Saib Saib Hmoov thiaj Li Nrauj Txiv~06/25/2024~ 

Never compare your life and relationship to others. Everyone is different and who knows what hides in the closet.

Perfect example of "you don't know what you have until it's gone".

Mloog mloog tej niag dabneeg quav dev no nej cov niam tsev thiaj nrauj txiv!

Poj niam txoj kev ntshaw tau kiag li siab xav ntag yom. Khiav qav ntsib nab ces yog koj ntag lau.

Txhob tu siab sister aws txiv neej cov zoo yeej tseem muaj thiab tabsis nrhiav nyuaj lawm es ua siab nyob ib leeg mas kaj siab tshaj os..nrog cov neeg muab kev hlub qhia qhua li ko mob hlwb thiab siab dhau muab recycle yus nyob yus ua zoo nkauj khwv nyiaj mus vacation xwb os es txhob khuv xim tus qub lawm os..

Yus tus txiv hlub2 yus es yus tseem ntshaw2 kev hlub, mus saib hmoov rau ub rau no, mag tsis mag, tab tom ntxim xwb, paub lawm pos koj na.

Hai ncaj cov nyiam2 saib hmoov li kv no thb u yuav tsum saib qhov tseeb thb u lub siab kom ruaj2 xb thj li g ua poj nrauj nb

Txiv neej dabtsi cas yuav tub sab tshaj plaws li os dhuav hom txiv neej tub sab tshaj plaws li os

This is the type of husband anyone would want !

Ruam dua ntais

Txhob muab yus lub neej mus piv rau lwm tus lub neej vim yus tus tsis coj li lwm tus hos yus kheej los yeej coj tsis tau li lwm tus thiab os mog, yus ntshaw ntshaw lwm ces yus yuav tau qhov niag tsis hlub ntag hos.

Advice… Before anyone do anything, you should always try to pursue your first one first. Change him without letting him know.

Tsa pob Zeb ces yeej muaj 🦀🦀🦀xwb lau mas hmoob aw……

My husband won't even tell me if he goes fishing. By the time I wake up, he's gone. But, he will text me throughout the day and tell me if he caught anything or not. 😂 He doesn't go all the time. But, when he does, he's only gone until 2pm at the latest. My hubby isn't a romantic either but, he's genuine.

Tsis Pom dej dag ces siab tsis nqig ces yog koj ntag.

First one here. This story sounds like a repeat story. I think I heard this story already. Lol

Khiav nab tsib qav ces yog koj los mo

Hehehe thaum tau tus txiv zoo, tsis yuav. Hmoov tag pog ruam! 🤪

Txhob tu2 siab os viv ncaus, tsis pom dej dag ces siab yeej tsis nqig os. Tswj koj pob nyiaj kom khov kho nawd

I hope my wife would hear this story.

Yuam kev lis vim peb cov poj niam ntshaw2 txoj kev hlub kev zoo Ed thiaj li nrhiav tag zog es ua rau yus thiaj poob kev phem los mas..lawv..aw..

Ua neeg ces peb yeej xav tau qhov peb tsis muaj. Sometimes we need to be content with what we have. Your first marriage is long gone so just move on sister.😢

I love this story thanks for sharing good advice

Yog kawg. Kev tu siab ua rau yus tus ntsuj plig tsis nyob hauv hauv tsev tsis nrog nwd. Nyob kho kho siab heev os. 😢

Hom poj niam zoo li koj ko yog hom uas Taj Taj tsis sawm zoo nas. Txiv tsis ua hluas txiv zoo los koj tsoos tsoos kom neej puas mus ces li ko mas.

Niag maum dev txhob cuab koj ma Liam thiag!!!

ซัน ซัน

Ntuj os teb aw pojniam tsis sawm zoo ces yog koj zoo li koj mas. Neeg siab phem siab hlob ces yog zoo li koj mas. Tau tus me los yuav xav tau tus loj, fau tus loj los xav tau tus me, tau tus yuag thiab qis los ntshe xav tau tus siab, tau tus muaj los xav yuav xav tau tus pluag tsuav zov yus. Yog tau tus pluag los ho yuav khiav mus caum tus muaj ces yog koj mas.

