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Samantha: "I want all your money." OP: "No" Samantha: "You are trying to control me by not giving me everything." 😂😂😂 OP is king. He had a good relationship before and knows what it looks like, enough to not get gaslight.
Why would she sell her house and not save that money, or not sell her house so that she can have something to fall back on since he obviously is letting her know upfront that she will not be getting the house. It belongs to the in-laws. She needs to be more logical and think more clearly. How the hell is he trying to control her with money. Utter nonsense
A nice calm way to include her in the will would be "And to 'so and so', I leave you the prize in my current jacket pocket, if you wish to claim it, then dig me up" . . leaving only lint in the pocket.
Gold-digger. If she wasn't in it for the money, she wouldn't have mentioned money. She's supposed to be a "girlfriend," not a wife. She gets the house when she marries you.
The only time someone should be in your will is if they're blood related, you're married or they're someone you know is a ride or die friend/partner. Not a gold digging girlfriend that begs for it.
A bold golddigger. I say no to the will because we seen that movie plot several times and the second she finds out she is in the will suddenly a lot of "accidents" will happen to OP.
@@AshraNashal52 I heard a story of a man who's daughter literally iced the steps of a stair in an attempt to kill him amd get her inheritance. They found out it was her because of security cameras she didn't know were installed. Money makes people do evil stuff when they are desperate or want it fast.
Well technically it is your house not your in laws but if she wants you to put her in your will after only a year of dating then I suggest you got your separate ways
Kick that GF out!!! She sells her house and then demands yours?!? And has the nerve to say that she will be homeless after getting a ton of money from her house??? How do you say that you are a gold digger without saying those words?
Sounds as if OP is using the correct “head “ to think this through. Samantha is gunning for his money, and he should also research common law marriage rights wherever he is living.
Well done. I don't think she's a gold-digger for herself, but maybe concerned for her own daughter's welfare. Property appreciates in value, but a savings account will not accrue at the same rate. I mean, you invited her. She has sold her own security, but, she is selling her house without nailing down equitable terms. Moving in, selling a major asset, after only a year!? is the mistake. She feels insecure. If you married her, she would be next of kin and inherit the house. Shacking up gives her zero legal standing. Rethink the move, rewrite your will, make the relationship legal, or take the house off the market. Basically, give it some time. She sounds triggered, so she may have some issues to work through.
That's dumb u had a house and decided to sell it and now u mad cause he won't leave his house to u. U invited yourself to the house then you invited your child. When in doubt don't move in
I understand both sides. He has the right to leave his house to whoever he wants. She has the right to not want to be immediately homeless if he 💀. Yes, she can put her money from the house sale into savings, but let's say (depending on location etc)....he lives another 20yrs.... The 1,700 sq foot house she sold for $250,000? In 20yrs that same house is going to be $400,000 and she wouldn't be able to buy again what she once had. If I were her I would keep the house and rent it out so it's always there....she can make an small monthly income off of it and also never have to worry about being homeless should he 💀.
The fact that she decided to sell it right after moving in with the guy is suspicious. They've been dating for a year! No one in their right mind would put someone they've known for a year in their will. It seems like she was trying to force his hand by selling her house.
"He tries to control her with money...?" - Yeah, while she is trying to rob him of his money. She should have rent out her house when she now lives with him. That way, she would have passive income plus still the actual house she could return to if the relationship didn't work.
She just wanted the house its understandable to a degree.. Say they are together for a long, long time and they have to spend her money on something. Life happens, and then he dies and she has no house?
If she wanrs part ownership of the house then he can sell her half of his house and they can own it jointly. But seriously that is more a thing to do if everything is going great and you needed the money. But things sound like it would be better to keep your finances separate for now
This reminds me of my Dad's gf. She wants to control the finances or least keep an eye on it. They been "together" for almost a year now. She wants to get married which is never happening and because of that she wants to change her last name. She's really trying to get added to his bank. Yeah, don't work like that!
Many couples set their wills up this way if they have no children. I knew a couple where the original wife was the wage earner, and the will stated that if he remarried, her assets would go to her nieces and nephews with a small amount to him. He never remarried but had a live-in girlfriend for 20 years. He made his intentions clear from the beginning and only used what he needed.
I have made it very clear to my current partner, my home will not be getting sold. I've ended up homeless after a breakup before. I won't do it again. That said, I'd need way more info on how these two split finances to decide if she's being unreasonable.
I'm sorry when did it become normal to demand someone leave you their house when you're just dating them? Like he said she chos to sell her house, which she certainly doesn't have to do, she could always rent it out or just stay there herself. They don't have to live together. Good thing he found out what an entitled little brat she is only a year into the relationship
My cousins wife kinda knew his kids were AHs, and she was right. The day of my cousin's funeral they gave her an eviction notice. Jokes on them...my cousin in law never sold her house. She just rented it out for extra income. This woman is not bright, isn't planning for her future and sorry, deserves his contempt.
I'm sorry for your loss, but I am glad you care for your in-laws! She can use the money from the sale of her house to find a place to live or for goodness sake don't... sell... it! Don't let her abuse the fact that you have a house. You are not responsible for her shelter needs. Give me a break!
Samantha is a gold digger and OP is doing what's right. Leave the house in his wife's family and allow Samantha to continue to put herself in a position of a dried out fish
I would be seriously shocked by her suggestion, especially as you have only been together for a year. You have discovered a side of her that is not very nice. I expect if your relationship had progressed you might have given her something from your will anyway, while still respecting your wife's family.
Your girlfriend sounds like a gold digger when it comes on to first dates and you have money never let the partner know that you have money because you want to make sure and you want to test it to see how loyal and faithful and how understanding they are if she's acting in the way she is and she's selling her house and moving in with you and she's bringing her 20 something year old kid with you to move in absolutely not
Guys always skip over the part where she comes with money. Problem is cash gets spent on the whole family unit. With my ex I had a house when we met. I sold it and moved in with him. The cash from my house got taken up 100% on his medical bills and helping us during the times he wasn’t working. Then when he was better he dumped me for a woman he met on Facebook. I was left with nothing. No house and my saving had been completely spent on him. Karma caught up with him though. His new woman convinced him to sell his house and move in with her. She took his money and disappeared. The house he thought she owned was rented. So now he lives in a double wide trailer and we’re both going into retirement with nothing. Marrying him was my worst mistake but selling my house and putting my faith in him to take care of me and our kids was a close second. If she sells her house moving in should be conditional on buying into his house so they both own it 50-50. No one should ever go through what I did and have to worry about being homeless after a lifetime of working and saving.
Im hard anti gold digger but to be fair from the details in this video she didn't want lose her partner and be kicked out of the place she presumably would be calling home, with the housing market how it is the full price of a house now won't get you a down payment in 10 years. Suggest keeping her home as a rental property, get income and have a home yo return, just add a clause in your will where she can live there while Tennants are vacated
Yeah Samantha shouldn’t be with you, you have everybody else in your will except your girlfriend that you asked to move in with you, so I’m assuming you’re going to marry her and make her your wife so I why wouldn’t you eventually put her in your will tf. This is why it’s good for women to stay clear of guys that are divorced or become widows cause you’ll always be in competition with a dead person or ex. Ridiculous.
While her reaction wasn't a good one and the fact that she asked you and didn't leave it up to you are terrible, i think it would have been a good idea to give her the house (obviously before she acted out like this), as she actually made a point, if ofcourse it isn't enough money she gets from her house + moving is a pain in the ass
