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Sadia, your guidance has proven incredibly valuable in helping me understand different viewpoints and fostering better understanding between genders. :)
Pearls father raised her with the “f your feelings” mentality and look at her. In all her masculine glory. Is that what men are thriving for? Masculine women? I 100% agree with Sadie, shes about teaching men and women to understand each others differences rather than constantly fight for one gender or the other
THIS!!! It’s actually funny how Pearl shames women for being masculine when she literally shows masculine qualities. You’re supposed to be nurturing to alll not just nurturing to men. She’s combative and loud which I hear men on Pearl’s podcast say is unattractive
Pearl is not advocating men and women to be divided but the double standards that exist in society for women where they have to be treated special but at the same time be treated equal in all aspects. If the same thing what Pearl says was said by a man… no one will listen and misogyny is the label applied and they would be cancelled in a nanosecond. If the opposite of calling out on men’s flaws happens it has to be protected and called feminism 😊
I used to listen to Pearl, but day by day im starting to believe she is actually growing a penis, like wtf. Thank you Sadia for being eloquent, calmed and elegant.
I used to listen to but was so off put a couple months ago. I believe someone said she's the female andrew tate and it really got to her. ,and shes trying so hard to moprh into him. Even Andrew has talked about how he talked about women in a negayive way in the past and realizes he was in the wrong. She thinks Andrew is going to fantasize about her and approach her by putting lowering women to sub-human. Literally, she not only doesn't have anything positive to say about women, but she talks about us is such a degoratory, toxic way. thinks she's one of the bros. Literally there's a video where she talks to a Catholic man and tries to force his view that men should only marry Virgin women, even if they had only one partner who they were married to previously . Thats extreme, just like she said sometimes things don't work out. It's not the same as someone sleeping around without seeing it be wrong. According to that, no man should marry her, because she's not a Virgin?
Pearl can agree all she wants with those men in the end they would just wanna take a woman like Sadie out for a nice dinner and get to know her. Sadie is so beautiful, elegant and well spoken a true lady.
This type of men don’t give a fuck about her intellect though. In fact it might turn them off. But they’ll definitely be attracted to her looks. They’d ideal is a woman that looks like Sadia and says dumb shit to stroke their ego like pearl
And That's why her argument in a debate is telling somebody who unlike her is keeping her calm to not have an opinion because she doesn't have a "millions subscribers"🤣🤣🤣 Indeed we see how her dad raised her to be so hurt and shallow
Yes, she was brainwashed by her father, it seems that also her father did not respect the mother. And Ofc she says everything also for content and likes! Sadia called her out!
This red haired woman is focusing so much on men being better than women. And the dark haired woman is focusing on healing a family/society as a whole.
@@RR-et6zppearl is only looking at one perspective and refusing to admit that women also have a perspective that shouldn't be ignored. Yes facts are important but so are feelings. Men can be emotional and the worst thing he can have at that moment is a cold "rational" woman instead of a caring kind woman. She may recognize that her man is being irrational but still be loving to him in that moment. It goes both ways. I think if Pearl got married and was interviewed years later her perspective would be wildly different. Dating vs a healthy marriage look very different and require the strengths of both the masculine and feminine. They compliment each other not suffocate.
@@RR-et6zpI haven’t even completed the video and I can tell you that my opinion halfway through is that Pearl is ignoring facts. She is solely focused on men and their perspective; as if women don’t have their own perspective of things. It’s obviously not the same; men and women are designed to do different things. However, when both learn how to communicate effectively, it makes a world of difference. That world of difference is unity. In unity there is strength. It behooves us to learn to communicate how the other understands. It’s not every waking moment that a woman is “emotional”. The word emotional is nearly always used in a negative light when talking about women. And men aren’t always logical. Men have emotions too. Exactly why they fight. Either their pride was stepped on, they were disrespected, they feel jealous, they want to conquer, avenge, revenge, etc. It behooves everyone to learn the other’s way of communication so that we can resolve situations quicker and live more amicably. The state of affairs today is a result of no communication and constantly blaming the other side, without anyone taking responsibility for their own or their side’s actions. I truly hope one day in the very near future we all stop belittling each other and decide it’s worth learning to communicate effectively and respect each other and ourselves.
When she said what kinda father would you be and they went silent!!!! That says it all right there. They just dislike that she is changing the narrative on their community…..Character is priceless!!!!
I loved that part! My husband would be seen as a manly man. He is hilarious, full of dad jokes, hard worker, provider, not very emotional like at all, definitely has a f*** your feelings you gotta work don't be lazy stop excuses Yada Yada BUUUUT he's also a father and step father to sons and daughters and even he works on being more emotionally sound to be able to carry and hear his kids feelings and recognises that sometimes we don't need a solution from him. We need a listening ear. He is determined to raise his boys to be better than him and not have to learn this stuff in his 30's. He jokes about my psychology stuff (I'm a wellness coach) and Is a smart arse but he knows it has merit and can actually step up and shut up when it's called on him to be that role instead of the stoic logical one. Personally speaking, if he was a man that had the mentality Pearl speaks of... He wouldn't have been able to help his son through his anxiety attacks and hold space for him while his son couldn't control what was going on in his body. Sorry this is a long one I just hate that Pearl sees it all as so black and white and men shouldn't have to adapt and grow! We all should.
