As someone who is trying to heal her sexuality.. I feel so safe here. Not going to lie, sometimes it intimidates me to see the confidence but I just need to remember that I will be confident within myself, too.
I'm in a situation where I might be losing my virginity to someone I trust sometime soon. I have previous trauma that I've been overcoming with baby steps, both with them and on my own. Hitomi, your videos have really been helping me with my personal healing and has been helping me feel more prepared. Not just physically, but mentally and spirituality. Sex is gradually going from something I feared to something I look forward too. Thank you for helping
sweetie, I understand how doe that feels and I really hope that when you do it you feel loved, beautiful and safe. You are so brave, sending you a big hug
When it comes to trauma remember to let the body lead, it is so intelligent and knows when things are safe for you both externally and internally. I hope you have a lifetime of love and pleasure.
thank you so much for sharing, I am in the same situation, and knowing that there are other people that are also trying makes me feel not alone. Hope we overcome this together. We deserve it
Thank you Hitomi, as a male who has had sexual issues & addiction problems all my past life, this was very healing for me & I appreciate you so much for it.
I adore the way she uses "whips" and "hair-pulling" to describe sensual and sacred sex. They're things that are typically associated with being more "kinky" and "dirty" but it's nice to hear it be used in this context, where it's simply for the person's pleasure and connection to their own body.
I have a question. Why do people still have sex? Sex is very gross, nasty, messy, and disgusting! I don't see how sex is a good thing. Why don't humans just remove sex from this world? Women can still get pregnant without sex (there's a lot of ways women can get pregnant without sex including artificial insemination). Sex does cause a lot of problems, so the world might be a much better place without it.
@@icysnow57cold64Because many people enjoy sex for pleasure, intimacy, and other reasons. Sex isn’t just about reproduction-as evidenced by homosexual behavior in many different species. And even if we all wanted to give up sex, it wouldn’t be possible for everyone who wants to reproduce to be able to do so artificially. The barriers and propensity for gate keeping with only artificial insémination would likely be just as or more inherently harmful than sex itself. If you don’t want to have sex, then don’t. But don’t tell the rest of us what not to do with our bodies or shame us for our sexuality.
i've had some issues with sex due to some stuff and even hearing the affirmations you said in the beginning, "i am worthy of feeling pleasure", made me tear up so much, thank u so much for this
"i would much rather you learn from me than some evil website" this somehow made me feel so safe, youre literally a guardian angel 🥺💓 thank you so much for this!
Its so nice to see that people see sex as sacred cause thats what it is. This was a beautiful video and the part where you can say affirmations to yourself after a climax was something that really resonated with me. Thankyou for this video :)
I really wish we could have been so honest and open about sexuality when I was young in the 60's and 70's. People and especially woman could never talk about this back then. Most woman did not even know they could have an orgasm let alone talk about it.
I thought the 60s and 70s were one of the most sexually liberated times? Free love, psychedelics, music festivals etc. Young people on average had a lot more sex back then than now
"i'm gonna draw some shitty drawings of these" then proceeds to show the cutest line work drawings lol i could listen to hitomi talk all day. i feel like this video is gonna help a lot of people. it definitely gave me some ideas.
Hitomi, thank you for being the big sister I need and talking about these topics that are considered ‘taboo’. You have helped me get through my Catholic guilt and love my body. I’m not sexually active but I feel how that after watching your videos, I can take control of the situation when I am good and ready to enjoy and feel my best. Sex should be beautiful, thank you for showing the internet this perspective. 💛
I appreciate this so much. My sexual trauma has had a huge impact on my sexual life in ways I can't even explain to my partner and it's so hard to find any sort of help online.
These are literally some of my favourite videos😍 the way you make talking about sacred sexuality and pleasure such a safe and vulnerable thing is extremely liberating🙌🏼 thank you for this beautiful video Hitomi❤️
Very much spiritual! I’ve never really wanted to admit it but I’ve always craved intimacy on a higher level & spiritual sexual sensual emotional connection during sex.
I am so happy you talk about these things. But I have to be honest, I feel so much shame around my own sexuality that it is hard to watch. I used to be so open and vulnerable in my sexuality, but after som past experiences, it is really difficult to feel that again... Thank you again for bringing your light to the world❤
one tip that really improved sex for me was to center it around experience and pleasure over treating orgasm as the "end goal". it helped everyone be so much more present, feel safe, and have so much more fun!!!
Sexual intimacy is a beautiful experience when done with someone that is worth of you and your energy. Love making is so sacred as is an exchange of energy and karma with your partner. Honor your bodies by only allowing inside of you a person who is equal of your vibration.❤️
I recently decided that I don't really believe in God anymore. Sex is so demonized in organised religion and I am learning to be comfortable with learning about sex. And I am becoming more comfortable with exploring and learning about other religions, so thank you very much, Hitomi, because you are making it feel a lot more comfortable for me to learn about all these new things. I love it!
God made sex for you to enjoy actually. It is absolutely beautiful and in the Bible he tells you its ok. Being with your life partner and enjoying your bodies. Also having the opportunity to create life. Sex is good!
Believing in God has nothing to do with religion, you can believe in God and learn about a things in your own way and not to believe in religion, it's up to you
I'm glad you touched on yoni mapping. Being able to communicate this to a partner is so vital. For them to envision the locations for the mutual connection. I also think a sequence of positions can provide healing, and build capacities for making the most of everyday.
