Aamir sir sindrela aap bahot trong child sexual abuz par bat kar rahi hai hme to bachan aur puri life se nafrat hone lgi hai your very trong and thank you sir
When Harish got to the part about the dog I couldn't hold back my tears anymore. Humans couldn't give him the comfort he deserved because think more than they feel. But the four legged creature only felt for him.
And the worst part is that his mother felt helpless and could not help her own child. Cause this kind of things in a society is very strange to confront. But i believe any normal person can never do such a heinous crime. So people who even think of doing so should be punished without a second thought. Because it is not normal to do such a thing.
Thank god my parents didnt allow mw to mingle too much with relatives or family friends. I always complained that my parents were too overprotective. But now i understand why they did so. Thank you mom n dad.
During my engineering days, I started taking tuition classes to reduce the financial burden on my parents. I preferred home tuition with more students. Luckily, I found a joint family where I need to tutor 4 students. 4th, 7th,8th and 12th. The only 7th class was the boy student and rest were girls. They developed good confidence in me. One day 8th class student started rubbing my leg with her leg while showing her homework. I moved my leg far and asked her to go back to her place. After some time she told me sorry with tears in her eyes. I explained to her how to balance her emotions. I did not judge her or belittled her. She started discussing her challenges in life. Gradually her focus increased and she started performing well in studies and became more confident in life. I would like to thank my father who showed me how to responsible in this world. We need a responsible society today. This is one of the experiences that I am sharing and would like to thank Amir bhi and 'Satyameva Jayathe' team for such a great work you all are doing. Thank you.
We need more people like you in general in society. Lord knows in the U.S some will say well they came on to me, but as an adult you should have the mindset to stop a child from trying to "come on" to you.
As a survivor of child sexual abuse this episode meant a lot. Every night for 8 years those memories haunted me until I spoke it out to my friend honey. Let it out and move on otherwise you'll die in guilt.
Exactly I can feel it even this happen with me every night I can’t get out from that trauma even it comes in my dream sometimes but still I can’t have that grudge to talk about anyone but after seeing your comment it gives me little bit courage to talk about it
This show should be restarted, boys too have suffered a lot, God bless all with good strength to revive & restart life with New ease, a salute to all angels
Bollywood has definitely been a huge factor in normalizing rape/sexual assault, even glamorizing it. When actors say that their movies don’t influence the public like we think they do, it enrages me. I have mad respect for Amir Khan for this. Thank you♥️
@@skyward7903 I agree with you .... Bollywood normalised these things like toxic masculinity ...expectationsfrom women to sacrifice her everything for her loved once ... justifying toxic relationship .... Objectifying women ... judging women's character according to their dressing "Ladki ki na me bhi han hota hai" "Mard to kabhi dard nhi hota" "Wo meri bandi hai"
You are so right and I'm glad Oprah brought this topic out in the open. This has been happening for centuries, but no one talked about it. Now the whole world is talking about it.
-"Groping minor without 'skin to skin' contact not sexual assault" Bombay HC Judge. -And just today an elderly couple booked under POSCO for assulting a 4 year old got bail. Though POSCO came into being, not much has changed.
That was more because it wasn't stated in the act. A texualist assumes that what's not in the act isn't in the law. And really, we need to give more people bail. It's innocent until proven guilty, but guilty until proven innocent
Just look at the glow on Harish's face when he saw Sridevi. Just loved that moment. I wish all the happiness in the world to him and all the other CSA victims. God Bless You All!
When the children said Atra as the opposite of Khatra, it just goes to show how innocent children really are. Let the children retain this innocence for as long as possible. God bless them. And my heart goes out to all the victims that came out with their stories, you can tell how difficult it must be for them.
The psychological trauma is far more damaging than the physical experience.... The constant fear made it difficult to breathe freely .. not just one person, felt like in each step of life, predators lurk in plain sight.. I try to use that intuition to keep the children around me better protected than we ever were..
When I see this episode, tears run down my cheeks. My cousin brother who was 20 yrs sexually abused me when I was 12 yrs. I would pray to God everyday that today I should escape him. He mixed a drug in a juice and gave it to me saying his friend had got the juice from abroad. And when I was asleep under the effect of the drug, he did his dirty act. In the middle of the night, I woke up feeling funny and saw him sleeping next to me and doing this. I froze and don't know how long this went on. I felt myself dying that day, I was out of my body and looking at what was happening to my body with no feeling. It was like I was a dead body. My innocence was brutally murdered. He continued abusing me sexually in many ways and I was so scared of him. Didn't know if anybody would believe me if I spoke about it. I was scared if nobody believed and he came to know and did something worse like rape me or kill me. I am 42 and to this day I am scarred and afraid of most men.
Minute 26:45, he made cry like a crazy when he said about the German Shepherd (Jimmy) licking his tears... No child in this world should be abused!!!! :(
As parents, we become overconfident over the period of time and this can become danger for our children. This is one of the key lesson I got from this show. Amir ji, you have done the great work by creating this episode. Thanks...
As a kid I was touched improperly by many men everytime I used to turn into a freezing mode and people took advantage of this situation. Iam 22 still scared to meet new people and the thought of getting married is horrifying.
