Sadness Vs. Depression 

Yes it is..

Yes I also have have some bad past thoughts that doesn't even exist.what I do I am so depressed.i am suffering a lot for last 5 months .is there any solution ? Please reply bro

@@frestinjoy57 It can be many different reasons why you are depressed. Like i have some things that happened when i was younger. Try to remember how yoyr life was as kid and maybe you can find some answers

@@frestinjoy57 please push on bro, I am also going through a really rough patch you know.. Please open up to your parents/doctor/ counsellor about it so you can get some help, realise that you really don't need to go through this alone.. I care about you and we as brothers and sisters in Christ care about you. God bless you man.

@@matheuskalin7228 during the time of depression can unreal things can become real.full of negative things in my mind.I cannot live with happiness for a single second.i am sad bro

Nicole some times it lasts months

Nicole i wish i could be a professional and help people that have depression and help my self too...im starting to get depression..but im never social..well i guess its part of depression..i like dont want to talk about it ...

In that case I have depression. First I thought it was sadness, but like the last three years sometimes suddenly I break down and want to die. I have cutted myself and have got help, but I just couldn't speak.

Nicole no, he said it isnt saddness. Its not even a sadness that keeps coming back... you're just blank...you cant feel anymore... there's something missing inside of you and you dont wanna do anything ever again

Sister Mary-Ann is it called depression if sometimes i feel deeply sad but sometimes i just feel so sad that my mind becomes blank and nothing? idk if it's sadness or depression because it seems like depression is kinda too big of a word for me.

i felt this

Depression is itself something that you can't explain or understand. If you can explain it or even if you can understand it yourself then it's called "sadness".

Indeed :(

@Peachy Pie ok you an expert

Peachy Pie you have no idea how hard that is or if she can go to anyone to talk about her depression I tried telling my parents I was depressed and they didn’t want to accept it they got mad at me...Depression isn’t as easy as you think

Yeah, It’s not because there ungrateful It’s because they’re born that way

Wrong quote, ears are a necessity, not a desire. "You can't be deaf, you have hearing aid" will sound correct.

@@sidharthballavmohanty3340 You don't get it, do you

Actually, disregard this reply. Have a nice day.

@@xpedro2960 yes I do get it.

I couldn’t have said it better.

ive ran out of options... i take drugs to make me smile

Accurate

I feel like i can't talk to people anymore like say anything i feel lost not right empty and i feel kinda dead like not really here

bailey pleydell sameeee

Bernard I cannot tell you the amount of times I have said out loud, “I want to go home”. And I am home. And then I register I am home and then realize what I meant was to feel like somewhere I felt .....something positive.

Yes , a homeless soul

This explains me

This is pretty accurate

Exactly

This should be a famous quote

right! i agree with this one. i wonder about fake tears though; where you force yourself to cry hmm...

That’s true to me.. I don’t understand what’s happening, i feel broken inside and feel like crying my heart out but the tears won’t come out. It frustrates us and affects our relationships with friends and family.

Wow me too it's hard

Sometimes I cry cuz I can't hold it anymore on me

Holy fuck I actually felt this comment on a whole new level, no one has ever understood me like this comment, this LITTERALY explains me

Panic attacks too

That sounds like being lazy lol

It's strange when a stranger knows how and what u r going through

@@levinoshoujo1474 u arent the only one with struggles, so no big surprise

Ikr

Idk why, I feel very selfish and I think i am kind of self pitying....

@@celest2_80 I know. I feel same way.

I know this is a bit off topic, but I hate it when people say things like “omg I wish I could go to school camp with you guys too but I can’t 😭😭 I’m depressed now” Depression isn’t a mood; it’s an illness 🤦🏻‍♀️

When you have both: 👀

Just true...

@@Riiareader you're a good person

Wait this is accurate..

You're saying facts,i don't think it can be so relatable

This

same bro

same

Felt this.

I always say, "School is almost over. I can finally go home." yet whenever I'm home I just lay there, numb. I end up just sleeping, unmotivated to do anything.. I love art but lately I just ignore it.

I’m pretty sure everyone feel that

So true

Unmotivated 24/7

Literally and it's so hard to deal with that I just wanna give up :)

My final exams are coming but i can't study I want to But I can't I like in bed all day doing nothing Feeling empty all the time

@@kratis2384 exactly what I am going through right now

Damnnnn deeeeep.

That is so true.. Thats how I feel..

jeriel magsino I relate to this, I've tried to hang my self but I just couldn't do it, it's very scary

@@brandankizi4774 please dont do anything like that again. You are so much loved and cared for more than u know.

true tho-

And just like that, I live like a mannequin no matter how tired I am of living.

It's not that all depressed people necessarily want to die. They just want the pain to end & most believe that's the final option. Sad how depression is still seen as a correlation/link to wanting to die though

It’s like I’m stuck. Some days I don’t wanna die, other days I wanna die. And no matter how much I talk, pray, take a walk, or workout, nothing makes me truly happy. I can have a good moment once a week. When I’m alone there’s just something that feels like it’s eating my insides. But i never knew it could be depression, because I started feeling it when I was about 7/8. I’m 13 now. It takes me so long to get out of bed, it physically and mentally drains me. One day I stood up and fell right to the floor and cried for no reason. I stopped playing the piano, stopped drawing and stopped playing on a basketball team. Those didn’t interest me anymore. I haven’t been diagnosed, but I took a test at the doctors and she said she was a bit concerned..? I don’t know I do have many symptoms, but I don’t know if I have it.