Tus muam aw. Kuv txawj saib hmoov sib hlub thiab os. Koj twb tau tus txawj hlub koj lawm ces ua siab hlub thiab khwv rau tus hlub2 koj

Live ur life thru fate, but not thru saib tes saib hmoov! That's what I learned from my parents.

Thank you for sharing your story! Kuv tab tom ntsib kj qhov teeb meem ntag kv tus txiv yeej hlub2 kuv kawg tab sis pheej g txaus kv li vim kuv pheej g hnov nws tej lus zoo zoo li nws pheej g paub yus siab li na kuvlos mloog kj zaj no ces kv paub lawm ❤

Ua neej nyob tus neeg ruam mas thiaj li mus saib hmoov xwb nawv ho tug neeg ntse mas rau siab ntso mus nrhiav txoj kev kawm txawjntse kom nrhiav muaj noj / haus thiab muaj nyaj / kub los siv.

Tsis yog noam os. Kev ruam xwb. Poor choices.

Plus you can't change others only you.

😅😅😅 tsam no cia nws mas ua saub rau koj. Nws ua saub tseem tseeb dua koj cov saub pob. 😅😅

Mej cov me ntseeg ntseeg saub es cov niag saub dag xwb los koj cas tag hau ris lawm lau

You never know what you have until you lost it.

Ua neeg nuob txhob lam mus siab siab yiag txog txij nkawm yuav tua lawm ces ua ib siab nyob sib hlub li yus 2 leeg hlub taus xwb kuv yog ib tug saib Yaig thiab thaum neeg nug kuv txig txij nkawm los si hluas nkauj hluas nraug kuv tsis kam saib yam ntawv thiab saib Yaig tsis yog 100% tseeb yog yuav ntawv los ntseeg me me xwb lub neej thiaj tsis tsawg mog

Tsa pob zeb ces kawg pom kab pum. Zoo kawg txoj kev ua poj nrauj.

Koj paub tsawg, nws dag koj vim koj twb qhia nws tas yam koj xav tau lol. Paub tsis paub, tsimnyog lawm lau😢!!!

I would I never let a Medium or psychic tell me how to break my marriage apart! People don’t know how to love you like how you need to be love but it’s up to you to love you so he just be there for you!! You need lots of self love & love yourself; you don’t need validation from anyone becuz the medium and psychic might lie to you and I wouldn’t want to lose a good husband over tarot cards, psychic or medium! Having someone who takes care of the bills and household chores and the kids is better than some boys who likes & love mind games & stupid games!! Being divorce, you have to love you 20x more becuz more responsibilities!! 😮❤😢 Don’t ever say other people love their wife/husband becuz it gets the other person mad so they don’t know what to say!! 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢Do Better!!

Tsis npam tab sis koj yog ib tug neeg tsis sawm zoo xwb.

Koj ces nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb os koj tej poj saub MAs saib leej kawg koj tau tus txiv hlub koj kawg li os yom Lig dhau lawm Lauj poj hmoob Ruam aw

Kuv tus txiv coj li koj tus qub txiv ko tiag, yeej tsis hais lus zoo rau kuv, mus rooj teb twg mas ua cuag tsis nco yus li. Yus mus qhov twg lawm tsheej hnub los nws yeej tsis hu xuvtooj caum yus li, tab nyiaj txiag nws yeej muab tag nrho rau kuv cia. Yuav xov tooj tsheej phav dollars rau kuv, hlub tej menyuam, tsis qia dub nyiaj rau kuv li. Kuv xav tias lawv li nyiaj nyob twg ces lawv kev hlub nyob ntawm

