You are soooo cute plzzzz gussa Mt kro.adhiktar auroton k yhi hal h meri khani v yhi h Mai joint family se belong krty hu aur teacher hu JB Mai pregnant thi TB subah uth k sb k nasta bnaty thy adhy ghr k Kam kr jaty thy 2bjy school se aakr phir sasurji Jeth k beta in in SB k liye lunch bnaty thy TB v vo log khush nhi ghr k Safai sb Ko khilaty 4bj jaty thy phir tution 7bjy tk padhaty thi 7bjy k bad rat dinner vo sasurji k alag husbnd aur Jeth k farmais alag 9bjy tk SB khila dty TB 11bjy tk kitchen aur kal k adha Kam rat Ko pura krty thy phir school k lesson plan k alag krty krty mijy 12bj jaty thy aur rat Ko bed pr jao pati alag muh fula k bthyga tumhary liye mere pas time nhi us wqt to man krta tha pury ghr m Aag LGA dun .mainy jitna tension pregnancy jhela.usky bad v sasural vly khush nhi .lyf yhi hasty bolty aagy badhty jao ajj mere jeene hasny k jariya meri beti usy dekhty hi meri sari tension dur ho jaty h.or hn khana waist Mt krna rat Ko who khilana .mainy Puri khani likh di pr drd yhi bta payi
So sad to hear about your life story May God give you courage ... don't worry and be happy and please be careful while marrying your daughter be vigilant while finding a husband for her salute to the most strong woman I know 😍😊
Hello dear ,Pankaj same Mera haal meri pregnancy mei same tha husband Jo bhy samajh nai thy ki Kuch na khey mujhe or har ek din tention or gusey vala gya Mera or aj mere do bachey hai per dono bhot zidi hai rotey hai bhot jyada toh aj mujhey sab sasural valley sunatey hai ki ma bhy toh aisi he hai or koi kheta hai ki pregnancy mei mei shant nhi rhi tabhy aise hai per ustym kaise rhety thyk mei kya apki bety thyk hai.
“Mama Kush hogai”. A little bit of appreciation from your daughter brought a smile and relaxation on your face:) this is why it’s important to appreciate a women who works so hard to manage household chores:)
Im a guy and i love cooking. I cook almost everyday in night after work. Sat n sunday morning breakfast also. Not everyone is same. I work in mnc and senior position. I cook everything what my son wants and even my wife appreciates my cooking. Instead of complaining on my wife that she cant cook this n that, i learnt cooking myself. Hai na jhakaas 😀
But but but you guys have loads of other mechanical help..like dishwasher ,vaccum cleaner, waching machine and what not😄 i am in india..no maid no machines no family member help..just me
In USA, we work full time. When reach home, take care of husband, kids and finish household chores. No complain about life. Being a housewife is blessed, someone taking care of you 100%. Please appreciate life and forward positive message on social media. Thanks
True ,I am from Canada and my life is same,9-6 working then take care of kids , husband and all house chores like cleaning,giving bath to my daughter,feeding her as she is just 3year old ,later puja and then dinner .once done later cleaning kitchen and dishwashing...by the time I go to bed is 11:30 sometimes 12:00,still no appreciation
hello dear it's ok I am a youtuber a teacher a house wife mother of my very naughty kids but it's ok I become tired of doing all day work and night with my little son. but I have to keep myself calm because I'm here for them .I have to do these duties if I am happy or not. so why not happily. keep it up 👍👍👍👍
Yahan pe jitna log abhi ro rahe hain..when their daughters will grow they will forget all this and they will force their daughter also to marry and face the same thing!
Toh galat kya h ? Jis se aap pyar krte ho uske kiye khana bana na kya galat h ? Sb toh aish kat ban ke nokar nhi rkh skti na. Ladki hi nhi ladko ko bhi khana bana na sikhana chahaye mothers ko
It's the most common thing she shared... And it's about time men show some gratitude to their better half who is also working hard to make a house a home. She is wise enough not to disclose any private issues...unless it is really necessary and she's not getting any support from people closest to her...in which case it's the right thing to do..reach out to people who can help.