@@user-kl9hv6xb3n They can do the things that made them happy before but with their situation, those things do not have an effect on them anymore. That's how it is.

I wanna die and end this pain but I'm not scared of dying, I'm scared that I could relive that pain for eternity in hell

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WunderFly 😔

I can relate

WunderFly I've had depression for about 2and a half years but only my best friend knows he also has depression

Melanin Q I see what you're trying to say here but if you think what you eat is the cause of having depression you're wrong

WunderFly yes thank you. And it gives me more anger cuz they dont get me

Jackson Marchant or end the nothing, because nothing is very lonely and empty. These are kinda similar words but somehow very different and necessary to explain the void

Yes 😔😔

perfectly explained

Ding Ding Ding

thats not depression thats sadness you depression means you dont feel anything

i'm figuring out that it could be a single trigger event or specific situation that caused the onset of depression. might be a long and complex event but there's usually something. hanging out with people helps to distract us, but doesn't help us work through the cause or find a solution.

I feel the same way about my parents which is why I gave up on trying to tell them and instead focused on telling people who I know will understand - psychologists or people who have a basic understanding of psychology. By telling a psychologist I don't have to deal with my parents and all the drama that ensues and I can focus on getting proper help. I suggest you do the same but having a support system of friends and family is important too.

Girl A hello I've been losing weight even though I eat I've lost 5 close friends because " you've changed you don't talk to us or hang out any more" and things that I usually like to do don't make me feel good any more positive thinking and meditation isn't working. is this depression?

Why are people telling others to fucking kill themselves!! you should not joke about that!!! it's immature and you need to fucking grow up.

Same.. it just sucks..

oh my god. the comments are soo sad. this one blew me up. im crying. im sure you will. i hope

i feel the same way....... i cant remember what it feels like to be happy, i wish i could...

I'm so sad. That's all I can say. But it's deeper and darker than what I can put to words. I often say I'm sad to people to not put weights and pressure on anyone. They'll think she'll be happy again, this sadness won't stay long. But I didn't feel happy in a long time already!

Guys really felling very sad for all of you😢 I wish i could help you all but I can't But i suggest you , You should try spirituality

same.

Valerie Angell That's right..

Yep

Are you dead? *only on the inside*

That sums it up so precisely!!

Agreed I have felt that many times.Also I say and feel that I am not alive I just exist which is the same to what you said or pretty close.

GreenApples yes

But I always feel like that 🤔

Ive been sad too

I have been searching this into my google , I feel like this exactly

So true!

Da Dragon Durp exactly. Depression is like you have long dips in mood but small spikes to “baseline” where you aren’t depressed but not truly happy either. Maybe a small bit of happiness will come every once in a while, but the depression tends to last longer/override the good times

There you are, in all the videos I watch

Da Dragon Durp it’s so me and I really don’t know how to get over it

True

Thank God someone understands I tried to explain it to my friend once but she didn't get it I guess not all people can comprehend it but that's okay I'm glad someone can understand and that multiple people can relate I go to school and there was this dude that makes me laugh all the time he's my friend he's funny and I like hanging out with him I laugh with him I laugh with my other funny friends but that doesn't mean that feeling lasts forever and it doesn't last forever

This one hits harddd

Exactly!

Yes!!!!!

I m having this

🙏

And the people who really are depressed don't get recognized some people just brush it off thinking they're doing it for attention

@@TolleeLive yeah that's the sad part

people doesn’t understand what depression is nowadays. everyone is trying to look gothic and say stuff about life, but they doesn’t feel what depressed people feel I had depression a year ago or even more. I didn’t know what that was until my school sent me to the therapist with my friend. non stop crying don’t wanna get out of bed, can’t eat, can’t have fun... my depression was is about couple of things: 1. I’m scared for my future 2. I’m not good enough 3. I have no friends 4. school 5. and main reason: death 6. I don’t move with my life. 6 reasons. even if you’re young and have everything you need doesn’t mean you can’t get depressed. *I GUESS I’M HAVING A BAD DAY FOR 1 YEAR WHOEVER TOLD ME ITS IN MY HEAD.*

Jesus Loves you, don't give up.

2015: *mom i have depression...* mom: don't worry we can talk to a therapist to help you! 2020: *mom i think i have depression...* mom: IT'S BECAUSE OF THAT DAMN PHONE

my ex friend said to me once that i don't have it that bad because i wasn't as depressed as he was in the past; i remember i wanted to hurt myself that day and his words just left me heartbroken :( i wish people would understand it's not a competition, but just helping each other out and being there for each other....

True bro the war which never end & hurts more in brain

Preach

YES! SOMEONE SAID IT! DEPRESSION ISN'T A COMPETITION.