Tus viv ncaus aw tej zaum koj tus txiv thiab kuv tus txiv ces ntshe yog 2 kw tij os.kuv tus txiv ua ib yam nkaus os kuv tus txiv hais tias cia kuv tus txiv mam ua neeb roob taus kho kuv yog neeb roob taus xwb ces nws yeej txawj ua kawg no os.thiab kuv tus txiv hais tias lo lus hlub es nws twb hais tas thaum nws tseem tuaj tham lawm tam sim no sib yuav lawm ces ho yog kuv thib hais lo lus hlub ntawm rau nws no ces tam sim no kuv tus txiv wb laus2 es nws twb tuag lawm kuv twb tsis tau tau cev khaub ncaws nyab tshiab 3 tag kis thiab lo lus hlub li nawb wb nyob ua ke tau 41 xyoos os es kuv yog ib tug poj ntsuam tsis tau lo lus hlub os

Niam qhuav ntxim xwb twb tsi tau txaws yus txoj niag kev tsi xyaum ua ib tus niam tsev zoo ces yog koj ntag lauv!! Peb txiv tsev ces yeej tsi muaj ib tus yuav zoo tshaj tus li nawb...Paub lawm ces nyob taus taus xwb zoo rau koj lub neej yav tom ntej no mus xwb los yog thaum laus thiaj li tau lub chaw cob cuab xwb os.

LOL... YOU DEFINITELY FOR THE STREETS

Tus niam tsev tsis yog tim koj saib saib Hmoov es thiaj sib nrauj os..vim koj pheej ntshaw tus txiv txawj txawj hlub koj xwb os

Poj niam hlwb tsawg mas ua ciaj ua tuag rau rev pab nkaus xwb. Peb cov txiv tsev tsis xav ua neeb kho cov poj niam hlwb tsawg ces you tau yuav paj rau nws hnub yug thiab hnub Valentine’s Day nawv. Yog nej coj li no ces poj niam yeej tsis muaj mob li nawv.

Hais lus mos tuaj pos…soft spoken words are the most lethal

Npua yeem noj xua dev yeem noj quav ces zoo li no tiag kav tsij txaus siab rau yam koj muaj thiab koj tau lawm xwb thiaj li yog koj tug thiab yog yam koj xaiv lawm xwb os nawb

Luag hais tias, ‘Niam txais tog txiv txais nta, tshaj ntuj nrig nram qab ha.’ Ces yog koj. Kuv mas ntshaw tus txiv cia kuv ywj pheej. Qhov yus tus txij nkawm cia yus nyob ywj pheej ces yog tus hlub yus los mas. Hos tus neeg es nim tuav rawv yus tes hos khoo yus es yus mus ib ruam ob ruam los liam tias yus mus yus ces yog mus deev hluas nraug. Tus no ces nej qhuas tias twb yog hlub hlub nej es thiaj khib khib thiab khoo khoo. Nej paub tsawg txog kev hlub.

Neeg tsis sawm zoo. Koj tsis tau pom dej dag ces siab tsis nqig. Zaum no koj tau pom lawm ces koj nyob taus lawm lauv. Tim koj xwb. Ua ntej yuav nrauj koj Tus txiv uas koj hais tias tsis txawj hlub koj. Koj yuav tsum mus rau hauv ncoo siab siab xav tas mam nrauj thiaj li tsis yuam kev pob.

Cov txiv coj li koj tus txiv tshiab ko thiaj yog cov txawj hlub ntag, koj tsis paub tias tus Saub kiag nws twb txhais tsis tau cov lus Saub ntawv, cov lus Saub ntawd tsuas yog 50 feem pua xwb, tej zaum kuj txhais rov qab thiab

Kuv yog txiv neej kuv xav yog nej cov poj niam nyiam kom txiv neej coj li cas nej yuav tau qhia yog hais tas tsis ua txaus hloov tswv mam hloov , kev hlub yeej tsis zoo 100% tau ib qho yuav plam ib qho . Kev saib saub ces ruam thiaj saib nawb !!

Cov neeg tsis puv 100 thiaj ntseeg2 tej Kev saib Hmoov saib yaig... Thaum kawg lub Neej thiaj tawg. 😂😂

Kuv niag thaub ces yog kiag tus kov ntag os sister aw.