Right, ye to har lady ka kaam h ki apne husband aur apne baccho k liye khana bnana n ghar smbhalna. Itne se kaam me din bhar kese lg jata h aapka?aap akele family rhte ho aapke in lows aapke saath hi nhi rhte to fir b aap itna irritants ho rhe ho. Aapne kaam dekha nhi h shyd abi, apne in lows k saath rhke apne husband apne baccho ar fir ghr smbhalna vo hota h kaam. Mere in lows 80+h dono ko bed pr hi khana pina krana pdta h. Unke kpde dhona unke kaam krna +mere baccho ka ar mere husband ka kaam unka tiffin, ghar smbhalna ye hota h kaam. Ar in sbke baad b jab aapki saas ye kh de ki tum din bhr krti hi kya ho tab jo dukh hota h na vo dil dukhane vala hota h. To ma'am mera yhi khna h ki bina inlows k akele rhe ho, jyada responsibility b nhi h aapke uper to aapko to itna preshan hona hi nhi chahiye. Saas sasur ki sewa krke ghr chala ar aapni family b smbhalna, vo hoti h responsibility. OK.
@@mysweethomerichasharma6545 ryt yr ,bhut dil dukhta h jb pura din kam krke sbki psnd ka dhyan rkhne ke bawjud apko ye sunne ko mile ki tum krti kya ho ya tumne kiya kya h ya fir gr me kam hi kya h.wrk sbse jyada tbi hota h jb in laws sath ho
Richa Sharma sas sasur ki seba karke kya milta hai? You middle class housewives...so traditional thinking..tum log khud hi apne life hell bana Ke rakhna chahti ho..be modern..and earn yourself get a job and keep a maid for doing the services for your in-laws..that's why today it is necessary to take enough and higher education to get a job for all the girls..because does your husband do these services or so called "seva" to your parents? Then why Indian woman are so stupid ? They want all the sufferings themselves..change your mentality and get rid of gender stereotype.. Equality is needed..i am not saying that you should not love them of course you should love and respect them and also take care of your family but not on alone..you should keep housemaids..you may cook for them but you should keep a maid for taking the extra care or the "sevas".. Because it is our society which has made the rules that woman should take care of her in-laws .but man should not..these rules are made by human being not by god..and our society is a patriarchal and men dominated
The best part was that despite of getting disheartened after doing so much for the person you love and still didn't get valued for the same, you got so happy by mere appreciation from your daughter! That was so pure and so innocent of you! Hats off 😊
Happens to all homemakers. Its ok. Mood upset na karo. You are doing such a good job. I know this msg is very late but its always nice to hear some encouraging words.
Don't get upset this is the common problems of husband's. U should cook once in a day n only 1 dish. Keep urself busy in ur own work. I also love ur arvi recipes. Thanks
Ma subha 5 am sab se pehle uth ti hu raat 11 vje sab ke vaadh soti hu. Europe me 9 ghnte daily job, two school going children, husband.daily fresh cooking sab ke liye.this is life.
Itni bari baat nhi jitna drama kiya log tau purey susral ki khidmat krtey or in return appreciation bhi nhi milti ap tau sirf husband or beti ka Kam krti ho.
Susral alg hota ha or husband alg.husband aik bth ghlt bol da wife BHT Dil pa lati ha. Or susral kuch b bol da itna mind nhe krti bahu.she is sharing her fellings only.drama AP na bth sa bna Diya inho na nhe.
ap bilkul sahi keh rahi ho kia kam kia he inhone hud hi ho gai me bachon ko such me bilkul alag alag diah bana ker deti thi or joint famly sub service per ladies bhi service karti thi or aj bhi eh hi hal he itni oily bani he idly
Sab ek jaisa nahi hote hena usko usi time pe boht bura laga ta isiliye usiko rona aya. ap sab rote nayi kya. Khana kaisi bhi banavo pura usme menat lagti na naito pura automatically banataye ap sab usko sorry bolo
That's natural at timed we women think like this .at least she's not making up or faking it .keeping it real.think about the hard work she doing every day .hopefully it husband cares well abut u.dont disheartened dear
I don't understand why u r share ur personal things on u tube it was very normal thing.. U should ask to ur husband before making lunch I think. I always ask my husband that what he want to eat in lunch and dinner. So if he had some plans he shared with me. Husband and wife both need to understand the importance of each other. Ek dooje main glti nikalna bnd kre or khud ki glti realize kre and live happy married life.
