Ya Allah tera shukar My husband treats me like a princesses. Alhumdulliah never ever can imagine about something like abusive marriage. We are six sisters but never faced such sort of things. Alhumdulliah
He is the real hero which people are waiting for so long to help to understand peoples right about islam and what is real islam. And how an individual can explore his or her deen.
Talking about, Ghar e Hira....I can relate. Those FEW days that I spent on and off in my walk-in- closet, those were the days where my paradigm started shifting towards the reality. For the first time I observed myself and my reality in a different way. That gave me courage! That little tight spot of my house acted like my Cave of Hira. YES!
I just turned 30 this month. Never synced with the surroundings, had love for Allah since birth but it corrupted when i embraced the surroundings. Then again the problems brought me back towards Allah. Mr Sahil made me realise that knowledge(modern education) is also what Allah demands from us and then opening the knots of new door of that knowledge from quran and life of prophet S.A.W. I am trying to get a better person somehow and become a muslim to whom Allah calls a muslim. I've wasted whole life but i have observed every second of that wastage. For me, disobidience taught me the ways of obidience, never been under a great teacher, i learn from prominent figures through social mediums. Pray for me and may Allah bless you. IA one muslim can change the world!!!
Hy eram do more session with him specially on character development of women . Learnt so much from this session:') . Plus not only alhuda i use to be a student in alnoor & they also dont appreciate questioning.
Dramas in Pakistan i am not mentioning any specific but victim praising is so much appreciated and the thing is they get more than 40M Views. This mindset should be change and women specifically need to understand their status !!
Thank you doing this session. On top of being so informative, a lot of the personal experiences both of you have shared are so relatable for me and most importantly this discussion has given me so much validation. I have been listening to both of you for a while but this is such a treat. I think I’ve found my tribe. Sahil thanks for sharing the story about Hazrat Nusaiba I was in awe and I shared it with my daughter and my son, and I’d request if you guys can cover her story in detail so I can share with kids. I also want to thank Erum for sharing details about Hazart Khadijah. You guys are doing a real service and I want to thank you sincerely. Raising kids in the west, I can’t express how much gratitude I feel towards you both. I deeply respect and admire both of you. And request that you keep us in your prayers. Many thanks.
Hi, Sarah! Thank you for the wonderful comment. Eram has already discussed Hazrat Nusaybah's topic in detail in another video, here is the link for it: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-hUM-8F5Afb0.html Let us know your feedback! -Team ES
Eram!!! You’re such an empowered woman who has the courage to spark the light on the most bitter truths of our society. I wish women rights in our country could be understood. We are such a strong creature that we give birth and raise a man and yet need validation from them
Eram i m only 28 mins pass this video and i m crying sitting at my work. I m going through what u went through. I cant tell about me here but i been through some miracles and sure my mom still says “ shuker divorce ka DAAGH nei laga” even after living in USA all my life. And what Sahil sir said about divorced daughters, i had never heard before. Bless you brother for opening up our brains. 🙏🏻
Please do a session about how to live a married life. things to do and not to do to maintain a healthy relationship according to today's needs and sharia. I am going to marry soon and i want to do my best for my future wife. Many thanks :)
This is a great topic. i suggested to sahil that we should a mini course type of series dedicated to young couples in the process of getting married or newly weds. So that we can "equip" them with the tools to live a happy, loving married life.
Eram Saeed when you were telling your story about how you found Allah again in your life , believe me I was crying literally, also I improved my relationships with Allah. Thank you guys for your work
Sahil adeem is a real gem for us.. pheli dafa erum madam apko suna ha or apki story bi.. i know bhut so ki ase hi story ha or bhut se logo ko new ways milen gy apki story sun kar.. very good disscussion
OMG. You guys speak my heart out. I was doing my own research since long time. So happy to see that people think exactly the same way as I do. You converged all of it. Thanks a lot.
@@EramSaeedCoaching I love that point when you guys said that Islam is a religion of high-esteemed people. It got my attention and I am interested to read even deeply about Islam. Before, I just didn’t bother to read about it because I thought that Islam is for low-self esteemed people and only for men🙂. Only those weak people get attracted to Islam who are traumatized. They just use it to protect themselves. But now I begin to think that it truly is for betterment of all humans. It would be great if sahil and you talk about various levels of human consciousness and purpose of our lives. Although sahil talks about it, but if you emphasize women to get to know their purpose then it will be very helpful. Thanks.
