this page. I truely feel like I am high functioning "asper-girl" There are sooo many things that I can recognize with in myself. I started this inquiry because my youngest daughter is having issues regulating mood and resoponds with anger, She is 4 y/old.

I have had that experience of taking on accents quickly.

Flag on the play at 2:29 - Females like you DO have a social language, when angry, you all not only show anger but self-defense; Get butt-hurt all you want, folks, but with this type behavior there's a good bit of selfishness involved.

I have empathy..this is misunderstood...

Neither do I have a social language of my own, I always pick up accents within a day or two of traveling anywhere. People have often asked where I was from because they couldn't place my accent not knowing it was a conglomeration of the influences surrounding me. However, I was able to bring that to the stage quite successfully in theatre. In this I found success. I have noticed that as I get older my traits become more pronounced. Not sure what to do about that. It could become debilitating.

I’m 2 minutes in, learning that a lot of autistics try to hide their disappointment upon receiving something that they didn’t want. I can’t hide it, nor have I tried to. I’ve been labeled ungrateful and rude many times, including by my own partner. I was diagnosed less than a year ago. Now I feel less guilty for being me.

They say that it makes them want to vomit (my mother actually DID once), and keep on repeating: "Would you just shut up!" and things like that when I start speaking. It´s actually very frustrating, because I never noticed anything like that.

I am a 24 year old woman with Asperger's and I don't do very well with making friends or communicating with other people and I'm just wondering how people with Asperger's get help to do that

I was told by a doctor that I couldn't have it because I'm a girl. That was 1995 after another doctor already said I had it.

For 2 years I was with someone with aspberger's We tried counseling, I read everything I could get my hands on, I researched so much and tried to understand. I got to a point where I couldn't take it anymore. The person doesn't want to work on their behaviors; thinks they are totally appropriate (even violence, which is not typical of Aspbergers). I had to get out. They would NEVER apologize for insults directed at me, ever. I will NEVER be involved with someone like this again.

I am an Aspie as well. I have several daily problems but the major one is getting along with my parents and trying to hold in my frusrations. It's so hard! I feel like I could be this woman's clone. I am so relatable with her!

I always knew there was something different about me. A LOT of what this lady says sounds just like me. I was so embarrassed once when I had lunch at a BIG long table with my wacky boss and his family who had a lot of guests, and on one day the guests were French. I had taken French in school. I didn't realize it but I was speaking English with a French accent, like they were. The wife of my boss announced loudly, "do you realize you're speaking with a French accent?"

Apparently so. When I start speaking, my whole family (sometimes including strangers that come by) tells me that my habit of constant talking is unbearable. I have an extremely monotonous voice, at least everybody says so (not that I myself noticed), and I don´t do commas and other dividing marks in my speach, so they say it seems like I am saying one, long, neverlasting line.

Thank you for your books, Rudy. You've helped my marriage so much. None of the male aspie/female NT books were relevant.

I told my husband I think I habe this. Without missimg a beat he says, yup! Wait , what? Like he knew and said nothing to me, or is he joking. Seriously I cannot tell.

Yeah, I find it very considerate, that way you can avoid hurting your partner's feelings. I can totally relate to that. I prefer to never receive gifts especially for that reason. And I prefer to buy things myself, so I really get what I want. About reading books, I discovered audio books - so I always buy kindle version and audio together. That's perfect.

Not so much being talkative. It is more singleminded very isolated communication. It is often very one way. An aspie may not realise when the other person is disinterested or detect changes in tone or topic Of course, all aspies are different. But this is a very common trait. They also have quite narrow interests and not understand that not everyone shares them. A two way conversation with an aspie can feel like an interrogation Talkative, on its own, may just be nerves or a personality trait.

Ha, that explains why I used to pick up accents... Then the person would run away because they thought I was mocking them... It's not my fault I was bad at it, I just couldn't help it

Note to self : read this book.

never felt like a citizen of any particular country, or that I had any particular language, do u know what I mean

Oh god I relate so much to the gift thing. My boyfriend bought me an expensive gift for christmas and I didn't like it at all. I couldn't deal with it. I think I had a meltdown, it was just the most horrible thing. It caused us to have a huge fight and he felt offended and that's not what I intended at all, I cried a lot and couldn't sleep for two nights and it was just a horrible experience. I'm undiagnosed by the way but after a lot of research, I know I have quite a lot of autistic characteristics, not sure if I would be considered a full aspie though.

