Sarah Proctor - Not For Me 

i realize that this kind of storyline is very realistic (compared to other wlw mv storylines) and i am a living proof lol. amazing!

This song just hit my sensitive spot for loneliness. Falling in love with a straight girl is one of those mistakes that we are all had experienced it. But you know, it could be worse. When you two get together but after months or even years find out that you weren't meant for each other.

"See you with boys,so thats your type, couldn't be further from me if you tried"there is so much hidden pain in this sentence.Realizing that you ve fallen for a person that will never feel the same way about you not even at a slight chance ,will never reciprocate just cause they re straight and you re gay.Knowing that it will forever be no matter what an unrequited love.

she is so underrated. i cant wait till she gets the recognition she deserves

It's wierd. I have a friend since high school and I didn't fully realize it was this kind of love until listening to this song. She's still in my life and she's one of my best friends and she's married now. No matter what kind of love it is, I'm glad we're still in eachothers lives. That's enough for me.

I like that the protagonist (Sarah?) is so cool, confident and beautiful at their high school reunion. Not every crush or love is going to be reciprocated or work out but at the end of the day there's more to life and you'll meet other people. Life goes on.

Such a beautiful and heartbreaking song and story! Really cool to see present day Sarah at the reunion mixed with past Sarah at the prom. Also the real prom pictures!!

"You re just not for me".It doesn't change the fact that you love madly that one specific person it's just a simple realization that hurts like hell.

"Nothing is more tragic than loving someone to the depths of your soul and knowing they cannot and will not ever love you back."

It's so good that nowadays exists a kind of this music, lyrics. I wish I would have it 25 years ago, would not feel so lonely. Anyway, thanks for your music! I am sure that it helps many people.

I'm a dude and I love how unique and real this song is. Great song! Much love.

Sarah, I am in my 40s and this song brings me to tears yet I play it over and over again.... it's beautifully written.

I wonder how many people can relate to this, so bittersweet.

I've never heard a song before that fully captures all the emotions that come with being in this situation. All the /pain/ and having to accept that nothing will ever happen there. This song both broke me and is the most amazing thing 🥺

This is basically the exact things that happened with me and my first girl crush. I finally had the nerve to come out to a girl that was basically wanting me to admit my feelings for her and this is what she said. Thank you for a song that was so close to my heart.

I’m listening to this song on repeat. The feelings that Ive had buried for this women are very much showing after this song. This is an amazing song.

This song is heartbreaking 😢 I can feel the Sarah’s pain as she is singing this song. It’s so raw and beautiful, and very relatable.

The two main leads done terrific acting 💘💘

Legacies brought to another beautiful song ill cherish foreva😣😣I love how every time Josie and Flinch have a moment they play Queer artists music 💕💕💕

Ok not that this has stirred up my unrequited love memories but never mind 😂 beautiful song and beautiful voice 🖤

I heard this song on legacies tonight and I loved it ❤️✨

Wondering why it took me so long to see/listen to this. So deep, so real, we can all relate to it. Amazing, really.. 🤩

Strong And Powerful This song needs to be highlighted every where,,it shares that you and I are like two sides of the river which cannot become one but still i don't know why my heart wants you at last " YOU JUST NOT FOR ME " the deepest pain,love and sorrows Lots Of Love To You Sarah 💕 😉

This song is really hit me 😭 I love the lyrics.

Came here after watching legacies and I thank legacies for that. Beautiful composition, beautiful lyrics and beautifully sung. Lots of love from India 🇮🇳

amazing. This is what I went through in high school. Thank you for sharing your story , extremely relatable

Every lesbian got heartbroken as a teenager that’s a fact.

tempted to send this to her. I have been so confused lately.

Its indeed heartbreaking when hearing this song while you're going through at the same situation 🥺cause "you're not just for me"💔

the casting was perfect, the younger actresses looked just like mini versions of the older two!! also, lovely song!