Very constructive talk on breaking myths related to our so-called social norms and about faith and these discussions are much needed today as they truely ignite and inculcate a totally new perspective in individuals to connect and love Allah SWT. Great job done Eram and Sahil.
@@EramSaeedCoaching the biggest takeaway is that women can be great speakers too. And the way you both respected eachother and disagreeing at the same time was just prime example of tolerance Jo ke aaj kal napaed hai 💕💕💕 . And regarding new session, I'm all in with you two being there no matter what the topic will be. I'm sure I'll learn so many things.
Thank you for sharing information. I would like you to talk about if mothers have biggest responsibility to raise generation, should they only focus on that for particular time period like 5 to 10 years of life .. second in our society we hear silent is a solution like aik chup 100 suk.. so, what's the criteria for that we should be quite and it's Power could change others. If we forgive others but we stop talking them is it ok to be silent ??
Keep it up Eram sister, do more programmes with Sahil. We need more sahils and erams type strong personalities who will revive Islam in our society and then in rest of Muslim world and non Muslim world.
😂😂😂loved your video. I am from India and "pati parmeshwar hai" is a frequent dialogue in films and TV serials & even muslim women believe in it, while the Quran teaches us to fight injustice. I am single and happy, but most of my housewife friends cry over my single status while I worry about the day they learn how their husbands are cheating them right under their noses. There is no lack of suitors though. The family of every worthless guy in town who doesn't earn a penny wants to dump them on me. Why should I suffer them? The last one was a clown over 52 years of age who met me last year. He asked me if I liked watching Bollywood movies. I said not much. He then informed me that he likes to watch the iconic Bollywood movies 10-12 times each & memorize the dialogues. I felt like grabbing him by the collars of his shirt & giving him a mighty shake up
May I untangle the knot in this argument regarding second marriage and women's hurt regarding that? Again ISLAM is the solution. Our LOVE has to be only with ALLAH. We only have to fulfill the obligations of our relationships for the sake of ALLAH. Dil sirf ALLAH say lagaain. Rishton ki zimmadari Allah ki khatir poori karain. Bus! Rishton say hurt is hi liyai aata hay kyoonkeh dil ghalat jaga laga hay na! Anyway! Great conversation! Food for thought 👍
Zabardast... You understand the whole concept of the second marriage ayat... JAZAK ALLAH sister ... Congratulations 🎉 to such thinking and achievement Masha ALLAH.😌
One of the best and thought provoking lectures that I have ever listened in my life. Jazak Allah Khair. May Allah bless you both in this world and the hereafter!
Oh mere Allah what an amazing personalities you both are n together my God ..... Me Eram ki tou fan thii hi already n kuch time se Sahil bhai ko sunti hu me bolti hu kaha se itniiii knowledge he sahil bhai k pass n style n ander tk nichor dety hen zameeer n isi trha Eram ka andaaz mujhy itnaa pasand he me b bot pain me rehti rhi hu but blessed too much .... Me b Allah k pass phir dour kbhi naraz kbhi bus soo much can relate ..... Aj tou hud hi hogai me kese itnaaaa wisdom n knowledge n guidelines smbhalu donoo ek sath oh my God .... I really love n respect to both of you eram n sahil bhai n bohot dua krti hu aplogo ki asanio k ly n asan ho asani n islam phelany k ly mjy b dhung ka muslim bnadey
Erum ji saying.... Ab mujhy koi molvi nahi bata sakta ka ALLAH pak mujh say muhabbat kartay hain ya nahi... Subhan ALLAH sister what a faith and what you explore about your RUB is beyond ANYONE'S imagination 🥰
Amazing session btw i have conservative mind i only come here because of sahil sir but the Eram ma'am change my whole prospective the strong relation with ALLAH and the way she talk amazing Ma'am ALLAH bless you and lot's of Rehmat.
After learning islam,I took divorce after 19 years. (Husband was in zina alchol and doesn't even read namaz)..now inlaws angryl as they still want me to give him.chance and forgive.so Trust Allah and leave.i never worked but did it so my children can see islam is important. I didn't know much but since last 3 years I learned about islam and woman rights.i was shocked how many rights.
