At the end of the episode, the daughter runs away again and leaves a note for the mom. It basically said that she was happy she was getting better, and that’s why she was leaving, so she could have a good image of her mom when she thought about her. Really sad.
As someone who is about to go into an inpatient clinic for the insane amount of damage I have caused myself over my mother; It is not sad. Sad is what it was, and moving on is freeing, terrifying and cathartic. Good luck to everyone. May we all be the people we want to be and surrounded by those who love every part.
@@TheCornucopiaProject-bd5jk *Unless you know what they’ve lived through (a parent who trafficks them for instance) because you experienced it, you’re not capable of understanding the WHY they are not able to.*
As a recovering addict with 29 years clean, I fully understand both sides. My oldest son and I have gone through intense therapy to try and heal our relationship (he was 14yo when I got clean and is now 43yo now) I had thought from all indications that we were doing really well. After my youngest son and my wife passed away in 2021, we moved in together along with his 13yo daughter (my granddaughter) since I have a 4 BR house that’s paid off. I recently found out that he still has issues with me, even though I’ve worked really hard to become the father/grandfather that they deserve. It can become so deep seeded that it hides away and waits. He had an argument with his girlfriend the other week and while I didn’t take sides, I did point out (I was asked to help mediate) that while not pointing fingers I could see her side as well as his. This immediately became I was taking her side and I was always trying to tear him down. It couldn’t be farther from the truth (even the counselor agrees) but in his mind, even though I’ve tried so hard over the years to make up for the pain I’ve caused and to actually be his father, he still resents me almost to the point of hatred. At this point he doesn’t even want to continue therapy. Part of me wants to either say fine get out of my house or to say f#%k it and just move out myself. But I’ve already lost one child and I don’t want to lose him or my granddaughter. So, I understand the feeling of loss that both are feeling.
Are we gonna talk about the fact that whats her face was able to tell just from her shoes like she was a fake cop in a Mafia movie? Or the fact that her 1st reaction to this stunt was to mention she was good with a gun??? Hiring a Night Princess to play social worker seems par for the course by comparison.
This series had the best looking actresses playing doctors from Dr Cuddy, Dr Cameron, Dr Adams and Dr Hadley aka thirteen why she was called 13 I dont know. Just beautiful and look no tattoos or piercings real women.
1) pneumonococcal vaccine is for older people, they wouldn't be giving it to high schoolers. 2) When the balding doctor calls for help, my dude you are the help. 😆
isn't this the same girl that had the condition that she couldn't feel pain but just.... older now? also wasn't the mother on another episode as a patient too?
First question: No. This is Disney veteran Bridgit Mendler. The CIPA patient [Hannah Morgenthal] was played by Mika Boorem. Second question: Yes. The woman who played Amy Duncan [Leigh-Allyn Baker] was in S02E21 - ‘Euphoria Part II’ (The season finale) Unless you mean Kally’s mom in this episode. Then the answer’s no.
I just love houses creative use of hooker-hiring. I bet he’s their favorite client cuz they don’t have to do any degrading work and can brush up on their acting skills and likely even get an outfit out of the deal if they don’t have one for the occasion.
You may have a point. I'm pretty sure a decent hooker's pretty good at roleplaying and maybe even a bit of acting in the adult industry. If the doctor thing didn't work out House might have gone into the pimp industry.
“Because she’s your mom, and for the first time she’s acting like it.” Precisely why she shouldn’t give her a chance. If she’s only a mom when it gets to the worst scenarios, then that’s not a good mom. A parent can’t be neglect, do drugs while taking care of you, and let you run away, then act like they’re there for you when they do the bare minimum and comfort you at your worst.
Yeah, but two things 1.) Mom admits mistakes and is doing better, for real, and wasn't always like this 2.) Foster care can be even worse... And I don't know who's telling the truth
I agree with the first reply. I much rather have a parent who was actually acting like a parent before sinking into an ocean of drugs, and then crawling their way back to the land of reasoning to show me true regret, comfort, and love while I'm scared and at my worst.
@@ajc1482 Mistakes and life style choice are two VERY different things. Forgetting your kids birthday, that's a mistake. Doing pills and being a mean mom, if not a violent mom, is still straight evil to do to a kid.
Imagine trying to explain to an alien that a nose bleed is a common thing that's no big deal, but an ear bleed means you need to rush to the hospital... "But they're the same distance from your brain and neither one's supposed to bleed..."