Ye vedideo dekh ke me khudko lucky man rahi hu me joint family me rehti hu but mere family vale bohat acche he Meri Sasu mom muze bohat help karti he Sasur ji bhi mene khaya nhi khaya bohat care karte he meri muze kabhi Bahi jesa fill hota hi nhi ghar ki beti jesi rehti hu i am so lucky .....😊
Wow, i can't imagine doing all that work alone. I have a baby that I look after but lucky that my husband doesnt complain about what he wants to eat. He makes his own breakfast and lunch, also cause he's not Indian. I only make dinner 🤭 and that doesnt include making roti. It's always soup or steaks or something really basic. And if sometimes i decide to make my Indian food he would eat it and loves it but doesn't ask me to make it everyday. Cause he cant handle the spices and flavours. Why dont you have breakfast with your husband and ask him then that what he wants to eat in the afternoon? That way you dont have to work extra hard on making things. You deserve a break. I normally have breakfast with my husband where he feeds baby and at the dinner he feeds baby again. I am a full time mother and he works 12 hours. But he knows how much energy it takes to look after baby, clean the house keep it maintained. I really really really hope and pray that things get better for you if they are not going alright. Communicate with your husband if you feel like you're not being appreciated. Good luck. And my apologies for a long comment.
Kudos to you for managing home and your own creativity so well. I feel very overwhelmed with house work as my daughter is only 2 yrs old so can't make time for anything else. Indian home makers have the most difficult job in the world.
Mam agar itni garmi he lg rhi h to Baal Kyu open kiye hue unko bandh lo n jab hum kitchen me khana bnate h to Baal bandhker rkhne chahiye...ye bhi nhi PTA apko... RU-vidr ban jaate ho lekin PTA kuch Hota nhi h🙄
Mai to working bhi hu fir bhi koi value nhi hai .... Chahe home maker ho ya homemaker + working .... Wife wife hoti hai and sab aise hi deal karte hai .... Pta nhi kab value hog
@ektaa gupta if it's not all about cooking then how longer you can live without food.... and we all know that it's not "only" about cooking but you can see the above comments that's why we said this things.
Nd 2-3 trh ki sabji hoti h har meal me Coz shop h apni to saasu ma ka bolna h ghar me kmi hi kya h jo dil me aaye vo khayenge konsa kharid k lana h.. But ye bhul jate h k ration ghar ka h but banana bhi to padta h😢😢😢
This is a story of every women’s life but don’t feel angry just be happy no matter what happens as it’s good for your health We can’t change people but ourselves to keep us calm and happy By the way this arwi recipes is Awesome will try it sometime inshaaAllah
I felt so bad for you when you start crying, a man can’t understand our hardwork at home, they think we are just sitting and resting at home all day and the only person working hard is this man alone.
2 logo k khana bnane m itna rona 😂😂 yha aakar dekhu puri sasural team 11 logo ka khana bnana marwar ki garmi m julaskar b bnate hain ek kya 2gnte ek jese khade rehte hain upar se koi kaam wali ni hath se subke kapde dhona fir bacho aa jate h wo aa jaye to sona b nasib ni jadu pocha sub kuch krma pdta usme b sasuji ko kaam m kami lgti hain or aap ite m gabra gai ... wa bhai wa🙏🙏 wa...
The first recipe shown is not Appam, it's called paniyaram. Appam is a recipe with rice, coconut and fermented coconut water, made into a batter and fermented to be used next day
Can totally understand your situation .. ... we housewives .. need this todka... Just keep saying . all is well !! 😊.. Just go easy ... trust me it really helps me to calm down as well.. I feel ur lucky it’s just 3 of u .. some staying in joint families .. half of their lives simply goes in the kitchen .. u still had some time to go for aerobics .. do the editing make ur fav breakfast ..and have it peacefully .. some don’t get to do that as well ....
Yea.. i used to get frustrated with my hubby's changing plans.. now I don't mind much... Khana hai toh khao.. nehi toh mat khao.. waste karo.. mujhe kya ?
Men's will never understand the hard work of a house wife . They think only they r the one working. But they don't realize tat we womens also work from morning till mid night . Men's at least get paid. We womens work for free. No salary. Still they don't realize it. It's k. It happens with every house wife.good work. Am ur new subscriber. All the house wives if u agree with me hit like.