@@coolsomeash YESSS

It’s actually more like: Having a heart that tries to live with a dead soul.

Depressed people don't all want to die

@@skkaws We want to end the pain

Now I feel even more useless and a waste

exactly, theres 7 billion people in this world, we aren't that important lol

Same thoughts ever since

The thing is parents don't understand depression

They think it could just be cured but that's not the case

@@crazyfournier2978 if parents could really understand depression don't you think half of the people who have depression would have been cured I mean they say they understand but the fact is unless u r in a person's shoe u don't really know how they feel, they can only pretend to understand

ღ Rose Cathedral ღ happiness is a high fever that will break.

ღ Rose Cathedral ღ yep

Same I can relly relate specially on school or outside

That's me in school. My classmates and friends are very positive and outgoing people. And they always find a way to make each other laugh. But I can't feel the same way.

I feel that....😢😢😔😔

*exactly how i'm feeling right now, thank you for letting me know i'm nit the only one Lots of power and love towards you May God bless you ameen*

Yes, when I am around someone happy it make me cry because I want to be happy😭

lucielthetrashcan your definitely not the only one just try to talk to some friends or someone close

lucielthetrashcan same here and my friends are worried about me and other adults but my parents don't see it

I had depression for about 5 years I only told my mom she's trying her best to help but it's hard to open up to someone when it's hard to trust them but I think I have depression is because I basically live in my room I used to live in the country on a farm I felt so free there because I could walk for hours but then I moved and I'm so lonely

lucielthetrashcan I've been sad too--- oh wait shite I'm not supposed to say that? Oh uhh bye...

Lukas Bondevik left u crying 😑 nobody never there for me I wipe my on tears i depressed all the time sometimes for no reason. Sometimes I wish tomorrow my last day living but I still want to live I just wish to be happy but suicide not the answer just think about other people may have it worst than u and still fighting to have a better life

You may have sleep paralysis

As your dreaming everyday you can try lucid dreaming search it up its being aware in your dream and do whatever you want like flying or doing fun things hope this helps check out the channel “Explore Lucid Dreaming” to lucid dream :))

same.

Me too

Samee

Same

ツchanieel same.

That is a really excellent way of putting it. It just really struck me as accurate..

Well said

Where I live there is no snow

This was really good, you should post it somewhere else so someone can relate

Thank you.

Oh yes, trust issues, can literally end all the happiness you once had.

Damn 🥺 Trust issues and "No courage to die but life exhausts you"

Same :| have the same issue with my mom. And when I smile she says "you were lying you're not depressed" like wtf

As a kid I used to love dancing and doing sports but now I just sit at home. My only interest now is art but sometimes I’ll just stare at my paper for half an hour and cry? Depression has its weird ways.

봄빛이 What causes people depression. It's okay if it's personal you do not have to tell me

Ali I’m not sure what causes depression.. maybe something that happened in life that formed a depression? Mine happened when I started to get anxiety in the 3rd grade and depression slowly developed after my anxiety.

봄빛이 oh sorry to hear thatd

agree. I see everyone saying it while many don't get what it really means.

Mostly people just have unhealthy lifestyle which can mimic the symptoms depression.

@@ainbrisk545 That's the thing, so many people say they have depression to the point of where I don't even care about it, unless I know someone personally.

@@IgorNetoAnimation a meaningful word used too much becomes meaningless.

I agree it is over used and people say it too much without knowing the true meaning

Thank you. Ill stay another day because of the hope you, a stranger has givin me. Your few words has givin me hope. Thank you. I'll stay another day.

@@natashan-jael8054 i just got back from therapy and im trying 💜💙💜

I have paranoia and schizophrenie

@@hihowyadoin509 Hey, if you wanna talk I am here 😁 Try to see each day as a small step. You still have a long way, but only think about one day at a time. No need to plan the future yet. Take small moments to appreciate the little things in your life. Sleeping, eating a good meal or watching tv. Anything, the smallest thing that gives your heart something to feel. Try and do that for a few weeks. I promise I will do the same with you, I am struggling too. If you believe in God, I wish that he brings you peace. If you don't, I still wish that my God will give you the peace. Take care stranger. I care about you

@@KwniStewart thank you. Im so incredibly deep in the hole that this sounds hard. Im trying and im trying not to let my mental health get the better of me, especially because im going through school to. Which means im having panic attacks during class and having to interact with people. I've missed so much school, at therapy, the school councilors office, or in my bed. I have a lot of make up work to do but im still trying to cope via the internet and also keep up my hygiene and not smell. The im walking up the steps slowly and im going to keep this comment in mind for hope. Thank you stranger and ill be accompanying you on these 1000 step steps. 💜

Stay strong ♡

how did you overcome form depression. Please tell me i'm still suffering.

@@Name-hp6eh i'm still suffering but, i have channel which may help you Dr.julie smith

It's so sad to hear those things from friends.

@@koriroti Yes. It was sad but as a person you need to understand them too because you know there's no person who haven't a problem. Maybe they are tired too. :) thats why I understand them and I try not to open up them again because I feel that it will be burden to them.