Roshni Harish@ sorry to msg you so late dear but i wanna tell you that I'm abuse too when I was 7 Or 8 by 2 men now I'm also 22 and ye sab hone k baad mujhe admiyon se nafrat sir hone lagi i don't want to get marry even I don't have boyfriend Or lover I don't wanna make too and till now I didn't tell to my parents that what they did with me how the did agr m adult hoti to m pregnant ho jati 😣
OMG! While watching this episode I just recall that this happened with me too. Twice. By 2 different people. Both were relatives. I was that small that I even don't know that something bad is happening with me. Thanks to my mother. Since childhood she told us to tell her everything that's happening throughout the days. It was my daily routine. When this thing happened with me I told her even about my child abuse. At first, I wasn't sure if I should tell her or not? Whether she'll believe me or not?? But then I remembered, she always said that *I am your best friend. No matter the whole world won't believe you. I'll always believe in you* Then I her everything, I don't know what she did but till this date that person never ever even try to look at me. Love You Maa💜💜😘
M crying so hard right now for not fighting back all those abusers and silencing my inner voices just because I was scared .I hate myself for that always will
Don't hate yourself. You don't deserve that, you and your life is way precious. If you ever get chance, please confront that abuser, so that you get your peace back 🙏🙏 lots of love to you Sargam. Never hate yourself, you deserve love and care.
No matter how many times I watch this show I get chills each and everytime . Also I liked Cinderella's attitude so much. Such an empowered lady. Much power to all the warriors who have emerged out of it 🙌❤️ Watching in 2020 lockdown might teach us a bit of humanity as well.
This show needs to be restarted. It doesn't matter who the host is. The platform needs to be made available to ppl for voicing their thoughts and in some way getting the word out to others. @starplus are you listening? Pls help those ppl find a voice
lol...the host is TRP in comming years same thing will be shown as show got likes because of.... why dont you start your own channel and start telling???????
Amir Sir is such a brilliant personality that has graced our nation with his presence. Such a sensitive emphatic guy. We need this show back, one way or another. I remember how this show started when i was young and how the atmosphere of my home used to change at 10 AM. It helped me become a transparent, open, and compassionate person when it came to my family. I am so very thankful Sir. Honestly.
They should reveal the identity of the people that do such things. They should broadcast their faces on the show. Everyone should know these people, their faces. They should feel ashamed walking down the road, they should feel ashamed to be alive.
Earlier I used to think the same thing but internet has too much of power. It might turm off the abuser or culprit but please give a thought what will happen with persons related to that culprit ???without any cause it can harm them.....society is gonna harm very much....emotionally,mentally,physically.......so the details are not mentioned.
Heart touching!! I am strengthened by having seen people speaking about there dark past so boldly in television and spreading awareness about it:an issue rarely discussed so openly! Salute to the SURVIVORS...salute to Satyamev jayte!
Asalaamu Alaikom, wa rahmahtulahai wa barrakatuhu. I know this show went out a long time ago but I am just watching it today (with subtitles) I am an Irish woman, my children are all adults now and only 2 weeks ago... I finally put my childhood abuser in prison. The heartache over the years and the fear, were what kept me from reporting him. He was a relative (though not a blood relative) and sexually abused me in the most horrific ways from the age of 5 years old until about 9 years old. I encourage every parent to be very careful about who is taking care of their children. I encourage every woman and man considering marriage to truly find out EVERYTHING about the person they are thinking of marrying. Childhood rape is so completely soul destroying and the effects last for many many years and also distort functional emotional development throughout life. I'm so glad you aired a show like this and appreciate all the other shows I've watched so far. Allah Hafiz
Now I understand and appreciate why my mother never allowed me and my sister to be with family members too, let alone neighbors. I understand now. And I'm very grateful to her. But back then, I used to hate her for not letting me go out with them.
I m also a victim of child abuse.now I'm a married woman .l face to much difficulty with my husband to live my sexual life . during sex I faced to much panic attack .in this case my husband help me a lot.now I'm fine.in early days I talk to my doctor but my doctor did not give me any solution of this condition she told me that I am a mental person. I overcome this thing from my willpower and with the help of my husband and most of all thanks to my allah he give me the strength to handle this problem.
Just by reading all the comments I found out that there are so many victims in all country and our country is not at all safe for women . There are lots of people get abused but we get to know only about few... Felt so sad for them. May God bless you and may God give you strength
I am glad that my mom never shut the door and still there can be chances but not a single teacher (I studied from 5 teachers)looked at me in wrong way. I am grateful
That kind of show must run long, Because its essential for our society to move forward towards with these incredible ideas, What can teach us what is our right, what we should do against these problems...Salute to Amir Khan Sir.
I’m always unable to watch full episodes clearly because every time I get teary eyed watching these episodes…Kudos to the team , waiting for next season
This made me remember my past and at that time he made me believe that all mens are bad . I cannot forget those 7 years of my life it made me a stone from outside inside all the thoughts ,pain, anger use to make me mad it was the worst part of my life. Back at time when i watched it on TV it gave me courage to say no to my abuser who made my life like a living hell thankyou 'satyamev jayate ' for giving me the strength to say no and slap on the face of that motherf....ker. Thanks to amir sir who brought this show on TV at that point of my life when i was about to giveup in life.