I agree. I'm sorry, but I don't think Pearl believes much of what she says. She's all about views and clicks and money. I feel like she looked for a way to be controversial so she came up with this drivel!!
Team Sadia 💯 this Pearl person doesn't know wtf she is talking about. She doesn't know jack shit about traditional women she is white and has no culture. Being a traditional wife doesn't require raising 10 foster kids. I would hate to be her.
What are her credentials? I have watched her a few times and she's said nothing impressive. She doesn't sound like a trained psychologist. She even was told by a guy that rejection when asking out a woman was very unpleasant and she responded in shock/surprise. "I guess since I'm a woman, we don't experience that." It's..common sense. What did she learn in psychology school? I've heard no data, no studies, no core concepts, nothing.
The fact that Pearl not only keeps pandering to the men but starts becoming openly hostile with Sadia when she's making valid points that the men understand is sad and funny at the same time. She was so angry at the attention Sadia was getting and it speaks volumes about her character.
Pearl threw that cheap shot about teachers on purpose knowing Sadia was a teacher in the past. She’s normally articulate and mature but she showed her age right there. I use to respect certain things she’d say, but that just made me like her a lot less. I’m a nurse, without my instructors and teachers I would not be a nurse.
Much respect Sadia for having the patience to sit with Pearl and listen to her neurons attempt to fire. Pearl is a class clown and she does not deserve someone of your caliber to be within the vicinity. She is very clearly jealous of you and not from just a physical, but an intellectual perspective. She argues in bad faith and is very disingenuous. A pure pick me grifter to say the least, it’s all a mask she puts on for money.
You can tell Sadia is a well practiced listener. She actual let's pearl finish her points vs pearl interrupting. Listening to understand vs listening to respond. Nice to see in action.
Pearl is a pick me, period. Sadie your the highest person in the room. Thank you for standing up for yourself & not what’s right but 100% correct and true.
Sadia, your patience with the people in this room is incredible. The wisdom and love you continue to fill the room with goes unnoticed by everyone in the room. Its hard to get a message across no matter how simple when everyone is consumed by their egos here. Keep spreading love and wisdom to the world and I know in time, you will shine light on this darkness. Pearl is not. Love and light, sister. 💜
She probably likes women on the down low. Ain’t no self respecting woman could ever actually agree with her opinions. That’s all it is, an opinion. What gets me is she’s nowhere near the situations that she blabs about, she doesn’t have kids, not married and I’m sure she’s not a virgin, so 🤷🏽♀️ But she feels qualified enough to speak on it. She could never speak on my behalf or even have me think in the slightest that the shit she talks about is what’s best for me.
@@colourqueen22true. She has the same "masculine" faux alpha energy that a lot of these petulant, messy dudes try to emulate. They're all just rude and weird.
Sadia is also masculine, she always has to have the last word and she thinks she has it all figuered out and never listens. Those are masculine traits, putting on makeup and speaking in a sweet tone don't change that. I've seen interviews with her where the guy in front of her won't take the bossy attitude and looks right through her, and in those situations she becomes feminine and puts her head down, but she is masculine by default or until checked, she is a modern masculine woman.
Pearl doesn't even have a masculine energy she just found the red pill propo and ran with it because it sells plus she's a desperate pick me girl and thinks this is what men wants
Sadia is so level headed. She’s always advocating to understand each other & bridge the gap between men & women. She wants both to get their wants & needs met so they can have successful healthy relationships. She’s much more nuanced than anyone else I’ve seen. Plus, she’s actually educated enough to speak on this based off of more than anecdotal evidence. Side note: I’ll never understand how you can admit women are emotional by nature & want a feminine woman… but not want her be emotional??? Yet, we’re expected to deal with the all traits that come with a masculine man??? This is why I’m glad Sadia exists bc she points out the hypocrisy from either side.
Men didn't say that they do not want women to be emotional, they want women to understand that there feelings and emotions are not as valid as they have been told they are. Instead women are made to believe they are above men and get more privileges then men in western society and now they are on more anti depressants with mental health going up more and more. That is a major red flag but females fail to see it clearly because they are getting emotionally manipulated.
Yeah men actively want emotional women because it makes her nurturing and feminine. They hate masculine women so it’s hilarious watching them say this. One thing I’ve noticed too is that men are emotional. They just use anger, and think it logical. Men constantly fight each other over perceived slight. They constantly kill each other due to petty shortsighted argument. You’re in jail because some dude bruised your ego and I’m supposed to think this is logical?? they just view their own sense of despair and negativity as factual. And Sadia is right. We are designed to be intuitive and that’s supposed to balance us. Men say they suppress their feelings. This doesn’t mean it magically goes away. No they create a world view that operates based on their suppressed feelings. And they think them being logical also means the information they have to apply that logic is factual…a man who thinks all women are gold diggers treats them accordingly, this doesn’t mean his assumption is based on truth whatsoever
Sadia gives advice that turns men into the ones women ignore on a daily basis. Pearl is still finding her voice and can’t articulate things well yet. When I see Sadia I think to myself, “this is why guys want to go swimming on the first date.” Plus her “over the hill” is showing.
Sadia you are meant to have discourse with MUCH MUCH MORE INTELLIGENT INDIVIDUALS. But thank you for facing these kind of individuals and educating them on behalf of us!! Keep it up Sadia !!!