Mam also add tomato in that vegetables... I also love this vegetables.... Don't feel hurt when ur husband doesn't hve lunch with you.. Give the same vegetables for dinner... Why Indian women give so much important to husband.. U did ur responsibility. That's enough... Love from Afghanistan
Apni personal baten duniya ko kyu batana chahiye aisa to sab ghar me hota hai apki to ek meri to do betiya hai aur donon ki pasand alag hai to kya kare sab humko hi karna padta hai
You are a hard working women I always respect a lot all hard working persons, respect and love for you, bhagwan aapko bhot trraki de taki aapki life aasan ho.
I am ur new subscriber because you are so good mom and and I keep following you .i am not indian but I can feel the real mother work is not easy as everyone think so love you so much ❤️❤️❤️
Aunty/mam, aap roi iska mtlb aap hum logo ko apna samzti h jo humaare samne aap ku aakho se pani aa gya..! Mai aap k feeling ki respect krti hu.. n hr ek husbnd ko apne wife k kaamo ka reapect krna chahiye.. ! Unke baccho ko b apni mummy papa ki thakan ki energy bnna chahiye. Aur uncl samzenge aap ko mam.. aap bohot acchi ho.. n shayd saaari mummiiyaa jo h duniya me,aisi hee haalat h unki..!! Bss husbnd gr samznewala mill jaaye to wo doubl energy k saath kaam krti h.. love u aunty..! M wid u
I truly believe what she said...even when I was child before I also irritate mother ..but now as professional working one I felt this struggle of every female 😭 whether it's my mother or sister... We should do one thing if female are now educated working professional, then y not males cannot cook n do home stuff things ...work should be done by both parties now 🤔
Now come on.. Yeh toh mere yaha roj ka scene hai. I live with my parents. Mom like simple food.. Dad spicy one... My son like delicious recipes. When hubby comes he wants kind of boiled food. Many times a lot is left.. So what... Just don't show these little conflicts to world.
The best thing is to cook what you like and what you are comfortable with. If husbands have special preferences, there are multiple RU-vid resources to teach them how to cook. Let them cook at times. This works!
Loved both your dishes. I’m surely making appam n Arbi curry soon. Looked very appetising😋 This was a total unedited type of vlog where you shared how you really felt about your husbands choice and decision and was happy that you thought to give him same dish for dinner rather make another dish. I could see you sweating. I’m saying this as there are so many people who don’t even are fortunate to see or smell delicious food like this. You’re very hard working and that’s why we love you more😘
Nice video but kuch working women ki lifestyle or bhi jyada hactic hai. Boz family doesn't want maid. To in sab kaam k sath sath office ki bhi tension. (Being 8-9hr working women n 24 hr house maker) I can feel it why husband are like this boz physical stress n mental stress jyada hota hai what they are facing in office everyday.) Gym classes to dur hume to hair comb krne tk ka time nahi lagta.
It is really difficult to manage home but we ladies live for our family our husband and our children are the ones in our life for whom we take so much pain because there happiness matters a lot to us love your efforts 😘😍
Good you showed this in your video.Your husband will definitely watch this and next time he will not repeat this.And many suggested you should not show this....my question how long the woman of the house should keep quiet and be the sati savitri.I felt you did the right thing and it will be a kind of teaching for the quiet sober housewives👌
You would have chit chat with your husband about lunch plan ,before you cook according to your mind plan. This is what most of the smart women do about cooking plan with having conversation with family... By showing yourself crying infront of camera as you are very hard worker & no one value your effort is meaning less.
zabardast.............khane mein gosht bhi shamil karo, khas kar ke bachi ko gosht zaroor khilao.....meat is good for your health.........(Lahore Pakistan)
Nice appe reemaji 😊👍delicious arbi ki sabji prashant ji ne miss kr di🤭..yummy food..koi baat reemaji naraz ni hote..aap dono bhut acche couple ho..😊👍nice vlog
Haha you are so cute yar tension ku leti ho har ghar ki kahani ha jab b kuch bnao to husband asy hi bolte ha or editing karna sach m kuch mat pucho boht mushkil ha m NY new start kiya to ufff kabi voice ki problem kabi kuch kabi kuch but phr b kuch logo ka pyar mil raha ha har urat ki kahani ha yar