I am from singapore. Watched every episode. I cant understand hindi so i relied on the subtitles. V good series. Informative and well done without all the glamour and rubbish that goes on talk shows. This is calm and interesting. Aamir khans professional touch! 👍.
It's indeed very difficult to come and share such incidents openly in public...hats off for that courage.. Hatts off to aamir Khan to have taken such an initiative
This doesn't mean that you will blame parents they are only one who will make u comfortable and will take care of your after u are abused and also there only one whom u believe and have trust . U also have parents na , so please don't say like that. 😢
@@harrychacko5284 Oh please! that mindset is so ancient. my parents will believe me first. Also when these idiots had opportunity to avoid such abuse in the first place, they did nothing. Now can a child believe and have trust? OUTRAGEOUS!
I was just 8 years old...One day a male begger came to my house...I opened the door and wanted to give him some money... But he did something so worst that I can't explain u guys.. You know what??that begger was my nanu's age...I told my mother about that but she didn't do anything and told me'' yeh bat kisiko nahi batana warna samaj main badnami ho jayegi" usdin se main bohot badal gayi hu...aj bhi meri self confident low hain..😖 plz support your children... Protect them from perverts plz...bohot bura lagta hain jab koyi aise chuta hain 😣😣😣
You all are really indirect social workers aamir sir...ek time me bhi depression me thi becoz of my divorce..and that time I watched movie jab we met and I am inspired from the kareenas character...aur me fir se jeene lagi ..thanks to kareena ji ..and you alll
Oo god i m also a teacher For me my students are like my brother sister and my kids I wish it will never happen with any child I try my best to inform them about danger spots Thank u amir sir u really done a great job proud of you ❤️
I have been gone through this.he was my chachu.I was hardly 7 or 8 years...but later on when his appendix got burst inside I forgave him and prayed to God for his forgiveness....haven't told this to anyone
@@nihal6636 achay hun k nahi ye pata nahi but the God I serve is amazing and if He can forgive everyone for all the wrong deeds to mai or ap to muaf ker he skty hain.....may the Love of the Lord always be with you
I knew Ameer Sir showing this program to make some money to survive out of his talent but from this message give a brilliant msg to millions of children's. for this I salutes for his contributions towards our societies
After listening to this episode I was teary eyed and had no words to say but people avoid this topic from discussing. the songs which are meaningless are getting millions of views and likes but the shows like satyamev jayate are not getting this. This means we don't want improvement. please share because lacs of children whose childhood which will never come again is destroyed due to these evil minds of people can discuss there problem and save the childhood of others. if this happens with you don't feel guilty it's not your mistake. for parents I would only say that beleave your children and tell them that they can share every thing of their life with them and don't feel ashamed while telling children about it but feel proud that you are aware and now you are going to make your children also aware about it. at the end a salute to these people who told and discussed about there lives and the problem they faced because every one can't do it. now no words to say. thankyou
I must applause for Aamir Khan for what he has done... but also appalled for the lack of law reinforcement on child and women protection in a democratic country like India
There are strict laws in India regarding child and women protection. The main problem lies with the family and society who try to silence people speaking up against such abuse and the subsequent ostracism and harrassment that follows - which unfortunately is pretty common all over the world, particularly in Asian countries where societies are more conservative. It's the mentality of the people that has to change.
Please start this show again ..... Society need to understand again these things because every next day we heard about rape, violence, death and so many sad news! Now a days everything on social media and people learn so many things from it as well from television so I think these types of show aware people and understand what right or what wrong! Need this show again....
So glad to have come across this talk show. I salute all the brave participants and dearest Sridevi and the beautiful song and Aamir Khan for a your authenticity in connecting with the people affected as a result of child abuse. It is encouraging that attempts are being made for social awareness. I would happily sign the petition!!!
You can observe the body language of Harish... How dreadfully he is scared of it...n how this incident changed his life.. 58:46 that reaction like a small child... 59:18 - 59:26...I am crying so hard 😭
You guys are real heroes so don't be sad and afraid.we all are with you. Your entire life is front of you.so make your life beautiful by living your life.❤
My prayers to all the victims and survivors. Wish they have a great life ahead and may God bless them. Rest in peace to sridevi ji. You have a beautiful soul. And to all abusers, dogs are much better than you. The abusers should live in nightmare and go to hell.
In 9th class my home tutor who had teach me from 6th class give me bad touch & i cried badly so my mom saw me while shouting & beat him badly & get him out of home Also he treat my mom like his mom he was also touch my mother feet & make family relationship with our family & we live in a small town so everybody knows about tht teacher that he is a bad one teacher everybody knows my dad well in town well so when everybody knows about that teacher he left our town
I felt my tears rolling down my cheeks unintentionally when I heard Harish's sexual abuse case..I mean I felt goosebumps and i felt like...like...how can someone be so dirty minded so low who could do such shitty things to a little boy who doesn't even know whats wrong and whats right and he doesn't even know how to say NO.