They're not real friends if they say shit like that to u

I have a friend that might have depression and every time she talks about it with me I try to comfort her and cheer her up but it is not effective at all ! I am trying my best but I feel useless and it saddens me that I am not able to help :(

@@abeliever6022 Tomorrow comes so that we have a chance to be kinder than yesterday, fill more love around you. That's ultimate goal in life. So, do what you are doing. It's not sad. I'm happy you are trying to help her. It will be alright. Believe that in you.

Yeah I know exactly how you feel.

Aleena Seyal Tell you mom or dad, whichever you are closer to. Pick a time when they are not too busy, maybe at night or in a car ride or during the weekend. If they are always really busy, then just tell them that you need to talk to them about something important the next chance they get, and plan a time where you will have their full attention. Or you could write them a note explaining how how you have been feeling, what you have been thinking and how this is effecting you. You may have to talk to them about it more than once, because it may not be easy for them to see how real this is after just talking to you about it once. Another alternative would be to tell a adult you are close to or your school counselor and have them tell your parents. Your parents are the only ones who can get you help, so they will need to know. I am a parent of 2 older kids, and I can tell you that it is hard to know what they are feeling, especially with work and everything else. I'm here if you want some other ideas or to talk about it. RU-vid has a private message system, if that is better for you. How ever you handle this, just keep doing what you are doing and help them help you so you can get past this and enjoy life without these things bringing you down.

I've only told my mom about my depression she is trying so hard to help me and I'm glad I have someone but I would suggest telling a family member or a friend

earth digger ive thought about that but my parents went through alt with my brother who was also depressed. I just don't want them to go through that much, because of me you know?

Aleena Seyal Yes I understand, and you a great daughter for being so considerate of your parents. I think it will be easier for them, since they already have experience with your brother. Plus you seem very nice, so that will make it easier for them too. And it will be a lot less for them to go through now, compared to later when it gets worse. Besides, you are not adding anything to them, because it's already there, they just don't know yet. So you will actually be helping them by letting them know about it now. Most importantly, you need to do this for you. Parents are tough, when my daughter was 7 she had to have open heart surgery to fix a hole in her heart, and we got through that. I saw your video about your house fire. I am sure that has had an effect on you too. They can also help you to deal with that, then you can put it behind you, so it don't effect you that way any more.

yes.. I mostly let it all out when I had an argument with my parents. I go in my room and think/cry about all the time where i felt alive, where I was happy, a happy girl. with alot of friends, everyday was an happy day but now it feels like I am lost, I've lost something. I feel like it wasnt me who lived that fun time, it feels like thats another person. or You can make me a beautiful gift, it doesn't makes me happy....(anymore). Then I often think ''why I am still alive? Life is so much pain"

that happens to me too. i sit and think to myself... what’s the point of living. the same cycle keeps repeating over and over again. nothing exciting, no friends, there’s really nothing. then i begin to think about useless things and it leads to suicidal thoughts

I had so many little reasons, that I didn't know....what happened

@@ibakaddicted You cry. Nothing makes me happy or sad anymore

@@ibakaddicted same thing happens to me

I will say one thing, social media may worsen depression in some ways either escapism, comparing, MH accounts etc but of course spending less time of it obvs isn’t a cure. I think it’s a mum thing and my mum used to worry about the type of ppl I spoke to who could be encouraging stuff or oversharing. I see both sides

@@AmberWoodMusicx *my mother is literally fucking abusive wtf do u expect from my mother love*

It could be true 🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏻‍♀️

My mom also the same 😒

Not sure if I have depression but I barely feel happy because of quarantine and device but for some reason I can’t stop

I used to describe it as drowning in honey, slow and heavy like that, and it puts pressure in your lungs where it just aches, that tension and just, gah. I definitely agree.

Kira Lonely yeah totally agree

I'm fine with drowning

@@kiralonely1307 ...True..its the most horrible torture u face everysecond,lm suffering much,waiting 4 death only,im all alone,,,finding no way,so much helpless😭😭😭😭😭..plzzz beg all to help me

@@av9557 thank u!

Elyxema Plays same! I try to hide it though, no one believes me because I laugh and smile a lot, but sometimes I want my friends to notice it and try to help me, can’t they notice me making more and more jokes about being sad, can’t they notice the fact I always have scrunchies on my arms and never take them off? Sorry for ranting

@@strawberry-zq5nq ill subscribe

Coz not everyone can afford to be depressed, some of us have to work too!

dont tell us. tell them

Exacrlt

Yo

My life

Alana Kahiapo did you find a way to get out of it?

this is EXACTLY how i feel, and people don't even notice (friends family etc.) they think 'oh, she's smiling! she must be okay!' when it's not even real it's just i've pulled the same smile so many times in front of them. it physically hurts that the people who care most about me don't know what it's like and i'm not gonna tell anyone because i'll just make THEM feel sad and even guilty. i feel so selfish when i talk about it and that's why i never do.

Doesn't sound like depression tbh,more like a hard phase that everyone goes through.

ThatRottenOtaku but by 'okay' that means not feeling anything. so you are constantly feeling low or just nothing at all, and i've had this for 2 years for absolutely no reasons. it's only going further downhill.

same..