I’d rather discuss with Sadia how different we are and how we could come together than having a woman like Pearl that tells me how right and great I am all the time. Friction is important for continuing attraction.
You can only say that because you haven't even seen good marriages. Harmonious marriage is the biggest boon most people can have in life, but it's almost non-existent nowadays.
exactly Pearl has a bit of a "pick me" attitude where she's always defending men. I mean ok men need help and support these days, however, like Sadia said this sort of attitude is not constructive to society. we need to support what's right, not men all the time, that's weird.
@@mariemghanmi8647a little bit 😂 she screams PICK ME and will preach from her entitled position but she’s never been a housewife or raise kids!!!! Wonder why …. 🤔. Saida is a GEM and I agree with her 100%
Oh poor Pearl! So much to learn My dear, Men and women we need each other, families and societies thrive when we learn to work together with each other. Love the simple logic of Sadia, keep the good work! Bravo 👏🏻
Wow this was very eye opening seeing Sadia and Pearl in the same environment. At one point Pearl had my attention but hearing Sadia’s perspectives just makes so much more sense to me.
Yes, Pearl glorifies her father for raising her with the said "f your feelings" mentality yet it shows in her mannerisms that she's masculine. Maybe she should listen to Sadia and learn that a man NOT raising a girl that way is another way of protecting girls. It protects a girl's femininity. A feminine girl turns into a lovely feminine lady. A lady that will be a gentleman's prize.
Pearl is 26 , western, no marriage...not even a relationship. Influencer. Sadia however..36. Pakistani, engaged, psychologist. I only take advice of people who have the relationship that I want. Pearl has nothing. Nothing. She's just saying some stuff to get money and sponsorship. She quit her regular job to be an influencer.
@@SozjeCat. You're using the female metric of succcess lol. Pearl says facts only, sadia doesn't and it's because most psychology is BS. You dont like accountability
Pearl sees no value in a woman. She's a woman herself, but thinks that we are doormats. To her, a woman can't survive without a man when women hold their homes together. Our feelings, desires, or opinions,, don't matter. She wants to manipulate women into thinking they have nothing to offer a man and we are worthless. Imagine having a friend like her. The confidence and self-esteem of her friends are probably in need of serious rescue from Sadia.
I have been following Pearl for a while and what you say is simply not true, I understand why many women including yourself do NOT like Perl, because it exposes the ridiculousness and delusion of women today. * Practically everything she says is true, certainly women would not survive without men, today in the West women feel that they are independent, equal if not more capable than men and that men are useless But have you stopped to think about the difference between today and an environment thousands of years ago, such as a cave, in which a woman clearly needs a man for her survival. --We are in an artificial environment that allows women to perform otherwise the reality is that they could not BUT they do not remember that this artificial environment is based on the hard effort of men and exploitation of others *Feelings They are not true, so if you feel like you can fly do you have to jump out the window? --Clearly you shouldn't-- But if we follow your "feelings" you throw yourself away and that's how you end up with yourself. A woman is not worthless but she certainly does NOT offer the same degree and diversity of value as a man romantically/sexually speaking. *But for women, it is now difficult for them to accept that the PRIZE is NOT you but the man. But this does not mean that we do not have a good relationship between men and women, it is simply how it is.
Pearl’s relationship inexperience and masculinity is incredible. Only on the internet would a contradiction on this level be taken seriously. Sadia added great balance and was low key calling out the grift.
This is why I never engage in debate of man Vs woman it's always a never ending because everyone chooses to give the win to who they can understand 😂 clearly they both make perfect sense to me ,Sadia is all for the standards we should aim for, whereas Perl is factually just repeating in words with no emotions what women do 😂
It really speaks to Pearls insecurities when she has to make a point at the expense of making someone else look or sound stupid.. just to cater to men and try to get their approval.. So glad to have Sadia give a very well balanced opinion for each gender to choose and decide rather they agree or not.
Yes I'm so glad you see it too. Pearl (or Hannah rather) is truly insecure and it shows. However she does have some valid points so it gets her a following. She's just so darn masculine, many women are rubbed the wrong way by her.
@@EpicAelflaedit’s interesting that you reference her always speaking “facts” when she has been called out on so many occasions for misrepresenting data/using statistics with extremely small sample sizes OR using older studies in favor of more recent/more comprehensive ones and then bases her entire worldview off of said flawed evidence. In fact she was corrected multiple times in debates for using a false stat about divorce and admitted she was wrong and then went on her show the very next week and used that same stat again. She knows what she’s doing at this point and I will give her props for fooling a lot of men into following her by making them believe she’s some kind of men’s rights advocate. Pearl is looking out for her own interests just like every other RU-vidr out here. You do realize that by design she chooses low value, unintelligent, and promiscuous women to come on the show and spew a bunch of entitled nonsense just to feed into her audience’s worst fears about women in general? Feminists do the same thing with men. They will point to the worst men in society and then say all men are trash. Pearl and the radical feminists are two sides of the same rusty ass coin. Also she has literally never been in even one successful relationship herself but has tricked thousands of men into believing that she is some kind of authority on male/female dynamics and relationships. It’s honestly shameful that she has so many guys black pilled because of her terrible advice and her “facts”. Please do your own research and stop believing everything influencers tell you, especially when they have a financial incentive to keep you shackled to their narrative.