Myself got my diagnosis at the age of 40 after watching a tv-series called ”Den som får finnas” (transl. The one that is allowed to exist), I recognized the symptoms and told my psychiatrist. That lead me to start my road to understanding why I felt this way. In the end I got my own diagnosis established. I have a steady relationship with my partner for 13 yrs. He accepts my differences.

Yep surprises. Especially if it takes me out of my routine like people coming over when I'm ready to go to bed like this year when my mom who should know I don't like having people over at 7pm inviting the family over because it fit their schedules. I was so put out that I couldn't even enjoy my birthday and more upset over the fact that people don't know me....even my family because they don't understand what they think is a great surprise and nice for people to come over *no matter what time of day to celebrate* for me it was overly exhausting and not fun.

Great book. I am a male with Asperger's and I'm writing a female character that has Asperger's. The book helped me understand way better how Asperger's affects women in particular. It would be nice to find a girlfriend with Asperger's, but no such luck so far.

Thank you for the book. I'm going to get it asap and read it to my hubby. I am an Aspy mom with 2 autistic sons. My hubby has the hardest time understanding why we do what we do, or how to deal with what we do. We get into tiffs often for my and my sons' reactions to things. Anything to help him "get" us is most appreciated.

I'm sorry but not all women with Asperger's Syndrome are the same, and you cant lump them together saying 22 things a woman..... etc. etc.... Just talk about yourself if you have not but stop generalising.....

As ther husband of an Aspergirl, I can confidently endorse what Rudy is saying here. For all you partner's of Aspergirls, please buy and read her book. It's essential reading to prevent a lot of pain.

Hi Rudy. Have you interviewed couples where both members are aspies? If so do they have mutual understandings that make their relationships more stable than mixed couples?

Wow, thank you so much for this. Totally get the references, emulation (mimicry) is mentally taxing. The fact you read to your partner gives me hope of finding a person I can truly love and care for. Non-NTs have a very difficult time navigating the usual social venues...,

I know I’m late to this video. But, it just always feels like everyone says “You just have to understand her and deal with how she is.” But as someone who has dated an aspie-girl, and would consider it again, is there anything for helping her to acknowledge at least a few of her behaviors and work to try and overcome them? I mean if I had a behavior that just grated on her nerves, and it’s not something I have to do, it’s just a coping behavior for me, I’d work to change it, to help her. But it doesn’t seem like there is any, or at least not much, about how on some issues we can meet in the middle. It’s just that I’m willing to compromise, but if I’m the only person ever expected to give effort, or change any aspect of myself, I just can’t do that. Just curious. Because the aspie-girls I’ve known have all been supremely self-centered, and I’m just wondering is that just an unchangeable aspect of them? Or are they that way because people have just excused it and let it go saying “That’s just how they are” which I’ve heard that phrase a lot. I don’t know, again, just curious.

Hi, I just found your channel and I like what you say. Today is my 62nd birthday. I am a happy Aspie. You know, the kind of happy that comes with realizing I really am not part of the common human group. I learned late that I am who I am. I have been able to forgive myself and my past lovers for the failures that the difference allowed to happen.that might not make sense but the unseen but real difference would not have been such a ruining factor if I had an understanding of my own complexities, or as I like to call them, simplicities. Your efforts to clarify these will help many folks be fair with each other and perhaps avoid the type of misunderstandings that broke hearts like mine and those who I loved. Good job. Smiling, George.

When it came to things like Christmas or birthdays, I used to be ok with surprises, but now I realize how bad people are at picking things for me, so it’s better just to pick something out......

I know I do too! I'm just blind to the emotions of others in everyday social interaction. I need things spelled out for me. WhenI find out whats going on and that I've upset, or annoyed someone or something, I'm totally devastated. When I realize that a person is really unhappy/going through something difficult etc I'm overwhelmed, sometimes to the point of shutting down.

Thank you so much! I am getting better at telling my partner when I need a "silence" break.

being to talkative is another trait?

I look at myself; selective mutism in childhood, high IQ, panic in social situations, only a handful of close friends, lack of empathy to the point when I was told my friend had died and I didn't shed a tear (although I felt sad) and worst of all I hate my husband's clutter which causes severe anxiety in me. I am convinced I have Asperger's but how do I get a diagnosis?

you seem very nice.