Appreciate it..... But advice if u know someone who suffers from depression, don't day things like "get over it".

This made me smile 😭🤧

@@fatematharoo7537 yh things take time 😶

Jesus Loves you, don't give up.

thanks! thank you so much your words mean the world to me.

Shining DreamLight Huh.

Hi army I hope u’re doing well, and if not, I promise it’s gonna be better. I purple u with all my heart💜

Me every night

Couldn't have said it better.

Jesus Loves you, don't give up.

I am so sorry for this dude

Hey I'm here if you wanna talk okay? ♡

Felt that

How are u now?

Hey!! don't know if you'll see this but, are you okay? no like I'm asking genuinely

ALifeJournal for me, it's unexplainable. The only thing I can think of is: in depression, you feel, in your head, like a two-dimensional thing rather than a breathing human being. It's like seeing a picture of yourself and thinking, who the hell is that? Sadness is just being sad.

ALifeJournal same

ALifeJournal My friend has depression Im the only one apart from her who knows. She explained it just like you. *Im the 100th like ;)*

ALifeJournal also its repetitive and takes a while to recover and you could get sick again, like get a flu and then it'll start over again until you recover basically

ALifeJournal you cant keep getting depression. its not like a mood swing. its there and it stays there

@Not even wrong ?

@Not even wrongno.. people do fake depression they’re people who use depression as an excuse to problems and say that their more “depressed” than others as if its a competition, and they glorify depression as if its a personality trait. I agree that mental health is a hard topic to talk about but there are people out there who fake mental illnesses to feel invalidated and to feel more “special.”

@Not even wrong are you clinically diagnosed with depression? If not you can’t really diagnose yourself with depression, depression is a mental illness is something that shouldn’t be taken lightly, if you suspect you have depression you should seek help. Please don’t think your the only person suffering because your never alone, I relate to you. Ever since I was little I had suicidal thoughts because of my toxic family.

@Not even wrong I think you just don’t believe in yourself, I don’t know if your making efforts like making yourself busy starting a new activity or hobby doing something that makes you feel the happiest and feel like you have some kind of hope in life instead of feeling hopeless. You can try trauma art, I heard it can help.

@Not even wrong yea give it a try! And tell me if it works. I gotta start working through my ptsd after my exams this month. Ptsd hit me real hard this year, so now the straight A student is trying to somehow pass this exam :D

I feel you... 💪

So true

🤝

Yiu are right 👍now l have no friends everybody think that iam lonely but l chose that cause my friends are always jealous of me they pretend that they love me ,at home l stay away from my parents and siblings i never cry infront of them i am sure that iam depressed but here we don't have this culture

Same i have toxic parents and siblings i can relate

Some, indeed, _do_ want to die.

Weavor Jjohanna happiness is a high fever that will break!...I’m not afraid of dying though, I’m afraid of living...

How about all of the sudden you just stopped and gave up in accomplishing something because you just lose the “feeling”(there is another term but I can’t figure it out tho hehe)? Is that just tiredness?

@@lemonata-dearts then you have to pick yourself up, complete it, after that you will be very strong, i promise, i know that, sometime you suddenly think all of the effort you put into that thing is worthless or useless, but it's not about the thing itself, it's about you overcome the sadness, be strong lad

Weavor Jjohanna Thank you for the motivation but yea it already passed and I already moved on from that shenanigans( passed what I can tho) Rn I’m waiting for the grade (expecting the worst so I wouldn’t be shock hehe) but yea Thanks again. I wouldn’t wish on someone to lose his/her passion in something he/she loves doing. Good thing I’m trying to bounce back from that. *I’m trying*

true ..... but no one understand they still call you selfish and it hurts

True

@@mehakgill5134 i think thats because many people fake depression these days.. so everyone thinks now that depression is not serious

@@mehakgill5134 true I have had thoughts about it. im trying to not do it.but the world would be better without me in it.... Edit:I feel like people won't care...yes I have 3 bffs,yes I have siblings,parents,pets but I feel that nobody would care

@@rx5830 im sure ure wrong, i love u

Yep

Romans 10:13 "For whosoever shall call upon the name of The Lord (Jesus Christ) shall be saved!" God bless, much love to you all. Just wanted to share some love that God leads us to instead of the hate that is so often portrayed in the world :) I mean no disrespect or harm to anyone or their beliefs, even if they are different from mine. God bless and may you give Jesus a chance sometime! xoxo

nahh that's your problem.

That's not what it really is..

You made me cry

So true...

@the henchman you are the reason why depressed people cant open up. Grow up lmao

So true the other day I said something sad as a joke (I didnt mean to make it sad btw) just because I try to act happy so I don't worry people but then my sister was like "stop acting so depressed" like what? Im not mad at her but she just probably doesn't see how I feel

My friends and family sometimes consider me as a useless person.

Thank god, someone is wise. There are different forms of depression and what you may suffer from, others may not. They may suffer in a different way. Seek Help from a psychiatrist, if you think you have depression. Don't let a youtube comments decide your health. If you feel the same, seek help. If you don't feel the same and the comments say that you are faking it, SEEK HELP. they are not doctors and you may have different symptoms.