Mam jazakillahu khairan Qaseera for this eye opening and stunning session I urge you to please do more and more sessions like this a lot of love and lot of prayers for you and sir Sahil of course
Next topics: Erum please we would like to hear your thoughts and Sahil adeem's thoughts as you guys have experience of marriage and have been through quite a lot of life events. 1. How to be a good wife and husband and what's their role. How to put this role in a 💯 practical life. 2. How to do good parenting as a husband, as a father, as a wife, and as a mother. 3. Is there any privacy between husband and wife, if yes then what's the limit? 4. What are the boundaries of a husband and wife. 5. Do's and don'ts in a married life. 6. How to make each other perfect according to Islam. 7. How a woman can practice serve Islam with or without marriage? 8. How a man and woman should deal with their parents and their partner's parent.
One of the best podcast i have ever watched, Learn so many things from both of you, u guys summarised & unpack all the topics really well & it make so much sense, we have always been push towards in darkness by our so called scholars everytime, you both expose these people who destroyed so many lives by their si*k cultures/values & call it islam while it's not... Thank you so much for this amazing podcast, wish to know more about women rights & their status in islam❤️
Womens status in Islam...its coming in a few days. You will be amazed to hear his answer! That's why I keep saying Allah has a "soft corner" for women. If only we understood our rights and value in Islam! Other women would literally envy us!
@@EramSaeedCoaching Seriously can't wait for it, u are in a great mission & doing great job, Thank u so much for these amazing podcasts, We need more minded & rational people like you, More power to you mam👏❤️
Assalamualikum . Sahil Adeem sb is looking Mashallah hyper active or he may be translating things perfectly to me as a Masculine. I am also your fan and i have a deep love and respect for you and i want to thank you for your role you are Performing . Please have more sessions With Sahil sb , it will help audience on both sides , you both are good combination for transferring Islam ( which is utility of human and muslims in Particular)
@@EramSaeedCoaching jb apny bola k Allah hm sy Muhabbat krta us k liye apki kisi molvi waghera ki wazahat ki zaroorat nai ye bat teer ki trha lagi ❤️ mein to lrka hn lkn kuch hd tk relate krta hn apsy kiun k mein b yhi sochta tha k mera kuch nai hoskta aur hr mushkil mujh py hi ati Allah ki trf sy but jb mein ny Allah ko jana to Allah sy pyar hogya aur Allhamdulliah hr mushkil sy nikala Allah
Both personality is the honorable and intellectual. I want to sure you that how much our emotional health is been improved through your videos. Best wishes for you both and I really love you and iam glad to have such a wonderful teacher like you ❤️
SubhanAllah what a similarity with you , In my personal life I went also through same things, I was also à rebellion and curiosity charachter in my young age. And i find myself a lot of commun points with your story.
Erum thank you for introducing him . I saw your interview with Dr Javed and his surah rehman therapy . Now I am fan of Dr Javed and watch his videos . I told many people about this remedy .
Aoa, Erum thank you for starting another good series leading to social transformation. I have a request, I hope it won't offend you, as you have invited Sahil Adeem as a guest on your channel so kindly let him talk more if you will please because your audience, knows where you are coming from and are interested to see how he answers to your questions and adds to the narrative. I am saying this with love, you talk good but often take more time as you are so emotionally invested and sincere to what you are trying to convey. May be you can pose your main question in the beginning and then let him talk on it & only point out how you disagree in few words when you disagree. Both your audience and Sahil Adeem's audience will love it more, as your audience hears you more in your solo uploads. Thank you, love your cause and energy!
Eram ji I have been constantly listening you very carefully have also lots of inner conflict finding peace but when I am starting to listen you , i am getting answer in your talk really your all videos extremely his inspiring make me optimistic, as well as lofty my dream day by day .may Allah elevate yu in all field aamin make Dua for me whatever I have issue plz includes me ...
Sometimes I am waiting to die in the cause of islam and waiting to meet Allah and prophet s.a.w , I want all of this to end soon enough so we all could be at peace, I get why sahabs was so Infront to die first in the battle field and meet the creator and save themselves from this worldly life and it's attractions that is more stronger than a magnet.
Two Ummat e Rasool S.A.W worrier in one podcast❤️! they both are LEADERS they both have different style but purpose is same, we want one more podcast that relate to women rights in Qur'an because many scholars change ayat and give fake Hardee's and misguided Muslim women.
24:40 when your strength comes from Allah Ta'ala, he is not going anywhere, he is permanent. Very important realisation, known as "Urwatal Wusqa" in Quran, means getting a hold onto something that's not going anywhere, that's permanent, it is about tawakkul on Allah.