I have a bit of an issue regarding the well balanced point you make. Sadia right from the start came in and dictated that women are feelings based and men are logical and then goes directly to stating that men must move and change and relate to women on a feelings basis to be able to communicate and resolve things. In other words, its on men to change and leave their comfort zone and become more like women. She does not deal with the reverse situation at all. She just as easily could have presented the other side of that coin. Women could force feed themselves into dealing with men on a logical point of view and leaving their comfort zone. But there was nothing there relative to what women ought to do, just men. Now I do take her point, which is valid, that if men and women wish to coexist and communicate successfully, they need to be tuned into how the other functions and work on adapting to what works.
@@JamilaS84 Calling Pearl insecure is something typically only women do. The Pearl haters go even further, they say it's depressing to see her being so insecure. You see how nonsensical that is, don't you? The reason they say it is because they're projecting, it's not Pearl who's insecure, it's her haters, and that's why they find it depressing. I agree with my 2 previous posters. Pearl knows her stuff and says things that men who aren't sucking up to women are thinking. Sadia tries to dictate how men should treat women, just like Pearl is saying. Which in most cases means that a man isn't allowed to criticize a woman, or she will cry and he'll be a misogynist. When women are pushing their emotions into the foreground, it's usually because of this reason that they want to make themselves uncriticizable.
Yess that was so valid. A channel having more subscribers does not make them "right". They truly are just highly controversial. However, controversy won't heal our society.
Pearl just repeats things she’s heard men say and what she thinks they’d like to hear. The thing is, Pearl is the masculine woman the men low-key don’t gravitate towards for romance. On the other hand, Sadia is the feminine, graceful, elegant woman they want to date and marry.
Actually the issue that all men have is we want the look and body of Sadia, but we want the personality of Pearl (men are the leaders, I'm a woman and I'm DESIGNED, to listen, not overtalk, not compete, cater to, nurture, my husband and kids, and make a happy home, and not be a headache.) Pearl knows women have 3 purposes in life baby having, wives, and mothers. That is literally it. Easy what kind of father I will become. My daughters will understand firstly how to VET good men and I will have a hand in that. Secondly, they will understand their place as a companion not a competitor. She will understand that true strength and power from a woman comes with her ability to care, love, nurture, and helpmate her husband, not be a pain in the but annoyance. She's gonna be a great wife and mother. So to sadia I would say I and men like me will raise the best mothers and wives and continue the species. Sadia doesn't have anyone in her life. No kids. No husband. Her parents treated her like a middle child would be treated and she has a lot of things wrong. Which is why she's single. My daughter will be a wife and mother before Sadia can say fuck you feelings.
Let’s get Sadia to 1 million subs guys, we need to empower the voice of reason, empathy, civility and balance. And to drawn the noises of ignorance and those who “fame hungry at any cost”
Absolutely!!! I think I have to save it just as an example to train this skill 😅 BEST EXAMPLE OF HOW TO BE PATIENT AND NOT BEING TRIGGERED OR ANNOYED (at least not show it in your face) I have a huge respect for her ❤
@@meilina3475 I don't think so. Pearl is way more down to earth, and Sadia is just annoying with her evasive questions and her spirituality before logic. And Pearl is right about Sadia, Sadia is trying to dictate how we should talk to women. First is "take their emotions into account" and soon after we're not allowed to criticize women or otherwise they cry and we're misogynists. It's ALWAYS the same with women like these. But this is Sadias channel, so there's gonna be lots of simps who're sucking up to her, and on Pearl are the ones sucking up to Pearl.
@@nightmareTomek you sound like you hate people with spirituality😂 Why is that? Sadia never mentionned her spirituality in this video, and even if she did, it's her personal belief, she argues with facts and science and logic, trying to get messed up men and women to a common ground of mutual respect. That's what I perceived from this video and I agrre to that. I would add, Men are never born alone, women are never born alone, it takes a man and a woman to receive another human being. Therefore men have to respect and honour women and women have to respect and honour men, TAKING INTO ACCOUNT THE NATURAL DIFFERENCES OF EACH OTHER. You should know that because someone has faith, myself I do too, doesn't mean they are illogical, and only arrongance would make someone assume that. Now when you say that men shouldn't learn how to talk to women, I hope you insinuate that women shouldn't learn how to talk to men either? In that case how do you suppose a society would strive for the better??
Sadia: Marlon (Faking Ignorance/Low IQ/Triggered by him) Male Guest: Its Myron Sadia: Fuck His Name... Male Guests: What happened to "If it leaves your mouth, it's in your soul." Sadia literally contradicts herself a second later and drops her fake pious/righteous mask the second she hears about Fresh and fit/Myron. She fully knows, even if myron has some flaws, he still is way more moral and superior than her in every way. This person is an OP/Npc/ undercover feminist pretending to be muslim/positive influencer. The Muslim community doesn't claim her. She is a terrible role model. Myron would destroy her/cook her in a debate. No contest. I pray for any man who associates/marries with this women, she is a walking major redflag. This person is chaos in disguise. She will secretly sell her soul/loved ones/possible husband for the right price/clout/influencial power/beneficial opportunity, mark my words....