@The Mighty can you please pin this comment on top. So that those who may conclude they don't have depression reading the rest of the comments and not seek help. A loss of life can be avoided if they know that different forms of depression exist and they should seek help. Please.

yep, wise words sensei

Romans 10:13 "For whosoever shall call upon the name of The Lord (Jesus Christ) shall be saved!" God bless, much love to you all. Just wanted to share some love that God leads us to instead of the hate that is so often portrayed in the world :) I mean no disrespect or harm to anyone or their beliefs, even if they are different from mine. God bless and may you give Jesus a chance sometime! xoxo

You also shouldn’t self diagnose your self with depression without a doctors help. It’s hard to believe every single person in this comment section has actual depression. Depression is not a mood it’s an actual illness.

my friend be like: i cried yesterdayyy omg im so depreeeseeeedddd 😔 aesaaaa helpp im depresseddddd i wish i had a perfect life like u didddd im so depreeseeddd omggggg i painted my nails black because of this 😢 me: im ok

@@kawaiaesa relatable

@@kawaiaesa lmao

@@kawaiaesa I've met a lot of people like that

Just shut the f up Anyone who is sad tries to talk with their freinds and family Sad people deserve help and nothing wrong with them asking

This is so relateable...

that was me when i had depression lol

Yeah true

Gacha_ gwihan i have a friend like this and she’s desperate. She really want to die and trust me. She lives in a horror movie. I want to meet her so bad and to take her out of that think but i’m still a seventeen y old child that can’t even feel a sentiment at all. But all i know is that i want to get her out of there. Really quick.

Gacha_ gwihan the only reason I’m alive is because I’m afraid the only reason I’m afraid is because I’m alive 🙃

Why girls?

People I know joke about depression and I confronted one of my friends telling them it's not something to joke about and they told me calm down it's not a big deal i lost it and never really talked to her after that

I know-- Like depression isn't cool, it's not even trendy, it's an illness. And you shouldn't fake to have it just cuz you think it'll make you ' Edgy ' or ' Cool'

@@iliketogrowplants you know, "basic girls" like those girls who change easily by what they hear in the internet and think that are the new fashion, I don't know how you call them in English but in Spanish we call them "Morras Básicas" the kind of girl which read their horoscope (by example) and say "DATS TOTALLY ME!"

I hate when people fake depression to only get attention. I have kinda clinical depression, soon I'll be visiting psychiatrist and those fakers doesn't even know what a huge pain having depression is.

Way TOO relatable even teachers and when I tried covincing them they were like ignoring it or basically persuading me to commit suicide instead of helping

Sad isn't good either cuz it can also lead to depression

Wølfy-Gacha definitely true

It's been 9 months. I hope you don't feel dark or homesick while looking at the sky anymore, instead you feel lively and happy while staring that beautiful sky. I hope....

omg yesss, i always feel that

Sounds to me like you’ve got some demons.

I think you not alone... Cuz i have same emotions...

I relate to this so much...

This happened to me too, but because of the bad times gone by, why should we spoil ourselves today our coming tomorrow can be beautiful.. life has given us many opportunities.. This time it's our turn to give life a chance😇😊

@@sharonrv8087 actually for me this whole year plus the situation makes everything worse for me 🙃

So sad that you had to go through this. R u fine now?

Ikr. Mostly kids being just edgy but the next day they still can go outside with friends or play games watch RU-vid and more.

@@MonikaCult yep

Unfortunately, depression has become the trend of the whole world

it’s such an annoyingly hard thing to explain as well, because the best thing to do is to talk about it, but people talk about it in the wrong way. people i know irl have tried to show off self harm scars, and i’d love to be able to help them, but you just can’t when all they want is a reaction.

makes me physically shake from anger dude. mine is getting very very serious and I tell my friends I want to die and they laugh like I'm joking. its disgusting how trenders have turned the mental illness into a common, teenager thing.

Ketchup & Gummy Bears might be depression and eating disorder

Ketchup & Gummy Bears I know that it's tough. I know. But just know that it will get better one day. Stay strong xx

Ketchup & Gummy Bears its called give me attention disease

Ketchup & Gummy Bears I feel the same way I can’t over eat or what I just ate would be in the toilet ugh 😑

I hope things are better for you now.

Feeling sadness is a normal thing, that every healthy human should feel

Depressed is a feeling

Skye Loves guinea pigs! it's a mental illness. not a feeling

S C Y T H E to me it's a feeling. because if they had never felt that way(the key factors to being brought down all the way) they wouldn't have end up like so. sadness could evolve into being depressed if you don't keep sane. for me... it's like a switch. i can be sad an hour and the other back to being myself

Miyie〴 i'm okay with you having an opinion but it just makes me a little frustrated when people say they are "depressed" when they mean they are sad. They aren't actually depressed, so it's kind of offensive to people with depression

i fully agree

Also in loads of cases there’s unlikely to be a ‘reason’

Yeeaah,they might need to be confronted or something,because Joking about Depression is disgraceful! I--I'm near the lesson about Emotions in a class of mine,and It seemed like your parents...have forgotten about it...Their teachers must be so disgusted,even beyond the grave because of how their ex-students treated their child. If anything,THEY'RE the joke,not your depression.Please seek someone to talk about.

