But, can’t we just move on, put behind us?? I thought it was okay to do that, so we can move on and put it in the past… anyone else feel this way? I would some feedback from my Saggi family ❤ Thank you!
Ali you always say this that we need to heal but how do we actually do that ? How would you it? What if we feel as if we have tried doing everything to heal yet certain energies keep coming back round ? What do you define as healing ? And I love your readings and energy ❤️🙏🏽
@@ALIsTarot Ali, I'm a Virgo sun, Sag rising working with a Pisces sun, Cappy rising. Its interesting how the same situation is showing up in different ways under all these signs. Some suggestive to be more communicative while others to just let it be. I think I'm finally falling into just letting the universe decide but its been an insanely powerful connection Ive never felt before that turned sour for no good reason. Just doesnt make any sense.
Resonates with me! True, this pain, heartbtake this womaniser left in my Heart....i thought it healed.....After 5 months....the wound is still open.... Much Love to you and your dog and cat from South of France 🌞🌻🪷💮💫🌟💖
IMO the only way to heal from pain is to get justice when someone caused it by malicious or downright actions that may even be illegal. There seems to be no course of retribution for me except that Im constantly on short end of stick. Like im being kicked for being kicked. Yes immediately things should be addressed but thats not always viable and yeah so it goes. I felt like living my best life would be the best justice and yet thats not happening for me 😢
Hardly anything happened (chatted for a week and then a date and a confession from me), but it’s got an afterburn to it. Can’t imagine the other party being very much affected since she cut me off. At least, that’s how I’ve looked back on it. The one thing I can imagine is that she misinterpreted a self-depricating comment to be about her, and she might’ve taken offense. Bit complicated to explain, but it’s along the lines of, ‘’If you want fools for friends, you probably don’t treat them well”. Perhaps she thought I was calling her a fool, which in fact I was, but only by implication, in the sense that ‘’still staying friends’’ is something you can’t possibly mean seriously. So at least one of us must be a fool, that was the idea. But out of rhetorical considerations, I took myself as the fool. She may have been rebuffed by that comment to such an extent that it spoiled an opportunity I wasn’t aware of... But surely this is just me overthinking a dead end because I can’t stand being alone, it must be. Perhaps that’s the thing to be honest about.
❤❤hello my dear friend thank you for your reading, Italy. I have Leo ascending and Cancer in my moon, A Virgo is always in my mind and heart, is this possible???
I’ve bitten the bullet and am now going to therapy to try to get over this and be able to let go… which for someone in the UK is quite a big thing (stiff upper lip and all that)!
Spot on. I am a crosswatcher who dealt with a sagi who did something months ago and then act as if he did nothing wrong. I bumped into him while I was at work. He asked "why did I changed the game? He created a mess he doesn't want to fix...I am hurt. But I realized he doesn't want to resolve it back when it happen and probably never get that closure from him and I m moving on. His lost.
Dealing with something on a very similar level except the fallout financially for me has been disasterous. People seem to think money is arbitrary and only an option that you need to survive. I dont get it!? 😢🙏
That's just a saggis energy 😂😂😂we will fight today, and tomorrow don't even remember happening, that's way we probably let all them back stabers keep coming back over the years 😂... but no more...🎉🎉🎉
I have now and always have had emotional honesty with myself and others. The lesson I am learning is that just because I am honest and can forgive, doesn't mean that they can or that I should trust them. The world is much more superficial than it used to be. And I'm entitled to that perspective because I DO have self respect.
You are not able to fix someone elses Karma and by them trying to make you responsible for their Karma they can not fix it. Karma can't be avoided and can only be cleared by it's owner. In the meantime love them from a distance but don't let them in your life. It's hard but you have to stay in your own lane.
Not stupid, just hard to let go…thinking about all the good times and if they loved you why are they hurting you? It’s a total mind f**k, hard to wrap,our heads around it as normal people. Lots at good videos on RU-vid, check out demars coaching, you can ask him questions every week and he’ll answer them, he’s helped me a lot. Over 2 years and I’m still hanging on to hope, gotta let it go someday.
You are not stupid but maybe they made you feel something you can’t replace however being aware that you need to stop holding on them is far away from stupidity, give yourself a safe space to feel you feelings without judging them, time heals sooner or later you will get over them but to do so, allow yourself to grieve
I apologised after the incident, which was me lashing out after being dreadfully disrespected, but was stonewalled and haven’t heard from them since. They have clear avoidance tendencies which I knew about from well before the ending and has vaguely left me feeling slightly better about being left out in the cold.. I know it’s not a one off thing just for me, it’s what they do. I figure I tried, it was a heartfelt and genuine apology taking accountability for what happened, the ball was definitely left in their court, and after a year of trying but not being able to move on, I’m now in therapy. Fingers crossed this time next year I’ll be over all this. It’s been hella tough. Thanks Ali 🥲🙏
It won't take another year. Not if you decide to accept what is and release guilt. It always takes two. We can only take accountability for ourselves, which it sounds like you did. I understand how painful stonewalling is when we blame ourselves solely but it says a lot about the person you are dealing with as well. Your healing journey will speed up tremendously when you forgive yourself. Let yourself grow from this as a higher lesson informing how you move forward. God has plans to prosper you, be patient and remain in high vibration, while open to releasing this person's energy. It will make room for blessings to come your way.🙏🕊
@@LightworkBeacon ❤️🙏 thank you, this is the most beautiful reply I’ve ever had on YT.. it’s appreciated. You’re appreciated 🙏 thank you.. I’m trying. And your reply helps. I’ll try harder! ☺️🙏❤️
As far as my marriage goes i literally did have a feeling today like…. We arent even together…. We are just… room mates.. shells ? Idek how to explain it.
Odd u said that “i dont remember” the ONLY situ i can recall that was a recent epiphany is one where when i did ask! He said “i really dont remember” Around the same time readings were saying i “need to learn the face of deceit”
You can still do shadow work with it on your own… I SO relate to your comments, and painful as it is, this is a priceless opportunity for us to heal old stuff. I love that Ali’s lil lion pride is here for each other. Keep looking for invitations to do that work, and be open to the support needed to get through it ~ only saying this as I find those things magically appear when I am on a healing journey as I am now. It’s a lot of labor to follow those mystical “prompts,” but totally worth it! 🧸💖 Hugging you… you’ve got this! and …WE’VE got this!
Also reminding myself from your comments that when we fix the internal, it heals the external. It may come in a new form, but it’s an upward spiral… Re: your saying too much damage done. You can still heal the underlying metaphysical dynamic, and let Source deliver a higher frequency version back to you. ✨🩵✨ Awww yeah. I’m getting a little fired up just remembering that’s how it works. :.)
yes, It's a healthy way to address it, that seems to bring more one ups. I've come to terms with the fact that certain key words will bring it again. Sometimes I just have to say "who peed in your corn flakes". The song "shake it off" comes to mind when I go in deep thought about it.