It is interesting how Sadia’s femininity shows up in her overall approach (not only her looks and manners) - she wants to bring understanding, love and peace between genders… Unlike Pearl who besides her very masculine appearance and body language, also has a man’s way of thinking - very competitive, needs to dominate, driven by success instead of the message/helping people for real, and as once asked - she wouldn’t move to Africa if her husband asked her to because “it just wouldn’t work out for her” although she is judging other women for not following their husbands’ lead… Basically, every man would see her as a “bro” rather then a wife material :)
@@yongdeng1813when one attacks another on a personal level and asks "Who are you to tell someone...", constantly interrupts and doesn't allow them to speak etc, it's evident who is right and who is wrong. Anyone with common sense and pure heart would agree with what Sadia is saying. Pearl's behaviour is so rude.
Hearing Pearl ask Sadia who does she think she is because she doesnt have a millions subs. and that they'd prefer entertainment over information shows just how delusional and ignorant people are. I am contented to have finally found a good female role model like Sadia.
@@stevet6676 Pearl has earned her position on the social platform by speaking the truth and calling women out when they contradict themselves which is very often. Sadia is great and offers a different perspective though I don’t always agree with her - I still respect both her and Pearl. They are helping us men and women improve and understand ourselves
@@EpicAelflaed Can't argue with your thoughts Lee. I agree that these women help us learn to relate to women better. My comment was more directed at the platform of social media. Content creators are "graded" on subscribers, views and likes.Therefore, an individual has some split motivations: talk the truth, but talk to win views.
I remember watching this show, coming across you for the first time and thinking that you handled yourself extremely elegantly. You ironically offered the 'voice of reason' that these red pill shows are so evidently lacking. Honestly it was quite frustrating to see how the host in particularly seemed unable to acknowledge the merit in your arguments which even I as a grown man with a wife and children can truly appreciate.
I love how Sadia asked the room if they met a traditional man and the room went silent for second, Pearl had to think hard about that question 😬 That in itself speaks volumes.... Everyone has an opinion aka a list of how a traditional women should be but they can only name 2 things a traditional man should hold.
Yes that is what people do when you ask them a question take a min to think about it and answer. Men assume traditional roles by nature. It’s innate in us to move that way for a woman we love and for family. Men by large have not changed, we don’t move the goalpost. On the other hand 🌚, what do you think a traditional man is?
@@Nita-qx2fk loud and wrong, Men need to be fully submerged in their purpose then their family not the needs of the wife. She supports and be proactive to the needs of her husband. Family oriented not this Me me me culture we have now.
@@niyimakinde3176needs meaning, sexual desires and gratification outside of wanting that with his wife. And what is the purpose of a traditional man if it is not to provide for and protect his wife and family? Is this not his purpose? And is the wife not part of the family?🤔
sadia makes complete sense. sadia actually cares for society. 'most men have traditional values'- find me many men that are able to remain virgin till marriage
Men marrying as virgins would only work in a culture where there are arranged marriages between two that marry shortly after reaching puberty...I believe they found in a survey or study that the majority of virgin women would prefer that their first sexual experience be with a non-virgin man...
@@JesseC620 I think the people that answered those questions were probably non-virgins themselves. I wouldn't trust that survey unless the only people who were surveyed were tradtional women. Traditional people are shy about such topics and view them as shameful to discuss openly.
Watching Pearl get uncomfortable by Sadia had me grinning the whole time cause BITCH NOW YOU KNOW WHAT A REAL HIGH VALUE WOMAN IS & GUESS WHAT PIPPY LONG STOCKINGS IT AINT YOU!😂 love ya Sadia!
There's a video out there where someone presses Pearl about the purpose of what she's doing, and she fully acknowledges that it's just for entertainment, she's not actually trying to help people live better lives. You are. Kudos and godspeed.
@Jayson KnightYes, I do. She's not saying the things that are most likely to get clicks and she obviously has a professional life outside of social media.
@Jayson Knight Sadia doesn’t make “a tonne” online lol! She doesn’t say anything popular to even get paid for it, but she eloquently speaks for good women out there who haven’t been able to put into words what they are really trying to convey without coming across as feminists. Sadia is not a feminist, she represents good women who are the ones that aren’t represented bc the Manosphere decided to label “all women” as gold-digging h*es!
OMG my blood pressure flew sky high just listening to Pearl. I hate that she keeps saying "who are you tell us blah blah blah.." Sadia, I don't know how you are able to maintain a calm disposition. I wish I have that skill.
This whole conversation is lesson on contrast: Sadia is so intelligent, sophisticated, feminine and refined; in contrast Pearl comes across as someone with low intelligence and poise. For someone who complains so much about modern women not being feminine, she exudes a LOT of masculine energy
Pearl just explained why she is the way she is. She was raised by an emotionally unavailable father who did not consider the emotional well being of the members of his family. A mother who endured emotional trauma and abuse and thereby taught her daughter how to not take up space in her own life and relationship, how to dumb down herself psychologically. Result, when pearl sees other women doing the opposite she sees a woman who does not know her place, who is a threat to the status quo. Her mind fights against this reality simply because she cannot reconcile herself to the fact that how she was raised is not the regular mode of operation. This is the reason why she fights tooth and nail to defend the abuse she raised up thinking was normal
I get what you are saying about pearl. I think her mum and dad both have masculine traits as it was her mum who nearly aborted her child but instead she gave the child away unmarried at 17! Her mum works with her dad. She's always worked . If she was a stay at home mum, pearl would know how to cook and clean. Pearls feministy isn't shown not because she's not conventionally pretty or agrees with men. You can still be feminine and agree with men but she is very masculine
Most masculine men are emotionally unavailable....That's what makes them strong. We know that it's a woman's job to cultivate children emotionally. It's our job to provide and protect. That comes from an instinct of responsibility, not " emotions."