Bruh same I literally have to fake being okay or else my mom thinks I’m not okay, like I literally wasn’t okay in the first place but honestly the reason why I have to fake it is because she just tells me I need to read my Bible more and get closer to God so it goes away. She thinks me reading my Bible will make me be happy all the time and doesn’t understand why I’m actually depressed. Like religion may work for her, but it’s not exactly for me, I’m okay with it but she’s like a hardcore Christian and thinks everything is demonic. I don’t have anyone else to talk to so she’s the closest person to me even though she dislikes a lot of the things I enjoy. Man, idk what to do anymore.

I agree. People at school are like "OoOoHhHh ThAtS dEpReSsInG" and don't really think about if somebody really does have depression.

Marina Martin yeah same....i am not able to focus on my studies because of that

May he rest in peace Our sweet Angel

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i cant stop craying ,i feel empty .rest in peace kim jonghyn.

rip jonghyun #youdidwell 😢😢😢

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sounds more like depression in that case. the distraction doesn't change anything, it just buys you time (or wastes it, depending on how you view life and our limited time in it). i don't even do certain things because "what's the point anymore?". even simple things like doing the dishes are somehow irrelevant. if you can think of a scenario or situation in which you could be and not be depressed, then maybe at least you know in which direction to try to start to go. could be a scenario in which you have more money, or have certain love, or a different culture or environment around you like another country.

There I NO in between depression is a illness that can last ones whole life while sadness may last days I have had depression for around 4yrs

Omg this is me everyday.... whenever im in my "supposedly" happy moment, i become too scared to be happy bcs i knew if im being happy something bad are awaiting me. I mean- whats the point of being happy anyway if youre just gonna be sad all over again.

snatzira 27 thé point of being happy is that even tho you’re going to experience sadness again, you can always cherish those few moments, at least for a few seconds

same here

look up atypical depression

That’s the devil honey pray to Jesus and you will find happiness

...I-I'm sorry,your parents are joking,r--right? I...What logic do they have for them to say it comes from technology? I'm...disgusted of them for you;They don't deserve you if they're willing to dismiss your expressions like that..I mean,sorry,let me rephrase that;They shouldn't be blaming and dismissing your expression to something else if they can't even properly approach the situation.They would probably encounter someone who's clinically depressed (and doesn't even own a phone) and be like "IT's bEcAuSe of yOuR pHOnE,IsN'T It?". Seriously,what kind of LOGIC is it to approach someone with depression by Painting Technology as the cause and dismissing it? What unemphatic parents you got.

It can happen when you love someone and they leave you, it can make you feel like nothing matters

Oww sweetie, she don't even know what reald depression is 🙃 *evil laughs

@@randomhuman9672 like the episode in tom and jerry much like.... he thought that nothing else mattered when his g left him😔

DOOD WHAT I KNOW SOME PEOPLE GET SAD FRO THAT BUT ITS NOT AN ENDLESS AMOUNT OF SADNESS AND THE THOUGHTS OF SCUICIDE AND ALL THAT CRAP(sorry for the people like this I mean no offence please,feel the need to scream at me,I need it,thanks)

@@sshannondaviss can we please forget I said that it makes me feel..well stupid and can you just delete y iu comments cause that's what I did with mine please,I'm regretting a lot I don't wanna say just please!

Rose Gold when your sad you have a frown or a blank face depression you do have those faces but you hide them when your depressed you act like your ok

Lucinda Luci did you see this picture on tumblr or Ifunny perhaps?

unfortunately this is true..I always feeling so down by myself..in front of my friends I was like always cheerful and funny..but in the end.. the emptiness just came back..I was too embarrassed to talk this issue with my friends, I always thought what they may say like "meh..not my problem" so until now, I just keep it to myself

Not really. Whether you show it or hide it depends on who you are as a person, not on whether you're sad or depressed. imo.

Yoshiki X I told my best friend and she said exactly that, that it's not her problem...she also said that she can't stand me anymore this way and she has to think about herself and her happiness with the boyfriend she's always wanted. She said I had to solve my problems first, and only after we could be friends again. She also deleted from instagram every single photo with me, as if it was enough to erase someone from your life. But my other friends stayed close to me instead, they didn't leave. They're there to listen to me and try to help as they can. So it all depends on who's standing in front of you. Try to overcome this fear and talk, it really helps. But in doing so be careful who you decide to trust. You can do it💪🏼

ASMR Anika me too😥

ASMR Anika That's the Depression talking. You're no more "at fault" than if you got hit by a truck or bullet... Guilt and shame are horrible, insidious, and even dangerous thoughts of you don't challenge them.... Depressive thoughts *masquerade as super clarity*.... It doesn't make anything "true" :)... Ditch the self-reproach at every turn, and anyone who tries to lay that horse shit on you...

