@@samanthaalexandre6553 To make bread from scratch 🤦🏽♀️ along with a soup and that brisket… even my grandmother from the greatest generation would buy the bread instead of baking it.
😐I take Charlotte's side. She jumped through hoops for Harry. He could of taped the game or tell her in advance the Mets game is on. 😐She was being alil over the top but she put in a lot of work converting and figuring out a Jewish dinner.
Kristin Davis received the best material she ever had in season 6, and boy did she deliver. Charlotte’s story is so full, so compelling and rewarding, and she goes to great lengths to bring it to life, resulting in a richly earned Emmy nomination. She might’ve not won, but season 6 solidified her as the show’s most evolved character. Brava!
Dave is cool, I just know why I love a guy and his name also Dave The name means beloved and sounds so nice Daves are cool All hail every Dave around -random comment, i dont know why... but it doesnt change the truth Daves are cool if you dont think so.. then shove it! lololol
Except that she was 100% right. The dude's not exactly Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt. (I'm not either, and I'm not saying I am). To have a woman who looks like this do for him what she did is one in a million. She was absolutely right
@@JoshLavian And she dated so many men who treated her like shit, now she finally found a decent one. She is lucky to have him too, bcs people are assholes. It is hard to find a true friend, let alone life partner If you go into a relationship thinking I am a gem and he is so lucky to have me, it is going to fail. Only right mindset is "we are so lucky to have each other". No one in their right mind would stay with a person who thinks he is doing you a favor by being with you. That is so toxic
I think he is lucky to have her. She changed her entire life to make one with him, and it wasn't easy. And he couldn't respect what would move most men to tears: the sight of the woman he loved participating in his family's traditions. And he seduced her KNOWING he couldn't marry her, right? And he calls her "crazy" when she gets frustrated with his distracted behavior. Yeah what she said wasn't tactful or kind, but I can hear the obvious, justified frustration. And she ends up apologizing? This is one of the reasons I can't watch more than clips of this show, tbh. Harry is considered by and large one of the most likeable guys on the show, but I don't really see it.
Charlotte was absolutely in the right to be angry about the TV, she had gone to a phenomenal effort for Harry. What is really terrible though is Charlotte basically calls Harry an unattractive and unappealing man, which I find completely horrible and honestly not even true? I find Harry to be a good looking man.
Yeah, it’s not like Christianity could have been THAT big a deal to her if she gave it up after just a few dates with this man. Ultimately it was her choice to go through with the conversion and that is on her alone (once she decided to proceed after being told by Harry - who apparently lives in a mental shtetl - that she had to be Jewish to marry him).
Also what is more important than Harry’s appearance, is his tender and ever loving personality, remarkable inner beauty that any person would give anything to have a person with it
@@bigbowlowrong4694 what’s wrong with wanting your partner to be the same religion you are? It’s not forcing your religion onto someone because if that was the case he’d just force it onto strangers, or he’d make his future partner do it even if they weren’t willing to. Charlotte wanted to convert
I'm with Charlotte here. If I were an average man who managed to snag a hottie that is kind, caring, financially stable, and virtuous (not to mention willing to put in so much effort to please me), I'd have popped the question in a heartbeat.
Charlotte had every right to be angry about him watching the game but I can't believe she actually said that to him ... I'm honestly surprised he ever took her back because that's really enough to end a relationship permanently.
He is confused about his own values and she hers. Never convert for a man, and dude needs to get his priorities in order over what kind of Jewish he wants to do. When people discover Judaism or convert they don't get why Jews do some of this and not that. But being at varied levels of observance Jewish people get confused about what it means to them even and see a flawed observance or comfort zone as a personal level their happy with.
This is why I’m saying she should never have gone back to Harry. He demanded too much from her then didn’t even have the decency to be respectful towards her.
What’s wrong with conversion? Some people like to do it you shouldn’t force it but Harry wasn’t forcing it he just said if he was going to marry Charlotte she should convert
Her tone when yelling 'set the date!!!' was prricless. Like a real jewish house keeper working her ass off making Shabbat dinner. Kinda like myself right now 🙂
@@LauraM-kr9wv When I was watching this, I never thought that's what she meant, but rather that ppl think they are the picture prefect couple; beautiful woman, succesfull man (yeah looks for guys are not as important as for women, according to society) and ppl would think "they are perfect, they should get married!" And Harry gets angry about how superficial Charlotte is (to care so much about what others think, basically doing alllll of this just for the facade, other ppl) and not about that she called him uglier than her / not in her league.
@@rosolz9398 I agree with Laura M. At 2:45, when she said he was lucky to have her, she basically meant she was too good for him. Then he said he already knew she was a lot better looking than him, and that others thought so, but he was disappointed that she had those thoughts too :/ Satc (and Charlotte) are just too tactful to come right out and say it lol.