@@RR-et6zp True, there's no EQ in women vs men, let alone amongst men. Still, Pearl is a self-loathing, condescending, woman-hating a-hole who thinks the stats she blindly spews justify assholery for men against women. She even shits on her own personal on the show. She does not care about men. She does more damage to relationships.
Sadia, you are intelligent, graceful, feminine and beautiful. The host cannot handle the fact that you speak so logically and proving some of her points wrong. You do not deny anything, but speak logic and facts. We need more women like you, who go to these podcasts, intimidate the angry hosts with a fresh perspective, and leave an impact on everyone. For the first in all these podcasts, we see someone wanting to bring love and peace between men and women. Love you ❤ keep growing.
Damn, is this woman a shrink? If so, explains a lot.....completely clueless, just like the profession. And a hard core, toxic feminist. No, it's not in the least Sadia that people are "hungry for conflict". People are hungry for fairness and justice. And for decades, men have been getting completely chewed up in family court, falsely accused, defamed historically about everything, made fun of and mocked....while they are still the ones doing pretty much ALL OF THE HEAVY LIFTING. Now, there are forces, ie, the manosphere, that are finally giving some good push back to get justice for the men that have been being eviscerated for decades. But because you are a hard core feminist supremacist, you don't like it a bit. That is why you do such things as recoil at MGTOW. As Pearl said, it is completely understandable and justified. If you really cared about people "coming together" you would join in the millions that are fighting hard to get men a fair shake in court and in society in general. Where there is no justice, there is no peace. Period. But you would rather that everyone just "come together" in some kind of childish, fantasyland, where "coming together" for men means exposing yourself to being destroyed under the current legal paradigm of marriage and coupling. You bring zero solutions.
“HOW ARE YOU GOING TO RAISE DAUGHTERS?” …. The hush that woke them up!😅 Pearl…. “I was raised like that….”😂 men don’t want their girls to be that way….😂
Pearl is out here “coaching” women meanwhile is single as a roach with NO HUSBAND. In the presence of a Wife and true classy intelligent Human and woman, pearl is exposed. The shadows getter less bold and strong on the presence of light. Darkness fades in the presence of light
Pearl, please… my grandmother had 14 children, worked the fields, took care of her family, cooked, cleaned and was still advocating and being a voice to farm workers who were being cheated out of their hard work and labor… yet, she never went a day without dressing up. She always had her hair done, makeup done and wore a dress and heels until her dying day… She was that woman… women don’t need to give up any of that to be a wife.
Pearl needs to stop procrastinating, DROP the pod cast, get married, have kids, cook & clean and raise the kids! AND take her own advice to SHUT UP with her feelings
Omg I was thinking the same thing she's so loved by these players... She underhandedly says don't steal my show I am better at the gender and relationship talk game but at the end of the day a new movement is coming where women who are level headed, in touch feminine comfertably and confidently will be explaining how to be harmonious it's been a life time that men and women have been at war with each other to the point where birthrates are dropping. There is no balance in this modern world let's restore the balance!
No. Shes not made for it. Kids would suffer. She would suffer. She is a man. No business in getting married and procreating. Shes happy just bitching. Let her. Cant imagine a man that would like to marry this
When they said this is just entertainment. I broke. This is sad. Seriously. They do not care that they inducing conflict. .... Sadia Thank you for just being you in this video and and sticking true to wanting unity for men and women. Thank you.
Sadia is a Queen 👑 and a high value woman. There is such a huge difference in class between these women. One exudes positive femininity, and the other is exhibiting pick-me energy trying to throw women under the bus because she’s chasing male validation (like her fathers) …. Mark my words, Sadia is going to be bigger online, she’s absolutely the energy that the world needs right now ❤
High value where? She is clueless to how men function. Her feels is more important than the real's. A kid in a grown womans body. It's scary that a woman like Sadia who has higher education has that low of an IQ. She is parroting lines out of psychology curriculum without depth of knowledge. Queen Sadia demands that all the simps obey and worship her. Only weak "men" will follow her advice. Period.
Emotionally mature men appreciate true “pick me” energy and tactics. From my personal experience, most women I come across have no idea anymore of what healthy high value men look for in a woman. Social media has these chicks all twisted up
"People are hungry for conflict and they're dying for it. and when we feed it to them that's what we create in society" that was word by word my feeling about social media the most valuable sentence in this video
Pearl is so intimated by Sadia, it’s insane. She had to go be rude to try and rile her up but when a woman has control like Sadia. You’ve already lost.
@@StimParavane you obviously have a low EQ when you can’t see who is the emotional one here. I know you want to desperately believe Pearl is right but I urge you to go outside, touch some grass and attempt finding someone to love. Loneliness is one hell of a sad drug.