I have this best friend in seventh grade and I often ask myself back then if it's normal that I get a bit jealous when she's with somebody else. Even if that somebody is also a friend of mine. I thought maybe I'm just being an obsessive friend. I avoided her in ninth grade because I'm super confuse about everything. On tenth grade, I realized I'm not straight. Everything since seventh grade made sense. I want her. I told her about my feelings and she told me she likes me too. We never had a label for whatever we have. Her parents were very strict but whenever she got the chance, we would spend some nights walking together holding hands and eating some food we actually enjoy. I just know that we were happy and what we are never mattered. But one day, she told me "don't talk to me. I like boys. not you." that shit tore me to pieces. It's been 4 years. She's in a relationship with this guy from eight grade and I guess she's happy. If you ever stumble upon this, please know that I am not mad at you for making me miserable even up til now. I do not regret giving my all to you. You are the most beautiful thing I've ever saw. I saw your different sides and I still love you. I don't know how or when I will get over you but I'm gonna work on it. I'm happy that you're happy. 'Til next time. :))

je ne connaissais pas cette chanteuse et après avoir écouter par hasard une de ses chansons, j'aime sa voix qui s'accorde parfaitement avec les belles mélodies de ces chansons. Je ne parle pas l'anglais mais je suis sure que les textes sont aussi belles , c'est un plaisir de vous écouter et de vous regarder. Bonjour de la France...

idk why but this song feels so nostalgic i love it

listening to this on repeat. the vocals and the lyrics are god tier fr

This was in my recommendations~ this is just wow~ so beautiful! ♡

This song needs more views it’s sooooo underrated!!

*Because of this song, I remember my friend, she confessed about her feelings for me. She admired me since high school and now we're in college. I am not straight, but the thing is - I am in love with 'our' other friend. I felt so sorry for her 'cause I cannot give what she wanted. : (*

Haunting verses, melodies and sentences that I can’t get out of my head. Reignite previously pushed aside feelings in a serene manner. Thank you

This song is so beautifull!! I love it.! And you have a perfect voice! 💕 So beautifull! kiss from France 🇫🇷 Cette chanson est trop belle! Je l’adore! Et tu as une voix parfaite! 💕 Trop belle! Bisous de France 🇫🇷

love this even before legacies.. this song was one of the soundtrack in legacies s4 e8. congrats...

I think my heart just melted and shocked my entire body my god

Eu achei incrível o fato de que não ter o final "feliz" não significa que a realidade seja triste. As coisas acontecem, a vida acontece e todos temos nossas próprias histórias

How sweet and sad. I am so glad teens and kids these days can actually see themselves. 🙏❤

Today reality hit so hard, that I came back to this song to overcome my sad feelings... she is and was never for me... I have to accept this... 💔

*since Sarah is obsessed with reading our stories in her comments, here goes mine* I fell for one of my best friends real hard, i don't even know when i started to have feelings for her but as long as i can remember she was the most special person (for like 4-5 years), when ever a guy used to ask me to be his girlfriend, she used to get really possessive and i would reject anyone in a heartbeat too (lmao, she used to be soo mad at this one guy who was really persistent that it was kinda cute). I am not really a person who likes physical touch but we used to always hold my hands (like ALWAYS and im not even kidding) and she used to kiss my cheeks all the time (even infront of the whole damn class full of other teens which made me blush and she just loved that 😐). Even our teacher was like "u guys are a couples" and me who never wanted to be in a relationship ever in my life, felt like "Yup that would be great 😏". She made me promise that im gonna be her boyfriend in our next life when im a boy (which kinda hurt, cause i was like why not now?!). But then she had on and off relationships with 2 guys (none of them serious enough to even kiss) and i used to get a bit jealous and overprotective (ok, maybe a bit too much). I was getting crushed so I tried to ignore my feelings. Then lockdown crashed and I was like soo sad i couldn't see her and then I came out to all of my friends as queer and everyone was supportive including her. But she said she is straight while having a conversation about sexuality (not like i confessed my feelings openly cause i don't want anything to take away out friendship) . So like any sane person would, I tried moving on until one day I broke down while listening to this song and that was the ultimate closure for me. So now im just happy that i have the capacity to love a person (just not guys, cause im too gay 🤓) *ps - she likes to wear caps backwards & she's straight* 💀 (just a joke)