👑 Eram Baji Tears are falling and I can't stop them...I'm 39 and in the same state as u were, the villan is same and I just have this deepest wish ever of never being born, my pregnant wife and a 2 yr son is sleeping right in front of me on floor and there is No One around who even give me a call to simply just ask me if I am okay or how is my son. Soon as my Father passed away The GrandFather and all my father's siblings told me that there is No place for You and ur sister (who is a single mother of a 16 yr daughter) they said "its Islam's law that when ur father is Gone everything is gone and we have nothing for you, where my sister's marriage is also a big story. So I am totally broken with sooooooooooo many question in my head and my tongue is no longer in my control 😢 It was my Chachu's friend who became my sister's husband while my DaDi used to say that do not bring ur friends home because u have a young sister I just want someone to either shoot me or I could shoot someone We were raised by our Grand Parents and my mother left us all 3 (2 brothers and 1 sister) when I was 5 or 6 maybe What .....is.....there.....that.....I...can....do
May Allah have mercy on you! People keep misrepresenting Islam. Have faith in Allah. Verily hardship is followed by ease. Have Sabr. Aim is Jannah Remember that. May you and your family be reunited in Jannah!
started it by a kind of accident and could not resist my self from watching it complete, because my plan was to watch a series [ ozark] but ALLAH always have a best plan. loved it . God bless you guys.
It is very easy to say that I am greatful to Allah swt but to make all niyamah to go into right deeds in every single time for an individual than it is called as thankful and greatfulness to Allah swt
Ma'am you are doing such good work i just can't put it into words how happy i am to see your videos and your work. I must make clear that i am boy and completely agree with everything you say on women empowerment. These misogynist mulas have presented Islam in such a way that it very suffocating while when Islam arrived in Makkah it gave people the freedom they always wanted. Thank god there are people like sahil who are teaching islam the way it is. Please keep doing the good work please be never be discouraged by negative comments because the people who comments such discouragement aren't at fault because they were brought up in misogynistic environment hence here we are today. Keep your head up keep doing the good work. May Allah bless you and lots of prayers for you.
Thank you for this enlightening session! Been hearing Sahil for a long and he is just phenomenal, but hearing you along with him was a treat I reckon. You both picked and gauged a lot of our ill-formed thermostats. JazakALLAH!
@@EramSaeedCoaching Well I liked it because, 1- It is relatable and candid. 2- It tells one that they are their own heroes... I think this is very important. 3- It touches how our society and culture have become toxic and un-slamic... the root of many problems. What I would like to hear more is practical and doable action items to improve yourself, your relations and values and how to remain true to your religion as well.
Mashallah ❤️ very relatable. Allah hain aur agar Allah hain par yaqeen hain tou phir zindabi asan hain. Allah bilkul shahrag ke qareeb hain likin apni shahrag tak hum nahi pohanch sakte..very nice example Eram ma'am. May Allah bless you with more Love for Him💕
It is very informative session but it should be completely in urdu so it can reaches to masses. There are some very important things that every girl and boy should know but as there is use of very technical english phrases that is difficult to understand to majority of people. Thanks for the much needed session!!!!
MashAllah such an inspiration for young people All i want to say is Is dunya ki kuty ki okat nai Srf wo karain Jo Allah ny allow kiya hua baki dunya ki kon suny itna time ni U guys are gems❤️
Sahil Sir is a literally great man, I always love to watch your sessions I always get awareness about Islam from you and your team like Mohammad Ali and others. You people help us to follow Islam easily. Erum ma'm I also follow you on Facebook since years you give insight and awareness from psychological perspective.
Rishtay jb ana Shuru hotay hain to larkiyan and unkay parents bht high standards rakhtay hain but then after years of disappointments and rejections and hearing things like "sb Kuch nai milta" I see many of them start compromising on major signs of the guy not being capable of fulfilling family responsibilities
The straight path for sincere bondmen is not so complicated but simple and is given in the very first Surah Al-Baqrah which is “Allazieena yuminoona bilghaibe wa yuqimoonas salat...” (those who believe in the unseen and establish prayer...) and and His very presence near any soul in Surah Al-Waqiah with “wa nahno aqrobo illhee minkum wa lakil la tubsiroon”[and we are closer to him than you (at the time of his soul leaving his body) but are not visible to you].