Koj nyiam cov kev hlub dag lo tu niam tsev....tu txiv muaj kev hlub dag nws hais tias nws hlub hlub koj tab sis nws mus nws lawm muab lo lus hlub coj lo dag koj xwb na....kuv tu no tau kev hlub dag xwb tiag holiday lo kuv tsis tau ib lub paj li as...lam nyob tsuas luag tsis cab tes tawm xwb

Tus me niam tsev aw, nrauj koj niag txiv ko es yus nyob yus thiaj kaj siab os. Los yog mus nrog koj cov menyuam nyob. Yeej tim koj thiab tim koj tus qub txiv thiab. Nws tsis paub koj txojkev ntshaw es tsis ua ib yam rau koj zoo siab es lub neej thiaj yuamkev

Kuv mloog tsis tau tas koj zaj neej neeg no tab sis kuv twv kiag tias koj yuav tsum pom dej ntws saum qaum choj kiag....hahaha

Hahahaha

Ua neeg nyob- yog Yus tsi pov qhov phem ces yus twb tsi paub tias yus tau qhov zoo no os. Pab koj tus siab tiam koj muab koj lub “pearl “ mus pauv lub “fish eye”

Lesson learned.

pheej mus saib saib saub ces zaum no yus lub neej ciaj khaub tsuas nros yus ntseeg ntseeg saub lus ces zaum no yus plam tus zoo zoo mus hahaha

Koj txawm tuaj nyob rau lub teb chaws vam meej lawm los koj tseem tsis tau vam meej vim koj saib koob saib hmoov los yog kab tes kab taw coj koj ua neej. Cov neeg cia tej txuj no tswj tsav lawv txoj kev ua neej tseem tshuav coob thiab. Tab sis hom neeg no yog cov tsis muaj kev kawm txawj ntse los yog cov neeg laus nkaus xwb.

Tus pog no xav xav kom tus txiv hais lus zoo rau nws, tiam sis nws tus kheej twb haj yam tsis hais ib lo lus zoo rau nws tus txiv. Tus no yog poj laib

You got freedom. Communication and plan trips with your husband. Mostly men waits for the wife to plan. If you compare & look at others relationship, you never know it’s real or fake.

The grass is not greener on the other side. You have to learn to water your grass and be happy with what you have.

hahaha, koj niag Saub mas saib koj txoj hmoov ces pom thaus khiav ceev ceev mus qheb qhov rooj tsheb xwb, dhau ntawd ces Saub tsi pom li lawm.

Ppl need to stop going to these fortune teller...many times they say what you want to hear and you end up ruining your own life. Some of them are really good with lies and charge you a lot of money.

You have a good husband til u lost him sister.

Can someone help me find someone like this lady asking for a friend

Be careful what you wish for.. My husband is like your first husband. In the beginning I wanted him to show his love like other husband. But I am glad I didn't divorce mine. I have the freedom to do anything..

Ntuj aw niag niam neeb ko xuab lim hiam txws koj xwb naws. Koj cov saub koj mus saib ko mas dag kom koj mus poob qhov ntuj xwb aws. Kuv yog ib niam neeb niam saub thiab nawb kuv mas cov poj niam tuaj saib hmoov txoj kev txij nkawm mas kuv tsis hais li cov niam neeb niam saub ko as. Nplig nplig kho kho kom lawv tej ntsuj plig ras xeev thim xav tig rov sib hlub xwb as. Kuv tus niam hluas ces yog kiag li koj ntag tiag nim no ces nrauj txiv tag nrog ib tug yawm nrauj ces 3 hli xwb vim tseem phem tshaj nws tus qub txiv naws.

This is a reason that those people can only see a snapshot of your life into the future. They can't see your life to the end. It may be the correct prediction but they don't know what will happen after that. You have to take the prediction with a grain of salt. I sometimes see people's future but it is a snapshot of what to come. The future is not set because it changes depending on what you do today and what happened in the past.