I’m a big guy myself. If I was with someone like charlotte id be well aware of how we look together. Her calling it out like that to him is so damn cruel
I understand both sides. Charlotte went through a lot to convert and do everything for him yet she did and yes he should be grateful and happy that she loves him that much to do so. But at the same token, though to sit up here and say that do you know how lucky you are to have me do you know how we look… Like to call it out like that and just be downright cruel about it that’s wrong. Like, why would you even dare say that? Especially as if he doesn’t know that, but to have to come out like that, it was something Charlotte already knew, and was thinking since the beginning, but now it finally got pressed out of her.
I could never give up my religion for someone else’s. I’ve seen so many women do it for their Jewish husbands, only to express severe regret years later
She’s right! If you let an ugly man take you for granted, eventually he’ll start treating you like the ugly one. She’s gorgeous, wealthy, elegant, & put a lot of effort into becoming a good match for him simply bc she found him to be pleasant. He didn’t appreciate that he had landed someone light years out of his league.
I loved Charlotte whole serie until she actually gave up her belives for a man, it's sad women always do it for men and never other way around. Ladies never change ur culture, traditions and religion for a man, if he was the right one for u he would never wish u to do it.
Not true. I'm about to change mine. Have you seen the Show 7th Heaven? The oldest son gives up Christ to marry a jew also. Don't jump to conclusions. There are examples out there. More than you are aware of.
It's disgusting. It's a treason. You can change religion if you are in a state of spiritual exploration, if you have a spiritual awakening. Not because some human you are going to marry wants it.
@@nicholasolivas317 what are you talking about? Matt and his wife had an interfaith ceremony at the dad’s church no less. He married a Jewish woman but I don’t believe he converted.
he said he couldn't marry her due to religion. She converted and we all know Charlotte how stuck up she was about getting married. She did all these things just to make him marry her not because she wanted to. Everyone talked about how she was too beautiful for him and he wasn't and she believed it too. That is what made him leave.
@@MissieK I agree, her 1st marriage was for the wrong, superficial "stuck up" reasons. However, in the end, she didn't care if she married Harry or not, she just wanted to be with him. Give the woman some credit & acknowledge her character growth.
I never agreed with the whole "I can't marry you unless you convert" schtick but I'm totally with Harry in this bout. Charlotte has become crazed and desperate.
she was 3X , and wanted a baby... if men has the same productive limit like women, plus women can produce children even in 60s, i wonder how things could have been reversed
oh really? well lets reverse the roles. if a man had gone to a lot of effort to make a special dinner for his girlfriend and she wanted to watch tv instead of appreciate time with him, would you still be on her side on would you be calling her a selfish bitch. well??
Never convert for someone who leaves you alone to take the religion seriously. How important could judaism be for him if he puts baseball ahead of his people. His mother wanted him to marry a jew to keep family traditions together, not for him to pass on the work to this spouse. Charlotte putting in more effort than him and most likely be more equip than him to raise jewish children.
Unfortunately, many adult relationships are full of daycare and infantile behaviours because our own internal family systems are in a state of disarray largely due to inter generation legacy
You don’t blow the match out. You put it on a tray and let it burn out naturally. Then after the candles Harry is supposed to say kiddush and Hamotzi - you don’t just sit and eat after candles
Here we can see how desperate and selfish charlotte can be. practically throw in Harry's face that she is a beautiful woman and he is an unattractive man who should be grateful that she is with him
You're not supposed to watch TV on Shabbos anyway. It's rude to insist a woman adopts your values to be with you, only to not follow them yourself when she does
@@JoshLavian there’s Jewish and there’s Jewish. A lot of Jews watch tv on Shabbat and most of the frum ones don’t. Harry wasn’t frum. He didn’t demand she be frum either so he wasn’t being hypocritical
What's wrong with being 35? She's clearly still getting hit on all the time? Keep in mind she did all that for him and converted herself for him that takes alot
Charlotte was a high maintenance WASP princess, so it's no surprise she turned out to be a classic high maintenance "Jewish" princess as well. Harry was right to keep the TV on; he was the adult in the room when he compromised by muting the sound. The art of compromise is a skill set that has always been in short supply in Charlotte's past relationships, from her unwillingness to "blow" Buttercup's (or was it Butterscotch's) owner to her hounding Trey about having a baby when it was so clear that he had changed his mind about that responsibility. If I were a man, I'd run as fast as I could from Charlotte's self-serving relationship rules.
Oh please. Harry was in the wrong in the beginning. Charlotte converted for him because she fell in love with him and wanted to be married. It’s not being a “high maintenance princess” to have standards. Charlotte was a respectable woman who had a lot to offer and would give it up for the man she loved. She has every right to be upset, but Harry had every right to be upset by her saying he wasn’t attractive enough for her.
@@madelynneg.4443 I couldn't live with a Charlotte who has rules for everything, and oftentimes, she's the one creating the rules. Why didn't she ask Harry what his plans were for the night she planned the Shabbat dinner? If she had, he'd have told her about the baseball game he wanted to watch, but no, she spent all day fixing a meal that he was unaware of, and then, when he doesn't appreciate the efforts she's put into the dinner, serves him a hot dish of painful, cruel, truth: that she thinks she's way out of his league. Hope we can disagree, but no thanks. You can have Charlotte.