@@brandonmcglocklin9040 yeah an occasional small nose bleed doesnt mean anything, but too much blood or too often is an issue. a single drop of blood from your ear tho, that could be an issue lol
“The nose isn’t supposed to bleed, no, but it’s got a lot more blood running through it and a much thinner barrier between the blood and the outside. So, it’s a lot easier for something benign or random chance to make your nose bleed than your ear.”
"But one of the only things I can feel good about is that I never hit her." That's setting the bar for parenting so low it's practically on the ground. Actually, that's basically burying the parenting bar so deep in the ground, it might as well be underground. Seriously, the standards for what's considered 'feeling good about' in parenting couldn't get any lower.
@@Catstronautgirl Yeah. And apparently, despite your outstanding ability to summarize thing in the most caricatural way in order to reduce the subtleties of body language and situation, or in that case, of good writing and acting, you still didn't use a iota of this obvious intelligence to try to understand the conversation. It tells a lot about you. You are able to, yet you refuse to. You are able to watch an extract of a clever show, yet you refuse to see it as something else than a black and white movie that will entertain quickly and without any effort your satisfaction neurons in comforting you in your predetermined opinion. Ultimately, it does give you your shot of dopamine. However, it makes you look like an idiot, who is happy to not understand, and glad to post about it online. Now, I'd love to read the answer of a clever person to that. Unfortunately I do not bother keeping track, thus, I suggest you do not either bother. By that, I mean replying to me in particular. If you actually care about what others will think from this reply, and/or simply want to have the last word, be my guest. You can keep it as short and caricatural as you want, I won't defend myself. I suggest "ok boomer" or "too long, didn't read", that usually works fine for those who want an easy rhetorical victory over a difficult argumentation.
“Once a wifebeater, always a wifebeater” - this goes for all kinds of abuse. Someone that hurt you regularly will do it again, unless they die before they get the chance.
True. Someone who uses violence to victimize someone is doing it to experience a sense of power, which is like a drug to some, when you don't feel like you have any agency in your own life. Exerting your power over another person in that way, to really hurt someone, will always be a default expression when they feel like a victim. It's like violence is a drug, or abuse in other ways that causes real agony, is a drug. Someone can be an addict to violence of one kind of another. You don't stop being that way. But you can recover like alcoholics or drug addicts do.
Just gonna put this spoiler here... At the end of the episode, the daughter runs away again, leaving a note for her mom saying that she doesn't want to be there when her mom slips again and would rather remember her the way she was at the hospital.
Thank you. I figured the whole "for the first time she's acting like [a mom]" was bullshit. If you had an abusive parent, you wouldn't be surprised what they are capable of.
@@earthchild03 It was not bullshit though (at least the way it was shown), Mom was (seemingly) genuinely trying to become better or at least she thought she was aka deluded herself into thinking she could fix it (not defending her ot taking sides, just clarifying how it was shown in the episode).
As much as I love this show, it's ridiculous how they gloss over family abuse/neglect. They really jumped the shark when the daughter just accepted her mother in seconds after asking about the mom's condition on the vacation. With a show fixated about lies, doesn't it seem odd that the daughter suddenly came around on her mom after 2 whole YEARS being away from her? This show is great and yes a ton of things are dramatized for a good story, but this one was truly mind boggling.
@@BorikeTheBlackDragon Moments like that in the show ticked me off Like, it's not okay when it happens to patients but if it happened to House, it's perfectly fine? Double standards
I would like to disagree with you. I think it was really cool that she was gonna give her mom a second chance, but I can’t get past your post. You have a valid point.
It happened to me a week ago, then I realized a bug bit me outside my hear. Lol. But for a second I told my husband that I was dying. His response…not again!
One of my favorite episodes. Also has one of my favorite lines: Seeing as your the brains of the operation you might want to stick around. Why so I can get busted by social services? No, so you can stop bleeding out of your ear
Love this cause she did most of the talking which sets up red flags. He only spoke once when house asked him a question directly. That’s setting off red flags. A real dad would chine in here and there about stuff. Then how they both realized there busted and up and leave tell house tells her she’s bleeding from ear.
Is this just me or in this hospital people never get better, somehow just get worse and worse.The doctor can make simple cough and cold or seizure look like a nuclear missile and every action or behaviour of patient is seen as a new disease or a symptomp of worse condition
There is an episode when a patient has something rather trivial, but the team misses it because they only deal with "zebras". In the first season the patients House got also usually went through multiple other doctors, a step they later on just skipped and basically made House(s team) the first one to treat
This episode gives so much vibes like it was wrong for her to hate her mom. No her mom has already traumatised her for the rest of her life it doesn’t fucking matter what she does now. She caused her suffering
How does House get to the hospital when it's snowing? Wait a minute , he must drive the Corvette that mobster gave him instead of his motorcycle. Okay.