Listing this song i m just speechless ❤️

What a great song with incredible lyrics and calming music.. Ur music is just healing all the listeners.. Greetings from Sri Lanka!!🇱🇰

Such an achingly tender song

This is the only song which made me cry I mean I have had a lot of things which I can relate to but this was the only one which made me sob it's soo pure and beautiful ❤️

Man, a world I get to feel at 40. When I was in High school you stayed that azz in the closet. Such a different time. Nothing on TV, or music was relatable to me or my life as a lesbian. Us veteran queers are relishing in these amazing beautiful independent gay artists. Glad we set the stage for you all the have a platform and a voice to start healing so many queer people just thirsty for relatable complex content. My first str8 girl crush, man she came onto me and we did things and felt things that made the world feel so clear and happy. Then it came out and she got ahead of the narrative and pinned all my best friends against me by telling everyone I was gay and came out to her in the bathroom at a house party. She continued to tell people I pushed myself onto her. Her and I both had boyfriends but they were merely there as our double life shields.. Broke me for a very long time. I lost her and my friends. After that day I didn't trust any girl until I was 30. Damn I don't care what age you are when people fvck with your heart it's the hardest wounds to heal. Sarah, thank you beautiful for giving so many beautiful humans a reason, a place, a voice, a healing lyric. So many say you are underrated..I say you are exactly where you need to be. Fame stifles creativity.. stay independent as long as you can bc once you sell out your fans suffer along with you. You have enough clout boo, that's all you need. 👑💕👑💕👑💕

Well this is moving, roll on revisiting heartbreak on tour - i’ll be there with the free hugs t shirt, needed! Great song again, Sarah, i really hope you’re okay as i’m sure this brings up a few feelings x

This is absolutely beautiful, damn

Just stumbled across this. Wow

This brought such a huge smile to my face. 😁☺️Thank you Sarah just you got yourself a new fan. 🙌

Thank you. I can so relate this. It was painful 'cause she's just not for me

I like the lyrics, the music, the voice, the acting and all the feelings put behind. I feel everything, just perfect. Thank's and Bravo

The lyrics are wonderful. The video is also good.

I thank LEGACIES for bringing me to Sarah Proctor and here

This really hit me so much. Last year I realised that I was in love with my best friend of 7 years, and I was so scared. I told her how I felt, and she didn't return my feelings. It was hard for a while and we took a break from seeing each other for a few months. We came back to each other though after a little while and now we're closer for it. It hurt a lot, but I'm glad I told her even if it was unrequited. It was the scariest thing I've ever done but now I can heal and we can be even better friends.

I had a massive crush on this girl while I was growing up - from elementary school all the way through high school. She had just enough queer vibes for me to allow myself to imagine that she was, in fact, queer, but she never came out. I suppose neither did I, but it's quite obvious based on stereotypes that I'm queer. In all likelihood, she's straight. But I'm in college now and I still wonder about her, and what could've happened if I'd asked her out after we graduated. Perhaps she would've given me an answer like that - "You're just not for me." Maybe then I could've stopped thinking about her. I guess some loves last too long.

You sound like an angel.♥️

I'm in the dark room rn Its nice to hear a good song And not the voices in my head I also helps me forget everyone thats giving me pain and the loneliness I feel 24/7 you making me so much safe when I listen to ur music thx u

This made me cry

her voice is so beautiful

Omgggggg you made a beautiful and I understand the pain of your song!! I felt the same in my past, now as a lesbian grown women I remember what I lived like flash backs, but you made a piece of art, retrating a lot of lesbian woman that felt it too, I love it!! Thank you with all my heart for this song

This was so beautiful honesty

Been there... whew....memories!!! 😀

Love the vocal, love the music & lyrics, love the video. Love everything of this song video.

This was very moving and such a pretty song. I wish I'd been just a little younger where instead of lesbians being mocked mercilessly and hating myself for feeling the way I did I had had some support like young people do now. Just 1 supporter even... Just one instead of my identity being a pollock painting. It would have changed a lot for me.

Omg I just discovered this song and I am OBSESSED!