YOUR GREAT ! YOU ARE CORRECT . WE NEED AS MUCH WRITTEN ABOUT THIS SUBJECT AS POSSIBLE .

Sure, when society learns to approach such things in a logical and level headed manner. However striping people of their rights because they may or may not be a threat because they shared a very common trait with someone that underwent adverse circumstances and handled it in a devastating way, does not benefit anyone. If you want to be free, you need to allow others to be free, and accept the risks that come along with that.

Does anyone else on the spectrum have a hard time listening to a single left channel of audio? I have AirPods in and literally can’t listen to the video because of this… 🤔

I just bought your book recently! I haven't read it linerally, as I wanted to focus on issues I was currently having. The cahpters I have read are the introduction, first chapter, the two chapters on meltdowns, and part of the love/sex part. I am so glad I was diagnosed at a young age, or else I would of been instatutionalized. When I was dignosed, I was a mess. I had socially inappropriate behavior, short friendships, and manic speacil intrest. I was dignosed at the age of 12 (10 years ago) and I'm glad I got the help I needed. With the ritual and routine, I don't mind surprises but only in certain contexts. Like if my partner was giving me a present for my birthday, I don't feel anxious about what am I going to get. And becuase of my social chameleon skills, even if he got me a really crappy gift, I would mask my distate towards the item. On the other hand, I don't like having social gatherings stacked closely next to eachother. Its not a social anexity thing, but rather a time management thing. I perceive time faster or slower compared to the NT. (i.e: an hour in real time can feel anything between a minute or six days for me)

Should have known this syndrome earlier. My gf just left me because of these weird behaviors of mine. 😭

I can definitely hear the British accent on some of your T's in the beginning part of the vid haha that's cool

It would be useful to have that book for other gender too. I suspect there quite big similiarities. I had to broke up with my partner after long term relationship. At the beginning of the relationsip I told her about my AS. She refused to acknowledge it and we never talked about it. And if she would only read one book on that, we would probably avoid most of misunderstandings and arguments.

very sweet and genuine, thanks from a fellow Aspergican~~~~~ pronounced A-sper-gican ~~~emphasis on second syllable.please

You may be my inner twin reading aloud lol sooo many times mine would fall asleep talk about ticked off how is it that what is interesting to me is a lullaby to him ?! Lol he would say " I wasnt asleep " I'd be like oh yeah prove it crickets of course

I have the volume on my computer and on this video up to max and something is wrong with the sound. It is very 'scratchy' like a very old 'cassette tape' from the 1970s and the volume is super low. With the speech being so fast on top of this I would have to keep repeating every couple of seconds to understand it...so alas, am going to pass on this video!

I am gifted adult, and most comfortable with Aspies, because my strongest trait is being able to read people, and Aspies are honest by nature, have no interest in gossip, they are intelligent, analytical, capable of abstract thinking and not prone to cognitive dissonance. They are also empathetic and capable of genuine altruism. For what its worth if Aspies where the largest homogenous group instead of NTs, we would have a world without "capitalist private property" ergo no borders, war, slave trade, poaching, and millions of rip-offs and scams that occur daily. It not that NTs are intrinsically bad or stupid, its they are biological driven by survival and procreation, like all creatures, as it is the difference between survival and extinction of the species. I only discovered I was gifted (and I hate the term) was when the war broke out in 2003. The next day I was ringing human rights organizations, unions etc to see what was being done, surely we were going to march on the capitol? The difficulties that aspies may have in reading social cues, is because NT always wear mask, there actions and words are never consistent, as they are driven by survival while taught that or society is one founded in altruism, its little wonder we live in a society that is a psychotic basket case incapable of meeting any of needs, except for the pyschopaths that are the worst possible leaders holding power

I am a guy and I recognise myself in everything you said. I don't think there's much difference between males and females. And a relationship between an Autistic (though, as yet, undiagnosed) man like me and a fully Neurotypical woman like my wife does not seem to work very well; so I hope to find an Autistic woman so I could leave my wife and she would feel very happy and relieved, and me too. And then, of course, I could finally get a diagnosis. Right now I am scared so I do not even ever go to the doctor..