"House left a bottle of Vicodin to see if she'd steal it. She gave them back." So she's smart enough not to fall for a trap? Functional addicts can be really good at faking sobriety when they feel they need to. Have her take a drug test. *Then* you have proof she's "getting better". But I'd should still be the daughter's choice about it. She's old enough to have a say in her guardian.
I like how every time house talks nonsense then he like stop for a moment then like he knows the answer and just immediately gets up and walk a way to check it😂
Free speech: What a bunch of busybodies: doctors investigating patients like they’re criminals; always there when you Don’t need them: the two w the brown hair are unbelievably swarmy
She did. She can technically get it back. We're not shown which one's telling the truth about abuse, or if it was neither version of what they're saying
@@antithoughtpolice7497 I don't know how to tell you how obtuse that is. Or just how absolutely stupid I suspect you to be. A MINOR is a child. Someone who isn't supposed to be on their own yet. And you think it's the kid who is at fault? Please. Get. Some. Thoughts.
They should but how do you know she was abusive? This wouldn't be the first time that a child lied to get back at the parents for some reason or another. Not saying to discount what the child said but, you have to remain objective to the facts and investigate not just jump to an irrational conclusion, as you seem to have done.
sometimes a drug addict is a better parent than foster care.... there's a lot of horror stories out of the foster system.... a lot of really messed up people pretend really well to be normal, good people and then they do terrible things to wee ones who can't protect themselves
Pretty much the only thing I didn’t like about this show was how the doctors always inserted their moral or philosophical opinions to patients and their family. Things that are very unethical and could lose you your license. 😅
I hate adams in this episode “But shes acting like your mom now” Ya thing about abusers is they are very good at presenting a good front *IN PUBLIC*. Course shes on her best behavior, people are watching!!!! Theres a reason when people get outed as abusers they have people who flock to their side and dont believe it, or even those who do say “but there was no signs how could we have known!” Oh but she says she never hit her dauhter! Gee, who should i believe here? The self described opiate addict with no doubt a long history of lying, or the child who was the subject of the abuse? Shes twking the mom at face value when she really shouldnt
7:00 If you can wait until your child goes to bad, maybe you can wait until the go to school the next day. If you can wait until they go to school, maybe you can wait a bit longer. Quitting drugs can be hard. Maybe it would be easier you you just keep waiting to do it later. I am an expert procrastinator. I've been doing it longer than I've been alive. I was due in early December, when I still hadn't come out of my womb a couple of days before Christmas the doctor said to set up an appointment to induce labor for December 30th at 2:30 pm. I was born on December 30, at 2:30 PM. Without being induced. I just waited as long as possible. When I had a heart attack at age 50, I went into cardiac arrest for four minutes. After 4 shocks the doctor finally decided to give up, He was about to say, "Stop CPR. Time of death is..." when I woke up, realized they were performing CPR and I said, "Should you be doing that when I'm awake?" So again, I wasted until the last second to come back to life. I don't have any addiction issues, but if "I'll do it later" works for me, maybe "I'll do it later." will work for you.
My youngest daughter was also overdue and the docs scheduled a c-section. Her mother went into labour the night before and she was born naturally some 15 hours later.
I really wish that's how active opiate addiction worked, but it's not. When an addict is in recovery, the living minute by minute thing really works. A sponsor might tell someone that wants to relapse to just stay clean minute by minute, hour by hour and day by day. Being in active withdrawal around a child can be scary for them as it's not something that is easy to hide. Legs and arms flail around, there's severe diarrhea, vomiting and profuse sweating. Hot and cold flashes, muscle weakness and even seizures. Not to mention the mental side effects.
I took these drugs for over 20 years, I never considered myself an addict. When my doctor told me that my liver was damaged I stopped from one day to the next. Those were chemically happy years but not real.
i been binge watching a lot of such videos... Honestly, almost in every one of them at least once they assume it's cancer. Feels like a magical illness which causes all sorts of stuff and if doctors cant explain what's happening 'must be a cancer" Quite disturbing to think how much danger cancer is posing. As he can be everywhere and cause such drastically different problems