Me a female engineer, mom of 2 and wife, watching influencers talking about power lines knowing none of them can point out a generator 😅😐 the world we live in.
I don’t usually comment, but I was cringing every time Pearl spoke over Sadia. Sadia you are the definition of a classy elegant feminine woman. Thank you for your authenticity and standing your ground and creating unity through your teachings so we can better understand one another in todays society and create harmony and peace in our relationships.
Everytime, Pearl is outsmarted by someone who is actually smart. She never invites that person back. She took one clip of sadia which was heavily edited and posted only that . Where she is asking the question and sadia answered half way through. Just so she (Pearl) makes herself look better. Pearl was aggressive in the most polite manner over here, I believe that’s her true nature cause she knew sadia was actually intelligent. Everytime, she has been on with someone Intelligent, she actually cuts the conversation short or goes about in circles. Why would our emotional state be used against us ? We are emotional and so what ?!
Pearl is super masculine. I love how you carried yourself throughout this conversation Sadia. I don't think Pearl would have talked to you that way had you established your credibility a bit more as a psychologist. I'm so grateful to have found your channel, I'm looking forward to learning from you and supporting you ❤
@@RR-et6zp there’s no such thing as EQ. Ok but emotions are very real. You feel emotions everyday to dismiss them as being “unreal” or “non existent” is delusional asf
I love sadia! I’m a psychotherapist and everything she says resonates… you can’t just COMPARE an expert with someone who just speaks without the MINIMUM experience and understanding of human behavior?… why are folx who are clearly communicating from their wounds and who are clearly REINFORCING the narrative of hate, divide, power, control, and who are clearly ignorant? why are thee girls and guys giving them clout, a mic 🎤 and famous? 🙅🏼♀️🙄💀 sadia, keep doing what your doing! I’m open for a collab! 🤗❤️
Since leaving my wife and joining the Red Pill community, my career burnout and constant anxiety disappeared completely. I lost 40 pounds. I am sleeping better. My relations with family and friends are so much better since my soon-to-be ex-wife isn't able to create nearly constant drama. Pearl Davis, Melanie King, and other Red Pill women have been indispensable to me, in ways that a psychotherapist has not and cannot.
what you have written is the clear problem with modern psych. Your political views have no business in psych, particularly feminist views. Highlighting differences which are unflattering to women in reality is important to actually improve reality
Pearl is just not very intelligent, she has business sense and knows how to exploit RU-vid and cater to what a cohort of men want to hear, but her arguments are always extremely simplistic. She also doesn’t even live the fantasy trad wife she claims women should be, she also doesn’t know how to be attractive to men, so tries to court their attention and $$$$ by repeating simplistic tropes from male channels. I say this as a woman who has been happily married for 27 years.
Pearl is SOOOOO desperate for any man , she will literally agree with any man as long as someone picks her..she can’t deal with Sadia because she is naturally sexy, feminine and top of that educated and successful
Pearl is looking at things from an objective perspective. Shes giving hard facts that women don't want to hear and what Sadie is doing, is deflecting. Really pay attention to the conversation being had.
As a father of two beautiful daughters, I agree with the sentiment ‘f*k your feelings.’ However, being a father to both girls and boys (I also have a son), it is about helping them learn emotional regulation. It’s too bad this wasn’t brought up as this is the core issue.
Yessss. I grew up with a father who wanted me to fear him. Did a lot of damage in my life emotionally. But our relationship has definitely change since then.
😂 so the whole group of men were not intelligent and pearl was not classy and intelligent? you just want to say things that feel good cause you can’t hold a proper opinion that makes sense
@@niyimakinde3176no, they weren't 😂😂 some barely had anything to add, and Pearl's demeanor and erratic energy covered her lack of explaining beyond parroted dogma.
Sadia is so spot on. Everybody is about men or women or me or you. She sees the bigger purpose of making the world better and making our relationships better.
Exactly she's a beauty inside and out. The world would be better with less women like Pearl and extreme woke feminists. All the reasonable men and women who want healthy relationships and family dynamics should tune them out.
This, man, this so much! exactly is not about you and me, is about how things work. Independently of how you think, you cant keep a family or a community together under those values. Whats real is what has evidence of proving it works and in relationships is: balance and openess.
Sadie I appreciate you for this!!! I’ve been waiting for a great example with experience to come on this show and you nailed it. Thank you for finding ways to unite the masculinity and femininity in a classy way. I don’t respect any woman who bashes women and makes them look crazy. I feel like we should guide our women and encourage to make changes in a loving manner. I appreciate your work. Please continue to be honest about reality and the recommendations for us women to be better women ❤
I'm not one to comment especially unpleasant comments but Pearl is disrepectful. I felt it when she said "how many followers do you" and when she cut the other lady off saying "you have never had this content, you got recruited off the street". Even if it's a debate I believe one should still be respectful.