Hahaha poj ruam os poj ruam aw...hahaha hahaha

Thaum tau tus zoo tsis xav yuav ces nyuam qhuav phim. I can take a man who allows me to have my freedom and money any day over a fake man with sweet words that aren’t true most of the time. Nyiaj yuav qaib rau yus tus ntxhais noj xwb twb tsis muaj lawm mas liam tiag. Thaum yus tus txiv/poj niam nrog yus nyob yus saib tsis muaj nqi ces cia mus rau luag mam hlub.

You’re deserve that romantic husband kawg li os puas yog kiag li koj tus ex-husband hais rau koj cia koj mus tau 1 tug es 1 lo 1 ncaws taw mas thiaj li yog kev hlub puas yog koj vwm rau kev hlub thwm qhaab mus saib saub dag es muab yus lub neej rhuav kiag. Cov niag es tawm rooj plaws es nim tuav tes rawv sib hnia ntshuj ntshis ces lam ua qhia qhua xwb hauv lub vaj lub tsev ces xyov lawv zoo lawv li cas thiab yeej tsis kav ntev li os. Koj ces hmoov tag

😂😂😂...lol....d as...😂😂😂

You reap what you sow. No sorry for you.

Don't ever compare your spouse to someone else. How would you feel if they did that to you? Everyone has flaws no one is perfect. The grass always seems greener on the other side and most of the time it appears so because that grass is fertilized with bullshit. There is a saying "becareful what you wish for because you just might get it." 😂

Don't be sad, sister. All we can do is learn from our mistakes. My husband is not romantic at all, either. But I have 3 conditions for staying in a marriage. 1 faithfulness, 2 no physical abuse, and 3 equality in finances. I have no need for romance because it's an illusion only. You had all 3 with your husband, too. I only wish you had talked with the right person for advice. You would have known you had a good husband. Just down to earth realistic.

😂😂😂😂😂can't believe all women listeners can't see through this lady excuse to cheat😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Hehehehe...you did this to yourself because you were silly, selfish, and ruam! Actions speak louder than words: your ex-husband loved you through his actions of letting you have freedom to do whatever you want, spend whatever you want, and go wherever you want as long as you stayed out if trouble! You were blind to this and thought love meant only if the spouse was romantic! If you still have some smarts left, set aside your pride and embarrassment and divorce your current loser husband before he completely puts you in the poor house! Do you really want to lose more money and time to a loser? If you really learned your lesson, DON'T stay in a DEAD END marriage!

Change only apply your husband, not you

Koj tsis sawm zoo. You should never compare your spouse with someone's spouse. Your ex is not a romantic type, but he loves you and gives you freedom. Tau tus zoo tsis yuav, ho mus uv tus tub sab tub nkeeg.

This lady is so extra n using excuses for cheating. No one can read mind of how u want to be loved

Your ex-husband is just like my husband.

I don't think your ex jealous of you

Ouch nothing worst than having an abusive, lazy and gambleholic spouse. You are in for a long rough life.

Both are wrong. In marriage.. keep going out on dates and make time for each other. Sis was asking for attention from her husband and left to find new love. Husband won’t even change a little for her or show a little affection for her sake. Change for the good. Especially. Change for the better for your marriage. Both parties needs to water their grass to make it green.

Xiam hlwb ce zoo li no.

Koj ruam2 ne poj hmoob

🤣🤣🤣🤣You got what you deserve. Don't ever think that you will go into a relationship and change a guy. It will never work, he may adapt to some but most guys will or cannot change. Stop dreaming ladies, if you're lucky you might be the 5% that finds one like that.

Sister, you rather live in a crappie life than living by yourself. That is not too smart of you. You just have to love, respect, take care, and put yourself first.

U lost a good husband for sure…!!!

Koj mas phim koj tu niag txiv #2 xwb. 😂 Your ex-husband was right about everything but you didn’t listen to him. It’s ok, you wanted a broke romantic man over a hardworking unaffectionate man 😜. Ua siab ntev ok….

Tus pojniam hmoob no ruam tiag2 os.

Yall both toxic, making my head hurt lol

All I can say is you is RUAM2 tshaj lios 🤦🏻‍♀️. Learn from this lady’s mistake.