Doesn't matters whos fault, but you should try to overcome it. Many have you can too.

and people tell me that as well...

same. i feel like i don't have the right to feel this way because others are going through something much worse and i feel really shitty and ungrateful that i feel this way that i'll wish i could just give my life to someone who can do better in life. i keep saying "sorry i feel this way." i just try to hide everything. i keep telling myself *_"this is not depression, your life is not tragic enough to be depressed."_*

Kristina Sirk so do I, and I also have extreme anxiety, to the point where it all just makes me cry, even when what usually makes me happy is not making me happy whats so ever:(

@@alayna5696 im suffering through it right now, im getting a diary this week so i can just spill all my feelings on paper and hope for this to stop because its really affecting me at home and in class. What one thing that keeps me from being completely empty is the bible and praying, when i have done a prayer or read some passages it feels like everything was back to my normal self before all the saddeness and emptiness happend but after a while i just go back to being.....empty. i hope god stops making me suffer through all this.....

bullet ghost exactly, I should probably get a diary too.

@@alayna5696 You should, i feel like spilling all my problems or things that go on my mind that make me empty on paper rather than to one of my "friends" or a therapist, but i do feel like if depression keeps becoming worse and wose you should see one, espcially if your young though i bet its going to be hard to tell your parents, i havnt yet considering i want to see if this helps for at least 2 weeks, hope you feel better today.

bullet ghost yea, but my mom just says I'm just "sad". I have been "sad" for 3 months already, and I have anxiety plus I feel like nobody likes or understands me:(

how are you, my dude?

Same tho, i watch them so that maybe i can feel something, other than just emptiness. When you can't feel happiness, the next best option is sadness. At least then you can cry until you begin to forget, instead of sitting like a boiling pot about to spill over.

Ayy my conditions

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Have a magical day I am so sorry for you. Remember God gave this problem to solve. To see our strength. Remember you have a purpose. You dont know it yet but you soon will. Good Luck with your adventure! If you need someone to talk to I am here. Also dont self harm it wont take the pain away. We all around you dont hate you.

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Have a magical day you just put into words how I feel ALL THE TIME and I’m so exhausted by feeling this way.

That is absolutely horrible. Go to someone you trust very much like a parent. I know how hard it is to tell your parents too. I've had to tell them when I was cutting myself. They helped me to stop even though it was hard to tell them. And if you are closer to a sibling then a parent, try telling them. I love you and care about you.

한규리 I know how you feel, my last year in highschool was a HELL, I hated every second there, but I always smiled, pretending that everything was fine. Then my first year of college was very cool, I started to workout, eat better, do my homeworks and be confident. But now, my functional depression decided to say 'hi' again, it's been about 4 months that I feel like shit, gained all the weight back and my binge eating disorder is killing me honestly. I still smile everyday, I don't feel the right to worry my family with my bullshit, they're a great family and don't deserve my ridiculous situation. I hope you're doing better right now! Korea looks great, a lot of nice artists there~

I’m so sorry for you, I know what is to feel like you have no one, if you want to talk you can write me in this comment and I’ll give my social media.

한규리 you can talk to me :) i know what is when theres no one to understand you

Yurio's Mother don’t be afraid to tell you parents. if you don’t want to tell them because you don’t want them to deal with your depression then what are your parents for? your parents are there to help you and guide you throughout life. they want you to make sure that your life is the best it can be. if you think about it, it’s heartbreaking knowing that your child is suffering and you can’t even do anything. i’m truly sorry for the things your going through and i hope you regain your happiness. remember that you are strong and you can do this.

*sometimes Jeffrey Dahmer comes to visit me and he hugs me and stuff and tells me if i come i can be with him but never had the chance :(*

Your not alone even though I am not depressed I always talk to myself it's like there is a frend in your mind whocan listen to you when your sad or depressed

@@cigarettediet1185 Hey I feels bad if you truly had depression but please stop this kind of thinking. Jeff Dahmer is a garbage human and you are too for loving him.

oh i feel literally the same i created my own worlds where people love me and hug me and care about me and practically force me to open up to them and then they will hug me and then i can cry on their shoulder and it s just feels soooooo indescribable good

@@nati6140 Too bad those kind of world only exists in anime or something.

Depressed people don't all want to die 🗿

@@skkaws i do

@hwailey no

@hwailey I wish tho

I consider when people are depressed, they want the pain to stop. But when they're suicidal, their mind only focuses on ways of killing themselves.

@Lav Sani You'll get through it Darling. Nothing is permanent. The last time I had it was few days back. Still struggling ❤️

Are you still in it? Maybe this video can lead you to a cure. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-XRrMTrv3OAw.html

@@acthslm9525 there is no cure

@@keiron.4612 , there is. It depends on if you really want it and willing to do anything to get it. If you want it as bad as you want to breathe, I can point you to it.

@@acthslm9525 I've had all the help nothing works but ok tell me

Hey, I am going thru depression and I feel u bud. I was exactly thinking the same, I was asking God for LOVE...its such beautiful thing u can understand only if u have been thru it.

sigh.. im glad some of us can be happy, it's not impossible, just very hard. Happy for u:)

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@@martabrkan7188 I don't really know 🤷‍♀️

When I was trying to talk about my depression to my friends all they did was hit my cuts and said I was an idiot

depressed and sad is different.