I hear Sadia saying, let’s grow a mutual respect for one another through compassion & seeking to understand one another. Thank you for not caving into the collective agreement that women are below men in that group. I appreciate your insistence that we all come with equal value & that we all need to grow a greater appreciation for one another. ❤
@@happilydivorced3235 It's called fair. A completely alien concept in the gynocentric society of today. Let's go with your preposition to make the point and say that there are lot's of men that would "love" to be teachers and nurses and other female dominated positions. But the women still, as we are seeing, won't go into the mines in mass, or into construction, or onto oil rigs, etc. So whose going to do those jobs now? How will a modern, advanced society run? BTW, on a side note. The two female dominated industries you named are completely failing. We could probably plot a graph to show an almost identical rise of mass entry of females into health care and the terrible results that this industry is providing over the last several decades. I'm talking about the US. Education the same. Completely dominated by females, masses of the kids upon graduation can't even do common third grade math that was taught for generations and have the reading comprehension at elementary school level of past generations. But I digress. These exchanges are always fascinating. Almost without exception they reveal the severe entitlement and immaturity of most western women. It is only the modern, pampered woman that can afford to use "what she loves" as a perimeter for how she will make a living. Do you think that there are masses of men that just "love" to be up in a tower, perhaps hanging from a cable, in a snow storm, risking their life to restore power for all of us? Of course not. They do it cause it pays well and a large percentage of times the man is doing it so he can provide for a family. He does it for a sense of duty. Obligation. Honor. Pride. Not a childish notion of "what he hates to do or what he loves to do". Furthermore, we have been hearing non stop for decades about how men "ain't shit", they are part of the evil patriarchy, they are violent buffoons, and feminism promised that once women became equal not only would they completely dominate all the traditionally male occupations, they would do it much better than men. There have been articles written repeatedly in major publications with such titles as "Are men obsolete?" and "The End of Men", gushing about how women are doing everything so much better than men and that men are basically unneeded today. So in the name of fairness and credibility, we should be seeing at least 50% of women in all the jobs that actually run and build society, right? Considering that this is the narrative? And if we don't see this.....which we don't....in fact, not even close........well, then it appears that this is all just bullshit and slander. Why should men tolerate such an unfair situation? That is why I'm demanding "fairness". I'm not demanding for women to be "in jobs they hate". Tough shit. Millions of men hate them too. They are jobs that have to be done. And I''ll tell you something else. If masses of women were obligated to work dangerous, heavy labor jobs for a few years, this arrogance and entitlement would disappear real fast. And that can only be a total positive.
@@mommatron742 Who said that? Typical feminist deflection. I've worked hard labor and white collar. The problem is women are demanding all the benefits of the heavy lifters without doing the heavy lifting.
Exactly I can’t stand Pearl. I consider myself a trad woman but I’m not a fan of hers I don’t like her argumentative approach or manner of speaking and she’s quite masculine.
You have an over inflated view of Both it seems like. Sadia is out of touch with reality - but look, both of them FEED on the PAIN of others (mostly men).
She has not a clue. She has so much to learn it's not even funny. Beyond cringe. And disrespectful at that. You can tell she wasn't raised too well and it shows. 😅 The way she was speaking to Sadia and that comment disrespecting her podcast was sickening. Smh.
Sadia is too smart for these people. Whatever she says is too logical for them to understand. The girl sitting with her legs on the table said “i disagree” when Sadia said the MOST logical thing about serving the societies. It literally pisses you off how dumb they are!!!
When I express my thoughts on any issue I'm immediately rejected by others who say 'shut up, you don't have rights'? There's an assumption made that I represent a lower caste and therefore have no entitlement. Strikes me that people don't want a discussion based on a democratic principle. This impasse renders communication impossible and alienates both parties. I'm left silenced and they feel entitled. I don't talk to anyone unless I'm paying a bill. Strange democracy where dialogue is impossible?
well done Sadia. you had every opportunity to get upset but you held the line. you're absolutely right we need to give people solutions of how to build relationships.
Traditional man is respectable, respected, chivalrous, polite, educated, doesn’t sleep around, lives by values and ethics, is the breadwinner and provides entirely and financially for his immediate family! Respects his family and parents!
@@93boxing81 A traditional woman is respectable, respected, soft spoken, feminine, polite, educated, intelligent, assists her husband in decision making, kind, thoughtful, keeps the house in check, stands behind her man, doesn’t sleep around, passes on good values and ethics to her children, safe haven for her husband (vice versa).
@@Linsey2345 right!! And this is just surface, it goes much deeper. For example a traditional man would consult his wife on big decisions to get her input. A traditional woman would keep the place nice and clean for her family, and have a nice meal ready as she understands her husband may have had a long day. They are each others Safe heaven. Take care of each other when the other is sick. Spend time together as a family, couple. Both don’t put their dirty laundry out in public. They respect each other, in mannerism, words, tone, gestures. They both communicate clearly with each other. Pleases and thank you’s go along way. Both are affectionate towards each other. Traditional man also passes on values and principles to his kids. I could go on… awww this is all I want.
Sure, whatever helps you float your boat. Considering womens opinion in a relationship equally to the man is going to taks the relationship down the drain
Sadie continues to "affirm" women's feelings, which does not help women succeed. Pearl is giving an objective perspective and telling the TRUTH. Remember, the truth is NOT HERE to be your friend. It's harsh and sometimes soul crushing, but necessary.
Sadie makes great points. Teaching men and women how to communicate to ultimately come closer together versus point fingers and continually do the same things that clearly don’t work. Contribute to society -- ❤
Pearl fails to realize, the general population has a history of choosing the worst option. Just because you have a large following does not necessarily mean your message is effect or even helps it just means the masses are drawn to it.