Such a beautiful song and story as always... ❤️❤️❤️

Girl you just described my life

My heart breaks a little when I here this song coz I have a habit of falling for someone who will never feel the same ..hurts a little too much

Once again, you've absolutely smashed it Sarah. Superb! 😊xx

Just heard this song in a RU-vid add. Beautiful song. Pretty voice. Interesting way to hear a new artist

Being raised in a southern high school in early 2000s when nobody was out as a lesbian.. and knowing you were but hiding it.. and having your high-school best friend confessing she was in love with you when you finally came out in college but you know she wasn't the one for you.. whew this song hits hard 🙌🔥

I love your voice and your song 😊❤ always replay it

Haha my God, so relatable. Until now I know deep down that my heart wants her but, just what like the song goes.."you're just not for me". And the hardest part is I can't get away from her she's my best friend. Been carrying this pain all my life, getting used to pain. I think this will be good, it's a preparation for the greatest pain that I knew will come in my life.. when I'll be seeing her wears in white with her husband to be in the altar, and I'll be maid of honor coz she wanted me to be. Wow how was that? 💔🙂

I think back to school, I never knew I thought friends holding hands is what you do We were young, it was new Think it meant more to me than it did to you [Pre-Chorus] I guess it was all in my head Until you came right out and said [Chorus] You're just not for me Got different stories It's just not me in a white dress, I'm sorry Hope that you're alright Kept me up all night That I've put you in a right mess, I'm sorry But you're just not for me You're just not for me [Verse 2] I See you with boys, so that's your type Couldn't be further from me if you tried And for the first time, my heart, it broke And it hurts even more when no one knows [Pre-Chorus] I guess it was all in my head Until you came right out and said [Chorus] You're just not for me Got different stories It's just not me in a white dress, I'm sorry Hope that you're alright Kept me up all night That I've put you in a right mess, I'm sorry You're just not for me You're just not for me You're just not for me You're just not for me [Pre-Chorus] I guess it was all in my head Until you came right out and said [Chorus] You're just not for me Got different stories It's just not me in a white dress, I'm sorry Hope that you're alright Kept me up all night That I've put you in a right mess, I'm sorry You're just not for me Got different stories It's just not me in a white dress, I'm sorry Hope that you're alright Kept me up all night That I've put you in a right mess, I'm sorry You're just not for me You're just not for me

RU-vid sometimes recommends good songs ... .your voice hit on my heart♥️... your another fan from India...

Hi Sarah still love your voice still have nice memories of you singing at my birthday at the stables xx looks like you are doing well and happy Tony x

Love this 👌🏻👌🏻

You are amazing songwriter and musician... I am just getting to know you and loved your music so far❤

Your voice is soulful😇 sarah proctor love from India 🇮🇳

this is so sad but beautiful...

That was so good seeing them photos brought some memories back from when we where in school keep up the good work

there are tears in my eyes

Wow oh my god 😲 who is this? Why is she singing my life🤣 omg amazing❤ just binge watching some wlw songs&this came up,guess im a new fan now

heard this song in Legacies and I love it ❤

going to cry because this reminds me of my highschool days

Wow. This is my life

Your voice, o my god girl, 🤧🤧🤧🤧🤧❤️

RU-vid decided to hide this master piece from me for 3 months? Can't believe I am literally seeing my highschool life in this. I felt like crying but for some reason it was just bitter sweet and I've moved on and so has she. I might never know what kind of relationship we had but I'm not that close with her. More like instagram friends who just like pics and wish for b'days and new year, but if/when I meet her this song will definitely come to mind ❤️

nunca pensei que me identificaria tanto com essa musica,por incrivel que pareça a mesma coisa aconteceu comigo literalmente

Here from love island UK. Beautiful song

It was randomly recommended by RU-vid!! I think it's onne of the best thing RU-vid done for me ❤❤✨ totally fell for this song... More than music, it has emotions that makes you move 💯💯

so relatable

the lyrics broke me heart wtf and the vocals are mesmerising idk what to feel lmao

Just obsessed 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Thanks to the RU-vid algorithm for giving me this 🥺😍