What a wonderful conversation ❤ 👌 I must say we would love to hear more n more such sessions for learning and understanding .. Hats off to you Madam 👏 🙌 Stay blessed
Thanks to Allah .I watch whole video very anxiously without interruption. Very knowledge full both are my favourite personalities always in surch of there upcoming lectures section..what that all discussion reveals must be a solid step need to be taken place Only with Sahil adeem it could be possible with the help of my Allah. Positive change in Muslims specially new generation can be seen soon inshallah ameen. Allah bless you both
I think that this is a good session but this can be better as both of you are in leading positions which cause hybridizing one view with other...It can be in the form of podcast where you start one idea and then completely end it and then start a new talk on a new topic...Or it can also be in form of Question/answer session...Which would be much better and now it's just looking as a random talk with confusions in my mind....
I completely relate to every thing mentioned here especially finding my haami in Rasool Allah Sallallahu Allayhi Wasallam. You know what the centre of everything is Rasool e Pak Sallallahu Allayhi Wasallam and if you understand this (which is not easy trust me) You have figured it out!!
ماشاء اللہ. اللہ تعالی آپ کو اپنی رحمت اور حفاظت میں رکھیں.🤗 یہ سیشن بہت ہی انفارمیٹو تھا.الحمدللہ.🌟 بہت پیاری اور سادہ گفتگو قرآنک پرنسپلز کی روشنی میں.سبحان اللہ. اور آپ دونوں کے پرسپیکٹِوز, ماشاءاللہ 👏 لاجکس ,اور آپ کے تجربات کے ساتھ. انکے ساتھ کنیکٹ کرنا بہت آسان ہو رہا تھا. سپیشلی آج کی عورت کے اپنے سٹیٹس کو لے کر کلئیر ہونے کی اہمیت سے لے کر ,ڈومیسٹک ڈسٹربینسز اور امت مسلمہ کے مسائل کی پن پوائنٹ وجوہات اور انکے حل تک. سب بہت بہت ہیلپفل تھا الحمدللہ..🤗 اس سے میرے بہت سے کنسیپٹس میں ویلیو ایڈیشن ہوئی.اور بہت سی کنفیوزنز کے سلیوشنز ملے. الحمدللہ..الحمدللہ.🥰🤗 You guys always inspire me soo much. Alhamdulillah..🥰 May Allah swt be please with You. 🤗.And Bless You Both...Love You.❤❤ Jazakumullah u Khairr. 🌟🙌
Amazing collab. You should also invite sister Naima B Robert. She gave amazing lecture on polygyny like what mindset young girls or even married women should hv/ shouldn't hv abt polygyny. Another topic she discusses alot is abt intimacy which is again taboo topic in our culture. I benefitted alot from her lectures.
I am amazed to hear the story of you Madam. I can totally relate to it as I think this is what I have been experiencing in the last couple of years.. I have lost the connection and I am trying in my bits and pieces to reconnect with Allah Paak..
Stay tuned and watch some of my videos on this channel....Inshallah you will find your way back to Him. It's not a coincidence you're here ....much love!
1:37:00 I am sorry to say this: The mediums of information that we have depends on us but not directly. A person would never think about exploring them because that's not the topic, it never comes into a thought or have been a discussion in the community. That all is useless. But yeah, once there's a direction, there's hope that someone will find it. We need to be that spotlight, and if someone reach us, to that spotlight, so we can show them forward path. You are doing that job. I listened your complete podcast. By hearing your personal story, I little bit understood how a woman perceive things like you saying that something that even God can't make fall you in love to him. It gave me other perspective and that I think is a better one that I have previously. It will even effect my behavior with my ami and every women. Thanks for such an amazing session. (I am not subscribing because I don't feel the need to be here but yeah, if you do a session with Sahil so it's gonna appear on my timeline :) Stay Blessed
Assalam o alaikum Erum aapki aur sahil ki discussion suni meri request he k aap dono new generation ko batain k as a husband and wife unke roles Kia he unke rights Kia hain and wo kese aik achay parents bn sakte hain because mere parents ne just hamari shadi ki but koi training nahi thi is liye meri life bhi physical emotional verbal and mental torture se guzri he. I'm 59 now and my kids are afraid to get married though hamari 32 yrs long compromised marriage kisi na kisi tarha chal rahi but uska bacho pe acha asar nahi he.
Ma Sha Allah Tabarak Allah.. what a beautiful session, really inspiring. May Allah SWT bless you both with His countless blessings and make things easy for you.