Does any other aspie think that they are Much sharper than The average folks

Unroll I saw a few of these videos I felt so alone except for my mother. I just begged God to tell why I am the way I am. Thank you.

I stumbled on this video today, so after 11 years of it being published. I'm a man. I've listened to many stories now, and I CANNOT for the life of me identify with males with aspergers. But this video and other asper girls represent my experience also. I'm not saying I'm right, I'm saying that's how it feels like and what I experienced exactly (as exact it can be, since she's somewhat abstract). As if they're speaking about my own experiences. The only disernable difference I can think of is that I'm capable of reading emotion from body language AND have an intuitive guess of what it usually means. People say I'm wrong when I talk about those things (because I care they don't hurt themselves), yet proof by action I was right. If anybody reads my message still.. Could you explain how its possible to FULLY identify with female autism, not male autism? Do we still speak of autism then in a man? I've been looking for an answer even went to psychologists for it. It was not conclusive; I was NOT deemed autistic (so I must be high functioning then if I am), and highly gifted. It isn't as great as it sounds. Do any of you have an idea?

I just finished reading this book. So good!! Thank you.

Omgosh I have to say I laughed soooooo hard about the getting presents thing! That is so me! My poor partner thinks so hard about the stuff he gets me too, there was one a few years ago I finally got him to tell me what he was planning, I'm so glad he told me because I would have been sooooo mad and then felt really bad about myself

I am an Aspi and at work all coworkers are like bullying me. I have hard time lookingin ppl eyes. I keep to my self.

Yep. I picked up a British accent when I lived there.

Dating another person with Aspergers would be really hard... I can't imagine it, the both of you have different quirks and things you can't stand and the other wouldn't show empathy when you break down. But it would be good to have someone who understands what you are going through, or at least someone to understand.

Open mind is one thing. Understanding is another. Understanding why she would behave a certain way is great but when does the Aspergirl take some responsibility for her behaviours and put some thought into trying to control some of it. Or get a better grip of what's happening. Get a therapist involved. Get a newer diagnosis and question some of her family menbers in the sense that they also have weird behaviour. As a man married to a Aspergirl, who's spent years watching, listening, thinking about behaviour, I'd like to think that the effort would be appreciated. But more than that I'd like for her to be able to acknowledge this marriage and the love that it involves. Indifference to me is one of the things that is really hurtful when she does it. So yeah. As a husband I try my best, but at times I feel the Aspergirl could do a bit more of the understanding thing herself.

I've read your other book and it was very helpful. It's sooooo much easier being a partner to someone on the spectrum once you understand even a little more.

OMG!!! Yes ! This is me with foreigners!! Blame yes my life of being blamed ! Ugh

I think it is misleading to talk about your own characteristics as if they apply to others. I have a close relationship to a female with Asperger's Syndrome and she has VERY different characteristics. For example, she is not very good at mimicking social behavior. Quite the opposite. She has an extremely difficult time engaging socially. She doesn't understand social interactions and will do things that are not socially normal. I would say the biggest issue is that she has a really hard time understanding where her inner world ends and the rest of the world begins. For example, she will start a sentence in the middle of her own thoughts as if others know what she has been thinking about. People are constantly asking her "what are you talking about?"

Is it better that you both are aspie or when one of acouple is nt?

As an Aspie I can relate to that birthday/christmas present one . My brother gave me a PS3 game that I detested, I hand't played it, but I knew from watching walkthrough videos of it, that I wan't going to like it, so i secretly got rid of it, without ever playing it.

What exactly is Troplusfix Dating Secrets? How does this thing really work? I notice lots of people keep on talking about this popular dating course.

Haha. When its a woman its something to celebrate and understand. We men have the privilege of learning how to accommodate you better. But when its a man, hes irredeemable and criticized and the best thing you can do is divorce him.

Waiter, I specifically ordered an ass burger WITHOUT cheese!

Sorry if this is off-topic, but I want to encourage everyone in this thread to visit WrongPlanet.net, the social network for autistic people BY autistic people. I am going to ask the founder if he's familiar with Judy's work.

3:00 I don't hear you talking about a two way street. I hear you focusing on how "the other person" blames you instead of being understanding of you. I think it is important for Aspies to be open to the two-way street where you take responsibility for your actions and others take responsibility for their actions. I get that you have a specific topic you are covering, but if you don't cover it from an inclusive perspective, it loses value.