Those drawings are amazing!! Love how you featured a strap on too. Conversations like this are so important to ending this ridiculous stigma around sex. Go you x
this video made me cry so hard... its just so beautiful to finally see someone talking about sex in such a sacred and safe way. thank you so much for being, Hitomi. you truly are an earth angel ❤️
I have been recovering from a lot of sexual trauma, and this video was so helpful as now I am in a meaningful relationship and I want to be able to have amazing sexual experiences with them, not traumatic ones. Love you so much Hitomi :)
i grew up in a conservative religious family and sexuality was never discussed. I had an idea of what I found attractive, but I couldn't verbalize it in detail really. I still feel like I'm muddy on the details. I really love the idea of speaking affirmations during sex. I think I'm going to try some of those positions you mentioned with my partner too. This was such a powerful message for me and I really needed to hear it. what a divine message. thank you ❤️
Your so open with absolutely everything to the point it feels like we're all your best friends with no secrets. I feel like there's a video of yours for every part of my life and I love and appreciate every part of you and your honestly I will take parts of your video for tonight thank you xxxx
Thank you for this Hitomi. It really should not be a taboo topic, I’m hoping more people will open up and break out of associating sex with shame. Please keep doing you, you’re such an inspiration 💙 (Your dress is gorgeous btw)
Thank you so much for creating a safe and welcome space to speak about sex! It can be so hard to find conversations about sex like this while we're living in an age of hook up culture. This reminds me that I'm not crazy for feeling sad and used after a hook up and that I deserve the love and intimacy that I crave. Speaking about sex in a safe, positive, and beautiful way is the kind of sex education we need! Your courage and confidence to speak publicly on such an intimate topic is admirable and so appreciated, friend. You are an angel on earth, Hitomi! Love and light to all
one of your older videos of the same topic is how I found you and you opened my eyes to things I never thought possible and that I needed to come from such an intimate thing (especially as a late bloomer). these are always my favorite videos when you make them. thank you Hitomi for always being your true and authentic self and sharing that with all of us
I just came by to train my listening in English (I'm in a journey to achieve fluency in a second language) and turns out I found this video very insightful. Great job 👍
hitomi you’re so wonderful. thank you for being so comfortable to share all these things on the internet. you really make s*x something so comfortable to talk about. you really foster such a safe space
thank you so much for this. I have a TON of shame around sex because of the way my mother made me feel about it when I was a teenager, and because I was raped in my first relationship. This video was healing and makes me feel so safe. xoxo namaste Hitomi
hitomi you’re so wonderful. thank you for being so comfortable to share all these things on the internet. you really make sex something so comfortable to talk about. you really foster such a safe space
Hitomi could you make a playlist for your sacred sexuality videos? Your videos have healed me so much. Having a sexual trauma background you have giving me the safest channel to reconnect with my own sexuality, body and spirit. Tank you from the bottom of my heart!
I am so so glad, I discovered your chanel. All of your videos are calming and comforting. It's really helping me to be become kinder and starting to love myself. I can't even describe how thankful I am.
I needed this, thank you, depression, bpd and an addiction really changed how I feel about sex and during.. I wanna start feeling light again, I never feel In the mood anymore
Although I'm a person with strong asexual tendencies I really love to watch your Sex Ed videos, because it makes me see sex from an other perspective. Thank you!
loving all the diff sacred videos you've been doing lately. i connected so deeply with your sacred sisterhood video & now this one!!! as someone with a lot of trauma, this is the exact advice i needed to try to heal those past traumas and to be able to enjoy sex to its fullest with my partner. love the idea of a much deeper and spiritual approach to sex! i feel so safe here hitomi, thank you so much for making these videos! i love you so so much queen!!
Thank you for helping to dispel the guilt and shame associated with pleasure and sexuality and being so open an honest about your process. It helps uplift the collective self as well as the individual. loving stillness...
I am so shy that I can not show my face to camera and Hitomi talking about main event :) of the night for that couples to millions on RU-vid. Encouraging and very educational. Thank you Hitomi.
Thank you for doing that kind of video, it's very helpful and liberating to hear those words from someone. We don't talk enough about sex in that pure and loving way 🙏
Thank you for this Hitomi!!!! Your videos are so healing. I think about you and the techniques you have shared in your videos throughout the day to help be more mindful and grounded. I also think of you as an older, wiser sister who is guiding me throughout my experience as young women. Sending love always 🤍
you are just the ultimate queen hitomi!! like thank you for being you and for openly sharing. thank you for expressing your truth because it inspires me to share mine! much love
I wish I had an older sister like Hitomi. She has taught me so much ❤️ Again so much that I feel like the people around me would just never want to bring up or even go near because for the way they have been brought up and growing up being told that a certain subject is bad to talk about etc. That you Hitomi for sitting down and giving these talks. Really appreciate it
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You are helping so many people! I have shared multiple of your sex tips videos with my friends and we all have learned from you and grown sexually through you!
I feel like I can’t talk to my older sister about stuff like this because I’m always judged thank you for bringing me comfort you’re like an older sister hitomi🥺
I love you, thank you for doing this and for embodying the feminine energy so beautifully. This was very empowering and inspiring. Thank you for creating a safe space for these conversations, it feels like I've just had a good talk with a friend.
Thank you for this beurtiful video. I found you through a video you made with Isabel Paige. I'm in my 70's now and my wife passed away from cancer a couple of years ago. Could you do a video for the elderly regarding this same topic? Thank you. Namaste
in my mind the plant on the left and right are the same and U are sitting under an arch of leafy goodness telling me the most comforting things. thank you for all that u share with us, i’m going to bring some of your teachings into my own personal experiences. much love Hitomi❤️
Thank you so much for this video, the sacred knowledge that you're sharing is really helping me to love and discover my body and my soul even more. It's a really long and sometimes difficult process, but it is so worth it when results finally come out. Oh and you're so beautiful, this dress looks so good on you sis ✨ you're such a queen, thank you for everything ❤️
wow this video really speaks to me. I literally feel like you are talking directly to me as if you were like my best friend. thank you for your amazing spirit🌼
